
TaureanTaxonomy
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Posted by M143
TT,
I had a battle with that with some ex taurus. He was into that - swinger, lgbt, etc... wife swapping others
all those * immoral acts* that made me to think - I don't want to die with AIDS. lol
Break free and run a miles.
Don't walk with dead people.
All I can say these kind of people will not even hesitate to cheat in a relationship. They will compensate
to their * I enjoy* this is me attitude. well, Fool Me and I will show you a Hammer! lol.










Posted by M143
Yes. You are sensitive. I am judgemental. Whatever it is. I now go exit.

Posted by phEnyxBull876
1) Don't listen to M. She pretty much put her foot in her mouth with her judgemental and condescending words abt what she believes to be immoral. And based on her proclamation of being straight and only going for the D, any advice she gives on dealing with a female Taurus is moot. She's also inadvertantly putting you down by saying run from any Taurus when you are a Taurus yourself.
2) That said, Taurus men and women are HIGHLY different. I would look for advice specifically on taurean women.
3) Your lady actually does sound like what a Taurus would do in the circumstance she is in. She's sticking with something that a) is secure and comfortable, and b) apparently is helping to (financially) support her work/dream.
Could they have some sort of "arrangement"? Is he older? Maybe he's gay? Does she tell you anything else about him?
Forget what she wants for a minute...what do you want? You say you have a very strong moral code...yet are you open to being with someone who's in a relationship?
As you're both Tauruses, I'd recommend looking into her other placements to get a better understanding if why she's acting the way she is. Not that that would give you the "right" answer in what to do here... But more often than not, the solution to that is asking her. 🙂




Posted by AgentP911
Isn't there something like 50 countries in Europe... Come on, narrow it down so I can try and guess who the European rock star chick is...
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Posted by phEnyxBull876
Simply put, if you can't ask her or get a straight answer, then there's nothing to figure out...for now. That's not to say time won't change things. The only thing you have control over right now is taking care of your own feelings. You're attached...think of this no communication as a good time to get that in check. You care for her...continue to be patient and be her friend first and foremost. How patient and how long is totally up to you and rightly so.
Then again, realistically, you've acknowledged you have growing feelings for her. Can you truly maintain just being friends with her? That sounds like a recipe for anxiety and self doubt and questioning that can spiral out. Although it's these situations that help us further understand ourselves, what we can handle and what we let go.
And there's the obvious: she's a celeb. With all that has to come some ups and downs that perhaps we just can't comprehend. How long have you 2 been friends? I wouldn't jump the gun just yet and take her unresponsiveness personal until you have some concrete contact. Til then, get your heart in check. Funny how we can be so book smart, but when it comes to like and love, it all goes out the window. 😉


Posted by phEnyxBull876
Aw, this all sounds good! You know we also like to get wayyyy ahead of ourselves when we really dig someone lol. So just keep it cool. The time apart will do you good. She is a Taurus...she won't forget you by a long shot. 😉
Patience, my fellow taurean! It is our not so secret weapon.

Posted by TaureanTaxonomyPosted by phEnyxBull876
Aw, this all sounds good! You know we also like to get wayyyy ahead of ourselves when we really dig someone lol. So just keep it cool. The time apart will do you good. She is a Taurus...she won't forget you by a long shot. 😉
Patience, my fellow taurean! It is our not so secret weapon.
Ugh, I hate when I do that, too!! It's like....you don't even realize you are jumping the gun until AFTER you've already done it. Then you just want to hide forever lol.click to expand

Posted by Rambunctious76Posted by M143
TT,
I had a battle with that with some ex taurus. He was into that - swinger, lgbt, etc... wife swapping others
all those * immoral acts* that made me to think - I don't want to die with AIDS. lol .
Please DON'T equate swinger culture with the lgbt community. It's not the same thing. Not all lgbt people are swingers just as not all swingers are lgbt people(quite possibly majority are heterosexual and don't identify as lgbt).
And that comment about dying from AIDS...I don't even...click to expand

Posted by phEnyxBull876Posted by TaureanTaxonomyPosted by phEnyxBull876
Aw, this all sounds good! You know we also like to get wayyyy ahead of ourselves when we really dig someone lol. So just keep it cool. The time apart will do you good. She is a Taurus...she won't forget you by a long shot. 😉
Patience, my fellow taurean! It is our not so secret weapon.
Ugh, I hate when I do that, too!! It's like....you don't even realize you are jumping the gun until AFTER you've already done it. Then you just want to hide forever lol.
Lol our gift and curse! If I were you I probably would've already:
1) run myself ragged with overthinking
2) sent a huge text about how the other person doesn't care and I'm all alone in my feels
3) run and hide in my bed
4) repeat #1 while dreading a reply lololclick to expand

Posted by M143Posted by Rambunctious76Posted by M143
TT,
I had a battle with that with some ex taurus. He was into that - swinger, lgbt, etc... wife swapping others
all those * immoral acts* that made me to think - I don't want to die with AIDS. lol .
Please DON'T equate swinger culture with the lgbt community. It's not the same thing. Not all lgbt people are swingers just as not all swingers are lgbt people(quite possibly majority are heterosexual and don't identify as lgbt).
And that comment about dying from AIDS...I don't even...
whatever it is. I am done. thanks.click to expand


Posted by Geminlove
TaureanTaxonomy: i think you should give her some time to get her thoughts together. Maybe she is just a lil confused, but while giving her time and space be there for her. Taurus people love consistency, to be perfectly honest im not sure if she has feels for you or not 😢 i just cant tell. Whats her moon and venus sign?





Posted by phEnyxBull876
She's sounding more and more like Taurus/Gemini cusp...when is her bday? Mid-May?

Posted by Geminlove
@TT: you also have to know the place of birth. If shes pulling ish like that then just completely block her on FB, not out of your life just on social media sites



Posted by phEnyxBull876
Here's just her rising, sun and moon to start. Keep in mind this is not tailored as it's a general time and birth city...
Rising Sign is in 15 Degrees Leo
You love to be the center of attention and you want to appear strong, confident and dominant. You are very proud of yourself, sometimes quite vain even. When all around you are bedraggled and falling apart, you look like a million bucks! Very dignified and honorable, you enjoy the power and privilege, but not the responsibilities, that come with leadership. You are very idealistic but can also be quite stubborn. Others impress you only if they have integrity (but wealth, power and influence can also turn your head). You prefer rich, elegant surroundings and possessions, and will try to acquire them as your budget allows. Physically, you are very impressive - - at your best you have a regal, charismatic demeanor and bearing. Try not to be such a showoff!
Sun is in 22 Degrees Taurus.
You are known for being patient, slow moving and careful -- you love to prolong and savor enjoyable times. You appreciate and need comfort, ease and warm surroundings. Be careful of a tendency to become placid and self-satisfied and to overeat (especially sweets). You require strenuous situations in order to grow and mature properly, even though you try to avoid them. Affectionate, even-tempered and slow to anger -- when you do become emotionally upset, you are also slow to forgive and time must pass before your calm returns. You demand real results from any situation -- abstractions are very difficult for you to comprehend. Very artistic, your hands love to mold and shape things. You portray an earthy, physical sexiness that others find quite seductive.
Moon is in 20 Degrees Scorpio.
Your feelings are very intense, never superficial. You tend to be either very angry or very sad or completely and totally happy. Your moods are deep, extreme and not always completely understood by yourself or by those with whom you have to deal. Emotionally, you tend to prefer to live at the cutting edge of life, pushing your reactions to the ultimate extremes, even if the results are dangerous or upsetting. You are easily jealous and very suspicious -- you require a great deal of emotional reassurance. A good detective, you are very curious about deep and mysterious things, especially human nature and motivations. Be careful


Posted by scorchedearth
i'm the only taurus woman on the board who posts regularly that is attracted to women.
and i will say. if you have feelings for a woman who has a BOYFRIEND you are creating your own misery. it doesn't matter if she's miserable with him or not. there is apparently enough good that she is staying. you'd be better off finding another woman who is not attached and trying to have a relationship with someone who is actually available. there is no guarantee she likes you. and even if she does it doesn't matter because she's with someone else. unless you're one of those people that wants to steal someone away. which is your business. though i don't get the feeling you are. you said you weren't.
but let me ask you. would you wait around for years for her to come around? is your connection with her so strong that you're willing to disregard the partner and wait for if/when she's available?

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I'm a little more than confused, because aside from this boyfriend (who she claims supports her band financially at the moment), it seems like VERY untaurean behavior to pretend your significant other doesn't even EXIST 90% of the time! Further more, I am extremely certain of her attraction to me and honestly, I've grown quite attached. I have no idea how to go about handling this or deciphering what she wants me to do. She adores the way I speak/write intelligently and romantically, but then suddenly becomes aggressive or silent randomly, as if she is ANGRY about things I have said! She has said several times, quite seriously, that she trusts me completely.....yet she is extremely reluctant to open up beyond a certain shallow depth about herself. We used to talk every single day, even while she was on tour or recording. Now we have gone a week without communication, because I honestly have no idea what to do and I'm starting to feel rather down in the confusion of it all.