My story with a Taurus man

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He is a taurus, worked with us for few months and now i'm trying to understand his behavior : in the beginning it was question of stares, flirting eye contact, smiles, winkes, saying hi with such brillance in his eyes and suddenly, ignoring me with no apperant reason, changing absolutely his way when seeing me.. I didn't understand why this change. I thought it would be some one who might tell him sth bad about me. Anyway, i did insist one day to check why he is ignoring me like that, he was suprinsingly happy to see me requesting the why and starting his game like in the begining without going further but with more pasion. I could really feel his hapiness and it did touch me deeply. I started to like him so much, let say i still adore him till now. I saw that man has feelings towards me and he looked to make that eye contact everyday with me. I really appreciate this attention and made me more interested in him. But as he was working with us only for few months and he was about to leave us, he started to ignore me again " with a lot of difficulty". Yeah i could feel that. I knew that a love sotry would be impossible. To help him, i didn't try to meet him or to see what's going wrong. When leaving, he said goodbye to everyone, except me. He was just there, looking at me whith tears in eyes. I was smiling but he didn't smile back. He was so sad and i think he was feeling guilty for ignoring me during the last days. i thought that i wouldn't see him anymore, but "unfortunately", he came back the day after, and then, he tried to meet me only to tell me a very sad "hi" and nothing more..
Two months now and i'm still thinking about him more and more. His behavior touched me a lot. What the hell he was expecting to have such emotions ? I wish that i could meet him and tell him how much I appreciate him whatever the circumstances ...
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Posted by justbeingscorpio
He is a taurus, worked with us for few months and now i'm trying to understand his behavior : in the beginning it was question of stares, flirting eye contact, smiles, winkes, saying hi with such brillance in his eyes and suddenly, ignoring me with no apperant reason, changing absolutely his way when seeing me.. I didn't understand why this change. I thought it would be some one who might tell him sth bad about me. Anyway, i did insist one day to check why he is ignoring me like that, he was suprinsingly happy to see me requesting the why and starting his game like in the begining without going further but with more pasion. I could really feel his hapiness and it did touch me deeply. I started to like him so much, let say i still adore him till now. I saw that man has feelings towards me and he looked to make that eye contact everyday with me. I really appreciate this attention and made me more interested in him. But as he was working with us only for few months and he was about to leave us, he started to ignore me again " with a lot of difficulty". Yeah i could feel that. I knew that a love sotry would be impossible. To help him, i didn't try to meet him or to see what's going wrong. When leaving, he said goodbye to everyone, except me. He was just there, looking at me whith tears in eyes. I was smiling but he didn't smile back. He was so sad and i think he was feeling guilty for ignoring me during the last days. i thought that i wouldn't see him anymore, but "unfortunately", he came back the day after, and then, he tried to meet me only to tell me a very sad "hi" and nothing more..
Two months now and i'm still thinking about him more and more. His behavior touched me a lot. What the hell he was expecting to have such emotions ? I wish that i could meet him and tell him how much I appreciate him whatever the circumstances ...


I've had the exact kind of connection with a Scorp at work. Everything you've said describes my actions and feelings, and I've posted about it ad nauseam on this forum. When the chemistry or synastry, or whatever the hell it is, is right between these two signs, it is something magical. I have never felt so emotionally attached to a person, and all without words. This guy is probably still thinking about you all the time. You should reach out, even if its just for friendship. Its good to have a Taurus who cares about you
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And, here's yet another example of a bull trying his best to ignore someone who obviously really moves him.
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Its good to have a Taurus who cares about you in your life. On the other hand, if you two can't be *just* friends, and If he's in a committed relationship, you should probably leave it alone, as it will most likely just cause alot of pain for both parties.
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@TaurusLovesScorpio: Yes you're right. I check his profile on scoial networks, i found a lot of pics of him with his two kids but no sign of his wife. It seems that he is divorced. Anyway, his poses with his kids made me really crazy. It reflects how much he cares about them and loves them. I start to respect him more and more. Everything separate us, distance, language, religion, culture.. but it's really unfair to give me cold shoulder because of that. If he didn't come back that last day i wouldn't have been thinking about him now. Of course i won't try to reach him.
Tell me, why do taurus make life so complicated to others ? Why you didn't go straight forward towards your scorp and told her what's in your mind and then you would see which way to take with her : lover or just a friend?
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OMG! our experiences are almost the same. I've never tried to be sexy to allure him but maybe he was thinking like you lol
My uncle used to tell me that i have eyes of sorcer since i was child. Reading your story i could conclude it had an effect on him .. When i'm interested in some one, i see him directly in his eyes looking for i don't know.
It's really sad your story. I'm feeling sorry for you both !! do you still think about her or have a contact with her?
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Posted by justbeingscorpio
@TaurusLovesScorpio:
Tell me, why do taurus make life so complicated to others ? Why you didn't go straight forward towards your scorp and told her what's in your mind and then you would see which way to take with her : lover or just a friend?


I'm sure he isn't intending to make life complicated. He feels drawn to you and is letting you know that. Taurus is passive, and we typically attract rather than pursue. For my part, I had never felt anything like this before, so it was terrifying. The strength of it made it even less likely that I would pursue. Fear of rejection was the issue. We don't like risk. And they say Scorpio just "knows" if someone is right for them intuitively. Well, with this one, I just "knew" she would be a lover, and not a friend (for me at least). I didn't want to even risk not passing her tests or meeting up to her scrutiny. If she friendzoned me, it would be devastating. What's funny is that I even did the teary-eyed stare one day....lol.
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OMG! our experiences are almost the same. I've never tried to be sexy to allure him but maybe he was thinking like you lol
My uncle used to tell me that i have eyes of sorcer since i was child. Reading your story i could conclude it had an effect on him .. When i'm interested in some one, i see him directly in his eyes looking for i don't know.
It's really sad your story. I'm feeling sorry for you both !! do you still think about her or have a contact with her?


Yeah, the eyes are ridiculous. Scorpio eyes are no myth; they fire invisible laser beams that make other people emotional and horny. LOL. I just saw her 10 mins ago. We just do our best to ignore each other, usually going for about a week. Sometimes I even think I'm over it or at least getting stronger, but then the universe makes sure that a song comes on from the time I was so deeply infatuated and triggers the emotions again, I have a crazy dream about her, or I run into someone like yourself with a similar story. It seems to never end. Its definitely not something I can forget. Ideally I need to move away because it is extremely depressing, almost unbearable at times.
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I'm sure he isn't intending to make life complicated. He feels drawn to you and is letting you know that. Taurus is passive, and we typically attract rather than pursue. For my part, I had never felt anything like this before, so it was terrifying. The strength of it made it even less likely that I would pursue. Fear of rejection was the issue. We don't like risk. And they say Scorpio just "knows" if someone is right for them intuitively. Well, with this one, I just "knew" she would be a lover, and not a friend (for me at least). I didn't want to even risk not passing her tests or meeting up to her scrutiny. If she friendzoned me, it would be devastating. What's funny is that I even did the teary-eyed stare one day....lol.


When someone shows such emotional behavior no need to test him. His sincerity was so obvious. But, it's a pity to know the passivity of taurus. I think it's always the man who has to lead and build a relationship. My friends used to tell me that my behavior generally doesn't encourage anyone to approach me. So, that person has to be Man enough to take this risk, otherwise i would think that he hasn't enough of courage or power to initiate any kind of realtionship.. then no interest to be with a weak man... Oops this will be the 1st test smile
One more thing, to be a friend with a scorp isn't that obvious neither ! (well i'm talking about my self). I really choose my friends and i don't have a lot of them !!
Ah i'm relieved now ! Thanks for sharing your experience. If you didn't start your topic before september (when I met him) i would have a doubt about your identity lol.
What would be the life for if it's not living passionly with your soulmate instead of suffering in his corner ? taking part of an adventure instead of watching with a beer glass in hand... Come on !
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LOL, yes I'm aware of the Scorpio perspective on "being a man" and initiating, and yes, it definitely is the first test in this scenario. I choose to not even take it. Scorps are co-ruled by Mars, planet of assertiveness/aggressiveness, bulls by Venus which is the Principle of Attraction. We just don't court like that *typically*. Another thing to consider is that sometimes you feel so much for a person, the magnetism is so strong that it literally shuts you down physically, causes extreme anxiety, etc. You would rather suffer in silence than risk making a fool out of yourself over some spell that has come over you and is beyond your control. If a woman judges me because I am THAT smitten with her, rather than APPRECIATING that I am that smitten, then I judge her back. Like you said, he conveyed his emotion deeply. He communicated alot more to you with just a look than most men have in approaching you assertively/aggressively. I think there should be something to respect in that, and it was obviously powerful enough to have made an impact on you because here we are. If we are used to women coming to us, and if we are built for that, to do otherwise is to be fake, which Scorps also hate.
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We run, you chase. That is how this is supposed to work. LOL. If it doesn't, then our magnet isn't working properly on you and there is no hope for long-term success.
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@TaurusLovesScorpio : Life is to live the moment present. One year and still no concrete action from your side ?! So I'm lucky that he left after four months of staring games. You're completly right about your non verbal signs ! he made enough but i didn't understand it that way. I was always expecting from him more concrete actions. He made one or two jokes, we laughed and that was all. Definitly i was sooo passive then or he wasn't that assertive/agressive enough for me :s The only thing that i liked about my ex (Pices) is his first contact with me. When comparing I say at least the first one has the courage to make the first obvious, direct, honest, sincere, "agressive/assertive"... step and he deserved to give him a chance, but unfortunately the relationship with him was tooo heavy and sooo boring that i finally gave up with it. Now, if you choose to cry in your corner that's your life. In such situation, i always turn the page and live my life without torturing myself. Sport helps me a lot, but unfortunately, i get injured in my leg so no run, no dance, no swim... that's why i can't forget him so easily. I think if you make an exception and pursue her with letting her know about this sacrifice, she will like for sure and will get more attached to you.
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@RedBull : yeah exactly. Just watching me without moving (and his eyes was so red). I made a goodbye sign with my hand and smiled at him but he didn't reply (maybe paralysed lol). So i turned my back and went away. He was ignoring me for four days but i didn't think that this ignorance could reach that point ! we have thirteen years of age difference. He is a joyful person with such a beautiful voice that i felt my self staring at him in the begining to explore him. I was thinking that we're not compatible.. i'm a so spiritual person and he sometimes is vulgar. Anyway, that's the story that the only thing i regret is not getting a chance to tell him that I like his person even if nothing could motivate us for a long term relationship.
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justbeing - I just honestly don't pursue women in that way. Its not in my nature. I like a relationship to grow naturally out of a friendship. And we had no business interacting really to even form a friendship because we worked in different departments. I don't get all worked up about a woman and then go chase after her like a caveman. This one was different because I have never felt like that without really getting to know a person. But the feelings I've had for her, to me, are more about circumstances of astrology than anything. I collect Taurus/Scorpio stories; the internet is full of them. I was reading up on 100's of people having the same experience, as I was going through it. Plus, and I mean no offense by this, but Scorpio has its downside. And I've seen and felt it. I was able to experience the highs and the lows, all in the kind of interaction we had, and the games that were played. at a distance I don't think I could handle it long-term at least with this particular Scorpio; I see it as a lesson learned. I wouldn't go near a Scorpio woman romantically, who is under 40, unless she was extremely spiritual. Just considering sun signs, I'm nnow ot even sure it is a good match at all actually. Beautiful, sexy, intelligent, alluring women, and as friends I think they are the sweetest people and incredibly loyal, but more the type I prefer to admire at a distance if there is physical chemistry.
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Posted by Impulsv
Not a question of ur magnetism
But a Scorpios pride. I chased once but I killed me to do so. But it this man to move meZ yet since u make every women chase u
U don't see how hard it is for her to do all the chasing.
Taurus met me at the right time for me to chase but if the conditions weren't right I never have gone all in.
Do u even value that a woman chased or is it just an ego noisy for a Taurus ?


I think its fear and ego. Bulls have their own ego issues for not chasing though. Truth is we both chased, just not verbally. I chased with my eyes. She chased with her eyes, body, voice - it was beautiful - most beautiful thing I've ever seen. As I've said, it was a dance, like scorpions do when they mate. She weaved the web, I didn't hop on, then she's hurt and confused, angry even. My instincts told me not to trust it for whatever reason. I think I started to see her impatience, anger, vindictiveness when I didn't respond the way she wanted. I usually do the controlling in relationships though...lol. On some level it was all a war of egos really - which unfortunately I think turns both signs on even more.
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This sounds like classic behavior from a man whose got a woman in his life. Yes, men can be shy and hesitant about approaching a woman they like if they aren't sure of their feelings. But you dig this man and have expressed that to him. He knows you like him. That he hasn't made an overt move on you screams TAKEN to me. Either that or he's got some relationship issues he's gotta sort out or a broken heart to mend. But make sure he's single before you invest a minute more in this dude. His under the radar moves are very suspicious.
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@TaurusLovesScorpio: Yes you're right. I check his profile on scoial networks, i found a lot of pics of him with his two kids but no sign of his wife. It seems that he is divorced. Anyway, his poses with his kids made me really crazy. It reflects how much he cares about them and loves them. I start to respect him more and more. Everything separate us, distance, language, religion, culture.. but it's really unfair to give me cold shoulder because of that. If he didn't come back that last day i wouldn't have been thinking about him now. Of course i won't try to reach him.
Tell me, why do taurus make life so complicated to others ? Why you didn't go straight forward towards your scorp and told her what's in your mind and then you would see which way to take with her : lover or just a friend?


See, you don't know if he's got a woman in his life & are afraid to ask, hence the creeping on his FB. Look, no good comes outta a triangle. Just b/c he might not be married doesn't mean he's available. Find out if he's single b4 you waste any more time. Better to know now than find out later. You'll get burned if you play in another woman's sand box.
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@TaurusLovesScorpio: Yes you're right. I check his profile on scoial networks, i found a lot of pics of him with his two kids but no sign of his wife. It seems that he is divorced. Anyway, his poses with his kids made me really crazy. It reflects how much he cares about them and loves them. I start to respect him more and more. Everything separate us, distance, language, religion, culture.. but it's really unfair to give me cold shoulder because of that. If he didn't come back that last day i wouldn't have been thinking about him now. Of course i won't try to reach him.
Tell me, why do taurus make life so complicated to others ? Why you didn't go straight forward towards your scorp and told her what's in your mind and then you would see which way to take with her : lover or just a friend?


See, you don't know if he's got a woman in his life & are afraid to ask, hence the creeping on his FB. Look, no good comes outta a triangle. Just b/c he might not be married doesn't mean he's available. Find out if he's single b4 you waste any more time. Better to know now than find out later. You'll get burned if you play in another woman's sand box.
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I agree here. This was my situation as well which complicated everything.
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@TaurusLovesScorpio: Yes you're right. I check his profile on scoial networks, i found a lot of pics of him with his two kids but no sign of his wife. It seems that he is divorced. Anyway, his poses with his kids made me really crazy. It reflects how much he cares about them and loves them. I start to respect him more and more. Everything separate us, distance, language, religion, culture.. but it's really unfair to give me cold shoulder because of that. If he didn't come back that last day i wouldn't have been thinking about him now. Of course i won't try to reach him.
Tell me, why do taurus make life so complicated to others ? Why you didn't go straight forward towards your scorp and told her what's in your mind and then you would see which way to take with her : lover or just a friend?


See, you don't know if he's got a woman in his life & are afraid to ask, hence the creeping on his FB. Look, no good comes outta a triangle. Just b/c he might not be married doesn't mean he's available. Find out if he's single b4 you waste any more time. Better to know now than find out later. You'll get burned if you play in another woman's sand box.


I agree here. This was my situation as well which complicated everything.
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Well it's live & learn for all of us. Sometimes you gotta stick your hand into the fire b4 you realize you'll get burned. Sometimes you get deceived and drawn into a mess. I don't want that to happen here. She needs to know the truth or put on her Loboutins and keep steppin' in style .
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Posted by Impulsv
Let's say I knew the games I ended to play but I refused to play them


And I played games I never even intended to. The dynamic brought it out of me; it was so challenging. That was another factor I had to consider. If someone's energy brings out a darker side to you that you don't like, its probably not a good sign.
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I agree on the responsibility. And yes, it showed me part of myself. But some people bring out the worst in you, *because* they have issues so its best to remove yourself from the situation. You can be a really patient person, but if you're around someone *constantly* pushing your buttons, you become impatient. But I do take it as a lesson. She showed me my dark/manipulative side. Looks like your bull brought out your loving/vulnerable/patient side. LOL. Yin & Yang. We know who is the light and who is the dark. hahahhaha...
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My dark was insecurity n jealousy because due to minimal action n lack of words regarding emotions. I didn't know his stance Never had this with a Leo , felt secure with leo from begging to end.
N I did react I Told him are "u going to stand there or do something about it"
Ouch to his ego I'm sure something a man doesn't want to hear.
Boy did I hit a chord, pushed his buttons. But I didn't do it intentionally but as a reaction to him pushing my buttons oh well.
Truth be told I see ur point could not be with someone who pushed my buttons to make me feel insecure constantly. He had his way of bringing that out of me. So ur right Not good.
Can that change? When we realize they have no power over us?



LOL, I am really not sure. She has power over me though. I can't deny that - or at least the dynamic does. If it didn't, one of the multiple times I've decided to clear my head of the entire thing would've worked. Its a process and takes time though.
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@este8 : thanks for your advice. I dont feel that he has a woman in his life. We dont live in the same country, so no way for a serious commitment even feelings are that so strong. I knew this from the beginning and I was wondering why he did overreact like that. Maybe I did miss sth or misunderstood him. He was spontaneous and I was so natural with him. My colleagues made jokes about us because this attraction was visible. He wasn't discrete at all or maybe he didnt know how to b it. Well I think there is no way to understand him.. he chosen to walk away and I wont run after him. The leatest thing is to respect his decision. If he is maso or whatever the reason, I must admit that I am his fan smile
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@este8 : thanks for your advice. I dont feel that he has a woman in his life. We dont live in the same country, so no way for a serious commitment even feelings are that so strong. I knew this from the beginning and I was wondering why he did overreact like that. Maybe I did miss sth or misunderstood him. He was spontaneous and I was so natural with him. My colleagues made jokes about us because this attraction was visible. He wasn't discrete at all or maybe he didnt know how to b it. Well I think there is no way to understand him.. he chosen to walk away and I wont run after him. The leatest thing is to respect his decision. If he is maso or whatever the reason, I must admit that I am his fan smile


Oh just send him a friend request on Facebook or something. That's not chasing; its just being friendly.
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@TLS: so instead of living up and down with her you did choose to live entirely down with urself? You re simply consuming.. are u both married or just in relationships?
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@tls : lol I m not on Facebook and even I was there I wouldn't add him. I should make life easy for him if he decide to forget ne. I tried one time to "reconciliate" with but I wont do it again.. I m not suffering from this, I did all what I had to do and consciously I m ok with this story. Just I m regretting the fact we are not friends as it was supposed to be
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@TLS: so instead of living up and down with her you did choose to live entirely down with urself? You re simply consuming.. are u both married or just in relationships?


I'm in a committed relationship. She is single now. I think we all live up and down to a degree. I like to stay as even-keel as I can, given that I'm already a little volatile. I'll be ok; I've had quite a wild ride already in life, and I don't share the same notions about the importance of one particular "soulmate". I'm a little cynical/skeptical in that regard. I'm actually in love, just a love of a different kind. Love with a Scorpio can be expected to be intense, passionate, telepathic, magnetic, and all that, along with all the negatives - coldness of withdrawal, drama/power struggles, jealousy, control, extremely high expectations, etc. That doesn't make it a better kind of love, just because it is more extreme or intense. Its just different. That's what I tell myself anyway.
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@este8 : thanks for your advice. I dont feel that he has a woman in his life. We dont live in the same country, so no way for a serious commitment even feelings are that so strong. I knew this from the beginning and I was wondering why he did overreact like that. Maybe I did miss sth or misunderstood him. He was spontaneous and I was so natural with him. My colleagues made jokes about us because this attraction was visible. He wasn't discrete at all or maybe he didnt know how to b it. Well I think there is no way to understand him.. he chosen to walk away and I wont run after him. The leatest thing is to respect his decision. If he is maso or whatever the reason, I must admit that I am his fan smile


Oh, justbeingascorp, you can't work out that kind of long distance relationship. Maybe that is why he has acted evasive b/c he knows the logistics don't work. That might change the complexion but not the end game. No matter how YOU feel about a person, if you're not in the same country, it just can't work out. And that really sucks. This man is a place for you to put your heart. That's what I think, not that you don't have real feelings for him. But he can't reciprocate given the geography. You know what you need to do. And in time you'll have the courage to do it. Heart's out to you. You will love again.
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@tls : lol I m not on Facebook and even I was there I wouldn't add him. I should make life easy for him if he decide to forget ne. I tried one time to "reconciliate" with but I wont do it again.. I m not suffering from this, I did all what I had to do and consciously I m ok with this story. Just I m regretting the fact we are not friends as it was supposed to be


I understand. If you can let it go that easily, it probably wasn't that strong of a connection.
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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I understand. If you can let it go that easily, it probably wasn't that strong of a connection.


My mutable self resents this comment! Tongue We can detach easily if we've had enough..else our nervous system goes to shreds. Must be a foreign concept in the Taurus-Scorpio axis though.
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I understand. If you can let it go that easily, it probably wasn't that strong of a connection.


My mutable self resents this comment! Tongue We can detach easily if we've had enough..else our nervous system goes to shreds. Must be a foreign concept in the Taurus-Scorpio axis though.
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LOL, a Virgo can detach from her own children if she needs to (or if they just criticize her about something).
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"Hope you learned to walk until now...if not, tough luck"
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@tls : I was so sick just after that. I was expecting a msg from him but no sign of life. Two months later I check on the net to understand quietly this and the only exit was his astro profile. Also distance helps much to turn the page. But as I rarely like some one it would be a little hard to forget him. Finally I think if he made no effort to keep in touch why should I pursue him. Talkin about it here helps me to have clear ideas and then decide to turn this beautiful small chapter of my life.
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"Hope you learned to walk until now...if not, tough luck"



Hhahahha....No joke, my spiteful Virgo mom kicked me out, got a judge to issue an emergency restraining order based on a note she gave him from her therapist saying that our arguments were raising her blood pressure to dangerously high levels (actually genetic), and then she called the cops and had me arrested when I came back to peacefully get the rest of my stuff a week later.
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@tls : I was so sick just after that. I was expecting a msg from him but no sign of life. Two months later I check on the net to understand quietly this and the only exit was his astro profile. Also distance helps much to turn the page. But as I rarely like some one it would be a little hard to forget him. Finally I think if he made no effort to keep in touch why should I pursue him. Talkin about it here helps me to have clear ideas and then decide to turn this beautiful small chapter of my life.


I'm sure the emotion you picked up from him, and the classic Taurean avoidance behavior, indicates a really strong interest on his part. But we are stubborn, and once we decide for *some* reason, that it won't work, we will stay that course. The reason could be anything - he doesn't feel you're interested, he feels you'll hurt him, find him boring, he's not your type, religious reasons, the distance, etc. So that may be what happened....And I don't blame you for not reaching out. If I was single (as you think he is), and I left this place, I would definitely write the Scorp here and express what was on my mind/heart the whole time. I'm alot more of a communicator than most bulls though. Some really really are the silent type. He should've at least responded in some way if you reached out to him though.
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"Hope you learned to walk until now...if not, tough luck"



Hhahahha....No joke, my spiteful Virgo mom kicked me out, got a judge to issue an emergency restraining order based on a note she gave him from her therapist saying that our arguments were raising her blood pressure to dangerously high levels (actually genetic), and then she called the cops and had me arrested when I came back to peacefully get the rest of my stuff a week later.
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Bwhahaha..sorry but the woman really went all the way didn't she? With therapist notes and shit. I have several simmillar stories with my Leo mother. You must have some wicked sense of humor...it was my weapon in preserving my sense of sanity.
So..I take it there's no love for us Virgos Tongue
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I don't hold grudges against zodiac signs, or individuals really. And when I got older I understood how she was raised and it all made alot more sense. She has changed so much too. My mom is actually my closest relationship now. We talk for hours, she is the best listener on the planet, gives the best advice, etc. Really an amazing woman. All the Virgos I known are just great people. Relationship-wise, I've played aorund, but nothing serious ever just due to circumstances. I think I would be less jealous of a Virgo as they seem the most trustworthy around the opposite sex, when they're in love. I think it would have to be that way as they don't seem to be able to handle extreme jealousy (my dad is a Scorp). On the other hand, its scary how you folks can detach like you do. You seem pretty self-sufficient. I like my partners to be a little more needy, with a healthy fear of abandonment.
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The detachment is only an illusion..we are capable to hold a torch for years but we won't advertise it. Our intensity is of a different material..it manifests itself in commitment. It's hard to explain it. But yes, when we do detach, it's done. It takes us a lot of time to get there..typical Earth sign mentality. And yeah..apart from some slutty Virgos..most of us could sleep in a bed with 2 men we're attracted to and we wouldn't cheat on our bf.
Oh your Dad is a Scorp..I'm blaming him for her being out of her wits. I hope I'll get to a level of acceptance with my mom..we won't ever be close but at least casual and polite and chat from time to time.
But we are needy as fuck though. Not going to expand on that..it would violate the Virgo Law to admit to it.
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The detachment is only an illusion..we are capable to hold a torch for years but we won't advertise it. Our intensity is of a different material..it manifests itself in commitment. It's hard to explain it. But yes, when we do detach, it's done. It takes us a lot of time to get there..typical Earth sign mentality. And yeah..apart from some slutty Virgos..most of us could sleep in a bed with 2 men we're attracted to and we wouldn't cheat on our bf.
Oh your Dad is a Scorp..I'm blaming him for her being out of her wits. I hope I'll get to a level of acceptance with my mom..we won't ever be close but at least casual and polite and chat from time to time.
But we are needy as fuck though. Not going to expand on that..it would violate the Virgo Law to admit to it.


LOL, I have met a slutty Virgo. Even she was like not so sure about her sluttiness. It was really easy to see she was repressing some real shame.
I think a factor for me is familiarity. Have you ever felt like you are just so familiar with a certain sign that you wouldn't date them? That's Cancer for me. I'm done. I've had my fill. I semi-feel that way about Virgos just due to my closeness with my mother, but then the communication is just so good it does spark my interest. I would *really* like some Virgos in the harem because they are so helpful. I can see them being the MVP of the harem.
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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
We run, you chase. That is how this is supposed to work. LOL. If it doesn't, then our magnet isn't working properly on you and there is no hope for long-term success.


Unfortunately that is what Scorpio females believe of themselves as well. It's a trait WE BOTH have in common Winking
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yeah...with two who will not chase, it just isnt going anywhere and becomes a battle of pride and ego. and with all my Leo, and how things have always been, I just cant budge or change when pride is at stake. I will be like 90 yrs old still thinking ''she wants me still...she's going to break and facebook me any day now.''...lol
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Although I have to admit... I've had Taurus men chase me before. So, they ARE out there!


thats bc you are a dancing scorp....we think you are performing a mating ritual.
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Posted by Infinite8
Although I have to admit... I've had Taurus men chase me before. So, they ARE out there!


thats bc you are a dancing scorp....we think you are performing a mating ritual.


Sometimes it is a mating ritual. That's what makes a great dancer. It's not only what your body can physically do... it's the energy you give out that goes with it that ends up hypnotizing. Yeah... maybe that helped a bit, I'll agree with this bit Winking
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I get it...lol. The way a scorp just moves in general is rhythmic and sexual...lol. and i've seen it on the dance floor. thats why you are the glitch in the Taurean loyalty. I actually was with my Sag at dinner over the weekend and we ran into a Scorp/Virgo couple we know. the way she was just rubbing her husbands back was too much for me. i had to look the other way.
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Posted by justbeingscorpio
@TLS: so instead of living up and down with her you did choose to live entirely down with urself? You re simply consuming.. are u both married or just in relationships?


I'm in a committed relationship. She is single now. I think we all live up and down to a degree. I like to stay as even-keel as I can, given that I'm already a little volatile. I'll be ok; I've had quite a wild ride already in life, and I don't share the same notions about the importance of one particular "soulmate". I'm a little cynical/skeptical in that regard. I'm actually in love, just a love of a different kind. Love with a Scorpio can be expected to be intense, passionate, telepathic, magnetic, and all that, along with all the negatives - coldness of withdrawal, drama/power struggles, jealousy, control, extremely high expectations, etc. That doesn't make it a better kind of love, just because it is more extreme or intense. Its just different. That's what I tell myself anyway.
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I can confirm that. With my ex it was always like that.. I can remember that one day he cried and told me that he couldn't get over this: He felt himself trapped in this relationship and that i was cruel with him . In fact, when he explained to me that in the beginning his intention was only having fun and after it became serious for him, i didn't like it at all and of course i didn't show it but i was confused, hurted, schoked, disgusted, disapointed ... I was sincere with him while he was only playing: How stupid i was ! i took my revenge inconciously. I tasted the cold dish of revenge and it was so delicious lol I'm trying to explain why the ups and downs with a scorpio and why relationships usually get over dramatically. He called me many times after and of course, this refrain that every one sang for us " I've never felt this before" "you're so exceptional and original" "no woman was or will be like you" had no effect on me ... Feelings without sincere actions are only a sort of bla bla bla
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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

I'm sure the emotion you picked up from him, and the classic Taurean avoidance behavior, indicates a really strong interest on his part. But we are stubborn, and once we decide for *some* reason, that it won't work, we will stay that course. The reason could be anything - he doesn't feel you're interested, he feels you'll hurt him, find him boring, he's not your type, religious reasons, the distance, etc. So that may be what happened....And I don't blame you for not reaching out. If I was single (as you think he is), and I left this place, I would definitely write the Scorp here and express what was on my mind/heart the whole time. I'm alot more of a communicator than most bulls though. Some really really are the silent type. He should've at least responded in some way if you reached out to him though.


Maybe if he didn't ignore me last days, i would have some motivation to reach out to him. Whatever the reason, whatever his feelings, the fact is he decided to move on. Simple as that..
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LOL, I have met a slutty Virgo. Even she was like not so sure about her sluttiness. It was really easy to see she was repressing some real shame.
I think a factor for me is familiarity. Have you ever felt like you are just so familiar with a certain sign that you wouldn't date them? That's Cancer for me. I'm done. I've had my fill. I semi-feel that way about Virgos just due to my closeness with my mother, but then the communication is just so good it does spark my interest. I would *really* like some Virgos in the harem because they are so helpful. I can see them being the MVP of the harem.


Yeah, was just going to post that Cancer Female might be my favorite match for Taurus Men..based on what I've seen in real life Big Grin
I love familiarity..it's interesting you say that. I noticed Scorps need tension in a relationship..since you folks are a lot alike..you might need tension as well.
The harem..don't know about our contribution but we'd probably be good with coming up with a schedule so every chick gets attention and time Big Grin. If I was a Taurus guy I'd keep the harem to a definitive number..not too high because women get really petty and competitive with each other. And the nonstop talking dear God..but then again I firmly believe Taurus guys have an off switch in their minds just for this type of scenario. The Sound Of Silence Big Grin
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Posted by Este8

Oh, justbeingascorp, you can't work out that kind of long distance relationship. Maybe that is why he has acted evasive b/c he knows the logistics don't work. That might change the complexion but not the end game. No matter how YOU feel about a person, if you're not in the same country, it just can't work out. And that really sucks. This man is a place for you to put your heart. That's what I think, not that you don't have real feelings for him. But he can't reciprocate given the geography. You know what you need to do. And in time you'll have the courage to do it. Heart's out to you. You will love again.



I have a lot activities, i travel a lot, i live almost in a spiritual world rather than material one.. that's my strength and it's very helpul in such situations Winking
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i live almost in a spiritual world rather than material one..


That's nice. Detachment from the petty details of the material world...gives you clarity in the bigger picture. As someone who lets details master her life over the big picture..I could use a little of that Big Grin
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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
We run, you chase. That is how this is supposed to work. LOL. If it doesn't, then our magnet isn't working properly on you and there is no hope for long-term success.


Unfortunately that is what Scorpio females believe of themselves as well. It's a trait WE BOTH have in common Winking


Correction: we DONT run. But, we also don't chase. We invite with our eyes as well.
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LOL so true !
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wow. so hot topic.. nice.
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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
LOL, I have met a slutty Virgo. Even she was like not so sure about her sluttiness. It was really easy to see she was repressing some real shame.
I think a factor for me is familiarity. Have you ever felt like you are just so familiar with a certain sign that you wouldn't date them? That's Cancer for me. I'm done. I've had my fill. I semi-feel that way about Virgos just due to my closeness with my mother, but then the communication is just so good it does spark my interest. I would *really* like some Virgos in the harem because they are so helpful. I can see them being the MVP of the harem.


Yeah, was just going to post that Cancer Female might be my favorite match for Taurus Men..based on what I've seen in real life Big Grin
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Why are Crab ladies your favorite matches for Male Bulls? I'm just curious.
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