How do they call it quits on a relationship?
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by LibraLovesHim on Sunday, September 18, 2016 and has 15 replies.
Saying outright? Or dropping hints/actions hoping the other will get it?
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Aqua moon and mercury in Taurus conflict will often detach and think about everything when I come up with why and when I see the person sit down and find out what's going on. If it can't work then I'll end it. I mean too many difference I'll ask then I'm out.
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I guess it might depend is it years you know this person and in a relationship and must work it out.
Or relatively short term less than 2 years max then most people just mutually benefit and let each other know. A woman knows when it's time to go.
Or relatively short term less than 2 years max then most people just mutually benefit and let each other know. A woman knows when it's time to go.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen042811th May Taurus?
Aqua moon and mercury in Taurus conflict will often detach and think about everything when I come up with why and when I see the person sit down and find out what's going on. If it can't work then I'll end it. I mean too many difference I'll ask then I'm out.
Are you stalking social media?
Posted by AndalusiaWhat?
Are you stalking social media?
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428About 8 years and married. Not going well the past few. Maybe Taurus complain more about relationships than the reality actually is?
I guess it might depend is it years you know this person and in a relationship and must work it out.
Or relatively short term less than 2 years max then most people just mutually benefit and let each other know. A woman knows when it's time to go.
I detach first and then end it. In the detachment time, you might notice and might consider it a hint but for me, it's a process of protecting myself - I wouldn't be doing it without reason - so I pull away, start working it out with me and then come back and say goodbye.
Posted by TaurusinTexasWhat are you protecting yourself from?
I detach first and then end it. In the detachment time, you might notice and might consider it a hint but for me, it's a process of protecting myself - I wouldn't be doing it without reason - so I pull away, start working it out with me and then come back and say goodbye.
Posted by LibraLovesHimProtecting my heart - I need to pull back, make sure this is what I want, build my walls, so I don't reconsider and then breakup.Posted by TaurusinTexasWhat are you protecting yourself from?
I detach first and then end it. In the detachment time, you might notice and might consider it a hint but for me, it's a process of protecting myself - I wouldn't be doing it without reason - so I pull away, start working it out with me and then come back and say goodbye.click to expand
When there is a change in my monotonous behavior, avoidance, emotional detachment, arguing with you is no longer worth doing, and I can argue. Then I process. Isolate. Drop the it is not working bomb, and then it is over.
My Mars in Pisces plays a major factor in this.
Posted by LibraLovesHimThey complain the time we spend with them.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428About 8 years and married. Not going well the past few. Maybe Taurus complain more about relationships than the reality actually is?
I guess it might depend is it years you know this person and in a relationship and must work it out.
Or relatively short term less than 2 years max then most people just mutually benefit and let each other know. A woman knows when it's time to go.click to expand
I heard my bull complaining last week. He doesnt want me to read my emails,msgs on my phone. He wanted me focus on just him and cuddle. Annoying sometimes you know..I told him I didn't bother him if he do the same thing and I dont complain and serious about it. Which he replied he will calm down and talk about it once get home. I said I dont like talking about it anymore. I am serious with this matter. ( I am implying something).
Anyway, we are fine. I find him caused lots of drama that made me think twice again.
When it's that time where I feel like it's not gonna work out, it's easily shown in my actions and even my face. I can't hide that I'm unhappy with a person (even while in front of that person) easily. You'll feel it you could say. I tend to distance myself first, have time to myself and analyze my thoughts and feelings, ask friends/family for advice, and let time sort out my issues.
I usually bring up the issues to my SO before it gets really bad. I tell them what it is I feel, what I'm concerned about and such, prior to distancing myself. I allow time to dictate my feelings, and when I know it's done, I end it. However, if I notice fluctuating feelings, I keep it going because emotions are so unpredictable. But it really depends on so many factors.
Anyway, to answer OP's post, I usually bring these issues to the forefront and stay as transparent as I can be. I just don't dump them like that though first.
I usually bring up the issues to my SO before it gets really bad. I tell them what it is I feel, what I'm concerned about and such, prior to distancing myself. I allow time to dictate my feelings, and when I know it's done, I end it. However, if I notice fluctuating feelings, I keep it going because emotions are so unpredictable. But it really depends on so many factors.
Anyway, to answer OP's post, I usually bring these issues to the forefront and stay as transparent as I can be. I just don't dump them like that though first.
Posted by Redoctober2000For me,Posted by TaurusBull1977My bull has this placement. How does it work in relationships?
My Mars in Pisces plays a major factor in this.click to expand
I tend to shy away from aggressive or domineering behavior in relationships, and I gravitate towards individuals who create a sense of peace, harmony, and the ability to make me feel safe. I also appreciate a rational discourse, especially in the realms of communication. When these elements are presented, I feel a lot more secure to take action. This is when/where I want to give my significant the other the entire world, and create a similar safe haven for them as they would for me. To protect and to feel protected. The ability to be emotionally invested with someone and being their rock is a beautiful feeling.
If the other individual is aggressive, unyielding, too emotional, tense, pushy or temperamental, then I begin to disassociate, disconnect, and stick my hooves in the ground without budging. This is when I am the most stubborn. But while I am digging my hooves in the ground, I will argue to a certain extent, when this becomes draining, I disappear. Yes, I pull the classic Taurus disappearing act. I refuse to to answer any phone calls, emails, etc. I am tuning you out, listening to music, reading a book, painting, and I am also in 'thinking' mode assessing you. If this brief sense of peace and relaxation becomes a permanent feeling, then I will detach from the other person completely.
The Moon in Gemini placement makes it easier for me to disassociate.
So this is one element that I do not have in common with other Bulls, holding on to something that is no longer working.
Not this Bull, if I'm not content, I am outta there!
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