how does taurus deal with scorpio's secretive tendancies?
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by jeane on Saturday, August 11, 2018 and has 18 replies.
how does taurus deal with/interprets/copes/reacts to/feels about the secretive side to scorpio?
discuss.
discuss.
My scorpio was secreative out of insecurity. I jist love bombed the fuck out oF him until he relaized i was in it for the long run and slpwly his walls came down.
But...he never truly opened up considering he was having an affair.
Also he has a drug problem and he was of course as creative about that- in that situation I was kind of like a Gestapo, and didn't really give him too much privacy and he willingly handed me his phone and stuff to keep him on the straight and narrow.
Idk, I never didn't trust him and maybe that's where the issue lied.
Does any of this help?idk, lol
But...he never truly opened up considering he was having an affair.
Also he has a drug problem and he was of course as creative about that- in that situation I was kind of like a Gestapo, and didn't really give him too much privacy and he willingly handed me his phone and stuff to keep him on the straight and narrow.
Idk, I never didn't trust him and maybe that's where the issue lied.
Does any of this help?idk, lol
Posted by Boots1313yes, very helpful - thank you.
My scorpio was secreative out of insecurity. I jist love bombed the fuck out oF him until he relaized i was in it for the long run and slpwly his walls came down.
But...he never truly opened up considering he was having an affair.
Also he has a drug problem and he was of course as creative about that- in that situation I was kind of like a Gestapo, and didn't really give him too much privacy and he willingly handed me his phone and stuff to keep him on the straight and narrow.
Idk, I never didn't trust him and maybe that's where the issue lied.
Does any of this help?idk, lol
What kind of secrets are we talking about?
Something in his past that doesn’t affect present or something like he is having another partner and of course keeping it a secret?
Something in his past that doesn’t affect present or something like he is having another partner and of course keeping it a secret?
Posted by Gemitati
What kind of secrets are we talking about?
Something in his past that doesn’t affect present or something like he is having another partner and of course keeping it a secret?
no, nothing like that.
i'm thinking about my own scorpionic like behaviour and how that might affect my partner.
Posted by HankJWimbletonExactly! This is how I see it, two of the same.
Not sure that their secretiveness is something that needs to be dealt with, consider almost every Taurus has a even more secretive hidden layer beyond what astrology tells.
Posted by jeane
how does taurus deal with/interprets/copes/reacts to/feels about the secretive side to scorpio?
discuss.
I just asked my fella regarding the above and this is what he said...
You just have to ignore it.
I did press him for some elaboration and examples, and I did profess that I thought I was a lot more open/less secretive than a typical scorpio but clearly I am not! Ha ha...
Posted by AgentP911lol, thanks for asking!Posted by jeane
how does taurus deal with/interprets/copes/reacts to/feels about the secretive side to scorpio?
discuss.
I just asked my fella regarding the above and this is what he said...
You just have to ignore it.
I did press him for some elaboration and examples, and I did profess that I thought I was a lot more open/less secretive than a typical scorpio but clearly I am not! Ha ha...click to expand
i got a reassuring "i'm not going to give up on you" but i recognise it's certainly a flaw in my personality. i'm working on it but in the meantime i'd hate to think that my shit causes him anguish.
ignoring it works for me!
By being an open book to begin with and patient. Giving trust and hoping for the same in time. Knowing what I want before I go for it. Intention means a lot. Approaching with love and strength.
Posted by jeaneI thought you were Libra? What's your scorp bits?Posted by AgentP911lol, thanks for asking!Posted by jeane
how does taurus deal with/interprets/copes/reacts to/feels about the secretive side to scorpio?
discuss.
I just asked my fella regarding the above and this is what he said...
You just have to ignore it.
I did press him for some elaboration and examples, and I did profess that I thought I was a lot more open/less secretive than a typical scorpio but clearly I am not! Ha ha...
i got a reassuring "i'm not going to give up on you" but i recognise it's certainly a flaw in my personality. i'm working on it but in the meantime i'd hate to think that my shit causes him anguish.
ignoring it works for me!click to expand
Posted by AgentP911Posted by jeaneI thought you were Libra? What's your scorp bits?Posted by AgentP911lol, thanks for asking!Posted by jeane
how does taurus deal with/interprets/copes/reacts to/feels about the secretive side to scorpio?
discuss.
I just asked my fella regarding the above and this is what he said...
You just have to ignore it.
I did press him for some elaboration and examples, and I did profess that I thought I was a lot more open/less secretive than a typical scorpio but clearly I am not! Ha ha...
i got a reassuring "i'm not going to give up on you" but i recognise it's certainly a flaw in my personality. i'm working on it but in the meantime i'd hate to think that my shit causes him anguish.
ignoring it works for me!click to expand
i am with only scorp in venus and uranus but i feel very scorp when it comes to my relationship with him.
Posted by AbbyNormal
By being an open book to begin with and patient. Giving trust and hoping for the same in time. Knowing what I want before I go for it. Intention means a lot. Approaching with love and strength.
thanks abby. this sounds like him.
Posted by JanMayMarryThat’s sucks and so obvious that he was having her as a fuck body! But who’s fault it is? She let him!!!Posted by GemitatiLike how a Scorp refused to introduce his Taurus gf to his family despite being together for 4 years? And how he wanted the rs to be kept secret without even his friends knowing about it.
What kind of secrets are we talking about?
Something in his past that doesn’t affect present or something like he is having another partner and of course keeping it a secret?
What give???? And here I am, wondering why my Taurus gf tolerated all that. Geez!
No relationship goals. Yikes!click to expand
That’s a sin to be that desperate and have no self respect.
What’s now? He married someone else?
I go out of my way to make her feel comfy which is taurus all about. To be honest, I dont need
to know everything, everybody has secrets. I think Scorpios give a lot o intel away by the way they protect themselves. The choice of words and bodylanguage says a lot.
My scorpio jokes like nikkistar when she is uncomfortable.
I dont really care, I want her to be open about us, everybody has skeletons in the closet. Harmony and being
easygoing is more important to me.
I go out of my way to make her feel comfy which is taurus all about. To be honest, I dont need
to know everything, everybody has secrets. I think Scorpios give a lot o intel away by the way they protect themselves. The choice of words and bodylanguage says a lot.
My scorpio jokes like nikkistar when she is uncomfortable.
I dont really care, I want her to be open about us, everybody has skeletons in the closet. Harmony and being
easygoing is more important to me.
Posted by Unwordingin the communication front i can be very private and closed off. i lock down.
How are you "secretive" in your relationship?
conversely, he is very open with me.
the libra part of me sees how that is very unfair to him but i can't seem to shake it. i'm hoping that in time (and some more introspection) i'll get better.
Posted by Unwordinghaha, it's honestly what it feels like. if i could have found someone running around boarding up the windows and barricading the doors, i would have popped that in as well.Posted by jeanelol @ that gifPosted by Unwordingin the communication front i can be very private and closed off. i lock down.
How are you "secretive" in your relationship?
conversely, he is very open with me.
the libra part of me sees how that is very unfair to him but i can't seem to shake it. i'm hoping that in time (and some more introspection) i'll get better.
Ok, cool, cause secretive is a whole 'nother animal and not cute.
Maybe you should consider sharing with him how difficult opening up is to you (giving him almost a heads up to not misinterpret your more quieter moments) and allow him to help on that front which can be a beautiful part of intimacy.click to expand
good advice - thanks. yes very true. the problem is that even talking about how hard it is...is hard. the last time we neared the topic i found myself hunching my shoulders, squeezing my lips shut and literally putting my hands over my eyes. i just wanted the world (or myself) to disappear in on itself.
I kill em with kindness. Tends to work for me.
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