I think I've lost him...

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Gemilie on Thursday, December 19, 2013 and has 92 replies.
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I know this guy for a little over 3 years now. We work together in the same company and in the same department. He is a very quiet person and extremely gentle and nice. It took a while before we even started to talk to each other. At the beginning we only greet each other. Over time, I noticed he was extra gentle with me??_ whenever we hang out after work, he always offer me a ride home, whenever I??m sick he always pays extra attention and offer his help for all sort of things. We had a conversation and I told him that I??m not looking for a relationship and that him and I are coworkers so I don??t want things to get complicated. Things seem to be ok or so I thought??_. Until months later, he suddenly asked me if I wanted to hang out on weekend. I told him that we??ve already talked about this and that I??m not comfortable with that. The next Monday, things we??re very awkward between us. We did greet each other but I noticed how cold he suddenly became. I sent him a text message at the end of the day asking him if he??s available for a little talk. After work, we met and had a nice talk. I told him that he??s a very nice guy and everyone seem to like him that includes me, but that things between us will never work out as I already have someone in my life. I also ask him if there??s anything I could do to help the situation. He told me he is well aware of how complicated things are. He also told me he??s sorry, but he just hasn??t found a solution yet. He told me he??s not trying to ignore me or anything, but by being distant with me that makes it a lot easier for him to move on and he asked me to also distant myself to help him out. So starting the next day, we went back to a single greeting in the morning if we cross each other. Months later (today) I??ve realize I??ve made the biggest mistake EVER. A close friend of mine made me realize what I did. To be honest, since the first day I knew he had a crush on me, I started to dress nicer, and I actually went out of my way to make him notice me??_he??s sitting right next to me at work so I sometime started to sing and dance and I knew all too well that it caught his attention. Lately, he has turn completely cold??_ I mean he??s still very nice and gentle, but that warmth is not there anymore. Whenever we talk, he always cut it short and then run away. I??m single once again and I can sometime catch a glimpse of leftover affection from him and that bothers me even more. A few weeks ago, I
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A few weeks ago, I texted him asking if we could talk once again. We went out for dinner that afternoon and I told him that I miss the old him??_the one that took extra care of me, the one that was extra gentle with me. He replied that he doesn??t understand, he thought that was the point. I asked him if we could go back the way it was before and see how things are going??_ then he replied that he??s sorry, but he finally manage to be at a place where he??s comfortable, that he had to give it everything he??s got to get over me not once but twice. He asked me where was that coming from especially since I already have someone in my life. After dinner he gave me a ride home of course and as I move in to give me a goodbye kiss as usual??_ he quickly move away and said ???please??. Never in my entire life have I felt so bad. We wish each other a good evening and he quickly drive away (He usually wait for me to get inside the house before driving away). Since then, he has gotten even more cold??_our morning greetings pretty much stop at him giving me a nod??_ then not a single word beside that??_I sometime get a smile out of him if we cross each other in the hallway??_What have I done and did I lost him? Are there any way to get him back?
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You are too much!
Reject the guy and now that he's moving on you want the old crushed up guy with no chance to ever have you back. Hell no, not happening.
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I'd never trust you after that. Consistence is key. You've changed your mind to many times and rejected him twice.
Leave him alone and let him move on. You've played enough games.
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Posted by Gemilie
Are there any way to get him back?


There is a way....
Throw yourself at his mercy. Lay on his doormat like a stray dog. Bay at the moon when he doesn't return your phone calls. Offer to please him sexually at night, make him breakfast in the mornings, but be sure to let yourself out when he drives to work without you. Cry and whine like a trapped mouse. Make yourself desperate. Totally submissive. Do everything that he asks of you.
Of course, this is satire in regards to a relationship demise with a Bull...
But still a realistic observation that your chances are pretty slim to zero. Bulls are not given the reputation of 'stubborn, proud, and obstinate' for a reason.
Good luck with that one!
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
Posted by Gemilie
Are there any way to get him back?


There is a way....
Throw yourself at his mercy. Lay on his doormat like a stray dog.

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Yep. This will work. Lots of tears. We are suckers for a woman in tears. Cancers manipulated me for years with this. Just lie on his doorstep crying and shivering until he takes you in, and wraps a blanket around you. Refuse to stop crying until he tells you he'll give you another shot. If he says no, escalate to screaming. This is the only way, IMO. You probably don't want to do that, but I think its the only way. Its this or live with the pain of regret.
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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Its this or live with the pain of regret.


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Oh My God.
I am Scorpio I don't cry that much so I don't have a chance for a Taurus man.

That is too much to throw myself in his mercy. Awww! I am not desperate to be like that.
I cried behind closed door...to release the pain and hurts.
Pain is temporary Gemilie. Be strong Lady.
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I know part of what I did was wrong. I rejected him the first time because back then I didn't have any feelings for him. The second time I rejected him was pretty much for the same reason plus I had someone else in my life. Both time I was honest and went straight to the point. The part I know I'm to be blame is where I always try to get a reaction out of him by dressing nicely, singing, dancing...I've only realized it because a close friend of mine which happen to also be a Taurus, told me so. I finally understood that all along, I was confused...I've made mistakes after mistakes to finally realize what I've always wanted was right next to me. Now that our situation have completely switched, I understand how hard it must have been for him. Part of me feel so ashamed and want to leave him alone as he desire.... but part of me see how great a guy he is every day and wants to have him. I know I??ve hurt him??_ twice and I feel so bad about it, but I??m afraid if I let things continue the way they are, I will lose everything. Should I give it more time so things settle down a little before I tried to approach him again? Please don??t just tell me to move on??_. Because I would if I could.
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OH PLEASE crying doesn't work and screaming will send them packing. I get NO response when I do that!
Disappearing works, but it's losing it's luster. Sincerity is ALWAYS heard.
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Posted by Gemilie
A few weeks ago, I texted him asking if we could talk once again. We went out for dinner that afternoon and I told him that I miss the old him??_the one that took extra care of me, the one that was extra gentle with me. He replied that he doesn??t understand, he thought that was the point. I asked him if we could go back the way it was before and see how things are going??_ then he replied that he??s sorry, but he finally manage to be at a place where he??s comfortable, that he had to give it everything he??s got to get over me not once but twice. He asked me where was that coming from especially since I already have someone in my life. After dinner he gave me a ride home of course and as I move in to give me a goodbye kiss as usual??_ he quickly move away and said ???please??. Never in my entire life have I felt so bad. We wish each other a good evening and he quickly drive away (He usually wait for me to get inside the house before driving away). Since then, he has gotten even more cold??_our morning greetings pretty much stop at him giving me a nod??_ then not a single word beside that??_I sometime get a smile out of him if we cross each other in the hallway??_What have I done and did I lost him? Are there any way to get him back?


Oh god. You sound selfish. He finally feels ok. You hurt him! If you really care about him respect what he says and be his friend FOR REAL. This is the only way. If there's true chemistry it will come back over a great length of time after trust is built...maybe.
Taurus don't like these games.
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another Chouchoune story in making ... Tongue
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Posted by anonymousheart
OH PLEASE crying doesn't work and screaming will send them packing. I get NO response when I do that!
Disappearing works, but it's losing it's luster. Sincerity is ALWAYS heard.


LOL - because he knows your Leo arse is a drama queen. Water sign tears are POWERFUL. Cancers especially; they dig deep.
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In regards to the title-
Yes, yes I think you have.
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relationship definately lost it as you never had one in the first place, as for friendship that would still stand nothing more and nothing less.
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True. When there was no solid foundation of relationship.. it will lost that easily.
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Karma is a Taurus..
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Posted by Damnata
Karma is a Taurus..


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So??_ I asked him out for a cup of coffee last night. We were able to talk for a while. I started by apologizing to him for what I did. To my surprise, he wasn??t angry and told me that he knew it from the start that I did all those stuff on purpose??_ he jokingly said he can??t blame me because he actually enjoyed it. I told him that I broke up with my ex, but he didn??t ask any questions about it??_The reason I broke up with my ex was because I was constantly thinking about him while I was with my ex. I also told him that I don??t know since when I started to feel this way about him. The way he pampered me, I was looking for an apartment??_ he pitch in and sent me countless different ads he saw, he even visited some of them, I was cold and shivers a little??_he offer his jacket, I was sick...he went to the drugstore on lunch time to get some medicine for me??_My judgment was shrouded as how easy it was??_ I took everything for granted and never give it a second thought until I??ve lost it all. I think about him on weekends and thought it was because our situation was awkward??_.I didn??t realize that I actually missed him. At the end of our conversation, I asked him if we could be friends? He said we should keep it to the basic, just being courteous. He said it will be much easier for me as it was for him. He reassured me that he??s not trying to punish or pay me back for whatever, but he said it was very hard for him to move on and he definitely doesn??t want to do it a third time. I asked him why not? And He replied because he doesn??t want to hate me??_I felt so bad and kept quiet. I understand how he felt now and even though I know I should do the right thing and let him go??_part of me feel so sad as I realize he's even nicer than I thought. Before we quit, I asked him if he has someone in his life and he said we wouldn??t be here talking if he does. He gave me a ride home as usual and this time I didn??t try and give him a kiss??_and as he drove away, I can??t help but feel so??_ empty??_
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Posted by Gemilie
Should I give it more time so things settle down a little before I tried to approach him again? Please don??t just tell me to move on??_. Because I would if I could.


You don't listen, do you? Sad
Posted by TaurusBull1977

There is a way....
Throw yourself at his mercy. Lay on his doormat like a stray dog. Bay at the moon when he doesn't return your phone calls. Offer to please him sexually at night, make him breakfast in the mornings, but be sure to let yourself out when he drives to work without you. Cry and whine like a trapped mouse. Make yourself desperate. Totally submissive. Do everything that he asks of you.
Of course, this is satire in regards to a relationship demise with a Bull...
But still a realistic observation that your chances are pretty slim to zero. Bulls are not given the reputation of 'stubborn, proud, and obstinate' for a reason.
Good luck with that one!

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Posted by M143

Oh My God.
I am Scorpio I don't cry that much so I don't have a chance for a Taurus man.
That is too much to throw myself in his mercy. Awww! I am not desperate to be like that.
I cried behind closed door...to release the pain and hurts.


It's not desperation if you want that person.
Posted by Gemilie
I know part of what I did was wrong. I rejected him the first time because back then I didn't have any feelings for him. The second time I rejected him was pretty much for the same reason plus I had someone else in my life.


third time's the charm
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

Yep. This will work. Lots of tears. We are suckers for a woman in tears. Cancers manipulated me for years with this. Just lie on his doorstep crying and shivering until he takes you in, and wraps a blanket around you. Refuse to stop crying until he tells you he'll give you another shot. If he says no, escalate to screaming. This is the only way, IMO. You probably don't want to do that, but I think its the only way. Its this or live with the pain of regret.

If you did follow the advice of TLS, a Taurus man would cover your mouth and make love to you just to stop you from screaming and crying Tongue
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atearth,
I have pity for myself. I love myself. If a guy rejected me I will back off and don't insist
myself. Love should be kind. Why throw myself at his mercy. Too much degrading. Unless he feed
me and my stomach is empty. Yes I will do it temporarily. lol.
But I am a woman and have career... I beat the love and don't let the love beat me.
Awww!!!
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Posted by M143

Why throw myself at his mercy. Too much degrading.


You have a lot to learn about a Bull that has been rejected.
Give us everything...and we will give you ALWAYS.
Give us nothing and we will give you NEVER.
It's all or nothing with us.
'Degrading' in her case, would be a serious option to consider if she wants a second chance.
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Yes...it appears as sarcasm for re-introducing yourself to drastic measures for romanticizing the Bull...
But I'm telling you some real shit!
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TaurusBull77,
Maybe it works for other signs... not a Scorpio.
I believe after I burned those bridges I can see the light the road to hit on.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
Yes...it appears as sarcasm for re-introducing yourself to drastic measures for romanticizing the Bull...
But I'm telling you some real shit!


She is. What she recommends has worked with me several times - with one girl in particular, over and over. If a woman who I once felt for, throws herself at me *completely*, and I see that its real and she feels she can't live without me, I can't turn her down. Its almost impossible.
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TLS,

Oh My God... Nooooooooooooo.
A big NO!!!
Jesus Christ...it's just a man.
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My Story with my ex Taurus Man.
the first fight begin this: after he heard my negative comment about his friend.
Him: M, I don't like the M talking my negative words. I want M who I first met.
Me: It was negative story then?
Him: I can't live with that woman...referring me.
Me: ok.
till he wasn't satisfied and kill me more..
Him: I lied when I tell you I love you.
Me: calmly say... ok.
Him: I am not trying to kick you out in my house. Just think a lot of it before you decide.
Me: (in my mind) this is BS. lol

the last huge fight we had.
Him: Yelling.. Get out in my house!
Me: kept pestering him that annoyed him completely.
Him: Get out of my life!
Me: no problem darling. Pack my things and that's it.
Him: packing my things...
lol.
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Posted by M143

TLS,

Oh My God... Nooooooooooooo.
A big NO!!!
Jesus Christ...it's just a man.


The Gemini asked a direct question.
She was given a direct response.
If the response is non-applicable to you...
How lovely for you.
We're Straight Shooters. No Chasers.
Were you expecting Bullshit to be represented, camouflaged with brownies & marinated in sweet caramel?
Pouring marmalade on your red carpet after you graced yourself with your presence.
Waiting for him to lick the sweet residue off your shoes? After you rejected him?
Kick rocks, honey?
With any Bull? Not in this lifetime!
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lol.
I thought stay grounded is the best defense.
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Posted by M143

lol.
I thought stay grounded is the best defense.


You're missing the point.
"I thought stay grounded is the best defense"
This is only applicable if you're trying to prove us wrong and applying logic. This is the only way to get us to yield to an argument.
Not coercion. Not through manipulation or aggressive tactics.
This Gemini rejected him.
You're over-analyzing this too much.
It's quite simple actually.
She submits TOTALLY or keep it pushing.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
Yes...it appears as sarcasm for re-introducing yourself to drastic measures for romanticizing the Bull...
But I'm telling you some real shit!


This is such a scary tactic for a logical earth sign cause if you completely submit and full on chase the guy and he turns you down or worse strings you along, then you're left looking like the desperste idiot who chased a guy who clearly wasn't into you. But I can kinda understand giving this advice to the OP since she clearly has nothing left to lose if she wants the guy as much as she says she does. Just not sure my ego would ever allow me to do that. Even if I wanted to... But if any of you try it let me know how it works out.
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TaurusBull77,
I am not overanalyzing it. You do. They are not husband and wife..
The tactics you assume is not applicable. they are civilians. lol
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Posted by M143

TaurusBull77,
I am not overanalyzing it. You do. They are not husband and wife..
The tactics you assume is not applicable. they are civilians. lol


Her chances for any reconciliation is finito!
I'm just painting a realistic scenario with a touch of sarcasm.
Satire makes an interesting garnish....when nothing else works smile
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Thank you all for the advices and suggestions. But since our last conversation, I??m trying to do the right thing which is to respect his choice. But to see him every day and to get a single nod out of him makes me really sad. I??ve talked about this to my close friend and he also told me to not expect anything??_. Especially since back then, I had chosen to be with someone else when he was interested and waiting for me. My friend told me that Taurus men have a very good memory, that??s why they have such a hard time moving on. He said do something nice for him and he??ll cherish you forever, but hurt him once (in my case, twice) and he??ll never forget it. He told me to take a few steps back and be my previous self and give it a lot of time??_. Maybe over time I might be able to reach out to him again. I??m trying to be distant and do what he??s been doing for months??_ and I can now see what he had to deal with all this time. Watching him talked to everyone but me and watching other women flirted with him, even if he doesn??t flirt back, makes me MAD! He??s still gentle and nice as ever, but that coldness is unbearable??_I won??t throw myself at his feet though??_I don??t think that would make it better??_it sounds like manipulation, and that would be the last thing I want to put him through??_He has been nothing but nice to me. So I guess that leaves me with one option??_.suck it up and go through this one day at the time??_
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*sighs* its gonna be one LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG process for you hon, but hang in there, bulls are all the more worth it Winking
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There is still a chance.....
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Posted by aftershine
*sighs* its gonna be one LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG process for you hon, but hang in there, bulls are all the more worth it Winking


sigh....yea I wish I knew that sooner...
I've completely stop those attention seeking monoeuvers...I still dress nicely though since he's still right next to me and I want to look good. Today as usual, I get a quick nod in the morning as greeting and then nothing till another nod before he left. I'll get a few days to myself since we have a week off for christmas and new year. Thank you aftershine!! I'm hanging in there as we speak smile
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lol. Seems my past ex Taurus man in my previous job. His disk next to mine. He was an engineer and I am
an Accountant, lol.
I know this men how to get their attention...it was a long analysis why he kept flirting with me until I
joined the Taurus men forum. lol.
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My Taurus doesn't flirt... and he seems completely clueless when other women flirt with him too. I knew he was interested in me back then because he was very shy around me and payed extra attention to me...but no more of that now and that is what worries me the most. I just don't feel that I'm different than any other women around him anymore...and seeing all these women flirting and trying to get his attention is annoying as hell! He's oblivious about their intentions but I'm a woman and I know what they are trying to do!! As consolation though... I know he's not interested in any of them... but still...sigh...
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ooooh you're now insecure to these women flirting with him. Lol
Never I flirt my ex Taurguy. He was the one flirting with me. Looked me intentionally with sparkles
in his eyes... until he can't resist. He asked me out and have lunch and visited me where I lived.
He even Brought some foods in the office.. and because I kept ignoring him.. He whispered to me
that those foods was mine not those officemates. lol. I was like, ha? oooh I didn't know that. lol
and he even came tooooo early in the office..and when I came as late as 1 hr. He asked why I didn't
come early because he wanted to see me. lol. again, I was surprised. like. Oh you didn't tell me
so. lol. It was a long long courtship process. I didn't give in yet. He pursued until I burned him.
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I wasn't get annoyed when women flirting with him. I have lots of men fans around me that time
and he saw it and he was too jealous. He admitted it to me. He did loved me. We even sung together.
I love music and so is he. lol.
All I can say... that Taurguy I am referring is a married one. When I burned him he immediately took
his defense. I knew he was hurt. I called him after I left the company.. after 1 month he left also.
I was like... oohhh holy shit what made him decide. He shared to me before he will stay longer that
company because he was appointed as a leader. We worked together.
Nice to remember those sweet nothings he said... lol
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Now the tide has turn
its time for you to chase him back ...
you cant simply just go in and kiss him ... the bull most likely will reject it
do what the bulls like ... pleasure, foods, compliments ... impress him
but it wont come fast & easy ... as you should know the bull is slow in mostly anything
good luck !!
and merry xmas Tongue
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Thank you NaughtyTaurus! Happy new year to you smile
Well, after 2 weeks without seeing each other, we finally met at work today. I couldn't stop thinking about him during all the holidays, but I was also able to take some time and calm myself down a little. When I saw him at work this morning, I wished him a casual happy new year and he gave me a smile and wishing me the same. That smile put me in a good mood for the whole day till the usual goodbye nod in the afternoon. While everyone was talking about what they did during holidays... I was able to listen to part of his story...He went out of town with some friends during holidays and he also learned that his little sister is pregnant and he'll be an uncle... that got him all excited and it was cute to see him all happy about it. Then someone asked him when will it be his turn to have kids?? He just laughed it off and told them to mind their own business...that got me kinda restless...did he meet someone? Of course I'm in no position to ask him, but I can't help myself but to be worried... all sort of things go through my head since then. I've been doing my best to keep my cool, but he's a very secretive person... no one at work including me know about his past relationships... he never talk about it and whenever someone ask him questions about his past, he always said he doesn't want to talk about it. Anyway... I'm home and still hanging in there. Tomorrow will be another day...
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sorry... but he is done.
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Well deep down, I do think he has also moved on, but I still can't let it go...
Today, I was very sick but we had a deadline so I had to go to work anyway. He had a meeting all morning so we didn't see each other till lunch time. At first, I got the usual nod and since we're both very busy, we both ate our lunch at our desk. I had a huge headache and felt terrible, I coughed a lot and had an awful sore throat. I went to the washroom and once I get back to my desk, he was gone (he had another meeting) but I saw some medecine on my desk along with a message telling to use them and that he'll take care of the deadline for me and that I should go home early and get some rest...there are no words to express how touched and happy I was... but I really felt like crying... I really wish he was there... I wanted to see him and talk to him so badly...As tears were falling down my cheek, I had to run back to the washroom and clean my wishy washy face. Then I decided to finish some quick work then I ran home as he suggested. I left him a message telling him that I'll take his offer and that I'll make sure to return his favor one of these day. I ran home and crashed on my bed right away... I was exhausted and slept for a few hours. I woke up a little while ago and just can't stop thinking about him...Am I reading too much into this? Does he still care for me? What he did earlier made me so happy but now I'm so scare...I didn't call him even though I wanted to hear his voice so bad. I feel like I'm at the edge of a cliff... and one wrong move and everything will be over...I was thinking about calling him tomorrow to thank him... what do you guys think?
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I wouldn't give up just yet. For now, I would just continue to go about your business at work and remain friendly and cordial with him. You will know in time if he truly is still interested deep down. Bulls always come back if they really like you. His little gesture there of leaving medicine for you and the note to go home tells me that he IS still paying attention to you and does care about you. I mean, would you do that for someone you didn't like?
I just think he is being extra cautious because bulls don't want to be hurt. I have found too that they take a LOOOOOOOONG time to do anything, so I would just give this time, and give him his space. He sounds like a genuinely sweet and caring man, but he also sounds like he is still hurt. I don't see any harm in giving him a quick call, note, or text thanking him for the medicine. You are letting him know you appreciate him and all he does for you. Little things like that can go a long way for Taurus. But I think in this situation, you will need to do these little things for a long time. Just give it time....again, if he truly is into you still, he will come back....eventually. Good luck!
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Thank you Scorpiogirl99! I haven't given up yet, but I do understand that in my current situation the more I try to speed things up the worse it gets. What bothers me the most is all this time, happiness was right next to me and even hold out it hands to me... and I slapped them away...After that incident on friday, I wanted to call him to say thank you and to hear his voice, but I was afraid so I've sent him a text message instead. Here's our little conversation:
Me: Hello and thank you again for yesterday...I'm doing better today thanks to you!
Him: Don't worry about it... please take care of yourself!
Me: Trying my best to as no one else seem to want to do it for me Sad
Him: smile what made you think that?
Me: You wouldn't be interested by the job by any chance?
Him: Well... you seem well enough to tease me so I guess I won't have to worry anymore smile
Me: Cough cough!! what are you talking about?
Him: Lol I have to go back... my friend are waiting for me on the tennis court... You behave now and be well!
Me: Sad ok have fun!!
It was bittersweet, I was so happy after our little exchange... but that made me miss him terribly. And that is one of the biggest problem... my emotions are like a roller coster lately. I get overly happy whenever something like friday happened... but then, the next minute I feel awful, frustrated and sad. It's been like 2 months and it's unbearable...and to think he was able to endure that for a year and a half...sigh...
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Posted by notyourtype
Aww, what a cute little exchange! He sounds adorable. Makes me miss my Taurus. Darn it! Tongue
Anyway, regardless of what I had said previously (about giving him space), I hope things will end happily ever after for you two.


Thank you! and you have no idea how much I missed him... I took monday off as I wanted to take an extra day to recuperate. I've also make some cupcake for him as a "Thank you" gift and because I know he has a sweet tooth. When we met today, He gave me a little smile and as I offer him the cupcakes, another collegue was nearby and asked how come only Mr. Taurus get cupcakes??? So I just replied honestly and told them how nice Mr. Taurus was...I mean he has always been nice so I didn't think it was a big secret or anything...but then, everyone gathered around us and tease Mr. Taurus like crazy!!! He was helpless and blushing like an idiot it was so darn cute!! Apparently he left work around midnight friday...I felt soo bad but at the same time sooo lucky and happy. To be perfectly honest...I was kinda wishing I'll be sick for a long time sigh...
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Posted by aquansidenout
I don't think you want him you just want him because he is no longer running after you. Also, you want him because you're single. Take some time to yourself and figure out if dating someone right now may even be what you want.


Only half of what you say is true...I became single because I finally was aware of my feelings for him. I left my ex because I was constantly thinking about Mr. Taurus...I pushed him away twice because I was too stupid to realise that I was actually very fond of him...and I'm paying for my mistakes as we speak. As for wanting him because he no longer chase after me... I can't deny that one... part of it is true because I do miss the tender and caring Taurus from a year and half ago...You only realise how precious something is once you lost it... so here I am!!! wearing his old shoes and waiting patiently for glimpse of leftover from whatever feelings he has left for me. I don't think I'm ready to jump into a new relationship at the moment, but I know I miss him dearly even though he's sitting right next to me... because it's not really him anymore...I don't really know what I'm willing to do to have another chance to get close to him and to get to know properly this time. I'm not mad or angry at him for being cold and distant... I can totally understand that...but understanding it, doesn't make it easier...
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