Jealousy

When I was younger I had a hard time controlling my anger and rage, as I've gotten older I've learned how to somewhat control my feelings but I still find it hard to control my feelings of jealously. I am an extremely jealous person,to the point where even I know I'm being irrational. So my question is, how do the rest of you deal with your jealously?

I'm not a jealous person, I am a POSSESSIVE person. Yup, that arse is mine, it shall be mine ( you'll note the hoof print AND my personal brand on that cheek ) now and forever. And if anyone has a problem with it, they can step off. I will make it quite plain that it's mine. I will not be loud about it, I will not make a scene nor be unladylike or uncouth..but if someone has two brain cells to rub together they'll cotton onto it right quick. And if they're having a rough time or are of a simpler, gentler nature, I'll bust out the chunky crayons and the easel.

I consider myself jealous and possessive. Those are things that I do not like about myself. I wish that I could be cool with the guy i'm seeing having lots of female friends but it bothers me. I just want to know how to handle my feelings because i've notice other taurus ppl not be as jealous or possessive.

Okay, step one. Take a long hard look in that mirror, because you're gorgeous chica. Step two. WHO IS HE WITH? I would say...you. Your hand he's holding, your eyes he's looking into and your personality jibing with his. They are friends. Not a threat at all. Not one. Nor should they be. Some men just get along with ( have more ) female friends, some men like the scratch and sniff thang with football and beer; and other furry man beasts. Whether they've casabas under their t's should matter little. You should be able to trust you've enough of a man at your side that he'll know to say no. And if he doesn't he needs to bounce.
If it bothers you to an extreme level ( this is YOUR comfort level we're talking about ) bring it up with him. Not the 'them or me' crap, not a bit of it. But "Say love, you spending time with X..Y..Z...makes me uptight, wanted you to be aware that it does." Might not have even occurred to him.

I agree with VB. I'm not jealous per se, but possessive. A trait I've been trying to recently get under control. It was a lot harder to control when I was younger though. So, I understand where you're coming from.

As far as your man goes...even though he may have female friends, I bet he doesn't look at them the way he looks at you. When a man is in to me and I into him, we cannot take our eyes off each other, no matter how many blonde Barbies enter the room. :-)

That's right, *Many pardons...WAS anyone else in the room, thought not...because I didn't see them, and neither did you.* Now that's the powah of da Bull.

Actually, one of my female friends (I am male, if you don't know) and I were talking about this very thing. I thought that maybe when you get married, the male would get some sort of brand in the middle of his forehead. Her suggestion was, "Yeah, it would read 'I am So and So's bitch!'"

Seemed a little lengthy to me....

LOL You know....

@dofacc that's funny because I once asked my ex-husband if he would tattoo "Property of Michelle" on his penis as a joke of course lol

how about a tattoo that reads "Michelle was here"

lol i think that would only start a trend of other girls putting that they were there too lol

Posted by venusianbull
I'm not a jealous person, I am a POSSESSIVE person. Yup, that arse is mine, it shall be mine ( you'll note the hoof print AND my personal brand on that cheek ) now and forever. And if anyone has a problem with it, they can step off. I will make it quite plain that it's mine. I will not be loud about it, I will not make a scene nor be unladylike or uncouth..but if someone has two brain cells to rub together they'll cotton onto it right quick. And if they're having a rough time or are of a simpler, gentler nature, I'll bust out the chunky crayons and the easel.

LMFAO!!!! And you're also very upfront about it - good stuff! 🙂

I'm with a Taurus male. He has always been a very jealous and possessive man. As an Aqua i am friends with many, a lot of them male.
I explained this to Taurus male and then I invited a whole pile of friends to my home, invited Mr Taurus and let them mingle. I did my thing (hang with my mates), i made Mr Taurus the centre of my attention in subtle ways and now he's seen me with my male friends he knows the story.
He's fine with it.

i suggest, to anyone who is jealous - WHY are you jealous? Is it an insecurity within yourself? Of course it is. What can you do about it? Well, you can tell yourself that the person you are with is with you for a reason - because they want to be. End of story.

Comparing yourself to others? Waste of time. Wanting to be better looking/have nicer hair/have a flatter tummy? Waste of time. People are attracted to other people initially on a looks basis. But after that it's all about the emotional connection. It's about the fun they have, the feeling they get when around you. You work on that and no matter who is in front of your partner, your partner will only have eyes for you.

It's not attractive to harp on in your partners face about how insecure you are. If you think you are, THEY will think you are. Do you like a strong person or a person who you're continually having to prop up? The strong person, obviously.

YOU be that strong person and your partner need never have a reason to go elsewhere.

LOL You know it NZ. 😉 🙂

HAHA...YEA YOU TAURUS WOMEN ARE FULL OF RAGING ANGER
AND I LOVE BOTHERING THE HELL OUT OF BOTH MY SISTERS UNTIL THEY WANT
TO WHOOP MY ASS ESP. MY LITTLE SISTER SHE IS A BEAST AND YOU WOMEN
ARE VERY PHYSICALLY STRONG BUT I STILL GET THE LAST LAUGH LIKE ALWAYS...LMAO

Heheheheee Virgo/Tau dynamic at work for YOU. Sibling style .

Aww Damn it, I'm Failing at being a Taurus haha... I've never been a jealous type.. To the point that one now ex use to ask me about it.. She'd say "Whats up with you never getting jealous?, I even try's to flirt to see if I could get you jealous and you never do" (Damn Pisces and the stupid tests lol ) I told her "Thats easy, Because I know, no matter how much these guys flirt with you, hit on you, and maybe you flirt back.. I know that your still mine, and your still going home with me, still going to be snuggling up with me in my bed. And if god forbid you do find yourself wanting more from any guy you just met, Then our relationship was based on something more superficial then I thought, and if you go just like that, then I wouldn't really be missing out on that much.. So no, I'm not ever jealous" haha

To those that get really jealous, I'm curious as to why.. Do you distrust your partner that much?? Are you worried that your relationship,and/or his/her draw to you is that superficial that the next brightly color'd shinny thing that comes along is going to seal them away?? If theres that much distrust, If its that superficial, is it really worth holding onto that tightly??

Trust me, when it comes to superficial, might not be today, or next week. But at some point, theres always a bigger fish..

That said, I am really protective.. Maybe I redeem my Taur in that... lol.
If my lady says 'Go away, I have a man'

and you don't....

😉

My my, did someone break wind here? Something certainly smells of shit at any rate.

Posted by aquagirl24she is stupid and speaks like a prostitute. its hard to believe an ass is all she could desire, well she says it is. thats her aries speaking though, taureans are smart...

my brother would never want an arse, he knows what he wants and gets it, but he is strong morally speaking. he isnt after pussies but after knowledge and growth and progression.

this "woo-man" venusian bull is clearly anything but a taurus.

"It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to open one's mouth and remove all doubt" — Mark Twain

Thank you my friend. 🙂

It does seem you have drawn a bit of aqua blood there VB. Oh well, better to be the trampler than the tramplee, I suppose....

(((HUGS da Nemesis))) Well, you know.... 😉

I'm not concerned dof, I defended what was mine and she copped a 'tude over it. Simple, to the point.

age 5 ~ 10 : *sees something cool* Why cant have that thing!? I WANT IT! *TANTRUM INFERNO✨
age 11 ~ 15 : *sees something cool* Someday. I will have you! *evil expression, rubbing hands*
age 16 ~ 19 : *sees something cool* Meh... too expensive, lost interest *sits back, sips hot choco latte*

Age 30~40...*sees something cool* I will save for it, it will still be there. If I want it badly enough, it's mine. [ sits back with excellent music and slowly sips fine coffee..peruses the days events, pays bills.]

Ahhhh yeh. One and all feel free to hit the Libra board and note exactly what was said about her mother. The context was that her mother is one, so she should appreciate my stance on matters. Now, if you'll excuse me, these heels are a damned nightmare and the street lamp is fizzling out. Girl has to earn her keep..*dramatic hand on forehead* SOMEHOW. 😛

^ LOL

It's a good one. 🙂 Aye, she's a smackeral, a tinge, a tad..bit..on a mission it seems. Why I keep responding to it is the better question. Fixed sign indeed.

LOL And forsooth, the man doth sparkle in the light. My Asc. node is in Aqua, what's...what's to be done?

Posted by venusianbull
Ahhhh yeh. One and all feel free to hit the Libra board and note exactly what was said about her mother. The context was that her mother is one, so she should appreciate my stance on matters. Now, if you'll excuse me, these heels are a damned nightmare and the street lamp is fizzling out. Girl has to earn her keep..*dramatic hand on forehead* SOMEHOW. 😛

Street Lamp did you say?!?!?!!? What Street corner??!?!?!? Really, whe......


Ah, dang, just a joke, sigh......

^ LOL Oh my goodness dof. That was FUNNY!

Posted by domino_O
Man.. I'm actually moved by how many hawt chicks are in this thread.

Aww thanks, your a sweetie, and I hate to burst your bubble, but I'm a guy..... 😉


LoL

LOL You are? I didn't know that. Hmmmm the tipoff should have been TaurGUY. Who'd have thunk?