Question about taurus male?

I Have a question maybe a taurus male can answer for me. I was lovestruck by a taurus man for ten years. We attended the same church. When I started college one semester I decided to take classes on sunday Therefore we didn't see each other for eight weeks. When I went back to church he seemed very angry at me. During the eight weeks all I thought about was him. After that he got a girl pregnant and married her. I was so broken hearted I felt like he betrayed me because I was trying to get my education I was not out with another man. If taurus are so caring why didn't he think twice about hurting me?

Lovestruck:

Indeed a sad story. I find it very difficult to believe that after 10 years, eight weeks absense with a good reason explaining why you were not able to attend church with him, drove this Taurus male to another's arms. You ask much for an explanation of this. I wonder why your relationship never evolved to marriage, even though a relationship of that length is considered a "marriage bond" in its own rite. And then to learn that he weds another so quickly is even more confusing. There has got to be something that is left out of this story, so let me try to guess. Maybe he wanted marriage with you, but you wanted to complete some "business or education first", and this need for marriage in him drove him to find it in another. Or maybe, the underling reason why you two never got married was the reason he seemed to take the opprtunity to get married during your absence. I don't even know if there are that many Taurus Males out there with a similar experience that could enlighten you on this, because I know I sure have not experienced this...to the same degree. And maybe he was so hurt that you chose school over him, that it made him want to "pay you back" for choosing that over him (A very selfish act, I may add). Good God if he can't be alone fo eight weeks without Freaking about it then he needs his teddy bear back.

All I know is if I took over 10 years to decide to marry a woman I loved and enjoyed being with, she sure might have married someone else, simply becaue I did not (or would not).

Too late to cry over spilt beans, and please don't take it out on us because this strange situation did not work out for you.
I can tell you in my experience, with a Scorpio Lady I loved, she married someone else because she told me I didn't want to marry her. I did not tell her so, but I did not go thru the "act", either. Simple as that...and to this day, I do not think that Scorpios are uncarring people for that.

You'll find love again, just hold on to it a little tighter, maybe...And be sure to find someone who can allow you to grow and do things that may seperate the two of you for a while.

Taurus Male

Another possibilitly as to why he may have married her might have been for the sake of the baby. Maybe the pregnancy was not intentional but he felt since it did happen, then marriage was the best thing to do. I know a taurus's child means a lot to them and they would do anything they felt they needed to do for them. I know a male taurus who was wanting out of a relationship, but once he found out she was pregnant he felt he just needed to stay with her. Just a possibility, though. I don't know if his intensions were actually to "hurt" you.

Taurus Female

Sounds like this was more of a "fantasy relationship wanna-be" for you but none really existed? Did the possibility only exist in your mind while you saw him in church for the 10 yrs cuz you didn't approach him nor him you perhaps out of fear? Is this what you're really trying to say?

Doesn't sound like you had a relationship with him, only a 10 yr. wishful fantasy?

I agree with you as well. I don't believe his intentions were to hurt her. It is a sad story though. But like the Taurus male said, perhaps there was more to this story. I have many questions like I wonder if she got a chance to tell him that she was going off to college; she didn't mention that; or did she just stop going to church and didn't tell him where she went until she returned. And if she did tell him before she left, why couldn't they keep in touch during the eight weeks. She didn't go off for years so why no communication -- at least enough to tell him she would be there for him.

Aries female

I'm sorry to say but I do wonder if this was a relationship -- or just a potential love interest that just didn't happen; perhaps friendship only(?) I know one thing. If I had a relationship with that person over ten years, I would have found time to see him in the eight weeks. And we would have discussed ahead of time my plans. That would hurt my heart too much if I didn't. Just my opinion.

Aries female

Taurus Male here:

All I know is, If I indeed loved a lady for ten years, and we shared church for those years, and then she was gone for eight weeks (causing an eight week "hole" in my church going) I would have a hard time explaining TO MYSELF Why I would decide to go and get a girl pregnant and marry her, only out of the need to support this child IN A POLITICALLY CORRECT FASHION.

HAVE I BEEN PUT IN THE TWIGHLITE ZONE OR WHAT?

Hun, the bottom line to all of this is he is married and not to you, so please find someone who will not pull this sort of thing on you when you go away for eight weeks....I am sure there is someone out there that is willing to give you eight weeks off...

Taurus Male.

"Willing to give you eight weeks off" that is humorous Taurus Male. I adore you. Anyway, I agree with everyone on this board. I believe she probably had feelings for him unknownst to him and she probably figured that "one day" they would be together. I'm just guessing here but maybe she should have expressed her feelings to him during that "10 YEAR" interaction with one another. Tauruses don't like to guess on where they stand with a significant other. So maybe he thought that she didn't have feelings for him ion that way or maybe he just didn't have feelings for her in that way to cause him to get another woman pregnant and marry her. One things for sure, communication is absolutely necessary in forming and keeping a relationship working. More important than 1)LOOKS (they fade) and if someone is good looking with an nasty attitude, then they're ugly anyway. 2)SEX, anybody and everybody can f--k who they want, but there has to be a higher bond than that because after sex if you have nothing in common to share what's the point?! unless you just wanted SEX. I'm rambling on, but to close out I do feel for you dear and hope that in the future you'll find someone that youy can love and will love you.

Taurus Female

Can you imagine pining for someone FOR 10 YEARS & HOPING HE FELT THE SAME WAY??!! My God talk about a waste of time!! She reminded me of "Rose" in the movie Titantic for some reason? Unrequited love is a definite in this case.

I too enjoyed Taurus' male response! Gee did anyone bother to read between the lines of the original post? I'd like to know "how many years ago this was" for this woman?

I did not tell everyone the whole story. Me and my taurus male both agreed to see other people and seperate for a few months. But we agreed to get back together again after we gave each other space. When I was taking classes at the college we agree not to visit or call each other for two months. But when I came back he was acting very evil. Like he was mad at me or something. I was really confused about his behavior. He only knew the girl he married and got preganant for four months. He wasted ten years of my life. The horoscope says virgo and taurus are a perfect match. After this experience I don't think i ever want to see another taurus man again. or better yet be in another relationship again. I think i'm happier by my self. But i still love him though.

Virgo girl.

oh..i'm very sorry,,you didn't post whole story before and it sounded like you had a crush on him for 10 years.
i understand why your mad now, and i guess when you read replies from other people you got more mad....
but without comments you posted now it sound stupid....i don't know even what to tell you, you had a very tough experience...and it is understandable why you don't want to see another taurean, but they are people too and they are different, also we all make mistakes and sometimes some fast choices based on missunderstandings or preconcieved notions-than feel sorry,unhappy ,but it is late to change anything.
did he atleast explained his actions? maybe it is for the kid?

luck and all the best to you.
Aqua 2..
iwould like to talk more to you, maybe , i hope you will feel better by venting it out...) got to go
write me if you intrested. i can even live you my e-mail
bye

I'm sorry as well because it sounded as if it were just a friendship -- hoping to be more. But I am still confused about your relationship with him; If you had to go away for a short time -- and being in a loving relationship, you probably would have seen each other during that time. So I wonder why there was a decision to see other people -- unless you were both having problems in the relationship. Everyone is different. I don't believe it has anything to do with him being a Taurus Male -- or any other sign for that matter.

Aries female