My Taurus boyfriend broke up with me...

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by LibraCancer05 on Wednesday, November 28, 2018 and has 28 replies.
what happend *taurus man*
We have been dating for half a year and I honestly believe he could have been the one.. He’s going though a lot lately and we had a rough month after not seeing each other for almost three weeks due to travels. He came back about half a month ago and things were sensitive but I told him I wanted to be there for him when he was going though a hard time etc. Last weekend he acted a bit like a spoiled child he turned cold and selfish. He has the biggest heart so this is really unusual... he broke up over the phone in less than 4 minutes without a proper explanation because he couldn’t come say bye (lives 20 mins away)

I know I deserved better than this breakup. I know he has to focus on himself at the moment and the best for him is to be alone to find himself and go though some issues without the pressure of a relationship and I can imagine he’s hurting... he told me how special I was to him

I wanna know if I should try to forget about him and move on. Or not? Is he gonna come back when he feels better about himself? What should I do?

I’m libra btw
how long has it been since the "break up" ?

This reminds of the episode in Insecure where Issa got ghosted for a full damn month and homeboy came back with how he couldnt deal with her and life.

Total bs.

Let that coward go.

How do you dump someone over the holidays.

Cruel.
as a taurus myself i can tell you one thing... we like to keep shit inside to not bother oter people but the come a point were we cant take it any more and brake ... takes time to get better again

high. highs very low lows

if you care for him than be patient.. if not let him know your over him and that you will be fine ( dont ad on to his insecurity
Posted by Impulsv

The correct way to handle it is have a discussion what’s going on ask for a space communicate. Not just bail
Thats debatable. The prerequisite for any relationship is to have your life sorted out. At least for taurus men.

Op is he struggling for a while and didnt tell you this or is it a recent crisis
Im a taurus female but i can relate to him. Ive been in a funk lately and sort of lost. I decided i didnt wanna be a burden and i didnt want my s.o to go from being a s.o to my sole support system. (My bf is also a Taurus)That is just frustrating and unfair to him.

I tried discussing it with him and breaking up. But he reassured me that we can solve this struggle together, but if i needed to take a break, he would be patient while i figure it out.

I love him too much so i decided to stay and work it out with him.

Communication is key. But we are private people and sometimes if we are stressed, we just want to run away and deal with things on our own.

I hate seeming weak and pathetic.

My advice give him time to come around. Weather or not you will get back together idk. But i have confidence he will at least talk to you about things once he feels better
and now your real life can begin.
Thankkk you for all the messages

The breakup happend on Sunday.. over the phone - im sure he couldn’t do it face to face because of the pain. He’s sensitive I understand though. He texted me on Monday asking to meet up and I was so hurt I told him I didn’t wanted to. He told me how much me cares for me and that I didn’t served such a thing though the phone.

He also said he doesn’t want to throw away what we had (which left me quite confused ; any insight Taurus people?)

Of course I care for him and I want to be with him though the ups and downs...

thanks @Boots1313 I’m going to put some weeks between us and hope he comes around and we can communicate properly.
Posted by LibraCancer05

Thankkk you for all the messages

The breakup happend on Sunday.. over the phone - im sure he couldn’t do it face to face because of the pain. He’s sensitive I understand though. He texted me on Monday asking to meet up and I was so hurt I told him I didn’t wanted to. He told me how much me cares for me and that I didn’t served such a thing though the phone.

He also said he doesn’t want to throw away what we had (which left me quite confused ; any insight Taurus people?)

Of course I care for him and I want to be with him though the ups and downs...

thanks @Boots1313 I’m going to put some weeks between us and hope he comes around and we can communicate properly.


Of course i dont know you guys or your relationship but the part about "I don't want to throw away what we have" in my book means, he wants to remain friends/civil, or even considers reuniting down the line.

But listen, you must let him come to you and give him space. Do however check in on ocassion...something friendly like "hey, just seeing how you're doing...Just know, im here for you if you need"

Also if he wants to meet up again, and you want him back. Meet up. If you keep pushing him off he will read that as disinterest.
Posted by Gobby

You're probably more pissed off at the fact that he jumped ship before you did... Laughing



😂😭 noo

I also thought it was better for him to be alone for a while and figure out all the suppressed pain the had been hiding over the years!

I’m pissed he couldn’t use me as a support!

I’ve been though a lot of pain and I am forever thankful to those friends who were there when I was at my worst

And I thought him and me were together for good and that means though good times and bad times...
Posted by Boots1313

Also if he wants to meet up again, and you want him back. Meet up. If you keep pushing him off he will read that as disinterest.
this. i can't stress it enough.

if you want to be with him, you must, in this time of weakness for him, meet him with strength and be there when he needs you to be.
Taurus aren't good with sharing their struggles, most often they'll bottle things up or try to handle themselves. Dont push yourself on him, give him space and focus on yourself. Whether he'll return or not doesnt matter, because he wouldnt want you to sit around doing nothing but thinking of him. Taurus likes independent and driven people, focus on bettering yourself while he sorts himself out. It has nothing to do with you, he just had to figure his own stuff out right now.
it seems that some ex has come back to his life lately...
Posted by Pandora101

it seems that some ex has come back to his life lately...


Perhaps...but i think its just were prideful secretive people and the males especially like to be manly and keep up appearances.

But one never knows, others may be involved
Btw @libracancer05 i tried reaponding to your message but my DM doesn't seem to be working...
Posted by Boots1313

Btw @libracancer05 i tried reaponding to your message but my DM doesn't seem to be working...


@boots1313

He just texted me about the letter... he said: Car i got your letter, it really touched me and I think it so sweet and strong from you, you are amazing. I would really love to give you a big hug and show you how much you mean to me. You have met me in a period in my life where I am going through so many things.. I feel sad the last days and I do miss you a lot, but I am also very grateful that I have met you and all the beautiful moments we shared together No one is gonna take that away. I hope I can see you after your exams. ❤❤

It does sounds like a goodbye to me... 😔
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Posted by Pandora101

it seems that some ex has come back to his life lately...


Perhaps...but i think its just were prideful secretive people and the males especially like to be manly and keep up appearances.

But one never knows, others may be involved
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I know him and almost 100% sure there’s nobody else involved. Last girl he had was 2/3 years ago. 4 year Long relationship and she cheated on him. I hope for him that he isn’t thinking of her... she doesn’t deserve him
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Posted by Boots1313

Posted by Pandora101

it seems that some ex has come back to his life lately...


Perhaps...but i think its just were prideful secretive people and the males especially like to be manly and keep up appearances.

But one never knows, others may be involved
I know him and almost 100% sure there’s nobody else involved. Last girl he had was 2/3 years ago. 4 year Long relationship and she cheated on him. I hope for him that he isn’t thinking of her... she doesn’t deserve him
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Sounds like my dude. His last relationships was 2 years ago. They were togther 2 years and then she cheated and got pregnant! O know he would never want to inflict that pain on someone, im sure your guy is the same.
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Posted by Boots1313

Btw @libracancer05 i tried reaponding to your message but my DM doesn't seem to be working...


@boots1313

He just texted me about the letter... he said: Car i got your letter, it really touched me and I think it so sweet and strong from you, you are amazing. I would really love to give you a big hug and show you how much you mean to me. You have met me in a period in my life where I am going through so many things.. I feel sad the last days and I do miss you a lot, but I am also very grateful that I have met you and all the beautiful moments we shared together No one is gonna take that away. I hope I can see you after your exams. ❤❤

It does sounds like a goodbye to me... 😔
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Not necessarily. But def let him figure things out. Be there for him.

Sounds like you guys are both young under 25? ...never know what can happen
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Posted by Boots1313

Btw @libracancer05 i tried reaponding to your message but my DM doesn't seem to be working...


@boots1313

He just texted me about the letter... he said: Car i got your letter, it really touched me and I think it so sweet and strong from you, you are amazing. I would really love to give you a big hug and show you how much you mean to me. You have met me in a period in my life where I am going through so many things.. I feel sad the last days and I do miss you a lot, but I am also very grateful that I have met you and all the beautiful moments we shared together No one is gonna take that away. I hope I can see you after your exams. ❤❤

It does sounds like a goodbye to me... 😔


Not necessarily. But def let him figure things out. Be there for him.

Sounds like you guys are both young under 25? ...never know what can happen
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We are..

I will follow your advice... thank you so much for your time and help! ❤️ Really grateful for real
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Posted by Boots1313

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Posted by Boots1313

Btw @libracancer05 i tried reaponding to your message but my DM doesn't seem to be working...


@boots1313

He just texted me about the letter... he said: Car i got your letter, it really touched me and I think it so sweet and strong from you, you are amazing. I would really love to give you a big hug and show you how much you mean to me. You have met me in a period in my life where I am going through so many things.. I feel sad the last days and I do miss you a lot, but I am also very grateful that I have met you and all the beautiful moments we shared together No one is gonna take that away. I hope I can see you after your exams. ❤❤

It does sounds like a goodbye to me... 😔


Not necessarily. But def let him figure things out. Be there for him.

Sounds like you guys are both young under 25? ...never know what can happen
We are..

I will follow your advice... thank you so much for your time and help! ❤️ Really grateful for real
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You're welcome. Stay patient. Best of luck.

Also...have fun...in general. Wish i was in my early 20s again

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Posted by Boots1313

Btw @libracancer05 i tried reaponding to your message but my DM doesn't seem to be working...


@boots1313

He just texted me about the letter... he said: Car i got your letter, it really touched me and I think it so sweet and strong from you, you are amazing. I would really love to give you a big hug and show you how much you mean to me. You have met me in a period in my life where I am going through so many things.. I feel sad the last days and I do miss you a lot, but I am also very grateful that I have met you and all the beautiful moments we shared together No one is gonna take that away. I hope I can see you after your exams. ❤❤

It does sounds like a goodbye to me... 😔


Not necessarily. But def let him figure things out. Be there for him.

Sounds like you guys are both young under 25? ...never know what can happen
We are..

I will follow your advice... thank you so much for your time and help! ❤️ Really grateful for real


You're welcome. Stay patient. Best of luck.

Also...have fun...in general. Wish i was in my early 20s again

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Thank you..

I wish I could press play forward to when I’m done studying and a stable job and no more roommates... im done with the wild night life anyway 🤷🏼‍♀️
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Posted by Boots1313

Posted by LibraCancer05

Posted by Boots1313

Btw @libracancer05 i tried reaponding to your message but my DM doesn't seem to be working...


@boots1313

He just texted me about the letter... he said: Car i got your letter, it really touched me and I think it so sweet and strong from you, you are amazing. I would really love to give you a big hug and show you how much you mean to me. You have met me in a period in my life where I am going through so many things.. I feel sad the last days and I do miss you a lot, but I am also very grateful that I have met you and all the beautiful moments we shared together No one is gonna take that away. I hope I can see you after your exams. ❤❤

It does sounds like a goodbye to me... 😔


Not necessarily. But def let him figure things out. Be there for him.

Sounds like you guys are both young under 25? ...never know what can happen
We are..

I will follow your advice... thank you so much for your time and help! ❤️ Really grateful for real


You're welcome. Stay patient. Best of luck.

Also...have fun...in general. Wish i was in my early 20s again

Thank you..

I wish I could press play forward to when I’m done studying and a stable job and no more roommates... im done with the wild night life anyway 🤷🏼‍♀️
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Yes i will say that is a nice thing. Both my bf and i are hermits. We perfer to watch history documentaries and fall asleep while eating taco bell, over going out drinking and partying. Quiet nights to me are the best
It's either two things.

1. He's trying to see if he could work things out with someone else.

2. He has 'money' issues.

With a Taurus man, if his money is funny, he's not going to feel as if he is deserving of you.

May even withdraw from you.

With anything else,

We can move mountains in the midst of trauma.

We're very strong signs.

Not buying his 'after exams' excuse.
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Posted by Impulsv

The correct way to handle it is have a discussion what’s going on ask for a space communicate. Not just bail
Thats debatable. The prerequisite for any relationship is to have your life sorted out. At least for taurus men.

Op is he struggling for a while and didnt tell you this or is it a recent crisis
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The thing about that is, life makes sure your shit gets all messed up and you have to sort it out again and, yeah. That’s life. Does that mean it’s ok for a Taurus to break up and disappear periodically? The adults in the world realize nothing is perfect, nor permanent and, yeah. It sucks. Screw this guy. She deserves better.
Posted by TaurusBull1977

It's either two things.

1. He's trying to see if he could work things out with someone else.

2. He has 'money' issues.

With a Taurus man, if his money is funny, he's not going to feel as if he is deserving of you.

May even withdraw from you.

With anything else,

We can move mountains in the midst of trauma.

We're very strong signs.

Not buying his 'after exams' excuse.
We did see each other after exams so that did work out

And indeed he doesn’t have a job after graduating from his masters about half a year ago so I believe he was struggling a bit with money and confidence