Losing my mind

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okay now he tells me he really wants me to be there, and i shouldnt cancel my tickets! like wtf?

He obviously doesnt know exactly what he wants but he knows what he doesnt want, its up to you to decide whether you are going to wait for him to figure it out and if you are how much he's worth it to just not check out other options on him. Though I really have to wonder how genuine your interest is in him when you didnt really want him until someone else had him, and with all the arguments and tears...sorry just seems like the Leo girl "me me me" manipulation tactics. You're probably more interested in having his full attention and how great that makes you feel then you actually are in being with him. If another guy was giving you the same attention you'd probably be losing sleep over him too.

it shouldnt leave you hurt, I doubt thats his intent. Wouldnt you want him to be sure? How much more will he be sure if he tries you and you come out on top. Now if you arent up for that then move on yanno.

He can only give you what he is willing. A realationship isn't it right now. Don't try to force someone to be what they don't want to be to you. The two of you aren't in the same space right now (0r atleast not with eachother) so either be miserable and hope he changes his mind or keep the communication open, remain friends and spend your time with someone who wants what you want. Your choice.

He started another row after that one, again insinuating that he's not sure whether i should come all the way for him (obviously meaning there's another girl involved in the story, how many who can tell!) and so i canned my tickets, almost in a split second leaving him shocked. And headed off to goa with my friends and cut contact with him whole time i was there, not even wishing him a new year. ON 1st night, he kept calling and i was busy so kept pestering me to talk to him and texting, and as emotionally foolish i am i finally gave in ( shud jump off a balcony) we talked the whole night about his worries.. his problems.. his concerns.. but ultimately i hung up the phone. Since then he's been trying to talk me online i've been ignoring him. I wanna walk away emotionally and i would have by now, if my goa trip hadn't culminated finally by falling back in the trap. He doesn't let me cut away emotionally, by constantly making sure i'm hanging around and as emotionally involved i am, i jus end up giving in knowing its taking me down further and further. And i've started hated him for doing this to me, again and again but i still wish it damm well works out.

I've lost all faith in relationships and trust.

Our sun is in taurus (his) and Leo (mine)
His venus is in Gemini and mine in Libra.

Okay so he still calls me, when he is completely bored, with nothing to do AT ALL , and hangs up when he's tired of talking. He keeps ranting about his problems, not letting me speak a word during the entire conversation. Oh yeah and now he's back on active on all those social networking sites. I feel like pushing him off a cliff, i seriously do! Since i can't do that, what should i do 😢

Its over isn't it??

eat lasagna ..mmmm foooodddd.lol. Do not show emotions,yup yup and just continue what u doin be busy . But all i know is there is always two sides of the story. juST SLOWLY WEAN YOURSELF AND Move on.

You're an angel! I've been instinctively feeling that i should do the same. I'm just scared what if it never crops back, but guess that's a risk i have to take :-)

I dont even call him anymore actually and he complains about that, but he doesn't stop calling me every alternate day cuz it seems like i've been missing for too long anyways! How do i distance then without telling him directly!