Just being a Taurus
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Diamondnurse on Thursday, July 13, 2017 and has 5 replies.
Hey i made a few posts about my Taurus man i been encounter with for 7 months now. Hes the only guy i been talking to. We been on the down hill. Communication isn't all that great. We used to hangout every day but i just feel like im losing patience not knowing what are we and where this is going. We have sex. He told me he loved me but i don't know if it was just for sex. I been seeing a guy friend lately that i haven't seen in forever. Well me and Taurus haven't been communicating since i said i need space. I was visiting my guy friend at his apt and Taurus man is driving off his kids since they live in the same complex. He drove by and waved. But his face looked like he was upset. Later on that night he wanted to see me i agreed to it. He asked me bout my guy friend saying are you enjoying your self with your other boo. I asked who is my main boo he act like he got mad started saying he didn't care forget it so i asked why he asking if he didn't care he said it's just a question he was just wondering. I been working alot so i haven't had time for much lately. My guy friend told me Taurus man has been driving by his apt lately. Why would he do that if he didn't care? He told me remember to stay loyal i told i am. I told him how i felt the other night. The next night he wants sex. I get upset cause i think that's all he wants. Why would he be telling me to be loyal but he claims he is single. Someone help me out. Is it even worth the try i care bout him and got love for him but i don't waste a year from now still doing the same things.
Posted by Simsimi
He's a Taurus and dragging his bloody feet mate , you have to be patient with that too.
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Stop the games, not healthy for the both of you. Now he's stalking your friend, you get it? He likes you.
he really doesn't. look back over her threads.
Posted by Redbullexplained exactly like my partner would have done.Posted by SimsimiYeah maybe. Not even denying there are/may be feelings. But when its over, its over. Like I said about being second when she gets through with the other guy, uh no thanks haha. I'll take my dignity, and maybe health, and avoid the drama and leave that alone. But yeah I can see wanting to be sure.Posted by RedbullExactly! The feelings are there but idk how women don't know how to tell a man cares. Well, i think he likes her and wants to probably catch her there again then make up his mind
Like some of the behavior may signal the feelings arent turned off completely yet. I know for me in the past there has been the point where its over and no doubt about that but the feelings are raw so that can be a process to get to truly dont care at all stage. Its not about still wanting somebody its just the feelings is the best way to describe it. Im just speaking for myself though being a Taurusclick to expand
DiamondNurse,
You're creating a series of these monotonous threads that leads you to the same answers.
With Bulls (or any other Earth signs for that matter) it's always a segregation of the mind and heart.
For the evolved ones, emotions are supressed, and you're kept at a distance. No sexual relations, no disappearing acts, no hot and cold behavior....just consistent distance and aloofness. He's mature enough to understand that investing in someone he doesn't see longevity with (regardless of emotions) is just a waste of time and energy.
For the unevolved ones, emotions are partially suppresed, any emotions that are acted out will be expressed through possessiveness. It doesn't mean that he sees longevity with you. He's hedonistic, covetous, and will do anything to maintain that level of comfort and certainty.
For Bulls, we're not partially possessive, we're ALL the way possessive.
You're technically still a free agent, and free to leave at any time.
He knows this.
Which is why he keeps you holding on to him.
Your pleas are falling on deaf ears.
We're not receptive to statements....but actions.
You're single, act like you're single.
You're not his girlfriend, act like you're not his girlfriend.
You're not a jump off, act like you're not a jump off.
Unless your statements are consistent with your actions, then you're just wasting breath.
There is no fear in losing you.
The fear of loss (money, relationships, stability, etc) is what gets our mojos working.
You're creating a series of these monotonous threads that leads you to the same answers.
With Bulls (or any other Earth signs for that matter) it's always a segregation of the mind and heart.
For the evolved ones, emotions are supressed, and you're kept at a distance. No sexual relations, no disappearing acts, no hot and cold behavior....just consistent distance and aloofness. He's mature enough to understand that investing in someone he doesn't see longevity with (regardless of emotions) is just a waste of time and energy.
For the unevolved ones, emotions are partially suppresed, any emotions that are acted out will be expressed through possessiveness. It doesn't mean that he sees longevity with you. He's hedonistic, covetous, and will do anything to maintain that level of comfort and certainty.
For Bulls, we're not partially possessive, we're ALL the way possessive.
You're technically still a free agent, and free to leave at any time.
He knows this.
Which is why he keeps you holding on to him.
Your pleas are falling on deaf ears.
We're not receptive to statements....but actions.
You're single, act like you're single.
You're not his girlfriend, act like you're not his girlfriend.
You're not a jump off, act like you're not a jump off.
Unless your statements are consistent with your actions, then you're just wasting breath.
There is no fear in losing you.
The fear of loss (money, relationships, stability, etc) is what gets our mojos working.
We cut each other off. I told him i don't see this going no where. I told him i loved him. But I'm not going to sweat him like that. I think he wants a fling. He said he single and doesn't see me in that way. But the next day contacted me ? I feel like he is making excuses. But i think i see it just going one way that isn't meant to be.
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