I hate my baby’s father.

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by b3kk_r on Tuesday, October 23, 2018 and has 22 replies.
The whole thing was just plain stupid. We had sex 7 months ago, I wasn’t on birth control (he was well aware) and I was fucking stupid too, he decided to baby trap me, yes men do it too. I didn’t have the heart to have an abortion. This man didn’t even care to call to make sure I was okay from month 1-7. In this time he was present at the ultrasounds, the only credit he will ever get. I ended up being so depressed until month 4, a former lover ended up picking up the pieces and my bd was upset that someone cared enough to be there for me?! Meanwhile he could have as many and whoever he wanted. Well I had complications and this stupid fuck barely made it to the hospital, not only that but our baby has been in the NICU for 4 weeks born at 2 pounds and 5 oz and he’s only been 3 times.. I asked him for $ 50 to make a payment for her prenatal care that we are supposed to go 50/50 and he flakes on me every time. I’m really trying not to be petty, I’m trying not to be a bitch, I do not ever want to use khai to hurt him. I’m so upset because he’s such an ass. LADIES BE SMART, use a condom and additional birth control for those who poke holes. MEN BE SMART, bring your own condom.. go to the store together if you have to.


I wish he would eat a shrimp and die.
He’s allergic to shellfish?
Yes
I think your anger is legit.


Aside from him, you need support. NICU is stressful and you need a community. Has anyone reached out to you in the area? You’ve been through a lot of scary stuff.
Lmao 🍤 I just got it based off of LadyNeptunes comment I’m slow lol


I hate mines too. A karmic relationship for sure. I moved halfway across the country to get away from him and his bad vibes and he followed me here now I’m thinking of moving away to another part of the state 😂😩
I guess you had no free will in the matter?Blame urself 4 ur own bad decisions


Better luck next time 😉
They have support groups at the hospital, I may have to look into it a little further cause I’m stressed out. I had preeclampsia turn into eclampsia and had 3 seizures, then next thing I know someone is saying look at your

Daughter, I said she’s so beautiful and was out for a few days.
Stay prayed up and positive.


Hugs to you and your joy.


Screw that sperm donor.
Posted by DMV

Stay prayed up and positive.


Hugs to you and your joy.


Screw that sperm donor.
Praying is literally the only thing getting me through this.
Posted by b3kk_r

They have support groups at the hospital, I may have to look into it a little further cause I’m stressed out. I had preeclampsia turn into eclampsia and had 3 seizures, then next thing I know someone is saying look at your

Daughter, I said she’s so beautiful and was out for a few days.
There will be birth support groups in the area. Ask your pediatrician or OBGY for them.


You need your village right now. Baby Daddy is an idiot. Focus that energy on healing yourself and getting your baby home.
Posted by 777

I guess you had no free will in the matter?Blame urself 4 ur own bad decisions


Better luck next time 😉
Youre not helping.


Everything is in the past once that baby is born.


It's himself hes hurting in the end.


In the words of the great and all knowing Beyonce Giselle Knowles Carter...


"You hurt me, you hurt yourself"
Then this mother fucker has the audacity to ask me to marry him and asking to be together after all the shit he did, the sleepless nights, I was going crazy and still am. I don’t want to have anything to do with him, please someone have him. He for sale, he’s on the corner of dead and beat for $ free99. Free to a shit home.
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Posted by 777

I guess you had no free will in the matter?Blame urself 4 ur own bad decisions


Better luck next time 😉
Youre not helping.


Everything is in the past once that baby is born.


It's himself hes hurting in the end.


In the words of the great and all knowing Beyonce Giselle Knowles Carter...


"You hurt me, you hurt yourself"
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Im helping the best way i know how. The post is about her boyfriend, not her baby. Two fools who couldnt get their shit str8 & brought an innocent child into an already confusing world.
Posted by b3kk_r

Then this mother fucker has the audacity to ask me to marry him and asking to be together after all the shit he did, the sleepless nights, I was going crazy and still am. I don’t want to have anything to do with him, please someone have him. He for sale, he’s on the corner of dead and beat for $ free99. Free to a shit home.
His actions are the only way he knows how to cope.


It's what hes sees in the TV and movies.


Very often do you see 2 new parents just talk, naw media pushes marriage immediately after the birth
Posted by 777

Posted by DMV

Posted by 777

I guess you had no free will in the matter?Blame urself 4 ur own bad decisions


Better luck next time 😉
Youre not helping.


Everything is in the past once that baby is born.


It's himself hes hurting in the end.


In the words of the great and all knowing Beyonce Giselle Knowles Carter...


"You hurt me, you hurt yourself"
Im helping the best way i know how. The post is about her boyfriend, not her baby. Two fools who couldnt get their shit str8 & brought an innocent child into an already confusing world.
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Regardless of whether I have his support or not I will do everything in my power to give her the best life I could until I take my last breath and even after. Trust me, I’m a hustler and I got this.
Posted by 777

Posted by DMV

Posted by 777

I guess you had no free will in the matter?Blame urself 4 ur own bad decisions


Better luck next time 😉
Youre not helping.


Everything is in the past once that baby is born.


It's himself hes hurting in the end.


In the words of the great and all knowing Beyonce Giselle Knowles Carter...


"You hurt me, you hurt yourself"
Im helping the best way i know how. The post is about her boyfriend, not her baby. Two fools who couldnt get their shit str8 & brought an innocent child into an already confusing world.
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Dont you think she knows that?


This woman has just given birth and her child is under delicate care.


Zero empathy
I know I haven’t made the best decisions in life, sometimes you have to go through things to learn.. I admit I was stupid but at this point there’s no turning back.
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Posted by 777

Posted by DMV

Posted by 777

I guess you had no free will in the matter?Blame urself 4 ur own bad decisions


Better luck next time 😉
Youre not helping.


Everything is in the past once that baby is born.


It's himself hes hurting in the end.


In the words of the great and all knowing Beyonce Giselle Knowles Carter...


"You hurt me, you hurt yourself"
Im helping the best way i know how. The post is about her boyfriend, not her baby. Two fools who couldnt get their shit str8 & brought an innocent child into an already confusing world.
Dont you think she knows that?


This woman has just given birth and her child is under delicate care.


Zero empathy
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If the posts focus was on the child i would feel more sympathtic. This post is about her spreading her legs before doing her homework
Posted by b3kk_r

Posted by 777

Posted by DMV

Posted by 777

I guess you had no free will in the matter?Blame urself 4 ur own bad decisions


Better luck next time 😉
Youre not helping.


Everything is in the past once that baby is born.


It's himself hes hurting in the end.


In the words of the great and all knowing Beyonce Giselle Knowles Carter...


"You hurt me, you hurt yourself"
Im helping the best way i know how. The post is about her boyfriend, not her baby. Two fools who couldnt get their shit str8 & brought an innocent child into an already confusing world.
Regardless of whether I have his support or not I will do everything in my power to give her the best life I could until I take my last breath and even after. Trust me, I’m a hustler and I got this.
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Whatever makes u feel better. I would suggest when you & ur baby heal up u learj to have a little accountability & stop blaming people for ur poor decisions.

Some problems are large & societal. Ur shit is some bullshit
Baby trap?


Never heard of this being a 'thing'.


One quick fuck. A lifetime of bad luck.


Serve him that fish dish! I hope your daughter makes it through


❤️
Posted by 777

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Posted by 777

Posted by DMV

Posted by 777

I guess you had no free will in the matter?Blame urself 4 ur own bad decisions


Better luck next time 😉
Youre not helping.


Everything is in the past once that baby is born.


It's himself hes hurting in the end.


In the words of the great and all knowing Beyonce Giselle Knowles Carter...


"You hurt me, you hurt yourself"
Im helping the best way i know how. The post is about her boyfriend, not her baby. Two fools who couldnt get their shit str8 & brought an innocent child into an already confusing world.
Regardless of whether I have his support or not I will do everything in my power to give her the best life I could until I take my last breath and even after. Trust me, I’m a hustler and I got this.
Whatever makes u feel better. I would suggest when you & ur baby heal up u learj to have a little accountability & stop blaming people for ur poor decisions.

Some problems are large & societal. Ur shit is some bullshit
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Isn’t it some bullshit, that’s what I’m saying
Posted by AgentP911

Baby trap?


Never heard of this being a 'thing'.


One quick fuck. A lifetime of bad luck.


Serve him that fish dish! I hope your daughter makes it through


❤️
Thank you, she is 3 pounds and 9 oz today!

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