Lazy Taurus here, how do I get drive and fire

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Parkourler
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Hi,r

I just will ramble here;:

I am a pretty lazy piscean taurus. I just cant get my ass off the ground and do something. I tend to put up with shit than do something about it. I easy get caught up in my daydreaming. I admire and envy fire signs.

they are fast paced, aggressive, competitive, i bump heads with them, they either take matters in their own

hands and start telling me what to do, I immediately tell them to fuck off, the fire sign woman are pretty emasculating and walk over me. They tell me to shut up in front of everybody, they get mean. the problem

is, i dont even get angry i cannot even raise my voice, they cant respect me. That may have to with the fact that my mother was bossy and suffocating, so I always get in a state of helplessness when somebody bosses me around. I feel the need to be empowered and validated. Dont give me feminist crap, but i am

traditional by nature, i have the strong need to be masculine and in charge, how do i get there? I alre eady

heard here, that you only get feminine when the guy has more aggression and fire and you. I lack both,



but I want to have both. This has led to broken hearts. Woman take over, tell me what to do, and think

its okay to compensate for my weaknesses, no its not and we split up.

I daydream a lot about lofty things but never get done. when i break it into a todolist i feel relieved I just need to work the list off.

What can I do to think more practical?

Can i find aggression and drive or is it genetics? Can i be driven and respected without zest and aggresssion? The other earth signs get shit done but they are not necessarily dana white like.

I have always been mellow and brooding. Lifting weights, martial arts, what can help me?

I am more gentlemen and softspoken how do I get respected h by loud people without changing myself? Do I have to outwit them?



What can I do about this state of helplessness?

Should I stop fire woman in general or do I have to change something?

Any general thoughts and advice ?





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Sounds like low self esteem a bit maybe bout of depression?

Stop surrounding yourself with people who you feel are better then you.

And stop chasing woman who emasculate you.

It's good to have some friendly competition but it's another to almost torture yourself with it.

I'm 30 years old. I'm pretty lazy. I have lofty ideas of things I want to do and then don't.

I'm okay with it, I've just accepted it's who I am.

I have periods of extreme motivation.

I started running, it helped in general with energy and motivation.

It wasnt easy, to even begin but I have to literally "just do it" force myself with every bit of energy.

I think exercise would be great for you.aybe listen to classical music or read a book.

Stay away from lazy things like t.v or video games.
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Posted by xoxflute
Posted by Parkourler I am not joking at all, this is a serious problem that makes me suffer and unhappy. Everything I wrote is a true fact. Can you give me advice?

taurus are also prone to find their calling late in life because of laziness.

So did you find the answer? 🙂
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Yes I did, long time no see Old thread. Somebody wrote her taurus son villifies her, when she tells him to do something.

Same thing with me with my aries like cancer mom. I am working on that issue ever since.

Here is what happened since I opened this thread. I have been very abrasive and hostile when my aries ex and scorpio ex tried to motivate me. The sign is irrelevant I say all Woman are repelled lazy men, cause laziness is the absence of this masculine drive to conquer the world.

I have since done the things I enjoy and I have come to terms with my taurus nature. We lie around all day but our brains

are in overdrive. Then we start sprinting or quietly working and nobody understands what is going on. Am I the only who

acts like this? Enjoyment is more important than pressure which is why I have lots of libra friends.

I avoid any pressure and competition and I follow my what I resonate with. That is difficult cause its always a very vague

and weak feeling.
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Posted by MareInfame
Posted by Parkourler
Posted by xoxflute
Posted by Parkourler I am not joking at all, this is a serious problem that makes me suffer and unhappy. Everything I wrote is a true fact. Can you give me advice?

taurus are also prone to find their calling late in life because of laziness.

So did you find the answer? 🙂

Yes I did, long time no see Old thread. Somebody wrote her taurus son villifies her, when she tells him to do something.

Same thing with me with my aries like cancer mom. I am working on that issue ever since.

Here is what happened since I opened this thread. I have been very abrasive and hostile when my aries ex and scorpio ex tried to motivate me. The sign is irrelevant I say all Woman are repelled lazy men, cause laziness is the absence of this masculine drive to conquer the world.

I have since done the things I enjoy and I have come to terms with my taurus nature. We lie around all day but our brains

are in overdrive. Then we start sprinting or quietly working and nobody understands what is going on. Am I the only who

acts like this? Enjoyment is more important than pressure which is why I have lots of libra friends.

I avoid any pressure and competition and I follow my what I resonate with. That is difficult cause its always a very vague

and weak feeling.

I don’t think it’s only women, it’s also society... my environment is very competitive and expensive, it would be impossible for me to have lazy days every day until I decide to pick up and get motivated for a day or two. No company would ever hire me to do that in my industry.

But, if you are your own boss and make enough to be independent, not affecting others with your laziness... I see nothing wrong with your life style .

Doing what works best for you and still being able to be financially independent is quite a luxury!! Enjoy!
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Who said anything about lazy Days? I am little bit offended 🙂 Taurus are machines but we are marathon runners, not sprinters.

I am Zenlike Nature boy in my spare time. When it comes to work, I try to figure out ways to keep the pace but stop being a corporate drone. I am currently pondering the critical articles of Basecamp Founder Jason Fried about hard work, Wealth etc.

Give it a try.



https://medium.com/signal-v-noise/work-ethic-e34bd63d2489

https://medium.com/signal-v-noise/outlasting-4dff3fb6aca7