left confused by a taurus

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Ariesgirlellen09876 on Monday, April 13, 2015 and has 10 replies.
So somethings been going on with a. Taurus and me for a few months until recently, started off texting everyday, meeting up, it was great. Then around mid feb I started to hear less and less of him, then it was taking him a week to reply back to a text. He sent a text a couple of days ago apologising for not being in contact as much, that he wished he lived nearer to me. Then on Friday i received a message saying he was in a funny place with relationships at the moment, and was so busy with work, and that he deliberately tried to create some distance between us so I wouldn't get hurt. So he said he thought it was 'best for me' that we had nothing between us.
Considering in this same message he also said I've been 'perfect to him' and he 'thinks the world of me', I was left completely stumped.
So I guess my question is, is this something taurus men do if they think things are getting to committed? Is he unsure? By taurus traits will I expect to hear from him again?
Also worth mentioning, when this first started we both agreed a relationship wasn't what either of us wanted right now, and I made sure to not feel like he was being pushed into one.
it's such an easy reason to cling to - he is scared to feel and commit. in reality, this is just a thing women tell themselves when they don't want to accept rejection. it's harsh to say but there is no salvation in delusion.
are they afraid to commit? not really. they are incredibly cautious but i wouldn't say they are afraid to lock someone down when they want to.
You've been evaluated and he may like you as a person but there is no attachment b/w you two.
at least from his side...
Wow exactly the same happend to me!! A few weeks after breaking up he missed me, he first tried to be friends with benefits...and a said a clear NO. Go on with your life and just be a friend if you appreciate him smile. Some days I didn't hear anything from him, others he was saying he misses me so much and remembers the time we spent...so one day I told him to be clear what he wants but not one day so the other so. Now he's working hard on being with me again. I don't know if it's your case, but be patient, nice and honest, and don't expect nothing, maybe he sees what he lost. In my case it worked, he's all loving and caring again, calling all day which he didn't even do when we were together! Be yourself and no drama, show yourself happy and smart Winking.
Give him time...and be exhaustingly patient... Good luck!
Posted by QuietAries
Wow exactly the same happend to me!! A few weeks after breaking up he missed me, he first tried to be friends with benefits...and a said a clear NO. Go on with your life and just be a friend if you appreciate him smile. Some days I didn't hear anything from him, others he was saying he misses me so much and remembers the time we spent...so one day I told him to be clear what he wants but not one day so the other so. Now he's working hard on being with me again. I don't know if it's your case, but be patient, nice and honest, and don't expect nothing, maybe he sees what he lost. In my case it worked, he's all loving and caring again, calling all day which he didn't even do when we were together! Be yourself and no drama, show yourself happy and smart Winking.
Give him time...and be exhaustingly patient... Good luck!


Good I hope he makes you happy! Sometimes I think with taurus it's good to cut contact with them for a while... That's what I'm doing with this guy im not contacting him in any way, and we'll see what happens!!
Posted by elusiveLuna
I had the same experience. Don't even waste your time with the man. Idk what your sign is, but I'm a Scorpio. He wanted to be friends and still called me babe and would act attracted to me, and I just apologized to him and said I hoped the best for him but will have to block his number because I will not have mind games played on me. If you aren't ready for friendship do NOT accept it. It will only hurt you more. Taurus men seem to be always on the hunt for the ideal partner. If you become their friend too soon and you are quite attached, you will only suffer.
I haven't talked to my Taurus for about two weeks now. He was lovely and we got along so incredibly well, but like you said he started disappearing. The first time he disappeared, I didn't want to bother him because he works almost all the time as do I, nor did I want to appear too clingy, and he texted me one day saying "I can tell you really miss me...lol." and I told him I figured he was busy and I was working. Well... I think that's when we had our falling out. It's okay though. I have found that I don't think I'm very compatible with Taurus men. He was a wonderful experience but just as stubborn as me. It would have never worked out unless he was willing to see me more or talk to me more, neither of which he was I guess. Leaving the gap of communication is probably what made both you and I lose the running. Sad but true. Move on. Don't hurt yourself in the process, but it is the best choice. I know it is hard, but there is nothing you can do unless one day he changes his mind, which they normally do not do. They're stubborn like I said. Not really willing to give second chances even if you believe you deserve one. You never know though. Keep your head up and look to the future. I am sad to hear you had a similar experience. I know the pain. I covered my pain up, but it is still there. I wish you luck.


I'm sorry to hear you had the same experience as me Sad im an aries, and I would say I can be a very patient person aswell, so when he first started being distant, I distanced myself too, thinking it would be temporary, but then i was left wondering if it's something I'd done,
But instead he was deliberately creating distance. I'm glad you were able to hold your head high and move on! I'm silly but I'm still holding out hope, if it was a thing that I didn't really care about I would

Posted by elusiveLuna
I had the same experience. Don't even waste your time with the man. Idk what your sign is, but I'm a Scorpio. He wanted to be friends and still called me babe and would act attracted to me, and I just apologized to him and said I hoped the best for him but will have to block his number because I will not have mind games played on me. If you aren't ready for friendship do NOT accept it. It will only hurt you more. Taurus men seem to be always on the hunt for the ideal partner. If you become their friend too soon and you are quite attached, you will only suffer.
I haven't talked to my Taurus for about two weeks now. He was lovely and we got along so incredibly well, but like you said he started disappearing. The first time he disappeared, I didn't want to bother him because he works almost all the time as do I, nor did I want to appear too clingy, and he texted me one day saying "I can tell you really miss me...lol." and I told him I figured he was busy and I was working. Well... I think that's when we had our falling out. It's okay though. I have found that I don't think I'm very compatible with Taurus men. He was a wonderful experience but just as stubborn as me. It would have never worked out unless he was willing to see me more or talk to me more, neither of which he was I guess. Leaving the gap of communication is probably what made both you and I lose the running. Sad but true. Move on. Don't hurt yourself in the process, but it is the best choice. I know it is hard, but there is nothing you can do unless one day he changes his mind, which they normally do not do. They're stubborn like I said. Not really willing to give second chances even if you believe you deserve one. You never know though. Keep your head up and look to the future. I am sad to hear you had a similar experience. I know the pain. I covered my pain up, but it is still there. I wish you luck.


I'm sorry to hear you had the same experience as me Sad im an aries, and I would say I can be a very patient person aswell, so when he first started being distant, I distanced myself too, thinking it would be temporary, but then i was left wondering if it's something I'd done,
But instead he was deliberately creating distance. I'm glad you were able to hold your head high and move on! I'm silly but I'm still holding out hope, if it was a thing that I didn't really care about I wou
Whoops! * if it was a thing i really didn't care about I wouldn't bother, but I do care about this guy a lot. We shall see, I'm not going to contact him first, if he cares about me as much as he claims to maybe I'll hear from him xx
With Taurus only one thing is sure, slooooowly ... If you have not patience for tons get out of there.