Is he really interested?
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Gemi2 on Sunday, August 13, 2017 and has 2 replies.
Met a Taurus on line three mons ago, still not meet yet. He's in the states, I'm in a different country.
After nearly 3weeks texting, he told me he wanted a relationship with me one night, and 2days later we are in an exclusive relationship, sounds crazy h, just a few calls, not even on video.
We are in our forties. He said he's an attorney and I chose to trust him. It seems he's really busy. The first month looks like a sweet period. I initiated the text often and he texted back though late ans brief.
He called me often, but since I'm a single mum, taking care of the kid let me missed some of them. But, totally, video calls before or after the sleep or from the office sound great.
The next month, he's very busy, text or calls ignored. He suggested me using whatsapp, because the one we currently use is difficult to notice. I'm just confusing how he noticed last month. In recent two weeks, he's on a business trip to another city, busy, not text or called once the whole week. Only replied my message on the Sunday night and said he's busy this weekend. I knew he's in a travel and where, but don't know when be back, I didn't take the ignore thing two seriously since he's a lawyer. He contacted me when hes back and let me call him when I woke up. But, when I called home, he's not there. This is always the case, he seems just not there or forget it, then not call back. The longest call we ever had is the first one last nearly 2hs, but after that, sometimes only in 20mins, he's in a hurry to go to gym or go out with friends on the weekend. Weekend is precious fir the busy man. I can understand that.
two months ago, he asked when we would meet. I told him I was planning to meet him in his place. I'm working on it like I promised. But, he seems so cold and careless these days, i know man should focus on work, especially he's a Taurus, but I'm still confused if he really still is interested in this. Should I trust him we are still in an exclusive relationships?
Is the cold state a normal thing in taurus first stage of relationship, especially when he focused on his job? If he's not so interested, why dragged me into a relationship so quickly? We don't even have any sex talk, he said when it's about the marriage, the spiritual connection is more important.
After nearly 3weeks texting, he told me he wanted a relationship with me one night, and 2days later we are in an exclusive relationship, sounds crazy h, just a few calls, not even on video.
We are in our forties. He said he's an attorney and I chose to trust him. It seems he's really busy. The first month looks like a sweet period. I initiated the text often and he texted back though late ans brief.
He called me often, but since I'm a single mum, taking care of the kid let me missed some of them. But, totally, video calls before or after the sleep or from the office sound great.
The next month, he's very busy, text or calls ignored. He suggested me using whatsapp, because the one we currently use is difficult to notice. I'm just confusing how he noticed last month. In recent two weeks, he's on a business trip to another city, busy, not text or called once the whole week. Only replied my message on the Sunday night and said he's busy this weekend. I knew he's in a travel and where, but don't know when be back, I didn't take the ignore thing two seriously since he's a lawyer. He contacted me when hes back and let me call him when I woke up. But, when I called home, he's not there. This is always the case, he seems just not there or forget it, then not call back. The longest call we ever had is the first one last nearly 2hs, but after that, sometimes only in 20mins, he's in a hurry to go to gym or go out with friends on the weekend. Weekend is precious fir the busy man. I can understand that.
two months ago, he asked when we would meet. I told him I was planning to meet him in his place. I'm working on it like I promised. But, he seems so cold and careless these days, i know man should focus on work, especially he's a Taurus, but I'm still confused if he really still is interested in this. Should I trust him we are still in an exclusive relationships?
Is the cold state a normal thing in taurus first stage of relationship, especially when he focused on his job? If he's not so interested, why dragged me into a relationship so quickly? We don't even have any sex talk, he said when it's about the marriage, the spiritual connection is more important.
Taurus man here... Somethings very wrong, none of his behavior makes any sense to me.
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