How to tell a Taurus man...
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by neuroticvirgo on Monday, February 25, 2013 and has 6 replies.
Ok sooo my bull & I have been seeing each other a little over 6 months and within the last month he's really begin to open up emotionally and we are doing well. In the course of our relationship I've never mentioned any other men to him so I know this has given him a sense of security with me. However 1 of my best male friends just called to let me know he's coming into town for 3 weeks. I haven't seen this guy in person in like 5 years and he's going through a lot so naturally I am going to want to hang out with my friend. But I'm concerned that mentioning another guy will drive the bull back out to pasture. I don't want to keep it from him and risk him finding out and REALLY ruining things. So how can I present this to him in a way that doesn't freak him out? FYI the bull will be out of town half the time my friend is in town and I can just FEEL in my bones that this is about to cause some unnecessary conflict. Advise please?
Sounds like you are over thinking it.
Let him deal with his reaction.
Ask the Bull if he would like to meet your old friend.
Have you had a sexual relationship with this male friend?
Let him deal with his reaction.
Ask the Bull if he would like to meet your old friend.
Have you had a sexual relationship with this male friend?
Posted by LunarMaiden
Sounds like you are over thinking it.
Let him deal with his reaction.
Ask the Bull if he would like to meet your old friend.
Have you had a sexual relationship with this male friend?
Hmmm a meeting... I'm trying to picture how that would go over. I guess its better than; "honey I can't see you this wknd cause I'll be with that other guy!" lol
No nothing sexual, not even a drunken kiss. He's smoking hot and we did try to date when we 1st met YEARS ago, but there was no chemistry beyond friendship.
Posted by neuroticvirgo
Ok sooo my bull & I have been seeing each other a little over 6 months and within the last month he's really begin to open up emotionally and we are doing well. In the course of our relationship I've never mentioned any other men to him so I know this has given him a sense of security with me. However 1 of my best male friends just called to let me know he's coming into town for 3 weeks. I haven't seen this guy in person in like 5 years and he's going through a lot so naturally I am going to want to hang out with my friend. But I'm concerned that mentioning another guy will drive the bull back out to pasture. I don't want to keep it from him and risk him finding out and REALLY ruining things. So how can I present this to him in a way that doesn't freak him out? FYI the bull will be out of town half the time my friend is in town and I can just FEEL in my bones that this is about to cause some unnecessary conflict. Advise please?
Unless your Taurus has shown you that he is a very jealous type guy or there's a reason you think he may be, why sweat it? Just do the right thing and tell the Taurus FIRST, and tell him you'd like to introduce your friend to him. No biggie, unless you make it one.
How would a meeting not work? Man of mine meet friend. Friend meet my man.
No meeting man on the sly. Smells shady.
Just be straightforward about it. All on the level so no need for fuss.
No meeting man on the sly. Smells shady.
Just be straightforward about it. All on the level so no need for fuss.
"Just be warned that turnabout is fair play and if a female buddy comes to town, you will have to be as understanding."
THIS is the part that concerns me! We've both been solely focused on each other, I'm afraid he might try to start introducing all these female friends thinking it's open season on friends of the opposite sex. I'm not insecure; we're just really new and I hate having to throw a potential monkey wrench in the nice little flow we have going on now.
I will tell him about it up front; likely over his favorite meal & cake to distract him...lol
Thanks TaurPeeps!
THIS is the part that concerns me! We've both been solely focused on each other, I'm afraid he might try to start introducing all these female friends thinking it's open season on friends of the opposite sex. I'm not insecure; we're just really new and I hate having to throw a potential monkey wrench in the nice little flow we have going on now.
I will tell him about it up front; likely over his favorite meal & cake to distract him...lol
Thanks TaurPeeps!
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