Ladies .... Just stop for a second....

Posted by JuiCy*
Hello all! I've been reading the topics on here and for the most part it seems that a lot of ladies have been caught in the male Taurus web...I'm here to try and help lol As a Taurini and one that has experience with male Taurus heres my thoughts...
1. So many woman saying how long do I have to wait for him to respond? Why does he disappear? Should I reach out to him first? Should I chase him because he's slow and shy? Answer! YOU ARE THE WOMAN. Yes, these men are slow, Yes they can be shy, Yes they can string you along....YOU have to show him how he should treat you! This sign just like scorpios must not get off easy (or any man for that matter)LOL
2. PUSH AND PULL. I like to call it "I'll see her when I want to get laid, give her a little bit of attention, make sure she's still there as my plan B" Trust me ladies, these men have a plan b from everything from woman to toilet paper. Bet you go to a Taurus males house and he's so stocked up it looks like a mini Costco. If a Taurus man is into you, I don't care how shy,insecure,busy he is. YOU WILL KNOW, HE DOES NOT GO AWAY!!! LOL Sure, he might not ring your phone every five seconds...But, he will somehow be in touch with you & make time for you...If he's not, well then pretty sure he has someone else in the picture, focused on his job/family..either way he's not into you and you deserve 100% so stop worrying and DONT SETTLE.
3.The famous "I'm not looking for a relationship right now but I like spending time with you!" Ok, first things first...If these men are having financial troubles, DONOT EVEN THINK ABOUT WANTING A RELATIONSHIP. They are the sign of the PROVIDER, Material comfort & security. That's his real love. They can also be cautious! Which is a good thing, but girlfriend if your acting like his wife already without him having to work for it, Yeah, he'll turn into a lazy brat wanting his cake and eating it to... and we all know how much Taurus's love food
4.THESE MEN LOVE B*TCHY WOMAN, NOT A B*TCH!.. AT FIRST.
Yes, believe it or not the sweet,timid,early attention giver may get you into the sack but overall these men LOVE challenges. Remember they are opposite of scorpio but when it comes to womEn pretty much the same, when was the last time you saw a scorpio man in a relationship with a non challenging female? LOL same applys here. YOU HAVE YOUR OWN JOB, YOUR OWN FRIENDS, YOUR OWN LIFE. When he ca

Posted by JuiCy*

4.THESE MEN LOVE B*TCHY WOMAN, NOT A B*TCH!.. AT FIRST.
Yes, believe it or not the sweet,timid,early attention giver may get you into the sack but overall these men LOVE challenges. Remember they are opposite of scorpio but when it comes to womEn pretty much the same, when was the last time you saw a scorpio man in a relationship with a non challenging female? LOL same applys here. YOU HAVE YOUR OWN JOB, YOUR OWN FRIENDS, YOUR OWN LIFE. When he calls continue polishing your nails, he'll call back trust me he's stubborn and persista

Posted by NaughtyTaurus

Posted by JuiCy*

4.THESE MEN LOVE B*TCHY WOMAN, NOT A B*TCH!.. AT FIRST.
Yes, believe it or not the sweet,timid,early attention giver may get you into the sack but overall these men LOVE challenges. Remember they are opposite of scorpio but when it comes to womEn pretty much the same, when was the last time you saw a scorpio man in a relationship with a non challenging female? LOL same applys here. YOU HAVE YOUR OWN JOB, YOUR OWN FRIENDS, YOUR OWN LIFE. When he calls continue polishing your nails, he'll call back trust me he's stubborn and persista

how true is this ... I am attracted to someone who (with strong character) is kinda hard to get ... provided I have interest in her at first place ... anyhow I do stop contacting if she showing signs of disinterest after trying few times ... nahhh ... i dont really stop ... perhaps once in a blue moon will try ask her out again

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Posted by Redbull
And this is important. We are natural loners. Very comfortable by ourselves. Come with the nonsense that may work with the other signs and...you can pull that if you want to. There is no putting up with that. We dont have to deal with it for various reasons. Or at least speaking for myself. Who wan test!? haha. You can just deal with those other signs. I'll be fine Life is good. But i dont think people realize we are different than the others. We are made to still be standing when they all wilt. And it all comes back to us regardless.

Posted by Redbull
Not taking anybody's seconds or anything. Im watching. But like i told a Scorp I used to know "I'll be alright regardless". So do your thing but dont expect Taurus to tolerate. Because you may get a stiff reality check. My dignity and principles are above any shenanigans with a game playing female. Anyway have to get up early for work good day all.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I really wanted to be argumentative here, but these are all really good points. I don't think I can disagree with much; I'm pretty much a "lazy brat" in most of my relationships. Our slow pace in romance really draws the neediness out of a lot of women and when they fold too fast, it signals weakness. That's where the power imbalance starts. And when that starts (I believe with any sign), its downhill from there....for one person at least. Definitely more attracted to the stronger women, definitely will value a woman as much as she values herself, and learn how to treat her by the boundaries she sets, etc. But, its a fine line; if she's too strong, preoccupied, etc., we feel unadmired. And as shy or insecure as we bulls can be at times, for some reason we feel strongly that we ought to be admired. If there's no sign of that emotional craving, *some* weakness that you have for us; if that magnet doesn't seem to be working on ya, yeah, we will move on to a path of less resistance.