Posted by TeaMint
Everything was fine, we were in his bedroom where he takes me to see something on internet and i was quiet sitting on his bed and he takes things to teach me nervous and books, hundreds of books, he stands, sits, sits, stands, then i think is stupid situation to switch back to the living room and he misses me of his home Are you going already? No, not going to go yet, but I will do if you get tired of me, very gentleman accompanying me to the car. For his part or mine our dates always end in such misunderstandings. What the hell is going on? And we are not kids or teenagers but I do not understand myself and this man...is he playing? what?

He is not playing. He's shy, intimidated, and overwhelmed by the energy of the connection. I think you shouldn't have to initiate when it comes to intimacy, but I don't see anything wrong with you doing so. In *general*, in the beginning of the relationship, you may have to initiate and be more assertive than he is.

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Posted by TeaMint
Thanks. I am overwhelmed by the connection too, but totally overwhelmed...Ah, it's very hard, I'm in a state never in my life but do you think it's possible he just wants a friendship or he do not know what he wants yet?
I do not want to be wrong rather stay away and wait if it's mine comes to me and know what he is doing, this is serious, if not, let it go ...

You may have to take a risk and put yourself out there a bit. Bulls are not risk-takers. You want him to confess his love first; he wants you to do the same. Its a waiting game. Neither likes to be vulnerable or weak in folding first. I'd put my money on the bull being able to wait longer though. Scorpios are more inclined to take risk, naturally more assertive, and more equipped to recover from rejection. I think you should go for it. One of the life lessons of a Scorp is learning to approach the fear of letting your guard down, trusting, being vulnerable. Why not start now?

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Posted by TeaMint
I told him that he hurts me, enough and too much for me. If he do not understand i'm wrong with him, if he understands and does nothing then he are not clear and if he is not clear i'm not interested, and i wrong with myself about all this history.
Do you think I'm wrong on any of this?

I really don't know. I do know that he is not himself with the connection. He feels like you do - nervous/anxious/scared, overwhelmed, etc. You see it all over him. So stop having expectations for him. This is something new for him. His instincts are probably telling him this could destroy him if it goes wrong. For bulls, we're usually fairly stable emotionally, but in this dynamic, that is not the case so we are totally out of our element.

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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
For bulls, we're usually fairly stable emotionally, but in this dynamic, that is not the case so we are totally out of our element.

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I think this Bull is defintely out of his element, hence the reason for the anxieties, pacing, and nervousness.
I was smiling to myself while reading this thread....
I was attempting to pain a visual...this bull is a hot mess!

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