Please, could someone explain what this means?
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by ari0x823 on Wednesday, May 13, 2015 and has 8 replies.
Jeez... She's complaining because he's NOT jumping in her pants...
Chivalry truly is... Dead!!
Chivalry truly is... Dead!!
Posted by busyeyes88
Are you both in an exclusive relationship with each other? How long have you been together? are you both in a sexual relationship with each other?
No, we are not in an exclusive relationship yet, I am not sure what is going on. And we have never had sex.
Posted by AgentP911
Jeez... She's complaining because he's NOT jumping in her pants...
Chivalry truly is... Dead!!
I am complaining because its confusing to me why I feel he can run off and bang some random person meaninglessly, not saying its happened but it does make me get thoughts like that where I doubt for no reason.
Posted by ari0x823Posted by AgentP911
Jeez... She's complaining because he's NOT jumping in her pants...
Chivalry truly is... Dead!!
I am complaining because its confusing to me why I feel he can run off and bang some random person meaninglessly, not saying its happened but it does make me get thoughts like that where I doubt for no reason.click to expand
Whoaaa... Hold on a second here...
1) you're dating each other
2) this means taking time to get to know each other with a view for a possible relationship
3) this does not mean jumping into bed with each other
4) he's a bloke. Blokes (and women) like to look at various things in their own time.
5) you've ASSUMED because of this that he's going to 'run off and bang someone else meaninglessly'
6) you're creating shit and looking for something that isn't there
7) your confusion is just bullshit
8) the dude has EXPLAINED to you in very clear language that he likes you and would like to take his time getting to know you
9) you're persecuting him because he's not in a hurry to prematurely put his dick in your vagina
10) don't be one of these girls who lets her ego of 'he doesn't find me attractive' get in the way. If you force the situation you'll be back here whinging about how he fucked you and now isn't calling you
Seriously, I'll do you a deal... I'll take your gentleman dater and in exchange you can have all the prats, cunts, and wankers who aren't interested in getting to know you and who only think of dick and fanny!
***rolls eyes at unappreciative bull lady***
Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. No disrespect. Do you want an exclusive relationship with him? So when you say you 'date' each other do you both do activities together chat got for a meal cinema etc.? He RESPECTS you! He probably sees you as future potential for a relationship but not yet ready. Enjoy his company and keep your legs shut!! Lol you are lucky! He is a GENTLEMAN...
Yes I do and yes we do all those things
the farthest we have gone is just kissing. Its been about four months already. He is a gentleman, but its his weary-eyeness towards these other women that has me worries sometimes but I should not I guess lol thank you for your input, it really settled some over thinking I was going throughPosted by AgentP911Posted by ari0x823Posted by AgentP911
Jeez... She's complaining because he's NOT jumping in her pants...
Chivalry truly is... Dead!!
I am complaining because its confusing to me why I feel he can run off and bang some random person meaninglessly, not saying its happened but it does make me get thoughts like that where I doubt for no reason.
Whoaaa... Hold on a second here...
1) you're dating each other
2) this means taking time to get to know each other with a view for a possible relationship
3) this does not mean jumping into bed with each other
4) he's a bloke. Blokes (and women) like to look at various things in their own time.
5) you've ASSUMED because of this that he's going to 'run off and bang someone else meaninglessly'
6) you're creating shit and looking for something that isn't there
7) your confusion is just bullshit
8) the dude has EXPLAINED to you in very clear language that he likes you and would like to take his time getting to know you
9) you're persecuting him because he's not in a hurry to prematurely put his dick in your vagina
10) don't be one of these girls who lets her ego of 'he doesn't find me attractive' get in the way. If you force the situation you'll be back here whinging about how he fucked you and now isn't calling you
Seriously, I'll do you a deal... I'll take your gentleman dater and in exchange you can have all the prats, cunts, and wankers who aren't interested in getting to know you and who only think of dick and fanny!
***rolls eyes at unappreciative bull lady***click to expand
LMAO!!!! WOW!!! Thank you, and sorry for the overthinking venting I posted on here hahahahaha
@AgentP911 "butter" LOL
You're welcome! _??_
Four months to some is long. To others it is not long.
I can understand you want to move things along in that department. We are human after all.
I think you are very much over thinking here and are not having a balanced view.
At some point I'm sure he or you will move it forward. It's natural. I've no idea what his objections are or when he'll feel ready. I'm not a male, I'm not a bull either. What I have been good at is over thinking and assuming which is why I can see it here.
Perhaps he is fucking everything under the sun except you. If that's the case then think yourself lucky you're not a notch on his bed post.
What I have learnt is to let things flow naturally. It's so rare these days that you get the opportunity to do that. Unfortunately, and I'm not picking on the guys here, but if you're not putting out by date two then they lose interest. It's really discouraging but it's even more discouraging when you're a women who is dating a guy who is taking dating seriously but she can't see over her own ego and wants to make problems where there isn't any.
If it goes tits up and he turns out to be a prick then you haven't lost anything, you're not overly attached, and you can move on to someone else.
Four months to some is long. To others it is not long.
I can understand you want to move things along in that department. We are human after all.
I think you are very much over thinking here and are not having a balanced view.
At some point I'm sure he or you will move it forward. It's natural. I've no idea what his objections are or when he'll feel ready. I'm not a male, I'm not a bull either. What I have been good at is over thinking and assuming which is why I can see it here.
Perhaps he is fucking everything under the sun except you. If that's the case then think yourself lucky you're not a notch on his bed post.
What I have learnt is to let things flow naturally. It's so rare these days that you get the opportunity to do that. Unfortunately, and I'm not picking on the guys here, but if you're not putting out by date two then they lose interest. It's really discouraging but it's even more discouraging when you're a women who is dating a guy who is taking dating seriously but she can't see over her own ego and wants to make problems where there isn't any.
If it goes tits up and he turns out to be a prick then you haven't lost anything, you're not overly attached, and you can move on to someone else.
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