Me-The Taurus Woman

Why do I fall in love so dang quickly. I love everything and everyone! I am so sick of looking for love, but I cant stop and let it come to me! I have a personality that draws people to me, but they are never the ones I want.

How old are you?

21

Ur still young...I think that u have yet to really experience what a satisfying relationship is to you...maybe I'm wrong

Right now it seems from ur OP that maybe u are just entertaining the men that show interest
b/c u don't yet know what it is that u want or need to get the result ur looing for...

U need to just relax, date and not take the love thing so serious right now...

U will soon realize after getting to know different people; the qualities that u'll want in a mate and this in turn will help u to be more selective with those u choose to invest ur feelings in...

Just my thoughts. -----> Proceed

maybe once u get burnt a few times you'll appreciate the selection more.

Ive been burnt quite a few times and have somewhat of an understanding of what I want, but geez its killing me over here!

Well maybe u should just stop looking and focus more on understanding ur emotions so that u are in control of them and not let them control u...

I also think that u really need to evaluate what u are feeling when u feel this "love"....it may not be love at all bust just the butterflies in ur belly because of the newness of someone u like...

and if that is what is it then after the newness wears if ur with the person long enough u'll figure out whether u really love them...

they are ur emotions u need to get an understanding of them so u can control them..

lol@GB...

Gb- your funny ha ha.

It definately is the newness butterflies, but I only date people I can vision myself marrying otherwise... whats the point.

I'm 21 and I want ONE dang good boyfriend!

Marrying is serious thinking...

Oh if I could go back and be 21 I would have experienced dating a lot more than I have..between the ages of 20-29 I was in 2 five year relationships. The last one just short of the 5 year mark...the first relationship (20-25) is where I would have had fun and dated nothing too serious just to get a feel for what I liked and wanted from a man in a relationship...

I'm not saying sleep with the men, I'm saying date them, get to know them as friends first then maybe look at them for a relationship......

sounds like ur putting the cart before the horse...which is why ur feeling the "love" before u realize the "like"