I think to much
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by libragirl37 on Tuesday, July 25, 2017 and has 10 replies.
Well I've had the pleasure of catching an amazing Taurus man! He's the absolute best at everything! Better than I even knew a man could love a women. I'm deeper in love than I ever thought possible considering I'm a libra and I thought I had lived in the past but with him it's incomparable. Ok so there's the set up, I love him and he loves me. Anywho weve come across a few discussions on whether he matches in bed with my past lovers. He does, he's the absolute best and I tell him that. For the first time in my life I am making love not just having sex and it is the greatest feeling. The only problem is that he rarely says anything about my performance. If he does it's not as enthusiastic as I'd hope. It's not the end of the world because we are very sexually active so I know he likes our sex but when he's wanting to know if he's better than the rest it just gets me wondering if I am his best. If he's truly satisfied. I know probably petty. I don't want him to lie to me but if I can be better, I want to be. Should I just drop it and be happy with knowing I'm having the best sex of my life or talk about it?
Posted by tizianiGood point! I just wish he expressed himself more when he likes stuff. I feel like asking him to be more exspensive would just make me wonder if he's being genuine or just trying to make me happy. I'm just like I'm having the best experience of my life!! Why aren't you telling me the same??
"if I can be better, I want to be"
You can tell him this, hopefully he will be responsive.
That way you are just focusing on what you want, and not looking for problems that are not there.
Posted by urania_ix
Spice it up and he'll love it trust!! ???
It's pretty spicy already but plans are already in the works ? Kids and work sometimes get in the way of going all out but I sure as hell want to. I do things he says no one else has too.
Posted by tizianiPosted by libragirl37Posted by tizianiGood point! I just wish he expressed himself more when he likes stuff. I feel like asking him to be more exspensive would just make me wonder if he's being genuine or just trying to make me happy. I'm just like I'm having the best experience of my life!! Why aren't you telling me the same??
"if I can be better, I want to be"
You can tell him this, hopefully he will be responsive.
That way you are just focusing on what you want, and not looking for problems that are not there.
Well, you never know, as long as you focus on what you want and share it with him you might find there's even more to each other than meets the eye already.
It's just about how you word things that makes all the difference. Your last post to me comes off as someone who's getting everything they want, and complains that they want more. Which is a buzzkill to say the least.
But what you said about "if I can be better, I want to be" comes off as just you being real. I don't think any man could argue with it when their woman is just being open. My 2 cents.click to expand
No It's not like that! Like I said what has sparked this insecurity is him asking if he measures up and yes he exceeds what I thought sex could be. I would never ask him that out of fear of him saying I am just to save my feelings. It's just a little insecurity I'm holding onto and was hoping to come to resolution here.
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyI'm going to do this tonight. He has taught me things that he likes that aren't in the norm for me so maybe there's more.
Ask him if there's anything he likes that you've not done together then it's not a comparison.
I think I just love him so much I'm scared of not being the best. Silly but I'm sure you guys can understand. I just want to make him the happiest man alive.
Posted by tizianiI agreePosted by libragirl37Yeah, I totally understand he set the thoughts in motion by bringing that up from his side.Posted by tizianiPosted by libragirl37Posted by tizianiGood point! I just wish he expressed himself more when he likes stuff. I feel like asking him to be more exspensive would just make me wonder if he's being genuine or just trying to make me happy. I'm just like I'm having the best experience of my life!! Why aren't you telling me the same??
"if I can be better, I want to be"
You can tell him this, hopefully he will be responsive.
That way you are just focusing on what you want, and not looking for problems that are not there.
Well, you never know, as long as you focus on what you want and share it with him you might find there's even more to each other than meets the eye already.
It's just about how you word things that makes all the difference. Your last post to me comes off as someone who's getting everything they want, and complains that they want more. Which is a buzzkill to say the least.
But what you said about "if I can be better, I want to be" comes off as just you being real. I don't think any man could argue with it when their woman is just being open. My 2 cents.
No It's not like that! Like I said what has sparked this insecurity is him asking if he measures up and yes he exceeds what I thought sex could be. I would never ask him that out of fear of him saying I am just to save my feelings. It's just a little insecurity I'm holding onto and was hoping to come to resolution here.
I was just pointing out timing and wording can affect everything. But also keep in mind I am obviously not the guy, how he perceives it is what counts, not my perception of it.click to expand
Posted by Scorpio123You're right! If I found out his ex was better I'd loose my confidence!! We get freaky but there are still things I want to try. All men should know that the more they exspress what they like the dirtier we get. Knowing you're driving your partner crazy is a huge huge turn on
Would you want to know if he had better though, really? It would only annoy the hell out of you and make you think what you have now isn't good enough even though it seems like both of you are happy together.
My advice is to find out about all his fantasies and fulfill them! Positions he's never done but always wanted to try, dirty talk, toys, lingerie, role playing, etc.
You only gotta compete with yourself. Screw the other girls. I was so insecure about my bull's ex to find out she used to ask him constantly to finish while they were fucking. Yes, not so hot. I'm no longer jealous.
Posted by Scorpio123Posted by libragirl37Definitely ask him! I think he wouldn't mind sharing with you if you dig a bit deeper! Be all flirty and be understanding and accepting cause he may be fearful of sharing some of his likes or fantasies since some can come off weird... if you can meet every fantasy, no other girl can ever beat you.Posted by Scorpio123You're right! If I found out his ex was better I'd loose my confidence!! We get freaky but there are still things I want to try. All men should know that the more they exspress what they like the dirtier we get. Knowing you're driving your partner crazy is a huge huge turn on
Would you want to know if he had better though, really? It would only annoy the hell out of you and make you think what you have now isn't good enough even though it seems like both of you are happy together.
My advice is to find out about all his fantasies and fulfill them! Positions he's never done but always wanted to try, dirty talk, toys, lingerie, role playing, etc.
You only gotta compete with yourself. Screw the other girls. I was so insecure about my bull's ex to find out she used to ask him constantly to finish while they were fucking. Yes, not so hot. I'm no longer jealous.click to expand
My only limit would be threesomes. Lol if that's what he needs then eh probably ok with not being the best. He's territorial too and has said he wouldn't want to do one with me so I'm not worried about it
Posted by Scorpio123He's possessive and I love it!!
I have a feeling that a Taurus that is so into you wouldn't want to share you ? They're very possessive. (In a good way)
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