libra male / taurus female

I'm leery now of people who fall in love quickly, because of that expression, "As easy as they fall in love, is as easy as they fall OUT of love."
Don't take everything I've said to mean that's the way she's is, because we are ALL different people and have had different dating experiences, but I can say that because of dating him, I am a confirmed committmentphobe.

"she's" = "she" ---OY, can't stand when I type too fast AND don't proof!

She drove 2 1/2 hours to see you...she likes you, but for whatever reasons, she may be scared. I can't tell you what to do in respect to continuing to pursue her or not, but if she opens up to you and then you are like, "Umm, yeah, I'm not really interested anymore. See ya." She is not going to be very happy about that; not to say you should be with someone that you don't want to be with, but I think you should take a little more time getting to know one another before either of you make any big committments (you moving there, etc), just a word to the wise.

Yeah, I don't do well on trips w/guys either unless I REALLY know them and am uber comfortable. If I were her, I would have said the same thing too. We are extremely cautious about love and our hearts...what can I say.
I hope it works out for you two, only you can gauge the relationship, so you have to do what you feel is best for you today and in the long term.

not a good combo overall...

forget the compatibility of your charts for a minute here - there is a glaring issue that you won't overcome no matter how harmonious your charts are: finances.

You mentuioned being able to retire with a high net worth and her having a "regular paying job". Money is an issue in this relationship whether you realize it or not. Even if it's not overt, at least subtly you lord your financial superiority over her. We bulls atre independent and she probably doesn't like feeling like you're her sugar daddy or she's your trophy. We like to equals - that's not to say we don't appreciate being taken care of - as true romantics we love it - but we want you to take care of us because it's chivalrous and you want - not because we or you feel like we can't take care of ourselves.

Your finances had nothing to do with the situstion you were telling us about - think about how you worked that in there and the way you phrased it - you highlighted the discepency between your finances.

back to the charts a minute though - you have saturn in leo and she has saturn in virgo - try not to push her too hard too fgast - this relationship is going to force you to learn some patience and her strict virgo saturn is going to be your teacher.


ugh...just had surgery and I'm trying to type with only my left hand.........