How should I aproach this taurus man? What to do?

Well... Here's my story... I'm taurus myself.

We've known eachother over 2 years... We met in 2011. And we talked alot over the internet. Somehow it stopped and we stopped speaking. We lived in different cities... and now... 2 years later we started to speak again. At that time I was seeing somebody. He always started the conversation and asked me out. And I always said no. Always. I didn't like him, my heart was taken. 🙂 And still he wanted to see me and asked me out. He's stubborn and precistant. Sometimes we din't speak for a month. It didn't bother me then. I had somebody else on my mind. But he was always the one who started talking.
When I broke up with my "boyfriend" then I thought... what the hell... why not. and went out with him. So it was few times. Even when I went out with my girlfriends. He came to te same place. Didn't drink anything. Just sat by the bar and kept an eye on me. 🙂 It was so sweet. We also had one movie night at his place. He held me in his arms the whole time. He ws like glued to me. Arms and legs wrapped around me. He was so cuddly and stuff. And now he seems distant. And we haven't spoken for a week. 😄

This situation is so confusing for me... I'm taurus myself. 😄 I like to be chased and I'm stubborn I won't initiate contact myself. 😄 He chased me over 7 months. And usually if I stop talking, then I'm not interested. But then I think what if he's the same... and want's me to start talking... gosh, it's complicated. 😄 I don't know what to do and how to act to win his heart. If I like somebody, then I truly like him. And I want what I like.

So taurus men, help me out... How to approach him? And what could be the reason for him to act like this? What can I do? 🙂 Help out this taurus girl. 🙂

Thanks. 😉

PS! We haven't slept or even kissed... He tried to kiss me

Damn. I posted too soon. I wanted t write that he tried to kiss me, but I didn't go along with it.

Anyone?

You need to let him know you like him back. Not verbally, physically - like cuddles and kisses etc. when you didn't kiss him back I can imagine him taking that as a rebuff. These guys will keep chasing you if they like you enough but eventually you gotta give something back. Come on, as a taurus you should know we like to be appreciated! He's made all the moves so far, take a risk! Yes, its out of character for us taurus ladies but he's an incredibly worthwhile guy to take a risk for. I know, I married one 🙂

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Oh noes, drug username!

LOL, what? 😄

Posted by Venatrix
You need to let him know you like him back. Not verbally, physically - like cuddles and kisses etc. when you didn't kiss him back I can imagine him taking that as a rebuff. These guys will keep chasing you if they like you enough but eventually you gotta give something back. Come on, as a taurus you should know we like to be appreciated! He's made all the moves so far, take a risk! Yes, its out of character for us taurus ladies but he's an incredibly worthwhile guy to take a risk for. I know, I married one 🙂

That's the reason why I find this person so difficult to understand... Because.. I like to be chased... and maybe he's thinking the same way... but at the same time I find it annoying if someone who I don't like keeps chasing me. And I'm afraid that maybe he does not like me anymore and if I initiate contact then I will push him away. I'm very picky. I have many admierers, but I don't like any of them. I like this Taurus guy. I really would like to watch a movie with him again and be in his arms... But I'm too afraid of the rejection... and I'm afraid to ask... It's so hard if taurus goes after a taurus... 😄 we are way too slow. 🙂

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Wot no dea?

I don't understand a word you say...

Well I was married to one for ten yrs. long story short. I chased him for five yrs. was a teen tho . He said he married me because I was the one who stayed after him and wanted him. I got sick if it and that's when he pounced . Cuz I was leaving the chase . Yrs later I am in same boat with a taurus. Now. As much as I could kick my own ass for chasing him. It's the only way. If I do nothing neither does he . If I keep on texting and flirting and whatever he comes more fwd. so my advice to you if you want him you gotta go get him !! Unfortunately. Uggg. Lol.

That's the trick 😄 I'm taurus also 😄 and it's hard for me to chase anybody... 😄I'm used to be the one who is being chased 😄 damn :d We are way to slow 😄 and maybe even a bit lazy 😄 haha

Yes it was third date or so... We had another movienight last week... I stayed the night... and again we didn't do anything... he just held me soooooo tight that I thought he is going to crush me between his arms.. and the whole night he didn't let me go. 😄 He wrapper his arms and legs around me like a snake or something. 😄 It was cute. He kissed my neck and my tummy. We just fooled around a bit. It was really fun. 😄 Once was he the active side. And on the next moment I took matters in my own hands. 😄

And now we haven't spoken for few days... he's busy at work and I'm busy with my work. 🙂