How the Capricorn Moon affects Taurus

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Cilogy on Saturday, November 13, 2010 and has 14 replies.
It makes them confusing and off-putting sometimes.
My Taurus gf has a Cap moon, and although it's technically compatible with my crab Moon (opposites attract), that doesn't stop it from being frustrating and confusing.
I feel like this moon makes people presumptuous, closed off, and detached. My Gem roommate has this moon as well, and he's not frustrating, but he's definitely very shy and detached.
The weird thing is that my gf LOVES romantic films, hell, she even cries during movies, but she rarely shows emotion for me ...
Will I ever get a Cap moon to unlock her doors?
Sad
Posted by Cilogy
It makes them confusing and off-putting sometimes.
My Taurus gf has a Cap moon, and although it's technically compatible with my crab Moon (opposites attract), that doesn't stop it from being frustrating and confusing.
I feel like this moon makes people presumptuous, closed off, and detached. My Gem roommate has this moon as well, and he's not frustrating, but he's definitely very shy and detached.
The weird thing is that my gf LOVES romantic films, hell, she even cries during movies, but she rarely shows emotion for me ...
Will I ever get a Cap moon to unlock her doors?
Sad


haha reading this reminds me of my ex who has capricorn moon. He tells me that sometimes he feels like he should care for people and his family but he doesn't. He feels guilty when he realises how little he cares for anyone. But then he doesn't feel there is really anything worthy of his caring..Good Luck
opposites don't always attract,sometimes they repel and are very hard to understand,especially moons.
I find it very hard to understand someone emotionally when their moon opposes or squares mine.
takes a lot of work,and the best you can do is learn all you can about it and try to be understanding. Winking
Remember this is just how she is made,and it's not something against you.
She has a Taurus Venus, and from what I've read, it means she would be very affectionate. Apparently Taureans are initially not that affectionate, but once committed they really lay it down.
If she doesn't express emotion that's fine, but affection is different I would say.
"Apparently Taureans are initially not that affectionate, but once committed they really lay it down."
I will agree with this to an extent. Once I am familiar with someone it's no holds barred. I am a toucher and very much enjoy physicality. Kisses, hugs, reaching out and touching someone just because I want too.
In love it's all there. There is little to nothing I wouldn't do for someone. But it's important to touch and be touched to reaffirm, keep things flowing. It says much to simply reach out and lay a palm on someones cheek, stroke their face. Just say "Yes, you are here for me, and here I am for you.. on so many levels", it is hard to describe, but there is great feeling in touch.
"And her Cappy moon means YOU need to dominate in the bedroom - I'm assuming you're active on that front. After a while and with your encouragement, you'll see her beast come out. Then you can take turns dominating. It takes time and patience, but once unleashed...WATCH OUT. Combined with Taurus venus, you might need to buy some protective gear Tongue."
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Well I don't know what to do, I like this girl so much, but I don't know if I can live with someone who is a wall.
I just don't know what to do.
I can subdue my emotions easily, that's fine, but I still want her to open up.
Posted by gemtaur
My ex was a Cappy with a Taurus moon and mars BUT he was a Cappy and his venus was in Aqua Sad and I spent a long time guiding/teaching/etc. him to unrepress the emotions and to express them. If I compare him then to how he is now there's no comparison so I'm hopeful. But he needs to initiate so he can teach her through example and not get depressed if she's not able to reciprocate as quickly as he'd like. It's def a work in progress.


Let me tell you guys this:
Up until I started this relationship with my bull, I was pretty much a Capricorn moon as well. I never felt comfortable enough to express emotion to anyone. Now, I feel completely comfortable with this bull and I think I'm also wanting her to do the same.
I think one problem is that ever since I got into astrology, I had it in my mind that I am an emotional person and as a result emotion needs to be part of my life as well as part of my partner's life.
I don't think that's true, I think I've just got it in my head that I'm emotionally needy. I don't think I am. I thin kmy perception of myself is not aligned with my actually image. Like one of you said, I need to channel my Sag more.
I have freakin' six Capricorn signs in my chart, an Aquarius Venus, and a Sag Sun, so I can be pretty damn detached if I want.
Also, what do you guys mean by a Sag being wishy-washy?
Also, affection is not a problem with my bull, as she can be very affectionate.
I made a distinction between affection and emotion because I feel that affection is basically saying nice things, and emotion is essentially the feeling behind those things.
Posted by Cilogy
Well I don't know what to do, I like this girl so much, but I don't know if I can live with someone who is a wall.
I just don't know what to do.
I can subdue my emotions easily, that's fine, but I still want her to open up.


I am a Sag/Scorp Cusp with my moon and venus in Capricorn. You state that your Taurean gf is affectionate. Can you be more specific about what you want from her? You say you can subdue your emotions easily but why are you doing that? Maybe she is waiting for you to express them first?
Posted by TheLadySagittarius
I am a Sag/Scorp Cusp with my moon and venus in Capricorn. You state that your Taurean gf is affectionate. Can you be more specific about what you want from her? You say you can subdue your emotions easily but why are you doing that? Maybe she is waiting for you to express them first?


She says nice things and compliments me, yes, but I also want to know what she feels about me. She doesn't express herself.
I'm not expecting her to be a wet rag about it, but it would help if she at least let's me know how she feels about me occasionally.
I agree, I think I should open up first, as female Taureans seem to prefer that the man initiate things instead.
Trust me, I completely understand.
I know I keep bringing this up, but really, will she ever open up? I don't know why this is such huge deal for me, but it is. I don't want her to be crying in my arms, I just want her to tell me her honest feelings and thoughts.
Cilogy: Are you waiting for her to tell you she loves you? I think you have to tell her first.
I dated a Taurus guy who sneakily said to me in bed. "You love me, don't you?" I actually said "Yes I do ". but it was in the heat of the moment. I wanted (like on "The Nanny") to take it back...lol..just don't do it that way!
Posted by TheLadySagittarius
Cilogy: Are you waiting for her to tell you she loves you? I think you have to tell her first.
I dated a Taurus guy who sneakily said to me in bed. "You love me, don't you?" I actually said "Yes I do ". but it was in the heat of the moment. I wanted (like on "The Nanny") to take it back...lol..just don't do it that way!


No I'm not wanting her to tell me that she loves me, I don't think I love her yet. I just want to know what she feels about me.