How do win back my Taurus ex gf ( please help girls )

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Pisceslol on Wednesday, July 26, 2017 and has 12 replies.
So my ex gf and I broke up last year , we were together for about 8 months and it got serious fast . I loved every second of it and we were like best friends , we broke up over a dumb argument and we've been in contact on and off . The last time we were in contact I stopped talking to her because I needed to make something of myself and be the best that I could be for her , we were in contact about 3 weeks ago and she said she's scared to trust me again and that I push her away . How can I make up with her , I'm aware that I have to start off slow and just as friends . She's super stubborn so it's difficult , I wanted to write her a letter saying everything and how I felt . I've known her for two years coming up in November and I love this girl . I say she means the world to me but she doesn't believe me so how can I show her .
I found anything remotely close to talking about emotions, feelings, or the situation would cause him to shut down and annoy him. I feel they're not good at expressing how they feel. (I have a Taurus father, a taurus girl friend and a taurus male friend and they're all the same in that way.) Have you tried just casually talking about how her day is going and what shes been up to?
Ignore her. She will be back. Go on with your life as if nothing happened. Try not to answer any calls or texts right away.
Posted by Pisceslol
So my ex gf and I broke up last year , we were together for about 8 months and it got serious fast . I loved every second of it and we were like best friends , we broke up over a dumb argument and we've been in contact on and off . The last time we were in contact I stopped talking to her because I needed to make something of myself and be the best that I could be for her , we were in contact about 3 weeks ago and she said she's scared to trust me again and that I push her away . How can I make up with her , I'm aware that I have to start off slow and just as friends . She's super stubborn so it's difficult , I wanted to write her a letter saying everything and how I felt . I've known her for two years coming up in November and I love this girl . I say she means the world to me but she doesn't believe me so how can I show her .
Could I ask you a question. Out of curiosity... Why would you want to better your self FOR HER? And not for you?
Pisces and Taurus have the deepest connection I can think of (I've dated most water except scorp)

But Pisces heads are so in the clouds so much that it is draining for a practical Taurus.. and if you lack any sort of ambition that will turn a Taurus off ALWAYS.

Nonetheless, to win her back:

Check in

Wait

Check in (space it out to once a week or every two weeks)

Send a gift

Wait

Check in

It's gonna take some time for the stubornesss to subside because once we make up our minds we are very hard to pull out of it. But what I mentioned above always got me thinking of reconnecting with people again. It always works. But it will take time and patience. If you truly want her this is why you'll have to do and don't even think dating someone else and making her find out will get you cookie points... she'll make sure you never find her again.
Waive some money in her face.
If she had enough then it ain't gonna be that easy....

I got hurt a lot... before I gave up on the guy that I loved, I endured a lot first. it's hard for us to let go of something that we really love.. but once she decided to move on, there's no turning back...Once you broke a Taurus trust, it's hard to gain it back. "They forgive, but never forget"... & that's the reason why I decided to break up with my Virgo boyfriend cause I couldn't trust him again, He Cheated on me once, so I became suspicious & jealous over little stuffs.. I always think he was lying to me & then I decided to just get over him cause I know I couldn't trust him again, cuz it's hard to be with someone that you can't trust even tho you love them.


The best thing you can do is ignore her (it'll make her go crazy ) If she really wants you, she'll do whatever it takes to have you back. & if she don't, just move on.
Posted by mskuran
If she had enough then it ain't gonna be that easy....

I got hurt a lot... before I gave up on the guy that I loved, I endured a lot first. it's hard for us to let go of something that we really love.. but once she decided to move on, there's no turning back...Once you broke a Taurus trust, it's hard to gain it back. "They forgive, but never forget"... & that's the reason why I decided to break up with my Virgo boyfriend cause I couldn't trust him again, He Cheated on me once, so I became suspicious & jealous over little stuffs.. I always think he was lying to me & then I decided to just get over him cause I know I couldn't trust him again, cuz it's hard to be with someone that you can't trust even tho you love them.


The best thing you can do is ignore her (it'll make her go crazy ) If she really wants you, she'll do whatever it takes to have you back. & if she don't, just move on.


We Taurus believe in action more than words.. if you love her & if you want her back then You MUST SHOW her!

Posted by WaterDevil
Posted by Pisceslol
So my ex gf and I broke up last year , we were together for about 8 months and it got serious fast . I loved every second of it and we were like best friends , we broke up over a dumb argument and we've been in contact on and off . The last time we were in contact I stopped talking to her because I needed to make something of myself and be the best that I could be for her , we were in contact about 3 weeks ago and she said she's scared to trust me again and that I push her away . How can I make up with her , I'm aware that I have to start off slow and just as friends . She's super stubborn so it's difficult , I wanted to write her a letter saying everything and how I felt . I've known her for two years coming up in November and I love this girl . I say she means the world to me but she doesn't believe me so how can I show her .
Could I ask you a question. Out of curiosity... Why would you want to better your self FOR HER? And not for you?
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Preach

My experiance with a couple Taurus women if they want you it will be hard to get rid of them. do you if she don't come back she is gone.
Posted by Pisceslol
So my ex gf and I broke up last year , we were together for about 8 months and it got serious fast . I loved every second of it and we were like best friends , we broke up over a dumb argument and we've been in contact on and off . The last time we were in contact I stopped talking to her because I needed to make something of myself and be the best that I could be for her , we were in contact about 3 weeks ago and she said she's scared to trust me again and that I push her away . How can I make up with her , I'm aware that I have to start off slow and just as friends . She's super stubborn so it's difficult , I wanted to write her a letter saying everything and how I felt . I've known her for two years coming up in November and I love this girl . I say she means the world to me but she doesn't believe me so how can I show her .
If you were trying to "make something of yourself" so that you could be the best for her...then you're already winning.

The stubborness will subside with persistence on your part.

We're tough.

...But then we're soft gummy bears on the inside.

Persistence and Romantic courtships will melt the heart.

Flowers.

A kiss on the cheek.

Keep it light. Keep it simple. Keepit subtle.

The objective is to unlock the door...quietly.

Not to kick the door down...

Good Luck!
My ex was Taurus "4 years" We broke up cause she moved away now I'm with another Taurus they are pretty shy and slow just give them time.. Before dating my current Taurus gf I came on a little strong told her how I feel and I liked her.. inIgnore her for 1 week til she couldn't take it anymore and we hit it off we been dating ever since.. My advice is don't write her anything it won't mean anything to her.. Take her to a nice restaurant or water park be friendly ..