Libra Male Seeking Taurus Female

This topic was created in the Taurus and Libra Compatibility forum by Milkman82 on Wednesday, September 12, 2018 and has 11 replies.
Hello, I'll try to make this short as I can.

About 4 years ago I met this Taurus woman through another friend in the group. She was a few years older and we did ok. Did not talk much, not pay each other much attention. I found out through the friend that introduced us, she was Facebook stalking me. This was during a low time of my life (heavy drinking and party). I ended up treating her really rude. I Would call her name's, anger her and all sorts of stuff. To the point she completely blocked me anyway possible.


Some years went by and I dunno why, but after I cleaned up I ended up asking my buddy how the Taurus woman was. Somehow that got back to her and she was every open about wanting to reconnect. In no time we unblocked each other on Facebook and we're talking again.

One night the group got together and she was with us. We had a great night and went to do a group photo. The Taurus woman grabbed my arm and put it around her for the photo. Then on the dance floor each time I wanted to dance, she volunteered to go with me to dance. One night she just started racing through my head. I decided to just ask her out on a date. She said she was already dating someone, but she did not know where it was going with the guy. So I said... Well he can keep you busy when your not with me. She agreed to go on a date.

The first date went great. After dinner she wanted to keep the night going and suggested a bar to hangout at. After about 2am, I was dropping her off and she said I could come up to her place. I agreed. It got to be about 3am and she finally said she was going to bed and I could join her... I knew where this was going. I so badly wanted too.. however, thinking she was still with the guy.. and I did not want to do anything that could be regrets later. I smiled and said.. I have to be at work in a few hours. As much as I wanted to.. I declined and went home.

I've taken her on more dates since then about 4. We've kissed at the end of each date and she's always told me she's had a fun time. I found out recently from someone else her and the other guy are split. He was still seeing a ex of his and that's what caused this Taurus woman to not be fully on board with their relationship.

Tomorrow night I have a date with her again. I plan on just being cute, flirty and making the night spontaneous and fun. At some point I want to kiss her and let her know how beautiful I think she is... Then perhaps as the night goes on bring her back to the bedroom.


Here is the confusion part for me. She is a extremely busy person. On multiple sports teams, in school and works full time. There was one point I went to setup a date via text (how we communicate). She completely forgot to respond. I let a few days go by. Finally the day before the planned night I asked her if she was wanted to cancel since it seemed like she was busy. She apologized and wanted me to confirm a time. I was not thrilled thinking she was not interested. However, when I picked her up. She was dressed incredible... I was really impressed and told her she looked great. We had a fun night. Whenever, we are out together she is very open to kisses, physical contact. Yet, in-between dates I almost hear nothing from her. At one point I let a whole month go by to see. She finally reached out, so I mentioned taking her out for dinner and she was praising the idea..

I guess honestly I am more used to women always trying to make moves on me and them contacting me more. However, with her.. the first date night and her saying I could join her in bed was about the only advancement I ever got from her. Now it's I'm always the one having to lead the kissing or touching or requesting dates. I'm always concerned about coming on too strong.. Is this normal for Taurus women to not reach out much, but when together they seem so happy and open with you? I don't want to drag more dates out and never make a serious romantic or passionate move at this point. However, at the sametime I dont want to force myself on her either. I really hope to end tomorrow night with at least going for it to let her see I have romantic interest in her and wanting to take it further now.
Ima Taurus female seeing a Libra male - I think that we like the man to be the forward one - so go for it and I'm sure she will be receptive to it.

This is a Venusian combo and an interesting one. One that requires respect and understanding but when you two can connect it should be wonderful.
I didn't go for it....... again... I dunno why. It just did not feel like the moment was right when we were out. Had a great dinner, upscale bar afterwards as a suprise that she loved. Lots of laughing and talking. We ended it drivibg her home, kissing on the lips and hugging for a good moment. Her saying she had a great time. Told her she looked great tonight and she said I looked really good. Then she got out and went inside..

Every moment I thought about telling her she needs to bring those beautiful lips over her and kiss me right now. We would either get interrupted, or something would change quickly. People come up and talk to us.. just never really got the chance..
Posted by tctaap

Ima Taurus female seeing a Libra male - I think that we like the man to be the forward one - so go for it and I'm sure she will be receptive to it.

This is a Venusian combo and an interesting one. One that requires respect and understanding but when you two can connect it should be wonderful.
On point!!!

I used to Like a Libra guy but always felt that they're the type of men who are used to having women bothering them and wanting them to be their boyfriends.Maybe,that's why,libra guys tend to date a lot of fire sign girls(like sag,aries and some Leos),specially sags.Because,they are the type to be clingy and really go after what they want(make the first move).Libra guys can make the first move but it can get tiring until they decide to actually do it.Sometimes they try to do it but in a very subtle way,which can be annoying.

As a taurus woman,what I love about Leo guys(even tho we are apparently not a match) it's the fact that they will convince you that you are the girl that they want(even if it's a lie or not).While,most Libra guys want you to make the first move.

The situation with this libra guy didn't go further because I never felt sure about what he truly felt.And,I peeped that he wanted me to do a lot more and I didn't.Noticed that they are the type to think that the grass is always greener on the other side,and will fall in love with every girl who winks at them.The same Libra ended up asking me to go for a lunch with him,I said yes but later gave him an excuse,because he had a girlfriend at the time and I didn't want to be in any mess...even tho we were just friend and it could've been only a friendly dinner...but both of us knew that it wasn't just that.

Now,he is back to one of his exes who he used to badly talk about to his friends.But,I believe that he is still looking for the ''perfect'' girl for him and one day he is going to find.I'm just sad that,a lot of girls are going to waist their time,thinking that they are the one,when they aren't.

But,to truly answer your question,YES!!A taurus woman will want you to make the first move,because that will make her feel secure about you and your intentions,unless she has some water moon sign, venus in aries or mars,which makes them go after what they want no matter what.

In my case,I'm a taurus woman with gem venus and moon,libra rising,mercury and mars in taurus.And,I need a lot of affirmation to be able to truly trust a guy's word.

Some tips for you if you get herBig Grinon't be flaky or unsure after the relationship starts flowing.Always makes sure to make her feel secure in the relationship,for her not to turn her head to other suitors(specially if she has a lot of gem in her chart like me,but taurus women are extremely loyal).Don't expect her to always boost your libra ego,with a taurus you need to be confident and not insecure.Learn how to communicate,don't ghost her or lie to her when you don't want to talk about something.

I got that from my experiences(friendly and romantic) with Libra guys.
Posted by Milkman82

I didn't go for it....... again... I dunno why. It just did not feel like the moment was right when we were out. Had a great dinner, upscale bar afterwards as a suprise that she loved. Lots of laughing and talking. We ended it drivibg her home, kissing on the lips and hugging for a good moment. Her saying she had a great time. Told her she looked great tonight and she said I looked really good. Then she got out and went inside..

Every moment I thought about telling her she needs to bring those beautiful lips over her and kiss me right now. We would either get interrupted, or something would change quickly. People come up and talk to us.. just never really got the chance..
YESSS,but that's the problem.And,a taurus after that will think all day and night about the fact that you still didn't make any real move.
Posted by vedicthetruth

Posted by tctaap

Ima Taurus female seeing a Libra male - I think that we like the man to be the forward one - so go for it and I'm sure she will be receptive to it.

This is a Venusian combo and an interesting one. One that requires respect and understanding but when you two can connect it should be wonderful.
On point!!!

I used to Like a Libra guy but always felt that they're the type of men who are used to having women bothering them and wanting them to be their boyfriends.Maybe,that's why,libra guys tend to date a lot of fire sign girls(like sag,aries and some Leos),specially sags.Because,they are the type to be clingy and really go after what they want(make the first move).Libra guys can make the first move but it can get tiring until they decide to actually do it.Sometimes they try to do it but in a very subtle way,which can be annoying.

As a taurus woman,what I love about Leo guys(even tho we are apparently not a match) it's the fact that they will convince you that you are the girl that they want(even if it's a lie or not).While,most Libra guys want you to make the first move.

The situation with this libra guy didn't go further because I never felt sure about what he truly felt.And,I peeped that he wanted me to do a lot more and I didn't.Noticed that they are the type to think that the grass is always greener on the other side,and will fall in love with every girl who winks at them.The same Libra ended up asking me to go for a lunch with him,I said yes but later gave him an excuse,because he had a girlfriend at the time and I didn't want to be in any mess...even tho we were just friend and it could've been only a friendly dinner...but both of us knew that it wasn't just that.

Now,he is back to one of his exes who he used to badly talk about to his friends.But,I believe that he is still looking for the ''perfect'' girl for him and one day he is going to find.I'm just sad that,a lot of girls are going to waist their time,thinking that they are the one,when they aren't.

But,to truly answer your question,YES!!A taurus woman will want you to make the first move,because that will make her feel secure about you and your intentions,unless she has some water moon sign, venus in aries or mars,which makes them go after what they want no matter what.

In my case,I'm a taurus woman with gem venus and moon,libra rising,mercury and mars in taurus.And,I need a lot of affirmation to be able to truly trust a guy's word.

Some tips for you if you get herBig Grinon't be flaky or unsure after the relationship starts flowing.Always makes sure to make her feel secure in the relationship,for her not to turn her head to other suitors(specially if she has a lot of gem in her chart like me,but taurus women are extremely loyal).Don't expect her to always boost your libra ego,with a taurus you need to be confident and not insecure.Learn how to communicate,don't ghost her or lie to her when you don't want to talk about something.

I got that from my experiences(friendly and romantic) with Libra guys.
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good stuff : I'm a Venus in Aries and it is difficult for me because I like it both ways - I will make the move but also want him to make the move as well (Taurus Sun) ... agh !
Posted by tctaap

Posted by vedicthetruth

Posted by tctaap

Ima Taurus female seeing a Libra male - I think that we like the man to be the forward one - so go for it and I'm sure she will be receptive to it.

This is a Venusian combo and an interesting one. One that requires respect and understanding but when you two can connect it should be wonderful.
On point!!!

I used to Like a Libra guy but always felt that they're the type of men who are used to having women bothering them and wanting them to be their boyfriends.Maybe,that's why,libra guys tend to date a lot of fire sign girls(like sag,aries and some Leos),specially sags.Because,they are the type to be clingy and really go after what they want(make the first move).Libra guys can make the first move but it can get tiring until they decide to actually do it.Sometimes they try to do it but in a very subtle way,which can be annoying.

As a taurus woman,what I love about Leo guys(even tho we are apparently not a match) it's the fact that they will convince you that you are the girl that they want(even if it's a lie or not).While,most Libra guys want you to make the first move.

The situation with this libra guy didn't go further because I never felt sure about what he truly felt.And,I peeped that he wanted me to do a lot more and I didn't.Noticed that they are the type to think that the grass is always greener on the other side,and will fall in love with every girl who winks at them.The same Libra ended up asking me to go for a lunch with him,I said yes but later gave him an excuse,because he had a girlfriend at the time and I didn't want to be in any mess...even tho we were just friend and it could've been only a friendly dinner...but both of us knew that it wasn't just that.

Now,he is back to one of his exes who he used to badly talk about to his friends.But,I believe that he is still looking for the ''perfect'' girl for him and one day he is going to find.I'm just sad that,a lot of girls are going to waist their time,thinking that they are the one,when they aren't.

But,to truly answer your question,YES!!A taurus woman will want you to make the first move,because that will make her feel secure about you and your intentions,unless she has some water moon sign, venus in aries or mars,which makes them go after what they want no matter what.

In my case,I'm a taurus woman with gem venus and moon,libra rising,mercury and mars in taurus.And,I need a lot of affirmation to be able to truly trust a guy's word.

Some tips for you if you get herBig Grinon't be flaky or unsure after the relationship starts flowing.Always makes sure to make her feel secure in the relationship,for her not to turn her head to other suitors(specially if she has a lot of gem in her chart like me,but taurus women are extremely loyal).Don't expect her to always boost your libra ego,with a taurus you need to be confident and not insecure.Learn how to communicate,don't ghost her or lie to her when you don't want to talk about something.

I got that from my experiences(friendly and romantic) with Libra guys.
good stuff : I'm a Venus in Aries and it is difficult for me because I like it both ways - I will make the move but also want him to make the move as well (Taurus Sun) ... agh !
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Because your taurus energy is telling you to be skeptical and to wait,but your venus in aries is telling you to go after it and to be impulsive.It must suck!!!!

My gem venus actually makes me very aloof and not desperate to talk to a guy or to get into a relationship.
Posted by vedicthetruth

Posted by tctaap

Posted by vedicthetruth

Posted by tctaap

Ima Taurus female seeing a Libra male - I think that we like the man to be the forward one - so go for it and I'm sure she will be receptive to it.

This is a Venusian combo and an interesting one. One that requires respect and understanding but when you two can connect it should be wonderful.
On point!!!

I used to Like a Libra guy but always felt that they're the type of men who are used to having women bothering them and wanting them to be their boyfriends.Maybe,that's why,libra guys tend to date a lot of fire sign girls(like sag,aries and some Leos),specially sags.Because,they are the type to be clingy and really go after what they want(make the first move).Libra guys can make the first move but it can get tiring until they decide to actually do it.Sometimes they try to do it but in a very subtle way,which can be annoying.

As a taurus woman,what I love about Leo guys(even tho we are apparently not a match) it's the fact that they will convince you that you are the girl that they want(even if it's a lie or not).While,most Libra guys want you to make the first move.

The situation with this libra guy didn't go further because I never felt sure about what he truly felt.And,I peeped that he wanted me to do a lot more and I didn't.Noticed that they are the type to think that the grass is always greener on the other side,and will fall in love with every girl who winks at them.The same Libra ended up asking me to go for a lunch with him,I said yes but later gave him an excuse,because he had a girlfriend at the time and I didn't want to be in any mess...even tho we were just friend and it could've been only a friendly dinner...but both of us knew that it wasn't just that.

Now,he is back to one of his exes who he used to badly talk about to his friends.But,I believe that he is still looking for the ''perfect'' girl for him and one day he is going to find.I'm just sad that,a lot of girls are going to waist their time,thinking that they are the one,when they aren't.

But,to truly answer your question,YES!!A taurus woman will want you to make the first move,because that will make her feel secure about you and your intentions,unless she has some water moon sign, venus in aries or mars,which makes them go after what they want no matter what.

In my case,I'm a taurus woman with gem venus and moon,libra rising,mercury and mars in taurus.And,I need a lot of affirmation to be able to truly trust a guy's word.

Some tips for you if you get herBig Grinon't be flaky or unsure after the relationship starts flowing.Always makes sure to make her feel secure in the relationship,for her not to turn her head to other suitors(specially if she has a lot of gem in her chart like me,but taurus women are extremely loyal).Don't expect her to always boost your libra ego,with a taurus you need to be confident and not insecure.Learn how to communicate,don't ghost her or lie to her when you don't want to talk about something.

I got that from my experiences(friendly and romantic) with Libra guys.
good stuff : I'm a Venus in Aries and it is difficult for me because I like it both ways - I will make the move but also want him to make the move as well (Taurus Sun) ... agh !
Because your taurus energy is telling you to be skeptical and to wait,but your venus in aries is telling you to go after it and to be impulsive.It must suck!!!!

My gem venus actually makes me very aloof and not desperate to talk to a guy or to get into a relationship.
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Yes, true that. Taurus wants to wait but the VIA takes over and then I also have an Aries Mercury so I'm screwed. Not to mention the Mars in Pisces kicking in her dreamy crap - afterwards, the Cap Moon beat the shit out of me! It's a conundrum!!!
Posted by tiziani

That's the thing, Taurus women are so captivating it's like black magic.
I thought that about the Libra but after 3 years I believe it's his Mars in Scorpio and Rising as well. What he could do without is the Virgo Mercury.
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Posted by tctaap

Posted by tiziani

That's the thing, Taurus women are so captivating it's like black magic.
I thought that about the Libra but after 3 years I believe it's his Mars in Scorpio and Rising as well. What he could do without is the Virgo Mercury.
Yeah well win some lose some. Taurus is captivating no doubt but talks way too much about nothing.
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lol
She has put in way too much effort in the beginning....

Now it's you turn to take the lead Milkman.

She's still interested, but she's falling back.