JessiedLeo
@JessiedLeo
12 Years
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I'm so done with Taurus men!
Him: If a man treats you right, would you still consider having children?
Me: Yes, if God gave me another child, yes, I would accept it and only if the man's worthy
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Me: Have a good time at the party. I won't bother you (he was a friend's baby's christening and I thought he should enjoy it) xoxo
Him: Huh, no sweetie you're never a bother. Please, don't ever think that. You can text or call me anytime. You and my family (his parents and sisters) are the only one who has that privilege. I don't care what time, you can text or call me.
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Him: I'm so excited for our upcoming trips. I've been missing out a lot and yes, I haven't really ventured off and traveled. I want to experience all the things we talked about with you. I'm going to face my fears and share it with you. I will go to the deep water with you. xoxo
Me: Me too sweetie, I'm excited (then I start telling him where we'd be going, Malaysia, Japan, Singapore, Costa Rica, Australia, etc, etc) xoxo
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Him: ( as his plane barely touched the tarmack ) Sweetie, I'm home! I want to see you! When can I see you? okay, we're just now approaching the gate... I'll call you as soon as I get off the plane. Please let me know the soonest I can see you! I miss you so much! XOXO
Me: Okay sweetie, call me. I miss you too! xoxo
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Him: xoxo (randomly, throughout the day, almost on a daily basis)
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Him: thank you for the updated spreadsheet sweetie, I got it. I know you're going to sleep, I'll work on it tonight so you'd have my portion tomorrow. Good night sweetie, sweet dreams. XOXO
Me: Yes, if God gave me another child, yes, I would accept it and only if the man's worthy
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Me: Have a good time at the party. I won't bother you (he was a friend's baby's christening and I thought he should enjoy it) xoxo
Him: Huh, no sweetie you're never a bother. Please, don't ever think that. You can text or call me anytime. You and my family (his parents and sisters) are the only one who has that privilege. I don't care what time, you can text or call me.
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Him: I'm so excited for our upcoming trips. I've been missing out a lot and yes, I haven't really ventured off and traveled. I want to experience all the things we talked about with you. I'm going to face my fears and share it with you. I will go to the deep water with you. xoxo
Me: Me too sweetie, I'm excited (then I start telling him where we'd be going, Malaysia, Japan, Singapore, Costa Rica, Australia, etc, etc) xoxo
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Him: ( as his plane barely touched the tarmack ) Sweetie, I'm home! I want to see you! When can I see you? okay, we're just now approaching the gate... I'll call you as soon as I get off the plane. Please let me know the soonest I can see you! I miss you so much! XOXO
Me: Okay sweetie, call me. I miss you too! xoxo
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Him: xoxo (randomly, throughout the day, almost on a daily basis)
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Him: thank you for the updated spreadsheet sweetie, I got it. I know you're going to sleep, I'll work on it tonight so you'd have my portion tomorrow. Good night sweetie, sweet dreams. XOXO
again, being continued...
Him: (went to some concert with one of his sisters) Hi sweetie, I came out of the concert to respond to your email. Yes, sweetie, I'm having a good time with Lisa (his sister) and here's a pic of us (attaches a pic of them) I will send you more pics xoxo
Me: Thank you sweetie, enjoy the concert. xoxo
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Him: Hi sweetie, I stepped out of the doctors office to text you. Mom's doing better (he took his mom to the doctor because of her COPD). We're almost done. I'll call you once we get out. xoxo
Me: Okay sweetie, I hope your Mom feels better. ttyl xox
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Him: Nobody else knows my fears, not even Doug (his best friend) I have never divulge anything to anybody as much as I have with you. You're my best friend. Please reconsider (I was considering of dissolving our partnership at this point and he didn't want to loose my friendship and me above anything). xoxo
Me: Let's talk in person when we get a chance.
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Him: (from a voicemail he'd left because I got upset with him again) I want to tell you something... you're the only one who I care about when you're upset, confused. I just want you to be happy. I want us to be happy. Nobody else, I don't care who, not even my best friend, would I care how they feel if they get upset at me. Please sweetie, I'm sorry, please forgive me. Please call me. xoxo
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Him: no, get one room, 2 beds (this is for our upcoming trip)
Me: Uh, okay... but I feel weird about that.
Him: But sweetie, wouldn't that be better? I can hardly wait for our trip sweetie!!! xoxo
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Him: Sweetie, I will always do my best for you and for us. (our business). I'm so excited about our trip!! xoxo
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>>>>>>>>>> these are just a glimpse of some of the things that has transpired between us. And what would your interpretation would be? Now, he says he doesn't feel any romantic feelings towards me because he had seen other people who were in partnership become involved and the business failed. My debate was, really? I've seen just the opposite.
UGH! I'm done! I'm going to just consider this as a partnership! NO MORE TERMS OF ENDEARMENT WHICH CONFUSES THE HECK OUT OF ME!
I'm going to start serial dating again because I am ready for a relationship! I want a relationship! I want the closeness and I'm NOT doing it
Him: (went to some concert with one of his sisters) Hi sweetie, I came out of the concert to respond to your email. Yes, sweetie, I'm having a good time with Lisa (his sister) and here's a pic of us (attaches a pic of them) I will send you more pics xoxo
Me: Thank you sweetie, enjoy the concert. xoxo
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Him: Hi sweetie, I stepped out of the doctors office to text you. Mom's doing better (he took his mom to the doctor because of her COPD). We're almost done. I'll call you once we get out. xoxo
Me: Okay sweetie, I hope your Mom feels better. ttyl xox
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Him: Nobody else knows my fears, not even Doug (his best friend) I have never divulge anything to anybody as much as I have with you. You're my best friend. Please reconsider (I was considering of dissolving our partnership at this point and he didn't want to loose my friendship and me above anything). xoxo
Me: Let's talk in person when we get a chance.
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Him: (from a voicemail he'd left because I got upset with him again) I want to tell you something... you're the only one who I care about when you're upset, confused. I just want you to be happy. I want us to be happy. Nobody else, I don't care who, not even my best friend, would I care how they feel if they get upset at me. Please sweetie, I'm sorry, please forgive me. Please call me. xoxo
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Him: no, get one room, 2 beds (this is for our upcoming trip)
Me: Uh, okay... but I feel weird about that.
Him: But sweetie, wouldn't that be better? I can hardly wait for our trip sweetie!!! xoxo
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Him: Sweetie, I will always do my best for you and for us. (our business). I'm so excited about our trip!! xoxo
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>>>>>>>>>> these are just a glimpse of some of the things that has transpired between us. And what would your interpretation would be? Now, he says he doesn't feel any romantic feelings towards me because he had seen other people who were in partnership become involved and the business failed. My debate was, really? I've seen just the opposite.
UGH! I'm done! I'm going to just consider this as a partnership! NO MORE TERMS OF ENDEARMENT WHICH CONFUSES THE HECK OUT OF ME!
I'm going to start serial dating again because I am ready for a relationship! I want a relationship! I want the closeness and I'm NOT doing it
Him: Sweetie, there are no other girls... I'm not interested in other girls... you're my sweetie and I care a lot about you. You know when I call you sweetie, that word is loaded. Please don't be mad at me. xoxo
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Him: Sweetie, I miss you so much. I can hardly wait to see you. xoxo
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Him: I have a countdown clock on my phone for our trip! I can't wait to go to other places with you. I want to go to all of the places you and I have discussed. xoxo
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Him: Sweetie, I'm sorry I've been in this meeting all day long. I don't mean to neglect you. I'll call you as soon as it's done. xoxo
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Him: Sweetie, where are you? I've been texting and calling you! I left you two messages. Please call me. I miss you. xoxo
UGH!
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Him: Sweetie, I miss you so much. I can hardly wait to see you. xoxo
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Him: I have a countdown clock on my phone for our trip! I can't wait to go to other places with you. I want to go to all of the places you and I have discussed. xoxo
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Him: Sweetie, I'm sorry I've been in this meeting all day long. I don't mean to neglect you. I'll call you as soon as it's done. xoxo
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Him: Sweetie, where are you? I've been texting and calling you! I left you two messages. Please call me. I miss you. xoxo
UGH!
Him: You're beautiful inside and out
Him: I appreciate you.
Him: I always enjoy our time together sweetie.
Him: I'm sorry to have upset you sweetie.. really, from the bottom of my heart. Please don't be mad sweetie.
Him: I'm thinking of you sweetie. xoxo
Him: Hi sweetie, just want to let you know I'm thinking about you. xoxo
Him: xoxo
Him: Sweetie, I'll call you as soon as I'm done with our meeting. xoxo
Him: You always know how to make me smile, honestly sweetie... you're the only one who does that to me. I miss you. xoxo
Him: Sweetie, my family wants you to come over more often. I want you to come over more often. I know it scares you, but please try to not be scared. xoxo
Him: I appreciate you.
Him: I always enjoy our time together sweetie.
Him: I'm sorry to have upset you sweetie.. really, from the bottom of my heart. Please don't be mad sweetie.
Him: I'm thinking of you sweetie. xoxo
Him: Hi sweetie, just want to let you know I'm thinking about you. xoxo
Him: xoxo
Him: Sweetie, I'll call you as soon as I'm done with our meeting. xoxo
Him: You always know how to make me smile, honestly sweetie... you're the only one who does that to me. I miss you. xoxo
Him: Sweetie, my family wants you to come over more often. I want you to come over more often. I know it scares you, but please try to not be scared. xoxo
Is that it, creepy? More like, "I want you to stop confusing me! Get away from me you crazy, confusing man!"
I can go on and on! I just got off the phone with him! It's barely 630am Sunday morning because his church starts at 7am and mine is at 730am! He called to say "good morning sweetie and have a blessed day" then he texted me... XOXO after we hung up.
Then we're going to a short trip north next Saturday, one week prior to our big trip.
I can go on and on! I just got off the phone with him! It's barely 630am Sunday morning because his church starts at 7am and mine is at 730am! He called to say "good morning sweetie and have a blessed day" then he texted me... XOXO after we hung up.
Then we're going to a short trip north next Saturday, one week prior to our big trip.
Posted by s4nd
there there sweetie! :p
11th house sun?
LOL! I don't know how to interpret charts, and I don't know his exact birth time, but here it is:
Here's my Taurus man's natal chart
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Taurus 23.23
Moon Sagittarius 27.59
Mercury Taurus 6.51
Venus Aries 26.06
Mars Aries 28.57
Jupiter Leo 2.37
Saturn Virgo 7.06
Uranus Scorpio 18.47 R
Neptune Sagittarius 19.49 R
Pluto Libra 16.56 R
Lilith Leo 23.44
Asc node Virgo 15.12
Here's mine
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Leo 19.39 Ascendant Capricorn 19.10
Moon Libra 17.45 II Aquarius 21.58
Mercury Virgo 15.45 III Pisces 26.23
Venus Cancer 5.10 IV Aries 28.50
Mars Cancer 8.23 V Taurus 27.21
Jupiter Taurus 24.21 VI Gemini 23.12
Saturn Pisces 2.36 R VII Cancer 19.10
Uranus Virgo 9.07 VIII Leo 21.58
Neptune Scorpio 15.08 IX Virgo 26.23
Pluto Virgo 13.08 Midheaven Libra 28.50
Lilith Sagittarius 23.27 XI Scorpio 27.21
Asc node Cancer 0.58 XII Sagittarius 23.12
I have no clue how to read or interpret charts.
Any interpretation would be appreciated.
Posted by s4nd
well houses are drawn from the ascendant and we don't have birth time so...
is he a horse year? damn now i know y that sweetie butter creeps me out!
Words become cheap when over used, his way of using sweetie constantly takes the meaningful affection straight out of it ...
Perhaps you should take a breathe, instead of analyzing his words to death driving yourself insane, look at his actions instead.
Posted by s4nd
there there sweetie! :p
11th house sun?
whats wrong with an 11th house sun 😛?
Lol @ all those "sweeties". That'd annoy me.
Posted by s4nd
well houses are drawn from the ascendant and we don't have birth time so...
is he a horse year? damn now i know y that sweetie butter creeps me out!
he was born the year of the goat/sheep.
Darn! I miss my church! I fell back to sleep! UGH! He's friggin driving me insane! I want to just dump his lame a $ s and dissolve the partnership all toghther! I don't care about him anymore!
BTW, I'm wood Dragon... yup, A Leo, Dragon woman. How much stronger do I need to be? 🙂
Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by s4nd
well houses are drawn from the ascendant and we don't have birth time so...
is he a horse year? damn now i know y that sweetie butter creeps me out!
Words become cheap when over used, his way of using sweetie constantly takes the meaningful affection straight out of it ...
Perhaps you should take a breathe, instead of analyzing his words to death driving yourself insane, look at his actions instead.click to expand
I agree, that's why I i'd asked him to stop using it and he nearly bawled his eyes out because "it's you, my nickname for you and you're the only one in my life sweetie, there are no other woman nor am I interested in others"..
He'd do anything for me. He'd flown to Asia, touched ground for 26 hours and flew right back because I'd asked him to do so... we'd just hugged and held each other... he'd kissed me, but not on the lips. He'd moved half of my huge house by himself... he'd do anything for me except slam me on my desk, hike up my skirt and give me a concussion because he loves and respects me so much. Shyte, forget respect at this point! LOL I'm going to dump his lame as $ !
Posted by WaterCupPosted by s4nd
there there sweetie! :p
11th house sun?
whats wrong with an 11th house sun 😛?
Lol @ all those "sweeties". That'd annoy me.click to expand
RIGHT?! xoxo
I'm so done!
Posted by Jynja
cont:
From the last thread, I mentioned you being hard on him. You demand his time and attention and leave the man teetering the edges of a sharp knife. Fall one way, he gets cut. Fall the other way, he gets cut. He loses anyway.
Yeah, I think that might be it Jynga. I need to calm donw. I dumped my FWB for him. Now, I have to find another! UGH! I need to get laid so I can calm down. 🙂 I just need to hang on to my next FWB while I work on this one. UGH! frustrations!
Posted by Jynja
So it's sexual tension. Don't you have a rabbit or vibrator or something so you can stop getting frustrated?
He won't release that cock till he's sure of himself though.
Anywayz........................................................
Thank Heavens for Mars in Scorp and control. lol
Girl, I have a treasure chest of toys. I've already broken 2 since I let go of my fwb two months ago. 😄 I know, I "need" that.. I need the real thing. I have such a high drive to begin with. I have a big rechargable battery station! HAHAHA! I have Duracell stocks! LOL
Thanks for interpreting my chart... and your sound advise. I will show this man that being business partners and romantically involved can succeed and happen.
I need to calm down. 🙂
And here's something from just a week ago today!
Him: Sweetie, I promise, when things get better for me financially I will give you a couple of all day spa (which I love) and take you shopping and buy you things you want. I promise sweetie.
Now, tell me how any woman would interpret that! ugh!
Him: Sweetie, I promise, when things get better for me financially I will give you a couple of all day spa (which I love) and take you shopping and buy you things you want. I promise sweetie.
Now, tell me how any woman would interpret that! ugh!
Finding a FWB would be no problem... I do have certain stipulations.
One thing I know will happen is my time and attention towards my Taurus man will diminish and I would be calmer. I know he'd notice it because he was chasing me in the beginning when I divided my time and energy with my FWB. I can't get him back because he got hurt... my FWB knew I was dumping him for my Taurus man and I don't care what anybody says, two people having sex, supposedly NSA both are still bound to feel something for each other. So, I've lost him completely and for good.
But from me releasing some of this pent up energy and not taking it out on my Taurus man, that may change things between us.
I guess I'll have to try. I really love this man and I am in love with him to the point that I'm still willing to try... but I'm on the verge of dumping him too. I know contradicting myself.
Any other advise would be appreciated.
One thing I know will happen is my time and attention towards my Taurus man will diminish and I would be calmer. I know he'd notice it because he was chasing me in the beginning when I divided my time and energy with my FWB. I can't get him back because he got hurt... my FWB knew I was dumping him for my Taurus man and I don't care what anybody says, two people having sex, supposedly NSA both are still bound to feel something for each other. So, I've lost him completely and for good.
But from me releasing some of this pent up energy and not taking it out on my Taurus man, that may change things between us.
I guess I'll have to try. I really love this man and I am in love with him to the point that I'm still willing to try... but I'm on the verge of dumping him too. I know contradicting myself.
Any other advise would be appreciated.
Lmao @ JessiedLeo. You're annoyed because he doesnt give you sex? Many women would love to be with a guy who doesnt rush sex.
Posted by WaterCup
Lmao @ JessiedLeo. You're annoyed because he doesnt give you sex? Many women would love to be with a guy who doesnt rush sex.
Yeah, but 7 months? Seven months! LOL I am one of those women too, but 7 months? A woman can only hold out for so long! 🙂
Posted by tizianiPosted by JessiedLeo
Finding a FWB would be no problem... I do have certain stipulations.
One thing I know will happen is my time and attention towards my Taurus man will diminish and I would be calmer. I know he'd notice it because he was chasing me in the beginning when I divided my time and energy with my FWB. I can't get him back because he got hurt... my FWB knew I was dumping him for my Taurus man and I don't care what anybody says, two people having sex, supposedly NSA both are still bound to feel something for each other. So, I've lost him completely and for good.
But from me releasing some of this pent up energy and not taking it out on my Taurus man, that may change things between us.
I guess I'll have to try. I really love this man and I am in love with him to the point that I'm still willing to try... but I'm on the verge of dumping him too. I know contradicting myself.
Any other advise would be appreciated.
Source of all your problems right here. All I can say.click to expand
I had feelings for my FWB, I liked him, but didn't love him. I love and in love with my Taurus man. I let go of my FWB, and my FWB was falling in love with me and that's why I completely lost him and I know he'd never go back to me. 😢
Yeah, 7 mnths is a long time. He sounds like a good guy thou, be patient lol. He might be worth the wait, if you know what I mean 😉
Posted by WaterCup
Yeah, 7 mnths is a long time. He sounds like a good guy thou, be patient lol. He might be worth the wait, if you know what I mean 😉
Yeah, I'll work on this guy... I've been patient. I'll be more patient.
Posted by tiziani
Yeah but part of your reasoning for expectations with this Taurus man is "I gave up someone for you". Hence, being with you has an emotional price to pay already before the relationship has begun. Men may not overtly tell you this, but our bs detector kicks in and we won't commit to paying the price for other people's baggage.
Nope, my Taurus guy never knew about my FWB and never will... I'm good at keeping things and this one, I've kept it underwraps and never gave my Taurus man an inkling that there was another man in my life... It was my choice to give up my FWB and no, I never led on that I'm exchanging one for the other... I thought I'd be able to handle not going for a while without sex, but I underestimated myself. That was my fault. Now, I need to find another FWB, darn!
Posted by JessiedLeoPosted by WaterCup
Yeah, 7 mnths is a long time. He sounds like a good guy thou, be patient lol. He might be worth the wait, if you know what I mean 😉
Yeah, I'll work on this guy... I've been patient. I'll be more patient.click to expand
is he a virgin or super religious?
Posted by WaterCupPosted by JessiedLeoPosted by WaterCup
Yeah, 7 mnths is a long time. He sounds like a good guy thou, be patient lol. He might be worth the wait, if you know what I mean 😉
Yeah, I'll work on this guy... I've been patient. I'll be more patient.
is he a virgin or super religious?click to expand
Yes, he spends half or most of his day at church every Sunday.
Posted by tiziani
Ok, so emotionally you were tied to another man. Your every other post in here suggests it's been on your mind what you feel you gave up to "love" this Taurus guy... and you believe that none of this would show in your behaviour towards him?
Think of the odds/practicality of that actually being likely. Like I said, it doesn't have to be overt for a guy's instinct to kick in and instead beat around the bush. This is a Taurus and they are kings of judging what's a good deal and what isn't. That's really all I can say. Not going to argue with you over your feelings and what you want. You seem decided. But it's logical that if you begun under these circumstances then this is how it ended up, right back at square 1.
I can't post too much detail on here... but, he came to me because of this project/business because he wanted to be part of something bigger than what life's offering and he saw I've been helping thousands of people for a very long time. It was my brainchild idea. Bullshyte is not my style . I'm very direct and my heart is bigger than my ego and everyone in this forum put together. My fault is my sexual drive... I have to have it and that's my shortcoming. I've had men in my past complain that I'm too sexual. And I have fallen in love with this man.
Posted by s4ndPosted by JessiedLeoPosted by WaterCup
Lmao @ JessiedLeo. You're annoyed because he doesnt give you sex? Many women would love to be with a guy who doesnt rush sex.
Yeah, but 7 months? Seven months! LOL I am one of those women too, but 7 months? A woman can only hold out for so long! 🙂
what if he gives it to you hard... for 7 seconds? :p MARS IN ARIES!!!click to expand
lmao. True story.
Posted by JessiedLeoPosted by tiziani
Ok, so emotionally you were tied to another man. Your every other post in here suggests it's been on your mind what you feel you gave up to "love" this Taurus guy... and you believe that none of this would show in your behaviour towards him?
Think of the odds/practicality of that actually being likely. Like I said, it doesn't have to be overt for a guy's instinct to kick in and instead beat around the bush. This is a Taurus and they are kings of judging what's a good deal and what isn't. That's really all I can say. Not going to argue with you over your feelings and what you want. You seem decided. But it's logical that if you begun under these circumstances then this is how it ended up, right back at square 1.
I can't post too much detail on here... but, he came to me because of this project/business because he wanted to be part of something bigger than what life's offering and he saw I've been helping thousands of people for a very long time. It was my brainchild idea. Bullshyte is not my style . I'm very direct and my heart is bigger than my ego and everyone in this forum put together. My fault is my sexual drive... I have to have it and that's my shortcoming. I've had men in my past complain that I'm too sexual. And I have fallen in love with this man.click to expand
And no, I was physically tied to my FWB.. I'm not a robot with a vagina, but I did like the guy in order for me to jump in the sack with him. LOL
Posted by JessiedLeoPosted by WaterCupPosted by JessiedLeoPosted by WaterCup
Yeah, 7 mnths is a long time. He sounds like a good guy thou, be patient lol. He might be worth the wait, if you know what I mean 😉
Yeah, I'll work on this guy... I've been patient. I'll be more patient.
is he a virgin or super religious?
Yes, he spends half or most of his day at church every Sunday.click to expand
ooh yeah, good luck with that.
Posted by s4ndPosted by JessiedLeoPosted by WaterCup
Lmao @ JessiedLeo. You're annoyed because he doesnt give you sex? Many women would love to be with a guy who doesnt rush sex.
Yeah, but 7 months? Seven months! LOL I am one of those women too, but 7 months? A woman can only hold out for so long! 🙂
what if he gives it to you hard... for 7 seconds? :p MARS IN ARIES!!!click to expand
LOL he better knock me out! what does that mean though...
Posted by s4nd
In a man??s chart, Lilith represents the type of woman he fears, and craves, the most. It is the type of woman that can drive him over the edge with obsession and desire.
In synastry, Lilith brings an untamed, wild sexual energy, feelings of obsession, and intense, transformative interactions. When your Lilith aspects your someone's planet (especially the Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, or the Ascendant), you are magnetically attracted to this person, and can't get them out of your mind. This aspect shows an amazing amount of sexual chemistry and an obsessive attraction.
Like Pluto, Lilith aspects in synastry act to draw out each person??s sexuality. Lilith sex is tantric, obsessive, and highly addictive. Couples with strong Lilith in synastry have an incredibly strong sexual attraction to one another, and it is difficult to keep them apart! Logic does not apply in Lilith relationships. Indeed, Lilith is what makes a man end a 20-year marriage out of the blue. Indeed, Lilith??s reputation as a —home wrecker?? is well deserved. On the plus side, she can break someone free of their safe, habitual behavior.
Lilith relationships do not usually last, unless there are other supportive aspects. Couples with strong Lilith synastry aspects often break down due to feelings of unworthiness, rage, and revenge. Sometimes, the Lilith person keeps the planet person under her spell until she has succeeded in destroying the life of the planet person.
lulz he has lilith in leo conjunct your sun.
What does that mean?
Whoa! Before you guys judge.this.is just a glimpse! He pulled far more crap than what I'd posted.in here. Were supposed to be 50/50 yet it's more like 80;20 with me carrying the 80. We've lost 3 huge clients because of his lazyness and not pulling his weight which would've helped hundreds more people with jobs and it could.any if the people who are unemployed in here or someone you may know. And he is constantly missing deadlines which jeopardizes the clients we have and hence making more people go into the unemployment line. And that's not even half of what he'd pulled! People's liveluhoid are at stake and he was the one who approvhed me and wanted to help.
Yeah tell me if you would've walked by mow from someone like him after jeopardizing people's livelihood r their family, community etc.
I just can't post too many details. Unemployment is still high and millions of people have given up. On one if the few who came up with a brilliant idea that's.slowly catching on. Excuse my typos.
Yeah tell me if you would've walked by mow from someone like him after jeopardizing people's livelihood r their family, community etc.
I just can't post too many details. Unemployment is still high and millions of people have given up. On one if the few who came up with a brilliant idea that's.slowly catching on. Excuse my typos.
Just judging by the snippets you??ve provided, my observation is that he seems a bit —needy??, probably insecure and unsure of where he stands at this time (which us Taureans HATE--who wouldn't?). Also seems to be over-sharing, but that's my opinion.
On the use of the word —sweetie??--I would personally find it irritating if somebody used it constantly, and I don't particularly like pet names (—hon?? or —darling?? being somewhat acceptable :-p). Can definitely sympathize there.
—Now, he says he doesn't feel any romantic feelings towards me because he had seen other people who were in partnership become involved and the business failed. My debate was, really? I've seen just the opposite.??
Yeah, he certainly seems to be —into you??, at least in a sense that he feels something beyond purely professional, platonic mannerisms.
—UGH! I'm done! I'm going to just consider this as a partnership! NO MORE TERMS OF ENDEARMENT WHICH CONFUSES THE HECK OUT OF ME!??
So, what is it going to be? A partnership? A romantic relationship? Both? Seems like there's a need for more communication and discussion, especially because of the fact that the two of you have to work together on a regular basis. Kinda hard to disengage when your beau is your supervisor or co-worker.
—Here's my Taurus man's natal chart
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Taurus 23.23
Moon Sagittarius 27.59 ...??
Hmm, I'm also a Sun-Taurus/Moon-Sagittarius. Interesting...
On the use of the word —sweetie??--I would personally find it irritating if somebody used it constantly, and I don't particularly like pet names (—hon?? or —darling?? being somewhat acceptable :-p). Can definitely sympathize there.
—Now, he says he doesn't feel any romantic feelings towards me because he had seen other people who were in partnership become involved and the business failed. My debate was, really? I've seen just the opposite.??
Yeah, he certainly seems to be —into you??, at least in a sense that he feels something beyond purely professional, platonic mannerisms.
—UGH! I'm done! I'm going to just consider this as a partnership! NO MORE TERMS OF ENDEARMENT WHICH CONFUSES THE HECK OUT OF ME!??
So, what is it going to be? A partnership? A romantic relationship? Both? Seems like there's a need for more communication and discussion, especially because of the fact that the two of you have to work together on a regular basis. Kinda hard to disengage when your beau is your supervisor or co-worker.
—Here's my Taurus man's natal chart
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Taurus 23.23
Moon Sagittarius 27.59 ...??
Hmm, I'm also a Sun-Taurus/Moon-Sagittarius. Interesting...
Jynga, thank you for your support, your constructive criticisms and for keeping my head straight. I will do all that. I'm crazy about this guy and at the same time, insanely crazy about just walking away so I would no longer go nuts. I'm learning to be patient. And unfortunately, it's not one of my best assets.
Thank you again. 🙂
Thank you again. 🙂
Anyway, my suggestion is that you take a breather for a little while. Step back, think about his actions (rather than his words, which you seem to scrutinize so frequently). You said that you —love him and [you??re] in love with him??, but I find that doubtful. Sorry (not really). I'm a Taurus too, and I find it difficult to tolerate the facet of a Leo??s personality that you??ve shown in this thread. Maybe he's an incompetent employee--okay, that's irritating, to say the least, but let's focus on the (non)relationship issue. You??re a —strong woman??, great at what you do, a hero for the people, etc., etc. Similar to what Jynja said, you??re placing this guy on a double-edged sword, and no matter what he does, he gets cut. It's unfair, it's overly critical, and it's demeaning.
—...I'm very direct and my heart is bigger than my ego and everyone in this forum put together.??
Funny how ironic this statement is. :-p
Anyway (twists cork stoppers onto her horns)...
If you want this man, and you are truly —in love??--put a damper on the raging fire for a little while. Taureans are also beasts of the zodiac, and we are not —led to water?? by force. (I, for one, do not wish to be tamed. I need someone who can be just as wild as me...) Instead of whinging, mocking, and/or criticizing, consider gentle persuasion. We can be gentle but fierce, formidable but vulnerable, placid yet passionate... Show us love, devotion, loyalty, affection, passion, honesty, RESPECT. That is how one can keep us; we return these feelings 10 fold to those whom we adore.
On the other hand, if you want to drive this man out of your life, continue what you??re doing. Even if he's feeling needy and/or insecure, he *is* a bull, and he??ll gather up his dignity real quick if push comes to shove.
Lions and bulls can have a wonderful, deep connection (I know this from recent experience). If you wanna create a healthy relationship with this guy and not just relieve your sexual frustration, you gotta aim for a much deeper understanding.
—...I'm very direct and my heart is bigger than my ego and everyone in this forum put together.??
Funny how ironic this statement is. :-p
Anyway (twists cork stoppers onto her horns)...
If you want this man, and you are truly —in love??--put a damper on the raging fire for a little while. Taureans are also beasts of the zodiac, and we are not —led to water?? by force. (I, for one, do not wish to be tamed. I need someone who can be just as wild as me...) Instead of whinging, mocking, and/or criticizing, consider gentle persuasion. We can be gentle but fierce, formidable but vulnerable, placid yet passionate... Show us love, devotion, loyalty, affection, passion, honesty, RESPECT. That is how one can keep us; we return these feelings 10 fold to those whom we adore.
On the other hand, if you want to drive this man out of your life, continue what you??re doing. Even if he's feeling needy and/or insecure, he *is* a bull, and he??ll gather up his dignity real quick if push comes to shove.
Lions and bulls can have a wonderful, deep connection (I know this from recent experience). If you wanna create a healthy relationship with this guy and not just relieve your sexual frustration, you gotta aim for a much deeper understanding.
Posted by Amjaro
Just judging by the snippets you??ve provided, my observation is that he seems a bit —needy??, probably insecure and unsure of where he stands at this time (which us Taureans HATE--who wouldn't?). Also seems to be over-sharing, but that's my opinion.
On the use of the word —sweetie??--I would personally find it irritating if somebody used it constantly, and I don't particularly like pet names (—hon?? or —darling?? being somewhat acceptable :-p). Can definitely sympathize there.
—Now, he says he doesn't feel any romantic feelings towards me because he had seen other people who were in partnership become involved and the business failed. My debate was, really? I've seen just the opposite.??
Yeah, he certainly seems to be —into you??, at least in a sense that he feels something beyond purely professional, platonic mannerisms.
—UGH! I'm done! I'm going to just consider this as a partnership! NO MORE TERMS OF ENDEARMENT WHICH CONFUSES THE HECK OUT OF ME!??
So, what is it going to be? A partnership? A romantic relationship? Both? Seems like there's a need for more communication and discussion, especially because of the fact that the two of you have to work together on a regular basis. Kinda hard to disengage when your beau is your supervisor or co-worker.
—Here's my Taurus man's natal chart
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Taurus 23.23
Moon Sagittarius 27.59 ...??
Hmm, I'm also a Sun-Taurus/Moon-Sagittarius. Interesting...
Thank you. I know he's completely into me. He hears me. He listens to me. When we hug, he just holds me so tightly... and buries his head on my neck and I can feel his warm breath which totally drives me insane. Sometimes, when we lay in bed to talk, just to bond, shoot the breeze, nothing about business, our feet find each other and we just lay there and laugh, talk, stare at each other for hours. Then church, we go to each other's churches... he sings in the choir and I play the piano in mine. We go to each other's masses so we can watch/listen to each other. We share so many intimate details of our lives and it's hard not to get involved with someone like that.
I'm sure this will come up again because like Jynga said, the tension can be cut with a knife, a saw, a sword, anything sharp. It's electric. I know he feels the same way about me... but like you said, he
Posted by Amjaro
Anyway, my suggestion is that you take a breather for a little while. Step back, think about his actions (rather than his words, which you seem to scrutinize so frequently). You said that you —love him and [you??re] in love with him??, but I find that doubtful. Sorry (not really). I'm a Taurus too, and I find it difficult to tolerate the facet of a Leo??s personality that you??ve shown in this thread. Maybe he's an incompetent employee--okay, that's irritating, to say the least, but let's focus on the (non)relationship issue. You??re a —strong woman??, great at what you do, a hero for the people, etc., etc. Similar to what Jynja said, you??re placing this guy on a double-edged sword, and no matter what he does, he gets cut. It's unfair, it's overly critical, and it's demeaning.
—...I'm very direct and my heart is bigger than my ego and everyone in this forum put together.??
Funny how ironic this statement is. :-p
Anyway (twists cork stoppers onto her horns)...
If you want this man, and you are truly —in love??--put a damper on the raging fire for a little while. Taureans are also beasts of the zodiac, and we are not —led to water?? by force. (I, for one, do not wish to be tamed. I need someone who can be just as wild as me...) Instead of whinging, mocking, and/or criticizing, consider gentle persuasion. We can be gentle but fierce, formidable but vulnerable, placid yet passionate... Show us love, devotion, loyalty, affection, passion, honesty, RESPECT. That is how one can keep us; we return these feelings 10 fold to those whom we adore.
On the other hand, if you want to drive this man out of your life, continue what you??re doing. Even if he's feeling needy and/or insecure, he *is* a bull, and he??ll gather up his dignity real quick if push comes to shove.
Lions and bulls can have a wonderful, deep connection (I know this from recent experience). If you wanna create a healthy relationship with this guy and not just relieve your sexual frustration, you gotta aim for a much deeper understanding.
Thank you... I need to hear that. I need to take a deeper look at the big picture. I will calm down.
I'll show him those qualities you'd mentioned and that I'm capable of. I need to stop listening to my Cancer mother. She knows how, and which buttons to push with me which gets me all riled up.
Thank
Posted by s4nd
i have a confession... I TOO have used sweetie often. :p
really? His first terms of endearment to me was "dearest"... but it quickly changed to sweetie.
I like the terms of endearment... it's hard for me to let it go. I tried... but it's so sweet.
I just need to be more patient. ah! 🙂
I'd like to thank you guys for putting it straight to me. I really don't have anybody I can completely vent to anonymously. I can't vent too much to my friends for they're very protective of me and I don't want them to retaliate against my Taurus man. He is a good guy and all of what happened were both our faults.
Since I've read all of your constructive criticisms and sound advice, I took some time to think about my actions. I have decided to change my ways and so far, I'm succeeding.
First, I've decided to calm down. Reviewed all of the recent frustrations between he and I and left where it belongs... in the past. I've decided to give it a "fresh" chance and became less angry, less frustrated and channeled them to where my frustrations belong, to other people rather than to my Taurus man.
We've also decided to have a cut off time from working with each other. It's still late, but it's not as late as we used to. I've realized that after a certain amount of time working, we both become cranky. We're both industrious, stubborn, persistent and refuse to stop, and that's when trouble starts.
I've also decided to respect him. I realized he doesn't give me any boundaries. So, I've established a few for him for our sake. I think he's afraid that I'd walk again... which he'd asked me to reassure him recently that I wouldn't despite all of our recent ups and downs.
So far, it's working. We haven't fought since last Thursday, when it all came to a head.
Thank you again. I needed to vent, and needed to hear your sound advises.
Since I've read all of your constructive criticisms and sound advice, I took some time to think about my actions. I have decided to change my ways and so far, I'm succeeding.
First, I've decided to calm down. Reviewed all of the recent frustrations between he and I and left where it belongs... in the past. I've decided to give it a "fresh" chance and became less angry, less frustrated and channeled them to where my frustrations belong, to other people rather than to my Taurus man.
We've also decided to have a cut off time from working with each other. It's still late, but it's not as late as we used to. I've realized that after a certain amount of time working, we both become cranky. We're both industrious, stubborn, persistent and refuse to stop, and that's when trouble starts.
I've also decided to respect him. I realized he doesn't give me any boundaries. So, I've established a few for him for our sake. I think he's afraid that I'd walk again... which he'd asked me to reassure him recently that I wouldn't despite all of our recent ups and downs.
So far, it's working. We haven't fought since last Thursday, when it all came to a head.
Thank you again. I needed to vent, and needed to hear your sound advises.
Glad to offer a helpful perspective, JessiedLeo. Yeah, it's sometimes difficult to find people who can listen (somewhat) objectively. Friends mean well, but aren't always capable of providing the right outlet.
Sharing a work and romantic relationship seems tricky, to say the least. I've yet to experience such a situation myself, so I can't fully understand your position, but nonetheless, it's good that you are working on establishing some new, healthy boundaries!
I think that Leo-Taurus relations can be quite rocky at times: two strong-willed people with similar stubborn, persistent, tenacious qualities. My newest piece of advice: focus on working with, rather than against, each other; please do try to survive the good and bad times without tearing each other apart. 😉
If you want to vent about anything else in the future, you know what to do!
Sharing a work and romantic relationship seems tricky, to say the least. I've yet to experience such a situation myself, so I can't fully understand your position, but nonetheless, it's good that you are working on establishing some new, healthy boundaries!
I think that Leo-Taurus relations can be quite rocky at times: two strong-willed people with similar stubborn, persistent, tenacious qualities. My newest piece of advice: focus on working with, rather than against, each other; please do try to survive the good and bad times without tearing each other apart. 😉
If you want to vent about anything else in the future, you know what to do!
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Me: That's fine as long as you don't pull this s h y t e again! I am not your babysitter.
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