Little help :D

Posted by littlebubble
I know a taurus woman, we have work in the same place, we had a misunderstanding a 3 years ago and through Facebook I sent a message asking: 'Can I see you personally in a ''certain place'', this week?'

She did not answer me 'yes' or even 'no', but she keeps talking when I ask her something. What does that mean? Should I choose for myself and meet her or not? Should I wait a long time and ask again?

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Posted by littlebubble
I know a taurus woman, we have work in the same place, we had a misunderstanding a 3 years ago and through Facebook I sent a message asking: 'Can I see you personally in a ''certain place'', this week?'

She did not answer me 'yes' or even 'no', but she keeps talking when I ask her something. What does that mean? Should I choose for myself and meet her or not? Should I wait a long time and ask again?

What happened why you take so long to get in touch with each other?

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Posted by littlebubble
I know a taurus woman, we have work in the same place, we had a misunderstanding a 3 years ago and through Facebook I sent a message asking: 'Can I see you personally in a ''certain place'', this week?'

She did not answer me 'yes' or even 'no', but she keeps talking when I ask her something. What does that mean? Should I choose for myself and meet her or not? Should I wait a long time and ask again?

What happened why you take so long to get in touch with each other?

I was in love with her, she was flirting with me, she was touching me, she was caring and kind, but I do not know ... She seemed not to 'understand' my feelings and actions, I flirted, I helped her, I was caring, I offered food, I gave her a gift on her birthday etc.

I got annoyed, and when I left work, I sent an offensive message, offending a person she likes. After that I send messages through Facebook and letters to her house, her, and she gives me the ''silent treatment'', ''cold shoulder''.

I stopped and just last year (2016) I send a ''Hello!'' through Facebook and she answered, and now she usually answers my messages, kinds like ''How are you'' etc

I do not understand if she is trying to be polite, if is trying to come back, if she expects i do a certain thing.

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
What's her chart?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Op She's fixed but is able to move forward very quickly if stress starts to happen.

You have a fire mercury you probably hurt her with her having mercury in Taurus. She will always be slow and cautious. And would never match the way you guys talk.

It's you that would have to have patience when explaining or showing something, and then express it softly, gently and don't rush those words. Or maybe you're a sweet charmer and she's waiting for you to start acting like your interested again.

But then again she's got VM and you Scorpio moon your at odds with the emotions. Maybe you are expressing and she doesn't want to or doesn't really like you.

You have lot water in your chart though so you might feel she's detached like one minute she's all in the next she isnt.


and your temper can whip out and word you probably shouldn't say out loud and she hears it.

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Op She's fixed but is able to move forward very quickly if stress starts to happen.

You have a fire mercury you probably hurt her with her having mercury in Taurus. She will always be slow and cautious. And would never match the way you guys talk.

It's you that would have to have patience when explaining or showing something, and then express it softly, gently and don't rush those words. Or maybe you're a sweet charmer and she's waiting for you to start acting like your interested again.

But then again she's got VM and you Scorpio moon your at odds with the emotions. Maybe you are expressing and she doesn't want to or doesn't really like you.

You have lot water in your chart though so you might feel she's detached like one minute she's all in the next she isnt.

and your temper can whip out and word you probably shouldn't say out loud and she hears it.

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Op She's fixed but is able to move forward very quickly if stress starts to happen.

You have a fire mercury you probably hurt her with her having mercury in Taurus. She will always be slow and cautious. And would never match the way you guys talk.

It's you that would have to have patience when explaining or showing something, and then express it softly, gently and don't rush those words. Or maybe you're a sweet charmer and she's waiting for you to start acting like your interested again.

But then again she's got VM and you Scorpio moon your at odds with the emotions. Maybe you are expressing and she doesn't want to or doesn't really like you.

You have lot water in your chart though so you might feel she's detached like one minute she's all in the next she isnt.

and your temper can whip out and word you probably shouldn't say out loud and she hears it.

I agree that in many ways we are opposites, I think the way we perceive time must also be different ...

I've been trying to respect and not rush anything, I said I want to see her in person, because from what I read, about taurus woman appreciated apologies being said in person. I started talking, asking if everything was okay and I decided to be more direct and clear about my intentions.

I feel that she is not confident and may be afraid of me, even though she has know me and worked with me.

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@Op She's fixed but is able to move forward very quickly if stress starts to happen.

You have a fire mercury you probably hurt her with her having mercury in Taurus. She will always be slow and cautious. And would never match the way you guys talk.

It's you that would have to have patience when explaining or showing something, and then express it softly, gently and don't rush those words. Or maybe you're a sweet charmer and she's waiting for you to start acting like your interested again.

But then again she's got VM and you Scorpio moon your at odds with the emotions. Maybe you are expressing and she doesn't want to or doesn't really like you.

You have lot water in your chart though so you might feel she's detached like one minute she's all in the next she isnt.

and your temper can whip out and word you probably shouldn't say out loud and she hears it.

I agree that in many ways we are opposites, I think the way we perceive time must also be different ...

I've been trying to respect and not rush anything, I said I want to see her in person, because from what I read, about taurus woman appreciated apologies being said in person. I started talking, asking if everything was okay and I decided to be more direct and clear about my intentions.

I feel that she is not confident and may be afraid of me, even though she has know me and worked with me.

Maybe dating a co worker is alot of people in your business. So yeah try to get her away off and ask her out for some coffee or something fun that you know both would like.

So when you guys were talking back then was it going good then all of sudden pulled back? Or is it merely people change and not sure what they want?what do you want?

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Op She's fixed but is able to move forward very quickly if stress starts to happen.

You have a fire mercury you probably hurt her with her having mercury in Taurus. She will always be slow and cautious. And would never match the way you guys talk.

It's you that would have to have patience when explaining or showing something, and then express it softly, gently and don't rush those words. Or maybe you're a sweet charmer and she's waiting for you to start acting like your interested again.

But then again she's got VM and you Scorpio moon your at odds with the emotions. Maybe you are expressing and she doesn't want to or doesn't really like you.

You have lot water in your chart though so you might feel she's detached like one minute she's all in the next she isnt.

and your temper can whip out and word you probably shouldn't say out loud and she hears it.

I agree that in many ways we are opposites, I think the way we perceive time must also be different ...

I've been trying to respect and not rush anything, I said I want to see her in person, because from what I read, about taurus woman appreciated apologies being said in person. I started talking, asking if everything was okay and I decided to be more direct and clear about my intentions.

I feel that she is not confident and may be afraid of me, even though she has know me and worked with me.

Maybe dating a co worker is alot of people in your business. So yeah try to get her away off and ask her out for some coffee or something fun that you know both would like.

So when you guys were talking back then was it going good then all of sudden pulled back? Or is it merely people change and not sure what they want?what do you want?

All I want is she present in my life again, accept me and someday forgive me.

I'm in pain for 3 years, I do not know what to do ...

In my message I told her that I felt guilty for the horrible offenses I had said to her, said that this guilt is like a ghost in my back, I apologized again and she did not respond directly and posted a image on her profile saying: '' Is time of uncomplicated things that were complicated. ''

I do not understand, '' uncomplicated '' would be forget her? Petend we never met?

I like to think that it would stop thinking about what happened in the past and try to start over, but I do not know how I should do it and I do not know if there is such a chance.

I try to think and imagine that one day everything will be fine, one day this pain will pass.

Thank you for all your patience in answering.

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@Op She's fixed but is able to move forward very quickly if stress starts to happen.

You have a fire mercury you probably hurt her with her having mercury in Taurus. She will always be slow and cautious. And would never match the way you guys talk.

It's you that would have to have patience when explaining or showing something, and then express it softly, gently and don't rush those words. Or maybe you're a sweet charmer and she's waiting for you to start acting like your interested again.

But then again she's got VM and you Scorpio moon your at odds with the emotions. Maybe you are expressing and she doesn't want to or doesn't really like you.

You have lot water in your chart though so you might feel she's detached like one minute she's all in the next she isnt.

and your temper can whip out and word you probably shouldn't say out loud and she hears it.

I agree that in many ways we are opposites, I think the way we perceive time must also be different ...

I've been trying to respect and not rush anything, I said I want to see her in person, because from what I read, about taurus woman appreciated apologies being said in person. I started talking, asking if everything was okay and I decided to be more direct and clear about my intentions.

I feel that she is not confident and may be afraid of me, even though she has know me and worked with me.

Maybe dating a co worker is alot of people in your business. So yeah try to get her away off and ask her out for some coffee or something fun that you know both would like.

So when you guys were talking back then was it going good then all of sudden pulled back? Or is it merely people change and not sure what they want?what do you want?

All I want is she present in my life again, accept me and someday forgive me.

I'm in pain for 3 years, I do not know what to do ...

In my message I told her that I felt guilty for the horrible offenses I had said to her, said that this guilt is like a ghost in my back, I apologized again and she did not respond directly and posted a image on her profile saying: '' Is time of uncomplicated things that were complicated. ''

I do not understand, '' uncomplicated '' would be forget her? Petend we never met?

I like to think that it would stop thinking about what happened in the past and try to start over, but I do not know how I should do it and I do not know if there is such a chance.

I try to think and imagine that one day everything will be fine, one day this pain will pass.

Thank you for all your patience in answering.

I don't know what to say usually someone just doesn't give up but the amount of time that has past. Is past. Maybe she's just not feeling as before. We're sensitive too. And we do work it out if it was supposed to work out.

Maybe this is your karma debt lesson. And take what you learned here or in irl. And make that change for you and then find you a person who matches you well.

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