I gave her the cold shoulder, now I feel like an a-hole
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by VirgoLibraCuspMan921 on Thursday, December 28, 2017 and has 2 replies.
Hi I'm 18 y/o, I was born on sep 21st, making me a virgo male with a hint of libra.
I have a crush on this Taurus girl who's also 18, largely because of her having an adorable/homie-like demeanor, while still possessing quite a bit of charm and attitude, which makes me feel safe and fascinated at the same time.
So usually I'm the one supposed to be "courting" her (I haven't confessed btw), and she's supposed to be all casual and doesn't realise I'm being nice.
But yesterday she approached me in full-homie mode, which I take as a sign of her finally opening up after weeks of my trying to develop a friendship (I know taureans like it slow). She seemed genuinely eager to see me and gave me a pat on the shoulder and an HONESTLY friendly smile, which is a first. She felt so unusually approachable and nice, couple that with the fact I've just been approached by someone way hotter, that I... suddenly lost interest in her for that moment and responded to her in a most uninterested manner. Heck, I even failed to pay attention to her, which made her repeat. Luckily though, she didn't seem to have noticed about my emotions, maybe cause I was actually always a bit awkward and distant anyway. But what I did was too much even for Virgo's standards, and I know Taureans are anything but insensitive, as blunt as they may seem.
So now I feel like I've treated her like shit, and I feel so bad. I just hope she'll forgive me, cause I really like her.
I have a crush on this Taurus girl who's also 18, largely because of her having an adorable/homie-like demeanor, while still possessing quite a bit of charm and attitude, which makes me feel safe and fascinated at the same time.
So usually I'm the one supposed to be "courting" her (I haven't confessed btw), and she's supposed to be all casual and doesn't realise I'm being nice.
But yesterday she approached me in full-homie mode, which I take as a sign of her finally opening up after weeks of my trying to develop a friendship (I know taureans like it slow). She seemed genuinely eager to see me and gave me a pat on the shoulder and an HONESTLY friendly smile, which is a first. She felt so unusually approachable and nice, couple that with the fact I've just been approached by someone way hotter, that I... suddenly lost interest in her for that moment and responded to her in a most uninterested manner. Heck, I even failed to pay attention to her, which made her repeat. Luckily though, she didn't seem to have noticed about my emotions, maybe cause I was actually always a bit awkward and distant anyway. But what I did was too much even for Virgo's standards, and I know Taureans are anything but insensitive, as blunt as they may seem.
So now I feel like I've treated her like shit, and I feel so bad. I just hope she'll forgive me, cause I really like her.
From a Taurus who is in a relationship with a Virgo....
This caught my attention.
"couple that with the fact I've just been approached by someone way hotter, that I... suddenly lost interest in her for that moment and responded to her in a most uninterested manner."
This susceptible, mutable disposition that Virgos possess will drive a Bull crazy.
We're receptive to 'consistency.' We can be creatures of habit.
The most important thing to know when courting a Bull...
REAL men only! No little boys.
Know who you are, and know what you want.
Something tells me that you have some maturing to do. No pun intended, you're only 18 years of age.
But if I am wrong, and you are serious about her.
Don't tell her.
Show her.
This caught my attention.
"couple that with the fact I've just been approached by someone way hotter, that I... suddenly lost interest in her for that moment and responded to her in a most uninterested manner."
This susceptible, mutable disposition that Virgos possess will drive a Bull crazy.
We're receptive to 'consistency.' We can be creatures of habit.
The most important thing to know when courting a Bull...
REAL men only! No little boys.
Know who you are, and know what you want.
Something tells me that you have some maturing to do. No pun intended, you're only 18 years of age.
But if I am wrong, and you are serious about her.
Don't tell her.
Show her.
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