how to know...

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by sunnynight on Monday, July 17, 2006 and has 34 replies.
Hey people pleeeeeeeeeeeease tell me how to know when a taurus guy is attracted to you?Me and my taurus crush are friends now.I took the initiative.He flirts with me sometimes and sometimes acts like he doesn't care.How to know his feelings??Can I have any advice from you to understand the hints??I want to know if he IS interested in me or NOT.please help me!!!
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hahaha jus b strait up n ask him
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really? But I have heard that taurus ppl believe to court someone for a loooong time and if someone comes on too strong,the effect might be reverse...so I dont think its a good idea...
any other advices will be appriciated ....
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I dated a fellow Taurus for over a year and with them, you just have to gauge how they react to you. They don't disappear like Aquas but will show signs of jealousy. That could be one sign, but you really don't want to make any Taurus, male or female, jealous. That causes us to dig our heels.
Just try to pay attention to how he communicates with you. I'm not sure what sign you are, but don't over analyze things (us Taurus people do enough of that for the entire zodiac!).
It is true that Taurus people do want to take our time getting into a relationship, but we don't take that long - I say if after 3 - 4 months of dating he hasn't brought up anything serious, then you are in the clear to bring it up yourself, but do it gracefully, don't do it bluntly.
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if you plant your feet or anything deep enough, it makes it hard to budge...our stubborness sets in
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Hey thanks for your advice,its been a month only.And I am a leo girl.
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hahaha y r u beatn round tha bush mayt u shuld jus ask him... haha nt sayn 2 turn in2 a sap n b all emotional but reaali hun wat hav u got 2 lose... diginity/pride pffft ul soon c tha ansa on his face... hahaha cum on suck it up babe u only live once no point in torturing urself over it id say hahaha fuk im sorta drinkn at th mo hit tha surf this avo hmmm mayb ignore this lol
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"after 3 - 4 months of dating"
hey houston,I fergot to tell you that we are not dating yet.I have a huge crush on this guy..and we have been friends for a month only.
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Misty are you ok?? I cant be that blunt.I cant help falling for this guy and I dont want to ruin our friendship.I would prefer to have him as a friend than losing him completely!lol,I am in a bad situation where I am facing slow decision making process of taurus,when I am a curious cat...heeellllpppp!!
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It's too soon to get that deep with this guy. She's only known him for a month and they aren't at the dating level. That would make him back pedal...I still say give it 3 - 4 months and then bring it up. Taurus guys like to take their time.
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thanks for your help houston!!and 25th also.I think I will wait for 3-4 months more according to houston and then I will follow 25th's advice....thanks a lot guys.Made me feel a lot better.I will keep you posting what happens next...
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lol so ur jus gona wait around 3-4 months sit around n analyze every little thing he does only 2 go hm n ponder over it all sum more... hahaha next tym ur sittin next 2 him punch his shoulder raise ur eyebrow bite ur lip an n a sexy aussie drawl say so u rekon ur into me (can add wink here 4 even more effect) donot say line so u think ur interestd as u will b raped... but u can then tell by his response if hez n2 u... if he laughs n looks nsanely sexy u know hz n2 u if he looks like hs been stung u know hez not an u hav ur ansa... hahaha mind u im moreso strait up imagine if he walkd out n got hit by a bus 2moro... hahaha sorry again hahaha iv been surfn so im feeln wastd... tho im diggn 25thdecanz lines up there... itz jus crap tht chikz seem to do all this waitin around wen u culd jus ask n get it over n done wit... hahaha actuali i dont know
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Ok, it's waaaaay too early to read Misty's posts. I have a headache now from trying to decipher her threads.
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Hey coming to the point,
I really don't want to lose this guy and his friendship.If I ask him directly,I might lose him which I dont want.I am not being clingy but I do send him text messages which he many times replies by making a call to me and talking to me for about 10 minutes...I think he likes me at least as a firend.I think this guy is worth waiting for.Even if he says "no"to the relationship,I am sure,he will always be my friend.
So,finally I have decided to wait for some more time. Let me check my patience!
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nah, SG, I disagree. if he's interested in her, he will make the move soon. but she can't be the one to pursue him this early. be his friend, but FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT. he will open his eyes and make his move. if he wasn't interested, he would not be talking to her to begin with.
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Tell me one thing,are taurus guys good flirts?
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nah, SG, I disagree. if he's interested in her, he will make the move soon. but she can't be the one to pursue him this early. be his friend, but FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT. he will open his eyes and make his move. if he wasn't interested, he would not be talking to her to begin with.
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coz he always flirts with me..all the time.I dont know its his nature or he is doing this to me only?
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He has many some friends who are girls and he is very open to them also.But he knows them for last 4 years.one more thing about him,whenever we talk on phone,he sounds very joyful and he is the one who carries the conversation.But when we meet in person,when there are his other friends too,he just asks me"How are you?"...and smiles at me many times,acting shy.Now what is this?
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he carries the conversation? don't do that for too long - don't make him think that he's doing all the talking or he will get bored.
the acting shy thing makes sense; he's still in "friend" mode.
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I also do the talking but he talks more than me.ok.Thanks for giving me some hint of taurs nature!
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Sunnynite, being a bull myself I'd suggest you secretly drag him to a secluded corner, kiss him passionately, and then just gently and quietly say you're in love with him. Look him in the eyes and ask if he would like to go on as more than friends from now on. If he is a true Taurus, he'll give you a straight answer - be it yes or no, unfortunately.
I'd say you two should end up in bed.
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I dont think I will be able to do that at this stage!We just became friends!I think it will work after the next stage,when we start dating.Actually I am to scared to let him go,so I dont think I have a choice than waiting for some more time.Ofcourse,I always show him how happy I am in his company and sometimes bring him delicious chocolate pestries which he loves!He winked at me yesterday after eating the pastry.lol I think its a good sign,what do you think?I always text message him or call him which he always replies.I am just wondering,when we 2 talk over the phone and are together without any friends,he teases me and is very open and sweet,he talks and talks and talks...but when his old friends join us,he just smiles at me,and keep quiet or talk to other friends....I really dont understand why he does that..Can anyone of you put a light on this one please??
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hahaha sowie hahaha yea yea yea i will start typin properly 4 u guys to decipher it all... but yesss itz all sounding pretty good to me all signs are freaking positive!!! hahaha im excited 4 you babe!! but ya know you shouldnt do the whole waiting thing i like the secluded corner idea... props 2 u reku!!! hahaha so yup jus do wat your doing...
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I would like someone to put a light on this if possible...about what I have written above...
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Sunnynight darling, you may have stumbled on a bull who has been left badly hurt after a bad relationship. The thing is that he'd like to display you as: "THIS IS MY GIRL!". That is, if you're beautiful - well, Leo girls usually are. If he is uncertain of you being his girlfriend, he'll be just like that. Sort it out as soon as you can: you'll both be unhappy until you confess, as well as he does, that here's a couple!
Taurus guy will take good care of you, however strong you are! *KISSES*
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Hey guys,this is what I have figured out about my feelings......its really strange for me also but I think my feelings are changing for this guy.We are really good friends now,coz we spent more and more time together(in our friend group)and I found out that he is very sweet,charming,down to earth but at the same time,he does not take lead in anything,He is not so funny,is really verrrry sensitive,is not smart and bold....I love him madly,I still find him attractive but I dont know,its so confusing....I always back him in any topic and he tells me that he is really happy GOD has given him me as a friend...I dont know,I have a soft corner for this guy or what..he is really a puppylike guy.I adore him.But is this turning into pure friendship from love?I dont know.Being a leo girl,I like little bold men I think,I am not very experienced with men yet but I think so.Can u ppl say something about this?what do you think?please tell me.its confusing...
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Dear Sunny, you could now try a little gentle persuasion. DON'T PUSH! (That is if you're still interested!) Some of us can be too boring and square for a lively girl like you. He might feel OK not taking lead simply because he's lazy: some of us are. Don't be misled about him being over-sweet and charming: if you irritate a bull above his boiling point, there'll be hell to pay. Sweetness doesn't always mean limpness.
If he's not smart, bold or fun, there's very little you can do. Sorry...but I'll have to suggest you have an overnight session with him and see what spheres you two can reach. I still believe that there's a nice couple in the making! Just inject some fun into him!
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Thanks rekku,your messages have been a real help for me! I am not pushy but I want some positive reaction I guess....I know that he likes me now,I want to decide what I want before he's totally into me...it will hurt him badly..and as I said before,he's been a sweet guy and a great friend to me and I don't want to lose him as a friend at any cost!But as you said,I will think it over again and then my feelings only will decide it for me!Thanks a lot once again!!!love...sunny.
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hey guys,
I am still to decide what I want with this guy but I have found out something about him.He himself told me.He and me are real good friends now and he trusts me completely which I am aware of.yesterday when I was going to university,he called me and asked me for a lift.I said sure and we went together.University if far away and it took us 35 min. to go by a car.he was telling me how luck is never on his side.He loves his mom and is scared of his dad who's a scorpio.WinkingHis dad used to beat him when he was a kid.He was not very good in studies and so when he failed in one subject,his father bought him a musical instrument saying,"now you can only sing,u r useless to do anything else"(his dad hates music)he loves his instrument and he's very artistic.I really respect him for that.
To my wonder,he does not appear so "poor guy" he is quite strong and capable.Never speaks out what he's thinking or feeling.He's funny sometimes though.What I want to say is,he shared all this with me...Why he did so?I dont know.But I liked it....He was telling me how I am 'just like him'which I replied by saying,'I dont think so'Winkingbut I really want to be there for him whenever he needs me,I think he knows that now..lol.but yeah he's a sweetheart.I feel sympathy and respect and care for him....ummm very complicated..I dont know what I am feeling??love,friendship,sympathy,care??please help me out of this guys!!
Any comments will be appriciated greatfully.
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Hi Sunny! You're gonna hate me very soon for commenting all your Taurus-related queries.. but the thing is that, and I quote, an angry bull will destroy everything in his path, up to and including Scorpios. I wish it would never happen as this guy would probably face a life sentence if pushed too far.
I think you're having an emotional cocktail mixed of caring, sympathy, a little pity and a little bit of a secret wish of walking proudly hand in hand. Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong! Lioness, you shouldn't be too shy. Grab him by the ring in his nose and take him somewhere he wants to go. Then throw your clothes away and off you go. I know this is basically the same thing I told you before, but the notorious Taurus will either wait forever or meet someone else, UNLESS YOU MAKE A MOVE!!! Love, Rekku
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Sorry, I've no idea why the emotional cocktail turned to chickentail!
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One more try. C O C K T A I L
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