Normal taurus behavior???

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Iamraerae on Monday, May 20, 2013 and has 7 replies.
I've been dating a taurus 8 months. We have never said I love you. I see the possessiveness in him sometimes although I think he tries to hide it. I tried to break up with him yesterday because he hasn't been giving me attention lately. Idk if he came on to strong and is now backing off or what. When I ended it I told him to come get his things (he has a few items at my house) and he said if that's what you want ok. Then he called back ten min later saying you are not leaving me. True enough sometimes I can get upset if I don't get my way but I have never had someone who refuses to leave me. Is this normal?? Also he is very unemotional but I do know he was cheated on in the past and I am not very open either
Posted by Iamraerae
I've been dating a taurus 8 months. We have never said I love you. I see the possessiveness in him sometimes although I think he tries to hide it. I tried to break up with him yesterday because he hasn't been giving me attention lately. Idk if he came on to strong and is now backing off or what. When I ended it I told him to come get his things (he has a few items at my house) and he said if that's what you want ok. Then he called back ten min later saying you are not leaving me. True enough sometimes I can get upset if I don't get my way but I have never had someone who refuses to leave me. Is this normal?? Also he is very unemotional but I do know he was cheated on in the past and I am not very open either


I've been with my Taurus for a bit over two years now, not once have we come close to ending out relationship. However, what I've noticed about him and most other Taurus men is they're more inclined to express their feelings with actions rather than words. Think about what his actions say about his inward expression towards you. If he does love you, he will refuse to leave you. If he didn't, he would have said alright and just left. Simple as that.
Neither of you are open right now, he's been hurt in the past and you may have been too. You two will never be able to let your relationship blossom unless you can establish trust and let go of past resentments which have nothing to do with your current interaction. If you are tired of him, spare him the drama and tell him it's over now. If you have further hope and interest in your relationship give it another shot and unhinge your mind.
Also, could you please let us know your sign? smile
Posted by Iamraerae
I've been dating a taurus 8 months. We have never said I love you. I see the possessiveness in him sometimes although I think he tries to hide it. I tried to break up with him yesterday because he hasn't been giving me attention lately. Idk if he came on to strong and is now backing off or what. When I ended it I told him to come get his things (he has a few items at my house) and he said if that's what you want ok. Then he called back ten min later saying you are not leaving me. True enough sometimes I can get upset if I don't get my way but I have never had someone who refuses to leave me. Is this normal?? Also he is very unemotional but I do know he was cheated on in the past and I am not very open either


What is it you're asking for, really?
Keep this up and you will lose him real quick.....
Bulls are possessive, yes. It's normal behavior. (Mantra: "I have.")
Bulls are also highly perceptive and keen observers to individuals who play mind games, and resort to emotional manipulation/blackmail to get their way.
We're quite sharp in seeing right through a facade.
I don't know what you're seeking...
His emotions are clouding his judgement at the moment.
But he's an earth sign, practical judgement will soon kick in...
And will override his emotions.
This will not be a problem.
He's never said the words "I love you"
Which means he mastered controlling his emotions.
And trust me, this "You're not leaving me" statement will phase out real fast.
And you will be out the picture, permanently!
If there are issues that need to be addressed in the relationship...
It's simple, put your BigGirlPanties on and simply just ASK him!
Posted by MeowScorpii

However, what I've noticed about him and most other Taurus men is they're more inclined to express their feelings with actions rather than words. Think about what his actions say about his inward expression towards you. If he does love you, he will refuse to leave you. If he didn't, he would have said alright and just left. Simple as that.


Best Advice!
Kudos to you!
She posted this on the Cap forum as well....
Mmmhmmm, mad skill. Winking

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