My Taurus man ends the relationship
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by linds444 on Friday, December 14, 2012 and has 6 replies.
Linds, I feel your pain. You seem to have a lot on your plate and your Taurus man has trouble accepting that. In my past experience, I had difficulty balancing my job, school work and relationship with a Taurus man. I always felt like I was the one who had to do the apologizing and making up for not being emotionally or physically available at all times. What you should realize is that Taurus men are extremely protective and possessive of those they love. They want to know that you are theirs and there are no outside threats to the relationship. If you do not like someone having this type of control over you then I suggest to tell him that and remove yourself from the situation. However, it seems to me that you love this man and you want him to understand that you have other responsibilities. Rather than trying to explain your problems away, try showing him through actions. Taurus are every receptive to little things that you do rather than say. Please know that the reason he gets so upsets about your "lack of joy" is because he cares about you deeply and wants to know that you feel the same. Any arguments caused by passion or the case of "caring too much" from a partner should be considered healthy. Don't take for granted how much he loves you and know that if he suddenly stopped showing his commitment towards you, you would have the same insecurities he does. He just may need a bit more reassurance than you do.
we taurus men or in fact women have a huge issue with feeling wanted - as cancercrab717 said we need constant attention it is true but we do it because we want to feel secure all the time, you do deserve a medal for staying round and fighting for the relationship my previous ex didn't in a way I don't blame her to an extent due to my flaws.
if you dropped him, cut him out that will hurt him to a point he will realise that he has lost you and realise what he has been doing is wrong, that's how I have felt since being dumped it takes us a while to realise our wrongs until it's goes, maybe leave him to crawl to you.
if you dropped him, cut him out that will hurt him to a point he will realise that he has lost you and realise what he has been doing is wrong, that's how I have felt since being dumped it takes us a while to realise our wrongs until it's goes, maybe leave him to crawl to you.
Brittfuzz makes a oood point. Taurus' usually always come back in some way or another, especially if there was no sense of betrayal or any major wrong doing (i.e. unfaithfulness). Giving him time to think things over can be beneficial. However, I always felt that it was easiest for me to say sorry first in order to get a Taurus to open up again...even if I didn't really think I did anything wrong. It was usually just a battle between who can outlast the other with their stubbornness.
^ *good point
Maybe one part of him is a tad bit sorry, but the other part is probably upset with you for not contacting him causing him to somewhat force that apology, imho. Manipulative passive-aggressive bs from here on out, me thinks.
Linds44 hey Hun!! Taurus's thrive when we feel secure, our need to feel "wanted " by our partner is vital. We like to be connected to our mate in every way. It is honorable that he adores you and your son, its also great that he does things for you without you having to ask, but maybe the reason he brings up the things he provides you with is because he feels as though you are being unappreciative. From what I've read the only thing he wants you to do is to be happy and at least sound interested with his endeavors. Also if you guys are serious he is observing your living situation. We love our living quarters to be spotless so you may want to handle that. Being a mom is a full time job within itself, not mention clocking in on the daily basis but he has to know that you can handle these things.
Unfortunately, he is a Taurus and we take the cake on being stubborn. I commend you for fighting your relationship but being a woman I don't think you should keeping chasing him. You are encouraging his stubbornness. He needs to be a better communicator. The easiest thing to do is run, ESPECIALLY IF HE KNOWS YOU ARE GONNA COME RUNNING BEHIND HIM.
Unfortunately, he is a Taurus and we take the cake on being stubborn. I commend you for fighting your relationship but being a woman I don't think you should keeping chasing him. You are encouraging his stubbornness. He needs to be a better communicator. The easiest thing to do is run, ESPECIALLY IF HE KNOWS YOU ARE GONNA COME RUNNING BEHIND HIM.
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