I coulden't be more Taurus...

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davezor
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Hello All,

I've been reading this board for about half a year now and you all seem to have very similar traits to me, after all you are all taurus. I think its so weird that we all share similar traits and considering our star sign, its all a bit weird isnt it?

I found out the other day that i'm a sun, moon and mercury in taurus with a libra rising and i share both sun sign characteristics. I like fine clothes, good food and wine, i'm very materialistic but know what's good and what's not. Do you tauruses share the same trait as me that you have a very accute understanding of people? I find i can read people like a book before they open their mouths which has helped me much in my life and im only 20! I rarely get angry and i am a very placid and patient person, i don't like conflict and i am very diplomatic when it comes to resolving problems (thats the libra there i think?)

I have a strong loving for animals and nature and love the outdoors. I know what taurusgoddess means in that we are lonly mostly because we rarely settle for less that perfect, this i can fully agree with! ive had 2 girlfriends in the past 3 years and they have both been with saggitarius, they didnt last, not a very good match for a taurus i dont think. I got very upset with how they see relationships, both girls were very similar but there was a very strong attraction there. I had another involvement with a Libra, i fell in love with her at the start of the year, she was a friend of my housmates and she moved in for 3 months. We instantly clicked and there was a very strong attraction between us, i still feel she was the only one that truly understood me. Do you all feel that no one understands you? Yeah anyway she had a boyfriend at the time but our attraction eventually gave in and we hooked up, i fell in love with her before we did anything but i ended up getting really hurt because she stayed with her boyfriend while she knew i liked her, and she liked me too. Damn Libras, they love to climb the social circle, one thing i couldent stand about her arg! It hurt so bad when she moved away, i was a mess for months, one thing i agree with is that when a taurus loves, they love damn hard.

I personally think Taurus is among one the best star signs. My boss is an Aries, i don't like them very much, i know about 5 other aries people and i feel no compassion from them at all. Aquarius are funny, virgo are very good workers, capricorns are quite stubborn and geminis are probably my most hated sign. They shit me to tears, back stabbers, all of em! They are so moody and random i dont know who im talking to at times. All the taurus i know are amazingly smart and kind people. All my friends come to me for advice and i suprise myself with the words of wisdom that come out of my mouth without even thinking, does this happen to anyone else? Im good at massages and touch in general, i think that taurus are very psyhically understandable people. I think alot to myself and i often ponder or plot the distant future. Im good with money and know how to budget yet live a comfortable life. Im very loyal to my friends and family.

Sorry to ramble, i dont post often but i just wanted to share with you what sort of person im like. You all seem like nice people.

Stay true taureans!

Dave


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Hi Davezor,

I'm a Libra female with my moon in Taurus so I can relate to alot of what your saying. I connect really well with Taurus's and agree with your thoughts on the other signs. As far as Gemini's go, my son is the only one that I have been able to tolerate. He must have some other things in his chart that balance the Gemini out. We have a great relationship. I can totally relate to the accute understanding of people. I think that is a Libra trait, I can read people like a book. Welcome to the message board and nice to meet you. Take care

Sunshine...
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"I like fine clothes, good food and wine, i'm very materialistic but know what's good and what's not. Do you tauruses share the same trait as me that you have a very accute understanding of people?"
-clothes food wine, i live for these things almost, haha, yes but the understanding part is why I think alot of people feel comfortable coming to us to talk easily. I used to pray when I was a kid for understanding & wisdom, and then one day I realized why I was praying for it - because I already had it in me.

"Do you all feel that no one understands you?"
- I always say I feel incredibly misunderstood, and I am. I know it from what people assume of me. It sucks. Brings on the lonely feelings big time!

"one thing i agree with is that when a taurus loves, they love damn hard."
very truly & very deeply

"All my friends come to me for advice and i suprise myself with the words of wisdom that come out of my mouth without even thinking, does this happen to anyone else? Im good at massages and touch in general, i think that taurus are very psyhically understandable people. I think alot to myself and i often ponder or plot the distant future. Im good with money and know how to budget yet live a comfortable life. Im very loyal to my friends and family." agree on all of this, & I totally love being a sensual creature. It allows me to enjoy & savour so much.

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I agree with everything you said too. It is so weird how we have a lot of the same traits.

I too have realized that I am materialistic but it's not necessarily a bad thing like many people think if we also work hard to have what we want.

I LOVE nature and the outdoors!

I too rarely get angry and if I do it doesn't last long at all if I'm not bothered. But when I really get angry I REALLY get angry, it literally affects my whole body, but I can count the times that's happened- at my worst EVER year that only happened 3 times. I am very placid, very easygoing and patient and I find that I hate people who get angry easily.

And it's true that we don't easily get interested in anyone, we just won't settle. I'll date different people but will go for long periods of time without a relationship and it's the same for the rest of my taurus friends, one guy went 5 years without a girlfriend, another 3 yrs and that's how it is for many taurus, however they have both been with the same girlfriend now (one of them for 3 years, the other just started with his and they have 1 year and another friend for also about 3 years)
And I find that even while in the relationship when someone has finally caught me, I still find myself analyzing things and really paying attention to the relationship b/c I don't want to get stuck and fall really hard for someone who might not be the one.

Yes, I too feel misunderstood sometimes- used to think it was just me. It's many things but the main one is that it's such a stretch from my thoughts to my feelings to my actions that how could anyone really understand me?

"All my friends come to me for advice and i suprise myself with the words of wisdom that come out of my mouth without even thinking, does this happen to anyone else?"

Yes! all my friends come for advice to me too! And I guess they have learned to know me because I'm usually the funny goofy one, the one who worries about nothing, careless and aloof however I too surprise myself when I hear the words coming out of my mouth and my friends take whatever I say very seriously. I don't want to take myself too seriously but I feel like they see me as the smart, won't-make-a-mistake, grounded one in the group. Now is that true? lol who knows! but hey I can do whatever I want, exactly the opposite of my advice to them because I can and if I fall I can take it and whats life without risk and mistakes? boring! but shhh don't tell them that 🙂

I too am very good with money and at budgeting so I'm never broke and able to enjoy without worries. I don't understand how some people are so irresponsible with their money, they'll plunge several times, go into debt, worsen their credit and so forth while all it takes is just a little guesstimation on your spending.

"Im good at massages and touch in general, i think that taurus are very psyhically understandable people."

HA HA! it had to be a taurus to say that! I love massages and I think that I'm good at them too. It's almost like I'm feeling it while I do it and I can feel what you want. And touching and words are interchangeable. Oh man, I lost a bet so now I owe my guy a massage (full body) ofcourse maybe I can challenge it tonight cuz it's monday night football 🙂 gotta check out whos playing and get some input from people hmmm...
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very interesting everyone

it is definately all weird i guess it was all organized to work out this way
I recently had a friend who was also a taurus the only friend I've ever had who was a taurus, and it was an instant connection. It almost felt like all my secrets were not secrets without even saying anything, and she understood my every move and thought, before her i had friends for years and they all thought i was mysteriouse and secretive, but with her I felt very comfortable. Anyway The bad part about it all is my temper took over which rarely happens but i felt my friend had taken advatage of my trust and loyalty and i blew up at her. and i really mean blew up. well since she was a taurus too her reaction was to walk away and never look back which I completly understood I guess being a taurus and her being a taurus at that time worked against us. I turned into a raging bull and actuallly reacted physically I don't know what happened but i actually charged I never did that b4 and found it very strange and she being in her natural sign held a grudge. i really wish i could talk to her again but she lives all the way in Australia now 😢
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What did she do? I know it couldn't have been just anything because us bulls don't just blow. To any other sign reading this they'd be thinking you're just a complete maniac with a fat temper but I understand completely because I've blown up like that before and people don't understand when your only and honest-to-god explanation is "that wasn't me" because it isn't! it happens and you CAN'T control it. However, I think that she either did something that was really outta place or you were dealing with other issues also. Whatever it is I think a taurus can truly forgive and never rub it in your face BUT I don't know if we can forget. I'm putting myself in her shoes and man if my best friend did that to me I don't think I could ever get over it, ouch that hurts... and not physically. But who knows, with time all is possible.
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Love_Sign
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Taurischic
well since I'm not friends with her anymore and nobody knows who she is i guess i can tell what really happened well i just got in a big fight with my BF i mean A huge fight I guess it was just a bad night for me but this guy was a pisces which I think is lame but anyway I was just being me you know hangin around talkin to people just sitting on the couch watchin people and he was thinkin i was being a B****, why I don't know I was just being me anyway he first confronted me by saying stop acting how you are.Well i don't like people TEELING what to do especially if I'm just being myself so i just got up walked away and he yelled at me in front of the everyone so i snapped my eyes at him and walked outside, he followed me and start makeing abig scene mostly because he was drunk well it got real real bad, well anyway back to her she saw the whole thing go down when I wanted to leave I couldn't find her and come to find out she locked herself in the bathroom talking on her phone I was knocking banging on the door crying because she had my phone, and I wanted to leave, well she didn't answer the door and when she finally did i just turned into a bull i guess I charged at her, and like slammed her against the wall, i felt like i blacked out and was possesed after the fact, that was my first time ever getting that angry, usually I'm the one calming everyone down, but anyway i guess i just felt she was being selfish calling some guy who didn't even like her, and I needed her at the time and she wasn't there.
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Ooooh, yup I get it. We hate scenes and with all that anger already built up and this chic doing that- I swear I can totally understand you I almost feel angry too, I would have been pissed off too. I'm not saying she's a bad person you know, I know us tauruses can be insensitive at a moment thinking that we'll comfort you later which is probably what she would have done. However at the time you were already unstable so stuff happens ya know. How true it is like being possessed and we are usually the ones avoiding trouble and keeping everyone else calm. We are known to keep our cool like nobodys business and boy what a surprise to those who ever get to see our bull charge.

Let me tell you what I noticed too though. I think pisces is a bad match for taurus, ppl always talking about how cancer is moody- has no one ever noticed a pisces?! talk of getting easily irritated. I too dated a pisces guy and he sounds like the one you described. One time this idiot calls me in the morning and I'm just waking up right, well we all know how ppl sound when they just wake up- so he tells me to not talk to him like that- I guess he felt like I was bored by him or something, he thought I should sound more cheerful and awake because I'm talking to his ret+ard a $ s... anyway ughh I get irritated just by thinking of him. And I say that we're a bad match because that is pretty much how we are, we are just... us- layed back and I guess they don't like that. Anywho, then another time I didn't answer my phone and he left me some s+tupid message saying that I had to answer my phone when HE called. You bet I did not like that- trying to keep me in check, telling me what to do, nope it isn't happening. He was also jelous and uuuuuuggghh enough of that thing. Telling me when to answer my phone... if he woulda known I was with someone else! lol ha ha ha! Anyway I never answered his phone calls again, which is a shame b/c he was so goodlooking 😢