How to ask a taurus male about his feelings? Help!

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by piscesconfusion on Monday, June 24, 2013 and has 10 replies.
So I've been "friends" with this taurus male for about two months now. He consistently calls and texts (usually first) and we hang out a few times a week. There's been a couple instances where his jealous side has come out but we've moved past it. I'm 23 and a pisces and he's 28 and a taurus. This is the first time I've ever been "fwb" with someone and I really don't want to continue on with this because the openness to do whatever he wants scares me. I've been patient with him because he works a lot and is in a band so he doesn't have a lot of free time. I'm not trying to rush him into anything because I know he has a lot on his plate but how do I at least figure out what he's feeling about me and us without coming off like I'm pushing him into something? I don't want to continue this or wait around forever if the feelings aren't mutual.
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I am a pisces too involved with a Taurus man for 3 years. If I can offer any advice.. mine pursued me at first. The first 2-3 Months, then he started dancing between friends and more than friends.
I would get scared thinking he wouldn't contact me, and would sometimes reach out to him.
Wait to see how long it takes him to contact you, if its been 2 weeks you could send him a text to say hi. Then go silent again.
See what feels right. They do seem to respond better when they chase you.
Right now were are in the friends stage.. I hope it passes soon smile
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Thanks for all the advice! I finally said that I wasn't liking how the fwb deal was making me feel and I didn't like feeling like I was just there when it's convenient. I feel like it kind of came out of no where so he said he needed to think about a response, so I said that was understandable and left it alone. While he hasn't really verbalized anything I feel like since then he's more attached then ever. I rarely ever text or call him first and now he seems to be calling and texting daily and I've already seen him almost everyday this week. Taurus males are so confusing but I'm slowing understanding how they work and try really hard to never be an emotional pisces about things haha. All I can say is I want this guy so I'm going to continue to wait it out. I do have one question, why does he feel the need to bring up past relationships he's had? We've been out places and he'll be like oh that's my ex girlfriend or yeah I dated that girl for 3 years and just yesterday our waitress at a resturant he knew, and he said 10 years ago they worked together and he was able to turn her straight again. Why are you telling me this, I'm not going to lie it's hard to keep my poker face in those situations because I would rather not know. Taurus males are so simple yet so difficult.
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That's kind of odd.... if it were me, I would NOT talk about people I was involved with(neither would a lot of people I associate with) unless the person I'm currently with wants to know how I know so and so..... Why bring up the past unless someone asks about it? However, since you said that initially this was a FWB thing, maybe he doesn't think this is an issue and perhaps there is an ego boost for him because of who he's "conquered", or he lacks confidence and wants to make himself seem important. Regardless of how he feels, he should take you into consideration more than you do to him, since that's how we roll. I can't guarantee he'll stop, but you don't need to know about this as it's irrelevant and unrelated to you, so let him know that it's bothersome. Maybe he's like me and WANTS to see the person he likes get jealous for him, though I wouldn't be all, "Oh my, she is teh sexy" just to see a reaction.Laughing
We don't forget the people we were attracted to. If it isn't reciprocated, we might forget their name and what happened when we were interested, but upon thinking about it, the memories flood back. I still remember the name and birthday and place of the first girl I liked, and the last time I saw her was twelve years ago. However, when it comes to liking someone, unfortunately for everyone else, they'll never hear the end of it when we're attracted and finally involved with them, so maybe you should ask around and see if he's mentioned you. About texting.... I initiate conversations through text messaging when I'm bored, which means when I have nothing to do, or when something is bothering me, or if I want to know the receiver still exists and hasn't been on Facebook.
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@2n3r thanks for the insight. In going off what you said when you mentioned that y'all don't forget people you were attracted to does that mean the feelings come back with the memories? This guy has made it clear that he's always been the one to end relationships but they always end on good terms so everyone is still friends. Is that a taurus thing to remain friends with your exes? Also in being friends does this mean your feelings have completely changed for these girls and you really only see them as friends? Also just to clarify as far as the fwb thing goes it just sort of happened only because he has labeled us as "friends" even though he doesnt treat me like just a friend and even tells other people he's taken.
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Personally, while I remember the first girl I like and all the things I said, I don't feel what I felt at that time. The only time I've had issues with people I liked at some point or another is when they're rude about not reciprocating. However, in one instant, I realized I should have been more diplomatic about my attraction towards a certain woman, and feel I should apologize to her though she no longer interests me in that way. I would like to get along with many of these people, though, but I never feel attracted to them again, just I want to be at peace.
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Posted by chopstickcharmer
so much pisces- taurus lately. coupla months back it was nothing but scorp- taurus.


taurus/pisces is a really sweet match. taurus/scorpio is like the world has ended and god has descended from the sky to smite all the non-believers. too much "intensity" and drama for me. >_>
i'd much rather listen to taurus/pisces stuff, myself.
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haha ! scorpio and taurus is troublesome but addictive smile never dated pisces but can see it having a smoother ride !
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Posted by piscesconfusion
@2n3r thanks for the insight. In going off what you said when you mentioned that y'all don't forget people you were attracted to does that mean the feelings come back with the memories? This guy has made it clear that he's always been the one to end relationships but they always end on good terms so everyone is still friends. Is that a taurus thing to remain friends with your exes? Also in being friends does this mean your feelings have completely changed for these girls and you really only see them as friends? Also just to clarify as far as the fwb thing goes it just sort of happened only because he has labeled us as "friends" even though he doesnt treat me like just a friend and even tells other people he's taken.


I'm a taurus female and i keep my ex as such unless they show their sincerity to win me back ..(scorpio ex of mine..sign* trouble) I let the past be my memories and can move on quickly ( venus in gemini) . I do not talk about my exes to current ones because i think it is childish. If my ex doesn't feel the same about me anymore and the feelings are mutual then i am happy to be just FRIENDS and nothing more. I am dead set on labelling the relationship and where i stand so he could just be testing you out to see where you stand with him. Keep it cool and eventually he will ask you to be his girlfriend.
there's nothing to stress about, just enjoy the ride. His action speaks for itself. smile is he overly affectionate to you ? if he is then thats a good sign ! just feed him, touch him and make sure you smell good at all times smile its just a taurus thing smile
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You taurus make it sound so easy. This over analyzing pisces thing is exhausting. Thanks for all the help though.
One last thing so my guy just won't comment on making things more serious, I've tried subtly pushing the subject and he just won't comment on what he thinks/feels. What does this mean? Also he's always on his phone and I've (causally) noticed he is sometimes texting his exes, is this a taurus thing or just a douche bag thing?
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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by piscesconfusion
@2n3r thanks for the insight. In going off what you said when you mentioned that y'all don't forget people you were attracted to does that mean the feelings come back with the memories? This guy has made it clear that he's always been the one to end relationships but they always end on good terms so everyone is still friends. Is that a taurus thing to remain friends with your exes? Also in being friends does this mean your feelings have completely changed for these girls and you really only see them as friends? Also just to clarify as far as the fwb thing goes it just sort of happened only because he has labeled us as "friends" even though he doesnt treat me like just a friend and even tells other people he's taken.


I'm a taurus female and i keep my ex as such unless they show their sincerity to win me back ..(scorpio ex of mine..sign* trouble) I let the past be my memories and can move on quickly ( venus in gemini) .
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TAURUS SUN WITH VENUS IN GEMINI?!?!?!?! *waves at fervently* Let's hold hands!!
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