Really Taurus?

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by Love2Love
So, angry Taurus says he is going to give back everything I gave him. Then shows up wearing his favourite T-shirt which I bought him!!! Huh?

He then, proceeds to give me money I had lent him (not all of it) and leaves. He then texts me to say don't text or call me!

WTF? I love my bull, but can't take bullshit!!! What is going on? Charging like a mad bull I suspect, but really?

Why not just bring everything on the one trip and NOT wear any of it?!!! I'm here for the long haul, that doesn't involve begging I'm afraid! Is this normal Taurus behaviour? Dramarama!!!!

Are you a Leo?

I ask this as "drama" is all you seem to have written.

There is is no beginning, middle or end to this story and without the full details, we cant help you.

Do you mind elaborating and you may actually get some answers?

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Posted by tcta
Yep Games! He's got issues and you can't be walking on thin ice all the time.

Let him go and find someone who loves you the way you are.

Changes for the better are always welcome but that is your decision and up to you how you wish to carry that out. Encouragement and support goes a lot further than criticism and drama and stress! He would be vaporized from my world no matter what he owed me! Chalk it up to a total loss - a waste of time and good effort .

Do better next time!

Sorry

Posted by tcta
Yep Games! He's got issues and you can't be walking on thin ice all the time.

Let him go and find someone who loves you the way you are.

Changes for the better are always welcome but that is your decision and up to you how you wish to carry that out. Encouragement and support goes a lot further than criticism and drama and stress! He would be vaporized from my world no matter what he owed me! Chalk it up to a total loss - a waste of time and good effort .

Do better next time!

Sorry

Posted by Love2Love

Posted by tcta
Yep Games! He's got issues and you can't be walking on thin ice all the time.

Let him go and find someone who loves you the way you are.

Changes for the better are always welcome but that is your decision and up to you how you wish to carry that out. Encouragement and support goes a lot further than criticism and drama and stress! He would be vaporized from my world no matter what he owed me! Chalk it up to a total loss - a waste of time and good effort .

Do better next time!

Sorry

Thanks. That's where I'm at... I can't anymore. It's a shame, but I have to guard my heart. X

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It was nice to begin with, then suddenly he wants me to change this and change that, then starts watching to catch me slipping. If I do, he jumps and says he has to leave, can't handle it. I'll never change! I persuade him to stay, because I love him and really think we can make a go of it if he learns to control his temper and give things time to organically change...Not to mention, I could tell after a while it was his way of getting affirmation that I won't leave him...

Long and the short of it. I am a free spirited but loyal individual. I want to enjoy life, but can compromise. Feeling constantly at risk of losing someone is not cool. I went out with some friends on Saturday and that led to a melt down in which he decided it's over and wants to bring back the shit I gifted him during the relationship. Feeling desensitised I said ok. He then shows up wearing some of it...

Why? Seriously, if he wants to be done with me, he should just throw it away and move on. Why tell me? Why turn up wearing stuff I bought? Why give me less than you owe and say don't call and text me? Games I tell you!!!

Posted by Nefertari

It was nice to begin with, then suddenly he wants me to change this and change that, then starts watching to catch me slipping. If I do, he jumps and says he has to leave, can't handle it. I'll never change! I persuade him to stay, because I love him and really think we can make a go of it if he learns to control his temper and give things time to organically change...Not to mention, I could tell after a while it was his way of getting affirmation that I won't leave him...

Long and the short of it. I am a free spirited but loyal individual. I want to enjoy life, but can compromise. Feeling constantly at risk of losing someone is not cool. I went out with some friends on Saturday and that led to a melt down in which he decided it's over and wants to bring back the shit I gifted him during the relationship. Feeling desensitised I said ok. He then shows up wearing some of it...

Why? Seriously, if he wants to be done with me, he should just throw it away and move on. Why tell me? Why turn up wearing stuff I bought? Why give me less than you owe and say don't call and text me? Games I tell you!!!

You might want to read this article:

https://taurusmandecoded.com/confesssions-of-a-taurus/

When a Taurus wants you to change this and that, it means they care about you. But if you refuse to change, it's good as over.

I see RED FLAGS since you are too much of a free spirit to change for your Taurus. Drama from both parties is not a good sign.

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Posted by halalbabe
lol id tell him to take the shirt off cause i bought it for him and when he takes it off

Posted by LadyNeptune
After he throws these tantrums and threatens to break up with, that's he's done etc. etc. you always take him back. This time don't.

Put the fear of god in him.

Posted by Shadowcat

Posted by Love2Love
Venus in Gemini

Mars in Capricorn

Mercury in Aries

What are your placements?

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Posted by Nefertari

You might want to read this article:

https://taurusmandecoded.com/confesssions-of-a-taurus/

When a Taurus wants you to change this and that, it means they care about you. But if you refuse to change, it's good as over.

I see RED FLAGS since you are too much of a free spirit to change for your Taurus. Drama from both parties is not a good sign.

Posted by jeane

Posted by Nefertari

You might want to read this article:

https://taurusmandecoded.com/confesssions-of-a-taurus/

When a Taurus wants you to change this and that, it means they care about you. But if you refuse to change, it's good as over.

I see RED FLAGS since you are too much of a free spirit to change for your Taurus. Drama from both parties is not a good sign.

This is just no. Control doesn't equal love or caring. This is dangerous thinking which can lead women to believe that if he hits her it's because she deserves it.

Love is acceptance not criticism.

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Posted by Taurus22
He's doing this probably because he's not sure if he can trust you. You might be too much of a free spirit and he's steugfling to understand you but cant get a solid grasp on who you are but wants to very badly. He loves you very much and yet part of him hates feeling insecurity and probably needs more reassurance from you. This situation brings about a tremendous amount of anxiety to Taurus. We are very sensitive to change....think about how gracefully (NOT) a bull is in mid air when all four hooves heve left the solid ground during a bull riding contest. Thats him at his worst drama. So when he gives back things you gifted him, he's saying he's had enough drama, enough of the anxiety. But he kept your shirt...its because he hasn't had enough of you. If you love him, fight his demons with him...If you manage to calm him down, then have an honest heart to heart talk with him calmly about his needs and what his expectations are of you. If all goes well, you'll be feeling cozy in his loving arms again. good luck.

Posted by Taurus22
He's doing this probably because he's not sure if he can trust you. You might be too much of a free spirit and he's steugfling to understand you but cant get a solid grasp on who you are but wants to very badly. He loves you very much and yet part of him hates feeling insecurity and probably needs more reassurance from you. This situation brings about a tremendous amount of anxiety to Taurus. We are very sensitive to change....think about how gracefully (NOT) a bull is in mid air when all four hooves heve left the solid ground during a bull riding contest. Thats him at his worst drama. So when he gives back things you gifted him, he's saying he's had enough drama, enough of the anxiety. But he kept your shirt...its because he hasn't had enough of you. If you love him, fight his demons with him...If you manage to calm him down, then have an honest heart to heart talk with him calmly about his needs and what his expectations are of you. If all goes well, you'll be feeling cozy in his loving arms again. good luck.