I cant stand him..whyy?!

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by GalacticFun89 on Monday, January 19, 2015 and has 7 replies.
He drives me insane, and yet we??re still hooking up with eachother. Ugh. I swear he pisses me off for no reason just for the simple fact that he knows that he can. Sorry I am coming out of nowhere with all this, but I guess I need to vent.

Its officially been one year of us hooking up. I call him an a** hole, and he calls me sensitive. I hate when he calls me that. We get into this big fight out of nowhere and its like an explosion. Then it just stops and we don??t speak for awhile. Then one of us, comes out and says sorry or we just text randomly and within the same night, were hooking up again. My best friend (Capricorn) told me ???you two need to just get married already.?? All our arguments are so childish too and yet I don??t know why they even happen. We just hook up. Recently I was out with some friends and I was texting him and he just asked who I was with. I told him with some friends and I mentioned some were guys. But then he tells me he wants to hook up. I told him to go find someone (just being kind of playful about it), but I think he was trying to make me jealous by saying he was going to ask someone else. But he never did cuz then he said he wanted to see me. I told him I was already out and I cant just leave my friends for him. I mean why ask me when you know im already busy? So that??s when we got into this pointless argument. Then he calls me while im out and argues with me about the fact that WERE ARGUING. Lol. He tells me ???oh why do we keep arguing like as if were in a relationship and we go together??? Well I wish I knew the answer to that question!
He acts so bipolar with me sometimes, then turns around and tells me im the one being sensitive?? Really? Not only bipolar but he does get possessive too. The other week we were taxting and it was a day or two later after we hooked up and I called him buddy. I always call him buddy or pal, but just being playful and he calls me that back. No big deal. but this time he got alittle weird about it. saying 'Oh im buddy huh'. I don't know what hes trying to do. This isn??t the first time this has happened. Before that I stopped speaking to him for a month. He called out of nowhere saying he heard that I was hanging out with this guy and wanted to know if we hooked up. Not only that but he showed up at my house that same night wanting to randomly see me telling me if I wasn??t going to come out that he was going to knock on the door and wait until I did??_..yea but im the one
that's being sensitive and in my feelings? lol
Sounds like all you are is just a piece of azz to him. Why settle for such a low grade title? Find and be with someone who actually respects you.
Y'all need to break up or commit. Just stop fucking pretending, and hiding your fucking feelings. Your trying to blame him for shit that your just as responsible for. It sounds stupid.
texting him while your "out having other plans" and you thinking hes reacting to your choice of company. like how dare him expect you'd change your plans for him, really? maybe its because your texting him the whole night.
Stop being stupid! It makes you sound like an idiot! Your telling yourself too many lies.
oh and btw, you want him to have a reaction to you keeping company with other men.... otherwise you wouldn't be interrupting everything he say's as "evidence" of it. If you didn't want him to be jealous than that would be the last thought that crossed your mind.

@Astrobyn
I wasn't trying to make him jealous. I was just being honest about it. He asked, I told him..soo?
We just hook up. Hes told me before if he was going to hook up with someone, so why cant I freely say what im doing? Were all adults here, hooking up isn't really all that new anymore. I wanted it cuz I was trying to get over another Taurus and he seemed like the type that didn't mind.
But ive said this before were both very prideful and were not the type to show our vulnerable side easily. I already told him that I was beginning to have to feelings but that I was trying to avoid it because I would never take someone like him serious..(a bit of a jab to the heart I know). But we were arguing at that time that I said it. He told me he didn't want anything, so I said ok that's fine and left it at that.
But his actions are always weird. They always been that way almost from the beginning, but when I tell him hes being weird he turns it around on me. lol.
I didn't say you were trying to make him jealous, only that you want him to be. Likely you get a subconscious satisfaction from it.
The relationship has run its course, save yourselves the trouble and just end it.