How to Deal With Your Partner Shouting at You?

I am living with my partner at his house, for a year now, he start shouting at me regular recently, is this a signs he wants to break up?

Uh no it's a sign that he's verbally/mentally abusive!

Thank you krysrenee7! Do you know anyway could sort this problem out? He is very difficult to talk as well.

Some Taurus guys seem really high-strung, and tense.

One I knew became short tempered after he started a new job, and had to take tranquilizers to help him over the hump.

He did get shouty for awhile, but it was because of a change in routine.

Op, you are probably doing things that piss him off.

Most men dont shout until a woman drives them to no other option.

What, in precise detail, does he shout about?

Regardless of his sign. there should be no exemptions of how a man treated you.

I always confront my taurus man doing the same thing but he rarely yell at me.

Then when I confront him. He gave me a nice talk later on how his behavior affects me.

I don't tolerate him though. Sometimes, when he is crazy responding my msg to him I retaliate

and yes I fought hardly and retreat not my option till he said how ''BITCH'' I am in dealing

with him. lol. He started it... I am not going to finish it.

First of all, I would like to thank you for taking your time to answer my question.

I am not a confident person in relationship, I sometimes asked about his ex-wife, I feel he still love her. every time I ask about her I get shout back, this is not the only reason he shout at me. I have to be very careful about what I say, I scared asking for anything. He complaints about the noise of I am eating food (recently start), he complaints to me about his computer has been slow-running, he complains about I have forget to wash his clothes, he sarcastic most things I said. The most embarrassing thing is he called me cockhead when we went out with his family.

I am not a perfect person, he told me I should listen,all the problem i have caused because I don't listen to him, and I nagging him too much.

Sherry98,

Then start preparing yourself for the next move. I had a five years relationship with an abusive man.

I planned it very well before I left him. He doesn't even know that I am capable of doing it because

he saw me as weak as nothing. Have faith and keep praying.

Don't tolerate him. If things getting worst... then have a safe for yourself. Save your own money

without him knowing. Learn not too much emotional and always be ready.

I know it wont be easy but be brave and Good luck lady. Life is such a journey.

Posted by sherry98
First of all, I would like to thank you for taking your time to answer my question.

I am not a confident person in relationship, I sometimes asked about his ex-wife, I feel he still love her. every time I ask about her I get shout back, this is not the only reason he shout at me. I have to be very careful about what I say, I scared asking for anything. He complaints about the noise of I am eating food (recently start), he complaints to me about his computer has been slow-running, he complains about I have forget to wash his clothes, he sarcastic most things I said. The most embarrassing thing is he called me cockhead when we went out with his family.

I am not a perfect person, he told me I should listen,all the problem i have caused because I don't listen to him, and I nagging him too much.

Yeah, based on what you said, he probably still loves her.

How long was she in his life (from courtship to marriage to divorce)?

Also, how long after the divorce did he start the relationship with you?

9/10 times, if a man is shouting mad, it's because a woman drove him to it.

He is going crazy because he still has feelings for the former wife.

Did she leave him?

If so, why?

If not, then why did they divorce?

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Posted by xdimplez
maybe the first thing you should ask him is, whats wrong?

before jumping in to any conclusions, you should ask that first. some people, when stressed, tend to project on the person they are closest to simply because they are just there

He is shouting regularly. It was not a stressed out period.
I lived with a person like that. It was more about control than it was annoyance. If a person is trully annoyed with something they will try to communicate about it when they are calm. And she would had known already what is going on or what is the trigger 😉

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My goodness, without actually knowing what the issue is you suggest that she pack up and move out right away? Before jumping to conclusions, why not try and find out what the issue is before deciding the end it all so quickly?

Posted by Wynter
Some Taurus guys seem really high-strung, and tense.

One I knew became short tempered after he started a new job, and had to take tranquilizers to help him over the hump.

He did get shouty for awhile, but it was because of a change in routine.

damn tranquilizers? what kind horse?

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Posted by CuteGem

Posted by xdimplez
maybe the first thing you should ask him is, whats wrong?

before jumping in to any conclusions, you should ask that first. some people, when stressed, tend to project on the person they are closest to simply because they are just there

He is shouting regularly. It was not a stressed out period.
I lived with a person like that. It was more about control than it was annoyance. If a person is trully annoyed with something they will try to communicate about it when they are calm. And she would had known already what is going on or what is the trigger 😉

My goodness, without actually knowing what the issue is you suggest that she pack up and move out right away? Before jumping to conclusions, why not try and find out what the issue is before deciding the end it all so quickly?

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he called her a cock head and yells at her for breathing what else needs to happen? that sounds like the beginning of a huge problem. there are always signs before physical abuse starts.