Need advice from a Taurus woman

Hi all,

I am a Pisces man who has be talking to a Taurus woman for a few months. She was recently divorced and made it known from the beginning that she is not looking for a relationship at the moment, which is understandable. As a Pisces, when we have our eyes set on someone, we go all out and give them our all and everything that their heart's desire and we tend to fall for someone very quickly. In the beginning I felt that there was a connection and a sense of emotions becoming involved because she would at time show that she was feeling me. But in the blink of an eye, she distanced herself from me because, again, she was/is not ready for a serious relationship. She stopped going out with me but maintained communication with me every single day through phone calls and texts, the majority of the time she was initiating the conversations. There is a guy who she has known for many years that works out with her at our job and they have a great relationship. I am not jealous of the guy, and he is married, but I do get jealous at the time that he spends with her when I want her time to be spent with me. So apparently he was "in the area" and stopped by to do some work for her when the day before I was literally at her spot when I dropped her off. So when she told me that he did the work for her instead of me, I texted her back " wow" "have a goodnight". Since then, she has completely shut me out. Will she forgive me? Or is this a done deal?

i don't know if she'll come back but i am interested if you know why she is behaving this way?

Taurus moon and mars in here.

It all depends how much she likes you. If she is trying to go slow because she has feelings then she will be back. Give her time and don’t be too intense, if not she will run.

I don’t have a choice but to give her her space because i don’t want to run her away. It’s just that there are so many unanswered questions and so many possible outcomes playing out in my mind that it’s difficult to focus. She is well away that i do care about her and have feelings for her.

As far as options, she is pretty much consumed with her daughter and her daughter now running track. So she’s been pretty busy and really doesn’t have the time for much activities.

I also read that Taurus ppl can get stressed out then lash out at family and friends. She has been overwhelmed since her divorce and she totaled her car a few days before.

Posted by PiscesMan8

I don’t have a choice but to give her her space because i don’t want to run her away. It’s just that there are so many unanswered questions and so many possible outcomes playing out in my mind that it’s difficult to focus. She is well away that i do care about her and have feelings for her.

As far as options, she is pretty much consumed with her daughter and her daughter now running track. So she’s been pretty busy and really doesn’t have the time for much activities.

I also read that Taurus ppl can get stressed out then lash out at family and friends. She has been overwhelmed since her divorce and she totaled her car a few days before.

what effect do you think your sarky comment had on the situation?

What sarky comment? The wow have a good night? If that is what ur referring to, I didn't think that warranted a complete shutdown.

Posted by PiscesMan8

What sarky comment? The wow have a good night? If that is what ur referring to, I didn't think that warranted a complete shutdown.

how much do you know about the dynamics of her marriage and divorce? did a sense of entitlement play a part?

you might not think it warrants a complete shut down but your emotions aren't the issue here. she's told shes just come out of a divorce. she's told you she is not looking for a relationship. your reaction is to explain that you go "all out and give them our all" which sort of dismisses her request but ok, whatever.

you believe that she "feeling you" although she hasn't told you that directly. either way, she distanced herself from you and stopped seeing you in person.

however you're annoyed that she is talking to a married co-worker. married and as such less likely to want to get her into bed. less likely to pressure her into a relationship she is not ready for.

when she chooses - her choice - to have him fix something in her house, you respond with "wow" "have a goodnight" as if she owes you something. she doesn't. you're not together. you don't even see each other.

if you are going to make unrealistic demands in a passive aggressive way when you are not even together (which may have been an issue in her unhappy marriage) then she is going to block you. not shutdown which implies that she no longer functions. she exists and functions but she has chosen to no longer include you.

like you said, she is focusing on her daughter, trying to sort out a new car, working on getting her life back on track.

Wow. That was definitely an eye opener. Everything u said makes a lot of sense.

Thank u.

I agree with @Jeane; as a Taurus having a Pisces husband it was difficult to communicate effectively because he could not understand my directness. He was indirect and I see that in what you said. I'm not sure she even knows why you said what you said - the "wow" have a good evening" thing. She doesn't understand where you are coming from since she's already told you she doesn't want anything serious.

I am guilty of saying things once and not wanting to have to repeat myself (Cap Moon woes?). It's a real turn off to me. Listen and learn. You may have to put your emotions and feelings and dreams aside and just be friends or not. Perhaps explore other potential interests.

Update.

She reached out to me last monday. We are back to talking every day and she is initiating the communications. Im just taking it all day by day and just being chill about every thing. We never talked again about the situation and im cool with that. I was outta line and now I know that we are just establishing a friendship.

Posted by PiscesMan8

Update.

She reached out to me last monday. We are back to talking every day and she is initiating the communications. Im just taking it all day by day and just being chill about every thing. We never talked again about the situation and im cool with that. I was outta line and now I know that we are just establishing a friendship.

sounds good and good luck !

Hello i could need some Help ...

..maybe im wrong ..Here but ...WE will See 😆

I know that Taurus Girl ...

I See her at Work Sometimes ..

She ask for my Number ...and WE Had some Dates ...that typical Taurus behavior ...she give me presents ...was distant and aloof ..Like they are ..i was helping with her move and saw her Mom ...

WE Had some great Moments at Work ..and some nice Dates ...

So i ask her Out. ..at that time i start falling in Love ...

So i Made Dinner for her

WE Made a fire ...she stay Till late night ...Alone in my Garden ..

And WE kisst us heavently !!!!!

So real and so nice her eyse was Sparkling

I was Sure shes in Love ...

So i was 100% Sure shes in Love ...

OK next week ..i was in Relationship Mode

And Text her and voicemailing her maybe to much

WE saw us at Work ...and i told her ...i dont want to Rush or Push you ...

WE saw us again ...i try to kiss her ...but she wasnt in the mood ...but she was cuddling with...me ...and we talkt ...about everything

She knew that i was thinking WE are exklusiv ...i could feel that i maybe was to pushy for her

And shes talking alot of her University Situation that is so stressful for her ..and shes really in Stress ..shes even going Back to her Parents ...btw ..i told her WE going her Tempo

She told me :

1: i Always need longer

2: lets See where it leads

3: i cant give 100% now

4: i Had a relationship where one have more than the other ..and that will Hurt someone

And Nr.5 and my Favorite :

5: whats even time 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 dafuk

OK now If i ask her she seems ...to be Not avalible ..and very in Stress ...and i dont know when i got time next ..is all she told me ..shes pushing me away

At Work WE Talk nice and good Like Always ...she even told me

I Like U alot ..and our Dates was very nice ..

And that Kissing Moment ..was. Beautiful ...

So im confused

I have some Theories

1: i scared her with my Tempo ..and she needs to think ..and See me at Work ...and will Check me Out at Work and will See If i Change or Something ...🤔

2: she isnt where she want to be in Life right now ...?!

3.: She Just got bored because ...she knows i want her ..,

4: thats hard for my but i have a very ..good Intuition ....so she was talking about her Bad relationship ...and im Sure she was the Person that have more ...and she was Hurt ...

And isnt over that Guy ...so that Guy ...is the Brother..of our Female Boss ...what makes the Situation Kind of funny ...And now she mirrows that Guy on me !? ...and Just playing with me ...to boost her Ego !? ...

I could need some Help

I want to send her a voicemail soon ...with a of im thinking and what is Up with us..bla bla ...