Oh you Bulls... why do you do this?

I've been busy working... with my Taurus man. One night, a typical Leo, we want the truth and we won't stop digging until we're satisfied. Well, I thought I caught my Taurus man lying, so I told him, "I'm DONE! D-O-N-E! DONE! and expect a call from my attorney to dissolve this business!" and hung up on my Taurus.

He lives 20 mins away with no traffic and that's if one is driving 65-70mph. Not even 5 mins after I hung up on the poor guy, he was calling me at my front door, asking if he could see me... WTF?!?!

I asked him if he's lying again and he started bawling his eyes out begging to see me. I didn't have the heart to say no. So I let the poor guy in. My heart sank. He looked like he just lost his best friend and hugged me so tight and started sobbing saying he can't loose me.

We went into the living room. We hugged tighter. My heart sank deeper. He cried and sobbed and he kept saying, "I don't want to loose you".... I held his face with my 2 hands and looked into his eyes and gave him a kiss. He asked me if this was a kiss to say good bye and I didn't say a word. I just kept kissing his beautiful face. Kissed it all over and over and over. Then he wrapped his legs around me and picked me up and pulled me closer to him and held me me tight. I then turned around and wrapped my legs around him and now, we're facing each other and we just held each other for a very long time. While we were holding each other tightly, I was kissing him on his neck, his cheek, his lips, ever so lightly and he just let me. And he kept saying, "I don't want to loose you" and would cry intermittently and bury his face on my neck and lightly kissing it. Then after about 30 mins, I asked him how fast he was driving and he said, "you don't want to know". All I could think of was thank God nothing bad happened to him... that he didn't get into an accident.

And no, he wasn't around or near my house because I heard his dogs barking in the background right before I hung up on him. All he kept saying is, "I didn't lie, I would never lie to you. I will protect you. I would never hurt you." "I care so much about you, more than you'll know".

We made up since then. His action spoke volumes. It's not the reaction I was after and it was unintentional on my part... I wasn't expecting such a reaction... my intention was to find out the truth about certain things and when I thought he'd lied, I was going to dissolve our business and move on with my lif

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I wasn't expecting such a reaction... my intention was to find out the truth about certain things and when I thought he'd lied, I was going to dissolve our business and move on with my life. I told him to have a good life and hung up.

Just days before this incident, he told me twice, "I'll tell you when I get a girlfriend and you tell me when you get a boyfriend". WHAT?!

Why do you Bulls do this? Why do you hide your true feelings? Just when your love interest is about to or have thrown in the towel is only when you'd show your true feelings and even then, it's not completely the truth! Are you just a bunch of cowards when it comes to "true" love? What? tells us! explain to us please!

thanks

((Jynga!)) give me some! LOL

OOOhh, I swear these Bulls are so full of crap! 🙂 One wrong move, I'm definitely throwing in the towel! I don't give a shyte anymore! I'm through! I can't live like this! I can run this business by myself in peace! He's taking up too much of my energy and time! 🙂

why don't you just rape the poor man already??

Posted by robyn808
I'm a little confused about the state of your relationship, if your together or not. And it sounds like he is too. You probably shouldn't let this doubt linger with him to long, or pull another stunt like this if you want him to stick around.

Every bulls different and they each have their own limits, but in general... You did the worst thing you could do, you pulled the rug out from underneath his feet. You left him with the feeling that he had an unstable foundation for his love and business. So all that love you felt in that moment, you'd be lucky if he keeps that, its not like a bull to step back onto unstable ground. And you could have done more damage then you even realize.

This is so true, you can't try to shake their foundations even in anger, if you love him you will know that he needs the security, even in hostile times, kept firmly in place, and you should show your respect for him by tempering your anger so that is doesn't shake him at this core. Misplacing his solid ground is like humiliating a Leo in public, a thing as a leo you should understand, the unforgiveable - which might be temporarily forgotten at the forefront of the mind but lingers in the background only to resurface and kill the relationship in the end.

Thanks for all of your replies... I think Jynga hit it pretty close and another friend said it point blank... I need to stop what I'm doing. 🙂

I tested him about the theory that he maybe just keeping me in this situation for financial reasons and the result is, again, I'm wrong. He was making significantly more money before he partnered up with me and he still holds a license to practice what he was doing. His intention with our business is to help people and he's making about 60% less right now. He has contributed a lot more money than I have and his heart is where my heart is also, to help people. The money is not good, but I know it sounds cheesy, but you can't put a price on the feeling of helping people.

Yeah, I want to rape him too! HAHAHA! But I need to stop my insecurities. Like a friend of mine said, I can't keep doing this and "shaking" things up when I don't get my way. I need to learn to be secure with working with such a man and separate my feelings to the business... but shyte, he's mixing his personal feelings with business too. Ugh, this is so hard! But I need to be more secure within myself and his mixed feelings makes it hard. to be continued...

continuation.

But another male friend who has met him told me that he's totally smitten with me but my Taurus man is very scared because right now, I seem unstable with him. And like you guys and my friend said, a Taurus man needs that stability in order for him to "come out" and be comfortable enough to trust and show his true feelings.

It's me.

But thank you guys! 🙂

*taking Jynga's bag of peanuts* 🙂