How to own a Taurus forever

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You are going to deal with the following treats in a Taurus with this regard;
The bad treats:
1- Being moody.
2- Loving to possess.
3- Being sexual.
4- Being impulsive.
5- Being sensitive.
6- Being stubborn.
The good treats are:
1- Being romantic.
2- Being generous.
3- Being forgiven.
4- Being patient.
5- Can't stand the feel of guilt.
6- Loving home.
So to Own a Taurus forever simply you should be:
1- So patient and calm when he is angry or not in a good mode, but don't be cold like ice.
2- Nonjudgmental, if he made a mistake. He already know that he is mistaken, but just don't face him with that.
3- Forgiving, if he hurt you. Instead of fighting with him, just make him feel guilty but don't excess or over react.
4- Understanding, when he needs a space or not being the man you know. He is just moody and needs to revolt even over himself from now and then.
5- Make him believe that he is your whole world, even if you do have other interests, just make show him that you are willing to give up anything or anyone for him, and be sure he will not ask you to give up anything.
6- Simply be his home that he feels safe and relax in. Be his shores when he is drowning and let him swim to you but don't bull him. Be his sky that he flies freely in it when he needs to fly. Be his mother when he is weak. Be his daughter when he is protective. Be his lover when he is playful. Be his best friend when he needs to talk (be careful of judging him. And all the time be so confident and show him that you are his and only woman, and he is yours and only man.
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I love this thank you!
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Posted by pixie242
I love this thank you!


you are so welcome
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Going to have to remember this for future reference
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lol, welcome xygeneration, have a seat please.
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Um, what is wrong with being sexual and sensitive?! *raises eyebrow*
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Posted by xygeneration
What else?
Any qualities a taurus might appreciate from a gem or gem has to wear new skin?


Dear xygeneration,
I had a very interesting long term relation with a gem. It was one hot relation, in love it was amazing, but in life it was like hill. my gem never give up, always insist and try again and again despite the fact that a certain matter is totally unacceptable.
with respect to love making it was amazing, and when we joke she was so smart and funny.
But unfortunately her mode was changing in light speed and there the drama begins, she was a drama queen to the extent that most of the time she made me feel guilty. and that was because of her sensitive nature and amazing memory or listing down all the situations once I pull the trigger.
She is so loyal to whom she choose, but above all she is loyal to herself.
She is generous but always expect a return.
She is a good partner but she also insist to prove her total independence.
gem don't need to change her skin, she just need a person to adapt her as she is without trying to change her.
and sure she will not let it go if you step on her toes, even she pretend else wise, be sure she will stab you to the heart once she can, but you can delay that as much as possible by pure tender and and caring and spoiling.
that was my experience with a gem. and she does have a lot of amazing treats.
For the record, My son is a gem, and we adore each other. I am not so sure about this relation when he becomes a young man.
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Posted by xygeneration
*Hugs piscyvirg and shares notes*

Thanks XY. smile
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quite please ladies
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Posted by xygeneration
Thank you senor montana.
I do have a father who is a taurus. He was very protective and way too strict. I can appreciate that now. I think being strict is good but there has to be a balance. I wish I had more structure then, sort of strayed a bit when I was younger. Those teen years.....
Btw, how long did you lasy with the gem?




it last for 9 years (3 engagement, 6 marriage)
P.S. sorry for my english
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Posted by xygeneration
3 engagement and 6 marriage tries with gem?



noooo, its only one gem, 3 years engagement , and 6 years marriage
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
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Ever dated a Pisces? And do Taurus men really want to be owned? Pisceans are secretly possessive. Well I am any way.
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Yes I have dated a Piscean, and that was the biggest cut into my heart, cuz she used to date me, and date also another guy and she wanted to keep us booth. Unfortunately I get to know that she is dating another guy later, while all our fellows knew about that already, and the just warn me about her but never told me she is dating another guy as well until he showed up and confront me. that was so hurting.
My problem was not was with the positioning, I was cool with that, cuz from now and then she also make me feel that I totally have her. So, I think that Taurus don't really mind about being possessed but in return he also should feel that he have you.
anyways, that Piscean married a third guy, and I met the other guy she use to day many years after that incident and we keep laughing about it. That time i was married to the Gem.
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^ I just want to squeeze you! *squeezes 2N*


WEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!! ( ^-^)
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Posted by xygeneration
Ohhhh hahahaha! Sorry.
Wow thats quite a long time.
What ticked you off with the gem?


It is a cumulative case of negative factors, but mainly it was my fault, because I get her to use that I am the one who is always giving, and I spoiled her a lot. And when it comes to the time I needed her, I couldn't find her by my side because she didn't use to be.
And there is another main factor, which is that we couldn't have kids together.
and once we got divorced and I got married, I got my beloved elder daughter. And also she got married the same time and she has a boy now just few months younger than my daughter.
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Posted by xygeneration
Thank you senor montana.
I do have a father who is a taurus. He was very protective and way too strict. I can appreciate that now. I think being strict is good but there has to be a balance. I wish I had more structure then, sort of strayed a bit when I was younger. Those teen years.....
Btw, how long did you lasy with the gem?




This is my worst fears XY to be overprotected for my son because he will be a man. I hope I raise him the right way.
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Ever dated a Pisces? And do Taurus men really want to be owned? Pisceans are secretly possessive. Well I am any way.


Are you fish possessive? Sure it's not your ascendant? Winking
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I don't like seafood at all smile, really
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I got to go home now guys/gals. I will post when I get home.
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Hi again, I just get back home.
by the way, can anyone read my chart and tell me something new about myself?
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Posted by xygeneration
Im not good at chart reading, but if you post on the astrology section someone might be able to help you.



thanks for the advice XY
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By the way girls, we all have to pay attention to important things other than the signs. Yes the signs told me a lot about others and helped me to know my self better. But still there are other factors to be considered. For example: the culture, the way of life and customs, the atmosphere of childhood, the beliefs and religion, the personal experience and the problems someone had to deal with during his life, the social and financial levels...etc.
there are many other things that should be taken into consideration when you are deciding the future of a relationship.
for example my recent problem with the 2 scorpion women (who one of them is my beloved wife), I asked for help from the guys here. and one of the comments was mocking up on my question "can I marry both"
I didn't ask this question from emptiness (selfishness maybe), but I married my Scorp while i was still married to my ex-gem. and my scorp was OK with the idea from the beginning cuz polygamy is allowed in our religion and culture. The thing that brought me back from such decision is that My wife and I had a long history full with pain and joy where we always been at the same side supporting each other and we have never fight ever (maybe we disagree about something but never fight), and I can not make her feel that she is just the other wife, she is more valuable to me than any emotions or lust I might feel toward another woman.
So you can see here that the culture and religion has affected my available options, But our experience and the life we shared is the thing that formed my final decision.
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Posted by pixie242
I love this thank you!


you are so welcome
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smile Have you ever had any luck with libra women?
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Posted by xygeneration
Lol! Whats wrong with Sagittarius men? (((((((O)))))))))
You should have asked what type of chart is compatible with you.
Now I really want to get mines done.
Were you scared?

What's wrong with Sags? Oooh girl. My mother always said, if you can't say anything nice....LOL. I tried with a Sag. Are charts even looked pretty compatible. He even had a Taurus moon, compatible with my Virgo moon. Good Venus and Mars synastry. But a the end of the day...he was a Sag and I was a Pisces, and our love style s were just to different.
I think this song describes it perfectly:
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Wow, the song is amazing, but I have never been through such troubled relation without getting it broken.
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Apologies for the thread derail >_
never mind Pisc we are all friends here and we are exchanging experience Winking
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I love this thank you!


you are so welcome


smile Have you ever had any luck with libra women?
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Nope, sorry, we just didn't get along well. Libra is so quiet and rational. Yes she attracts me with her calmness, but we don't understand each other easily even when we talk, we always misunderstand what we meant.
Simply my love life was as follow:
Scorpio (the first woman in my life - three years)
Pisces (the 1 year fake love)
Aquarius (2 month true love from her side, just after the Pisc break)(this is the only girl I broke her heat and I still feel guilty)
Gemini (My ex-wife 9 years)
Leo (a woman we started the relation with sex -sorry for that- and she is my best friend now)
Scorpio (My beloved wife)
Scorpio (the girl that stun me but my wife protected me from myself)

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Posted by xygeneration
I didn't know taurus are impulsive. In what way?


They are or I am in many ways specially when it comes to emotions or something to buy (sorry for putting love and material at the same level) but it is all about possessing, but not necessarily in a bad way.
When we got angry we just wreck the ship and regret later.
Being impulsive is not a steady treat of a Taurus, its a moody treat. But usually we take long time thinking before taking a huge step. but impulsive in feelings.
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Posted by xygeneration
I didn't know taurus are impulsive. In what way?


They are or I am in many ways specially when it comes to emotions or something to buy (sorry for putting love and material at the same level) but it is all about possessing, but not necessarily in a bad way.
When we got angry we just wreck the ship and regret later.
Being impulsive is not a steady treat of a Taurus, its a moody treat. But usually we take long time thinking before taking a huge step. but impulsive in feelings.
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Whats your venus?
I see that your culture allow you to have a few women at the same time. Now i understand why your scorp wife wasn't as angry when you were with your other scorp at the same time....i'm preying for your wife to forgive you truly because they can sting you... Sad and its the worst feelings of all time !!!
I wish you the very best ..
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Senor, yes culture plays an important role. So if you don't mind me asking, are you in a polygamous relationship and how does it work?


Polygamous relationship should be build on fairness in everything. for me, i was married both only for 4 months, and my ex was not staying with me that time. And because I could never be fair, we have agreed to get a divorce.
But in general, each of the wives should have her own house and her own allowance, and also her own days that you will be with her. And the last part is the part I couldn't be fair about it, and I know that I will never be fair about such thing.
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So having polygamy as sort of a norm, you wouldnt know jealousy or would you?
Sorry, too many questions.


you can never control jealousy, sure the wives will feel it from now and then. specially the first days of the new marriage, and also when she is in an emotional state that she needs you and it is not just her day.
This is why it is so hard to be fair.
Also there is a big difference between the IDEA of that your man MIGHT be with another woman, And the FACT that your man IS with another woman now.
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Posted by seniormontana
Posted by xygeneration
I didn't know taurus are impulsive. In what way?


They are or I am in many ways specially when it comes to emotions or something to buy (sorry for putting love and material at the same level) but it is all about possessing, but not necessarily in a bad way.
When we got angry we just wreck the ship and regret later.
Being impulsive is not a steady treat of a Taurus, its a moody treat. But usually we take long time thinking before taking a huge step. but impulsive in feelings.


Whats your venus?
I see that your culture allow you to have a few women at the same time. Now i understand why your scorp wife wasn't as angry when you were with your other scorp at the same time....i'm preying for your wife to forgive you truly because they can sting you... Sad and its the worst feelings of all time !!!
I wish you the very best ..
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I wish the same myself, and thank you so much
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So is it an honest relationship and do the wives ask questions relating to other wife?
Would you say its equal love?


Sure they ask questions about each other. And NO WAY it can be equal love. How can we measure love to make it equal?
No way to be fair about love
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So having polygamy as sort of a norm, you wouldnt know jealousy or would you?
Sorry, too many questions.


you can never control jealousy, sure the wives will feel it from now and then. specially the first days of the new marriage, and also when she is in an emotional state that she needs you and it is not just her day.
This is why it is so hard to be fair.
Also there is a big difference between the IDEA of that your man MIGHT be with another woman, And the FACT that your man IS with another woman now.


But they knew what they were getting into in the beginning?
Whats the purpose of polygamy? Well to you anyway.
So the women really have to be emotionally disciplined. That must take a lot for them.
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Yes they know, but they are women.
the purpose might be having kids in the first place.
and no one can be emotionally disciplined, eventually it is emotions.
in any ways, polygamy is not an easy thing to get into, it needs special type of people. the people who used to live with that in their families, and the people who are very religious.
and neither me or my wife have any of the above requirements to be OK with the idea when it comes into action.
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by the way girls, what do you mean by the 7th moon?
I don't know anything about charts reading
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 and what is it here in my chart?
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you are all so welcome dear friends, I think i got to go now to search for something to tell me how to read the charts smile
I am so curious about that.
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seniormontana wow dude you nailed it right on the money for me!!!!
Thats was purely raw and honest!!!!
Having a women making me feel like im her world is probably the biggest factor in a relationship for me! Cause thats how i make my women feel and want to feel the same!
Awesome man
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Posted by xygeneration
I don't know. I hate being the jealous kind and if the man is openly honest, I might just do it. I dont want soneone who is damn confused. Cheaters should be in a polygamous relationship, but even that type of relationship requires integrity which some cheaters don't have.
As long as he appreciates me for who I am and he's honest and were emotionally connected, we might have a future.



absolutely right, this is the only conclusion I came out with after all these stories of mine. We have to be hones, understanding and above all we have to be in love. and this will mold an amazing family and successful life.
Thank you my dear for the astrology cafe advice. I think I already got my chart from there, now I am surfing the net to be able to read the chart myself.
have an amazing day ladies
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So having polygamy as sort of a norm, you wouldnt know jealousy or would you?
Sorry, too many questions.


you can never control jealousy, sure the wives will feel it from now and then. specially the first days of the new marriage, and also when she is in an emotional state that she needs you and it is not just her day.
This is why it is so hard to be fair.
Also there is a big difference between the IDEA of that your man MIGHT be with another woman, And the FACT that your man IS with another woman now.


But they knew what they were getting into in the beginning?
Whats the purpose of polygamy? Well to you anyway.
So the women really have to be emotionally disciplined. That must take a lot for them.

Yes they do. I know I myself am too possessive and too jealous to do it. If I'm honest...I'm not even that fond of him having female friends, unless they are blood relatives.


To hell with female friends. There are plenty of men without them, and those are the ones for me!

Ditto. I'm so glad I'm not the only one who feels this way. Crying It's not about insecurity, it's about not liking to share his attention with other females. Well, I make exceptions for relatives. I'm usually pretty good at hiding jealousy, but I have my moments where I can't. LOL.
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This is so right Pisc, you have all the right to be jealous any time you feel it and to express it, and sure you have every right to have your own man for you only. all women deserve that sense of uniqueness and appreciation.
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seniormontana wow dude you nailed it right on the money for me!!!!
Thats was purely raw and honest!!!!
Having a women making me feel like im her world is probably the biggest factor in a relationship for me! Cause thats how i make my women feel and want to feel the same!
Awesome man


you are so welcome, and thanks a lot man for your appreciation. and trust me, such woman will be your true protector despite our Tauranean acts as protectors.
All my best wishes for you buddy
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I think maybe sometimes we think we are in love and try telling ourselves we are and dont open up our mind enough to see what we really think because we were our heart on our sleeves. At least i know i do!Maybe since we forgive so easy as well and try hard to make something work then we lose sight of what we really want... Guilty of this cause iv always forgiven and tryed to make relationships work but then i hit a point and open up my mind and see what i really want and realize it wasn't all there. Then we move on!!!
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Posted by BikerCh1ck
there is one thing I don't get with you "senior"montana.
You take it as it is your right to sleep around when in a relationship but when the shoe was worn on the other foot you say that the person was not right. Don't you find that a bit hypocritical?
I am really not impressed by your "nice manners" and all the "thank you"s.


who said that I take it as it is my RIGHT to sleep around?
making a mistake is not like having a habit.
And when i said about myself to be a womanizer I meant by that I like to be around women, not into women. And there is a big difference.
you will never understand this until you go through this, and I really hope that you don't go through that.
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Posted by seniormontana
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 and what is it here in my chart?


I'm not good at reading the chart either. But if you go to astro.com or cafe astrology.com they can spell your aspects out for you.
For men Moon sign and Venus are important in attraction. The 5th, 7th, and 8th house...along with any planets in these houses are important in synastry as well.
For women it's the Sun sign, Mars sign, 5th, 7th, and 8th house, along with the planets in these houses.
Ex:
For example: My mars is in Libra. So I would look to my 7th house, which is in Scorpio. Also the planet in my 7th house which is Jupiter. Jupiter rules Sagittarius, so I would also take a peek at my 9th house, and any planets in it. Also have Uranus on cusp of 7th house, so I would look to my 11th house and planets in it. 7th house shows what I am looking for in terms of commitment. So for me it is someone who is charming/diplomatic(Libra), emotionally intense/committed(Scorpio), happy-go-lucky/open minded(Sag), and Unconventional(Aquarius).
The 8th house shows what is need in terms of intimacy in our relationship. I would use the same approach I did with the 7th house.
The 5th house shows what we want in terms of love and romance/courtship. Again, the same approach.
You can also look at Juno aspects. For ex: Prince Williams is a Cancer Sun, with Juno in Capricorn. Kate is a Capricorn w/Cancer moon.


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Wow, thanks Pisc, i think i do need some time and research to learn to read my chart.
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Posted by taurusman
I think maybe sometimes we think we are in love and try telling ourselves we are and dont open up our mind enough to see what we really think because we were our heart on our sleeves. At least i know i do!Maybe since we forgive so easy as well and try hard to make something work then we lose sight of what we really want... Guilty of this cause iv always forgiven and tryed to make relationships work but then i hit a point and open up my mind and see what i really want and realize it wasn't all there. Then we move on!!!


absolutely true man
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Posted by BikerCh1ck
Posted by xygeneration
So then you must understand why the shoe wouldn't fit the same.


When someone in his culture is getting married, prior marrying they agree if he is going to marry in the future a second wife. Sex outside marriage is not allowed. This is why they can have a second wife.
This guy is a bit off even for his culture..
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you are right about "sex outside marriage is not allowed", but we do not agree in advance that I might have a wife in the future or not.
and yes I might be Off for my culture, but i was talking about the reason that made me ask the question "should I marry both?"
Ease on yourself Biker, I don't want to start judging you based on the way you post.
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yes we all do xy. and i do regret that, not because i am a good man or something but because my wife do not deserve that from me.
thanks for your support and understanding xy
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So then you must understand why the shoe wouldn't fit the same.


When someone in his culture is getting married, prior marrying they agree if he is going to marry in the future a second wife. Sex outside marriage is not allowed. This is why they can have a second wife.
This guy is a bit off even for his culture..


you are right about "sex outside marriage is not allowed", but we do not agree in advance that I might have a wife in the future or not.
and yes I might be Off for my culture, but i was talking about the reason that made me ask the question "should I marry both?"
Ease on yourself Biker, I don't want to start judging you based on the way you post.


I don't give a fuck how you judge me. lol I am an old one here.
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Pleaaaasssee Biker, I really appreciate that you did help me a lot when I needed that, and I truly don't want to waste it and to be ungrateful. so please, please don't push me harder.
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Oh okay. Well I guess we all make mistakes.



It seems he did the same mistake lots of times Winking not with this wife only.
Don't be naive xy
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Don't start making up stories Biker, I have nothing to hide here. And no, I didn't did any mistake while I was with my ex-gem I was so loyal to her for 9 years.
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lol, No my dear, and I am so sorry, and I will not remove you from my favorites cuz you still are.
but very simple dear Biker, we all make mistakes, but the most important is to admit it and learn from it, and if we can't get over it we should ask for help.
And yes, I have no authority over you and no one does dear biker.
But also words hurts a lot, it hurts even more than actions. cuz usually we don't see the actions that hurt us, we hear about it. And what i will say will hurt you so much, and will put you in front of things that you are hiding and avoiding it. and I am too hurt to be able to hurt anyone who already helped me once.
Dear Biker, I will not play along with you in this word game, and just remember that i used to be with a gem for 9 years, and I know how sensitive you are. and I hate to hurt you.
So, It's OK, I surrender *raise the white flag* and back off.
You win Biker
OK!
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I will not accept you to bow down to me, it's me who will bow down, I am not only bowing down to you, I am kneeling down to you and bowing my head for the sake of your pride, dignity, and femininity.
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No Biker, I will not feel any better if I get to know that you recently get out of hell - Lil devil Tongue -
An I Promise you that if i did that mistake again I will come and admit it here.
after second though, I will admit it to you in a private message, and if you want to spread it out here it's up to you.
hehehe
Please Biker cheer up, really. Not all men are bad as I am or him. trust me there are a lot of very good people will kiss the dirt that you step on with your feet to win your consent to accompany you.
just get raid of the grudge cuz it will keep burning you only. he is just another man and he don't deserve that you hold all this against him. mostly he is enjoying his life now. So, Be the strong girl who pulled me up the other day and go on with your life cuz life will not wait anyone.
Take care dear friend
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Posted by MilkySoft
It's your Aries moon I suspect. I would not call most Taureans moody and definitely not impulsive.


all three i dealt with were impulsive.
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Posted by seniormontana

6- Simply be his home that he feels safe and relax in. Be his shores when he is drowning and let him swim to you but don't bull him. Be his sky that he flies freely in it when he needs to fly. Be his mother when he is weak. Be his daughter when he is protective. Be his lover when he is playful. Be his best friend when he needs to talk (be careful of judging him. And all the time be so confident and show him that you are his and only woman, and he is yours and only man.


Thank you for posting this. I resonated with the entire post but I liked ^ this the most. Beautifully said. At the end of the day, what's between one and their other is sacred and between them alone.
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You are welcome, and totally agree with you Insilver.
By the way guys and girls, Taurus loves his home to be confidential. Yes he might talk and accept that you talk with your friends about normal situations. but he hates that his partner reveals a secret even it's for the sake of advice specially the things that he don't want others to know about him.
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