is this bad advice.

In "a good kind of cancer" SagiTAUries writes "sweetcrab, tell him you have a boyfriend-- that should buy you some time."

Wouldn't this be wrong because I'm not supposed to make a Taurus jealous. Any way for those who followed that thread, I decided to give up and take it for what it was: Just sex. I see him in passing but it's awkward between us. Talked to my friend yesterday who says he asked about me again and said he would call me last night. Guess my phone really is broken. But I hear it ring all the time.

So I give up. And by "give up" I mean I'm going to obsess over it for days and weeks and months and (oh no) possible years until another taurus comes along to replace him. The cycle never ends. Why can't cancers let go?

SweetCrab,

Yes, give him up. It's like you and him have played this cat and mouse game. Neither of you speak in terms of how you feel about each other. As I told you in the other thread, we Tauruses don't say how we feel about someone unless we truly mean it. That goes for male or female Taurus. I have been accused of not having feelings for someone at the same level as them and when they said they loved me, I would say "Thank you" instead of "I love you, too". When we say it, we mean it.

Secondly, I missed the part that he stayed over, woke up, but left without telling you goodbye. I personally wouldn't do that. It's common courtesy to wake them up to let them know you're leaving - especially if you have the kind of lock that you have to physically turn from the inside. I would be mad knowing that my door wasn't locked while I was sleeping.

We do love to touch and be touched, so what he was doing with you in terms of affection is what we do. It's not teasing, it's not that intimate, but it is affection.

There is another side to the Taurus male: Don Juan-ism. Taurus has a very charming nature, but Taurus men take it for granted.

I'm not sure how long you dated this Taurus or if it was a fling, but I do say to walk away from this one and not look back.

I would not tell him you have a boyfriend - that could backfire - meaning you might do that expecting one reaction, but you get something totally different. And that will only leave you feeling exactly the way you do now, if not worse.

manure is the correct way to spell that.

and if other people agree or disagree with me about Taurus men having this reputation, then please speak up. i am speaking from personal experience and observation.

Last words to you today:


Depakote and Effexor

Last words to you today:


Depakote and Effexor

Look at me, I'm always starting stuff. will this thread get to 100 like the last one I started. We cancers don't have this problem.

Sweet, bottom line is it's your decision to make. Personally, I think you made the right decision to walk away.

Stop having sex with him... if he realizes there's something more he might stay. How do you feel about the 'us' without the sex? Maybe you should leave it alone.