Is this Taurus playing me?

Hi everyone!

I love reading all of the post and replies...

So I'm a taurus female Moon Aries He's a Taurus male Moon Scorpio..

My issue he's hot and cold which I have seen said numerous times but now I'm starting to wonder
if this is all really a game to him. An acquaintance of ours told him I have really strong feelings unbeknownst to me.
Anyways, I had to go out of town on business and he sends me an email saying how he "can't wait for me to get back and
he can feel I'm gone" so I'm like "wow" some emotions from him...I get back and.....crickets..

So I tell him in a nice way...hee hee...in the future, if you don't really have feelings for someone don't send them
emails like that. It feels like you are playing games and leading me on. I also said I was not mad at him it was my
fault for interpreting the situation wrong also...

Then...again....crickets

It's hard for me to understand because I'm a Taurus who doesn't act like this but maybe others can understand.

i can say from personal experience being with another taurus was not very exciting. We both like each other but the more i got into the relationship the more i saw it just was to boring for me! So i had to cut it off. I also was kinda young at 23 though....

He's known me for awhile so he knows I'm crazy but good point....

Taurusman....I agree - He and I are just alike yet so different.

Posted by Redbull
I like to have fun and go out and do things but not senselessly or to the point where its costing more than its benefitting. I also like to just be home too. I think 2 Tauruses would understand each other the most. But it wouldnt automatically ensure compatibility.

it can turn to ..two people sitting on the couch.. All day/all night,..eating fat food.. One refuses to get up n cook.. So they both decide to oder some take away... Then go to bed cuddling together all night... 2 stubborn lazy bull... Hard to resist... A life i want to have when i am 40... The relationship will be too nice n cozy...for my 20s.... But a perfect ome when im retired......heaven!

^^ LOL! I like the scenario's. I'm in my early 30's and can certainly relate.
I have always dated a Taurus for the most part. Either they are social butterflies or they stay home.
I've had the extreme of both.

I wish I could find a balance, people say I'm a social butterfly but I like staying home also....

Posted by lastunicorn
^^ LOL! I like the scenario's. I'm in my early 30's and can certainly relate.
I have always dated a Taurus for the most part. Either they are social butterflies or they stay home.
I've had the extreme of both.

I wish I could find a balance, people say I'm a social butterfly but I like staying home also....

my aquarius moon plays a big part in that .. N my Venus in Gemini.. I often end up organizing party for my friends ..when I'm in the moment.. But I need my space n my couch! .. People call me social butterfly ..I realised it's the effect of having a moon in Aquarius getting a group together is important to me .. A guy I like has his moon in Leo.. N I'm sure he does not like the fair treatment given to him .. I treat him like I treat others.. So distant and aloof..affection is a whole other world! Thank goodness otherwise I will seem like a very cold person 🙂

Update: So after ignoring me for a full day, he called me today saying he was suppose to be in meeting at that moment but wanted to talk to me about some projects we are working on. I had sent him an email the day before regarding some action items we needed to take care so of.

Therefore, get over your feelings and lets get back to work. So we talked, never addressed the text I sent him. So I have to contact his best friend about some additional information and I tell him I will call his best friend so we can work out the logistics in which he replies, I can help you with that or I can be a resource for you guys" I just said, "I think he and I can work it out."

He was late for his meeting so we agreed to discuss later but I had an event to attend to so I wasn't able to call his friend and I'll have to follow up the next day

Therefore, classic fallacy: Avoid the issue... LOL

Actually, we go out outside of work but we also have a working relationship. It's not ackward for us because we are mature at the end of the day.
Also, we have pure love for each other but just because we love each other doesn't mean everything will work out either.

He's very afraid of his emotions and feelings as I am also. His close friends have told me he loves me he' just has a hard time of expressing it therfore maybe I need to learn to manage it or get out.

I have learned every relationship is different and not cookie cutter this is my first parlay into a work relationship and am not familiar with the inner workings so I'm learning as I go.