I love her forever, but ...

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I'm a Taurus, my lover is a Leo. We had been together for about two years. And we love each other for a very long time, and we've spent so much time together, all the wonderful times, and we treasure each other... In these two years, we've met complicated problems and had broken up two times, but because we both miss each other so much when we broke up, so we get together again every time we broke up, its like a miracle when we get back to each other and our relationship get better as we knew we need each other. We try to solve all the problems which come in our way and we remain together and things was good. But lately, my lover get busy and join some activities or part time work of creating a big event. We've lose contact when she's busy preparing for her work far away from her home, and I've miss her so much. But we still contact each other once in a week during her busy times. And lately, she told me she has fell in love with someone else, and said she love him and want to live with him, she wants my opinion about it, saying she still love me, and I'm heartbroken... It has been so long time, living everyday with her on my mind, and I just can't spend one day without her, and now she's leaving me for someone else, and she wants my wishes for her, saying I mean a lot to her and she loves me. I know she's the one who I want to be with this whole life, the one I have love today, tomorrow, and always until forever, and forever... What should I do..? I'm lost, and do not know what to do to ease the pain inside me, its killing me and tearing me apart, its like living without a soul, soul that lost his heart, and everyday pass, and I still yearn for her love, the days, the memories are killing me. I miss her badly, I love her so much, but...I can't do anything, I only wish for her happiness, and waits for her to return to me, or should I believe in miracles again? She means so much to me, and even though now she think of me as her best friend, I still want to be with her, I want to be beside her, to live with her, and to love her more than anyone else, until forever. She's my forever love. No matter whatever happen in the future, I'll be her guardian angel, still watch over her, care about her for the rest of my lifetime. I know whats my problem, though its hurting me, I just can't stop loving her. And it goes on forever. For me, love means forever. And I'll always love her. 🙂
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Posted by lionlollipop
I'm a Taurus, my lover is a Leo. We had been together for about two years. And we love each other for a very long time, and we've spent so much time together, all the wonderful times, and we treasure each other... In these two years, we've met complicated problems and had broken up two times, but because we both miss each other so much when we broke up, so we get together again every time we broke up, its like a miracle when we get back to each other and our relationship get better as we knew we need each other. We try to solve all the problems which come in our way and we remain together and things was good. But lately, my lover get busy and join some activities or part time work of creating a big event. We've lose contact when she's busy preparing for her work far away from her home, and I've miss her so much. But we still contact each other once in a week during her busy times. And lately, she told me she has fell in love with someone else, and said she love him and want to live with him, she wants my opinion about it, saying she still love me, and I'm heartbroken... It has been so long time, living everyday with her on my mind, and I just can't spend one day without her, and now she's leaving me for someone else, and she wants my wishes for her, saying I mean a lot to her and she loves me. I know she's the one who I want to be with this whole life, the one I have love today, tomorrow, and always until forever, and forever... What should I do..? I'm lost, and do not know what to do to ease the pain inside me, its killing me and tearing me apart, its like living without a soul, soul that lost his heart, and everyday pass, and I still yearn for her love, the days, the memories are killing me. I miss her badly, I love her so much, but...I can't do anything, I only wish for her happiness, and waits for her to return to me, or should I believe in miracles again? She means so much to me, and even though now she think of me as her best friend, I still want to be with her, I want to be beside her, to live with her, and to love her more than anyone else, until forever. She's my forever love. No matter whatever happen in the future, I'll be her guardian angel, still watch over her, care about her for the rest of my lifetime. I know whats my problem, though its hurting me, I just can't stop loving her. And it goes on forever. For me, love means forever. And I'll always lo
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Posted by Iamawinelover
Posted by xdimplez
Accept the fact that she's gone and move on.

Eat chocolate cake. It's a feel good food that will instantly cheer you up

I'm sorry but really?? After all of that you suggest eating chocolate cake? Wow..smh...
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Idk I thought it was a genius suggestion. Maybe your prescription is drink some wine so you don't get it 😉
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For a moment there your story has inspired me to share my own "love means forever" experience.

But I'm gonna say this instead. I don't think that you're asking for any answers or looking for advice. Your questions sound more rhetorical than anything. You said it yourself - "I only wish for her happiness". You know what to do. Your feelings seem beautiful. Most Taureans would hate their lover, or at least be genuinely angry if they told them they're in love with someone else. I don't know what I would do, but it would hurt enough to never want to see their face again. As bad as it seems right now, you have turned your pain into something pure. It's a rare sight.
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Posted by Iamawinelover
Posted by xdimplez
Accept the fact that she's gone and move on.

Eat chocolate cake. It's a feel good food that will instantly cheer you up

I'm sorry but really?? After all of that you suggest eating chocolate cake? Wow..smh...



Idk I thought it was a genius suggestion. Maybe your prescription is drink some wine so you don't get it 😉
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SMH...
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Wow, I just re-read this. That is touching. This is TRUE LOVE..on both sides it appears. You have to accept and move on. It may not be meant to be. You need to focus on nurturing yourself. This is sad, but beautiful, and it will enrich the quality of your life, and life lessons regardless of the outcome. Just know, there is a love out there for you that is meant to be. Have faith and continue on knowing you will one day feel not so lost, and at peace again.

Leos love for ever, but if she's leaving, it may be for good. Most Leos won't even risk leaving you if they are deep in. She seems to love you more as a friend/soul thing...not as a passion/excitement thing. So she is probably now chasing that.
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Posted by anonymousheart
Wow, I just re-read this. That is touching. This is TRUE LOVE..on both sides it appears. You have to accept and move on. It may not be meant to be. You need to focus on nurturing yourself. This is sad, but beautiful, and it will enrich the quality of your life, and life lessons regardless of the outcome. Just know, there is a love out there for you that is meant to be. Have faith and continue on knowing you will one day feel not so lost, and at peace again.

Leos love for ever, but if she's leaving, it may be for good. Most Leos won't even risk leaving you if they are deep in. She seems to love you more as a friend/soul thing...not as a passion/excitement thing. So she is probably now chasing that.

Oh, you re-read it? HA! Chocolate cake wasn't such a genius suggesion now was it? Your comment hopefully helped him some. It sounds like true love to me. The kind I am looking for and hope to have in my lifetime. Maybe wine will help him to understand a little more if he drinks with friends and not drink alone. 😉
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Posted by xdimplez
Wine lover you suffering from " the dumbs"? Clearly the Leo has moved on, and to suggest that the OP stays in this state where he is longing for this girl and suffering in "hopes" that he comes back is ridiculous.

Now reread my post you drunk fuck and realize that I suggested him to move on and that the endorphins in chocolate will help give him a mood boost to initiate that.

No thank you. Wow....such anger, huh? LOL. Name calling too. 🙂 Calm down...is it that serious? Do you deal with people that same way in person also?
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She's the one I think of everyday, I miss her so much, I know its hard to hold on to something that is probably not going to happen, or a miracle, but, for me, its harder to give up on the person who means the whole world to me. Its depressing, I'm still wondering why I love her so much and doesn't feel sad or angry when she told me of her new lover. I guess some things in life just cannot be explained, including the existence of true love.