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Dec 03, 2014Comments: 16 · Posts: 2377 · Topics: 189
Relationship or friendship, what was it like...
We're opposites with them. Its either AMAZING or SH*T, there is no in between. Their positive traits cancel out our negative and vice versa. We make each other better people at the end of it. That was my experience anyways.
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Mar 20, 2014Comments: 565 · Posts: 4812 · Topics: 128
That a mature Taurus woman would not test a man like a Scorp? Idk do mature Scorpio women do that?
From my pov, no need to throw obstacles at a person, life does that the best. All you got to do is sit back wait and observe. All things become clear in time.
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Mar 20, 2014Comments: 565 · Posts: 4812 · Topics: 128
I don't really have the details here... I could easily agree that you are putting to much pressure on the relationship depending how much time has passed.
Wouldn't really recommend expressing yourself via text, or making some big ta do about it either. Pressure could easily be the culprit here regardless of time. It sounds like your trying to force something here. Not to great for Taurus energy, best to let things flow naturally, I can understand that might be harder form Scorpio energy that tends to obsess on things.
I find that when I know how I feel and want to express something, the right time will always presents it self, so I don't worry about it. To do otherwise feels like I'm fighting the universe to make something happen, which never works out for me.
You say once you go silent you get results, but you can also look at it like once relieve the pressure she wants to come around.
@warangel1
Walk with her, don't pull her hand on the adventure she's not ready to take. Taurus don't play mind games, she meant what she said but she also likes you very much at the same time. When a taurus doesn't care and WANTS to move in, we don't make the effort anymore. But don't let her make the first move (like texting or asking out on dates) we like a man that takes the lead, knows what he wants, sees his future, is stable, caring, and most of all has security that we need. You lacking somewhere in that why she doesn't want to jump the gun with you
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Dec 03, 2014Comments: 16 · Posts: 2377 · Topics: 189
I dont think you should get her flowers for vday.... I dont know, I mean, I am putting myself in her shoes right now, and if she keeps pushing you away, and then you get her flowers she might push away even more. Especially if you are going to do it in public. If you really want to, I (emphasis on the I) would rather you do it in private. I am not speaking for all tauruses here but I do not like PDA, I get nervous and uncomfortable. I think you should also stop worrying so much about how long she is taking to really open up to you and just enjoy the process. Its about the journey, not the destination. Right now focus on building a memorable journey with her, instead of just skipping to the committed relationship part, she either doesnt like you, or she likes you but wants to take things REALLY slow.
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Sep 07, 2014Comments: 0 · Posts: 497 · Topics: 31
@warangel what is her chart placements?
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Aug 04, 2010Comments: 1 · Posts: 3043 · Topics: 38
I agree with hot beefy... Never gone wrong giving my Taurus guy food... Especially chocolate/candy.
And second whoever said not in public.
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Dec 03, 2014Comments: 16 · Posts: 2377 · Topics: 189
If she clings to her group, she is either uninterested in having privacy with you, she likes the mystery, or she wants you to chase her...
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
Warangel- can we be friends? :-)
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Dec 03, 2014Comments: 16 · Posts: 2377 · Topics: 189
Hope everything works out warangel1, if you need any more help with her, maybe I can help
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Dec 03, 2014Comments: 16 · Posts: 2377 · Topics: 189
@Warangel1 Lol, all three! Wow, sounds likes this Taurus lady is making you work extra hard for the prize. Good luck
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Oct 25, 2010Comments: 2 · Posts: 8822 · Topics: 132
My moms Taurus cousin was married to a Scorpio. He was killed years ago(wrong place at the wrong time, unfortunately), and she still has not found anyone. I believe he was 41 when he was killed, and they had been together since she was 15 and he was like 16-17.
My mom talks to her constantly, and just yesterday my mom was telling her that the guys now are just nowhere near to filling his(scorpio) shoes, and the Taurus agreed. She says she's having a hard time meeting anyone even close to comparing to him, and it's been about 7-8yrs since he's passed.
Also, my sisters ex was a Scorpio, and two of my cousins are dating Scorpio guys. Idk, but I always felt Scorps were NOT the providing type of guys, however, the Taurus Scorpio husband was like the ideal provider. They were a very round-the-way type of couple, from what I remember, yet she never had to work a day in her life, AND he left her with atleast a million, if not more. None of that seems to mean anything though, since she still misses him and can't seem to really find anyone that comes close to what they had.
Is it possible she's talking to another guy also? This would be someone shed like more than you but doesn't mean shes not into you, she's just into him more and is keeping you around in case things fall through..
See when we have our heart set on something we fight until its clear to us that that person isn't interested. This would be the only mind game wed ever play on someone, but we don't mean it. So don't get offended.
I recommend taking her to the movies if you can't cook for her at home...ask her out for v day and if she finds an excuse then thats her nice way saying she's not interested.
We are so hard to read but we are most definitely straight up so if you ask you will get an honest answer. Like I said in my first answer, there's something about you that's lacking what she wants or needs in life. For example I was really feeling this guy until we talked and I found out he wasn't good with kids and got scared holding and talking to them and I was turned off to the point that when he texts I text back one or two words now lol.
Also, share some Scorpio knowledge.... I'm also seeing a Scorpio male and idk if he's into me...
He's gone back to ignoring me again (were sex buddies) but I know he's into me, well at least used to be into me...we used to text everyday about anything and everything and now I'm lucky if he texts me once a week. Now he only texts me when he want sex and when he comes over he doesn't cuddle me like he used to, last time he came over he said "cuddle me, I know you want too" and he's gone arrogant since I told him I have feelings for him. This is the third time he's given me the cold shoulder and I hate it. I've already confessed my feelings to him twice and want to know if I'm being strung along.
I know he's possessive of me and stalks my Facebook and does all that weird Scorpio stuff to me...
im patient but I want to know if this is something worth waiting for?
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Jun 20, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 3847 · Topics: 1
The chocolate thing is a nice idea. I'm a Scorp and I made a bar of chocolate for a Taurus male and used candy to spell his name on top of the bar. Luckily it was only four letters long! I sent him a text to ask if he liked chocolate and he said yes and asked why so I sent him a photo of the bar. I couldn't give or post as too much distance. He seemed to really like it and said he was humbled and flattered. It was a cute thing to do rather than weird. I was going to give it to him when I saw him next but he was a dick so I ate it!
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Jun 20, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 3847 · Topics: 1
If you think she's worth the wait then wait. Do you have anything else to do or anywhere else to be?
@WarAngel, curiout to know how things worked out for Valentine's day?