Lesbian best friend love

Hi I'm a 20y old Sagittarius female and I've been crushing on my taurus female friend for about two years now. We text all the time, every hour. At one point we were even staying up to early hours of the morning texting. She knows I'm bisexual, but said she was straight when we first had a sexuality talk. Yet every time we talk about relationships she uses non gender specific terms. Lately she's been ignoring me, I've been traveling around Europe for three months texting her all the time and I would only get one sentence responses to my paragraphs, my first week back home and she has ignored all my texts. She does this when I talk about being interested in others as well and when I've confronted her about it she says 'I just have nothing to say'. There seems to be a pattern that whenever we are on uni break she'll text me less or ignores me when she knows she'll be seeing me soon. Some of these texts do get pretty flirty on our good days with lots of love hearts and winky faces. I just don't know if she's genuinely interested in me or not and it's driving me crazy! I'm in desperate need of a third persons opinion so I can either get over this phooey situation or man up and confess. Please help 🙂

Posted by wanderlust93
Hi I'm a 20y old Sagittarius female and I've been crushing on my taurus female friend for about two years now. We text all the time, every hour. At one point we were even staying up to early hours of the morning texting. She knows I'm bisexual, but said she was straight when we first had a sexuality talk. Yet every time we talk about relationships she uses non gender specific terms. Lately she's been ignoring me, I've been traveling around Europe for three months texting her all the time and I would only get one sentence responses to my paragraphs, my first week back home and she has ignored all my texts. She does this when I talk about being interested in others as well and when I've confronted her about it she says 'I just have nothing to say'. There seems to be a pattern that whenever we are on uni break she'll text me less or ignores me when she knows she'll be seeing me soon. Some of these texts do get pretty flirty on our good days with lots of love hearts and winky faces. I just don't know if she's genuinely interested in me or not and it's driving me crazy! I'm in desperate need of a third persons opinion so I can either get over this phooey situation or man up and confess. Please help 🙂

I wish I had a helpful answer...but I too have had this...I always had this problem with my Taurus friend...she would do this to...she knew I liked her like that..Idk what it is...if I mention hanging out with other people etc she does the same...she wont answer...ive questioned this for three years...shes always done this with me...not sure what it means...

so do you think she might be inadverntently leading me on? like she wants to just be my friend but not my lover? I mean, I make it pretty obvious sometimes that I'm interested in her. She also does this thing where shes says she doesnt like anyone even when I ask her what guys shes attracted to she doesnt comment. Its the weirdest thing especially as for me personally theres never a time when i'm not at least attracted to one person I know.
Maybe I should just man-up and tell her, at least that way I can move on and pursue someone else.

Posted by wanderlust93
so do you think she might be inadverntently leading me on? like she wants to just be my friend but not my lover? I mean, I make it pretty obvious sometimes that I'm interested in her. She also does this thing where shes says she doesnt like anyone even when I ask her what guys shes attracted to she doesnt comment. Its the weirdest thing especially as for me personally theres never a time when i'm not at least attracted to one person I know.
Maybe I should just man-up and tell her, at least that way I can move on and pursue someone else.

I ask this continually...I wonder if you have a similar venus or moon or something like that with mine...like I said Im still not sure what she means by it...I can tell now after we had a situation that she defiantly wants me in her life...idk bout lover/friend...but in her life im sure of...

Posted by Tavrine
Did you ever send her something that it was cold or hurt towards? And what others does you mentioned about it?(If you ever point out one of your friends who also has crush on you and you know this yet you don't care about that)

But yes, try to man up and ask her about this in serious.

I talk about people I'm attracted to, or those that are interested in me. the last time this happened it was about a friend offering me a threesome (I said no) which i told her about just because it was weird and funny and she didnt respond.
I have pushed her a couple of times into telling me more personal things which irritates her quite a bit but I stopped doing that ages ago, we had a fight about it the middle of last year so I stopped. She's ignoring my attempts now of just casual conversation

She also ignored my message about going to a sex club in amsterdam which is the last thing I sent her a week ago.

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Posted by wanderlust93
so do you think she might be inadverntently leading me on? like she wants to just be my friend but not my lover? I mean, I make it pretty obvious sometimes that I'm interested in her. She also does this thing where shes says she doesnt like anyone even when I ask her what guys shes attracted to she doesnt comment. Its the weirdest thing especially as for me personally theres never a time when i'm not at least attracted to one person I know.
Maybe I should just man-up and tell her, at least that way I can move on and pursue someone else.

I ask this continually...I wonder if you have a similar venus or moon or something like that with mine...like I said Im still not sure what she means by it...I can tell now after we had a situation that she defiantly wants me in her life...idk bout lover/friend...but in her life im sure of...

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So I went online and did my moon and venus ascendents and my venus is in scorpio and my moon is in aries. Not quite sure if its right or not. What about yours?

Well I saw her today and she was acting different. I texted her hours afterwards and she's still ignoring me. Our relationship has changed.
One of the people I liked I'm currently writing to quite a bit, but she knew I was talking to this person before just not that its increased. And this chicks in America so the chances of that happening are very low. I have absolutely no idea what hers are and I dont think she would talk about it, she's not into star signs.
Regardless if it doesnt mean anything sexually, she's still being a dicky friend.