Scorpio woman needing advice for Taurus man
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Evan1211 on Thursday, August 10, 2017 and has 19 replies.
Been dating a Taurus off and on for 16 years. Half of my life. It doesn't matter how long we go without contact we always seem to run into each other or find our way back. I'm ready for more but have to get some things in order in my life. I even told him I'm a mess right now. I know he knows that's I love him. He said he hates being alone and I said so do I! I just can't seem to find enough time to be there every time he wants me to be. He runs his fingers through my hair. He kisses me and holds me tells me I'm beautiful. Makes plans in he future. I told him I wanted to really try this time around, and I'm just hesitant because I don't want to lose him. We spent Friday evening together is was just amazing it's like he fixed all the pain and broken pieces back together. And the next day he text and I tried to make it over but I couldn't. And then I said I'll see you soon because his mother was coming into town for the rest of the weekend, so I let it be but haven't heard a thing. Over the years him or I end up wanting more from each other but it's never the right time. I have loved him forever and I have said it a couple times but he's not. It's like he thinks he doesn't have to say it, that I should already know. So again here we are I put my all into and told him upfront I don't want to get hurt and that's why I have had reservations. I'm a Scorpio tried and true, but I just can't figure out what this Taurus man wants. Where do I go from here and what do I? And advice would be helpful. Thanks in advance
He's retreated for now I've tried to text.. nothing and it wasn't like anything bad happened I just couldn't see him exactly when he wanted me to. Of course I miss him and I did apologize if I did offend him. I can't go on wasting anymore time. He really is the love of my life. I just wish I could've said it
at a guess, i think from his point of view, you aren't a sure bet.
you're not available (no doubt, you have good reason) and that you have reservations about him.
when it comes to things like that, it can be hard for them to take the leap of faith needed. especially when it appears to him that you aren't willing to.
i don't think you can do more than you have. you might have to wait for him to feel confident enough to poke his head out again.
you're not available (no doubt, you have good reason) and that you have reservations about him.
when it comes to things like that, it can be hard for them to take the leap of faith needed. especially when it appears to him that you aren't willing to.
i don't think you can do more than you have. you might have to wait for him to feel confident enough to poke his head out again.
Posted by Scorpio123Posted by jeaneI agree with jeane. Bulls don't like uncertainties and unnecessary risks, and the more you give them reason to think the risk is high, the more they'll back off, but I really understand where you're coming from cause I did the same thing too, maybe he's just really busy with his mother though and doesn't mean to ignore you on purpose. You need to stop apologizing and start doing, start reassuring him instead.
at a guess, i think from his point of view, you aren't a sure bet.
you're not available (no doubt, you have good reason) and that you have reservations about him.
when it comes to things like that, it can be hard for them to take the leap of faith needed. especially when it appears to him that you aren't willing to.
i don't think you can do more than you have. you might have to wait for him to feel confident enough to poke his head out again.
You need to take that risk though and take a leap of faith, who knows? You may hit the jackpot with this one.click to expand
yes, really true. it could be as simple as he is occupied with his mother and you're (we're) overthinking things.
There just never seems like enough time. It is weak you're absolutely right. The rejection would break my heart. I'll never know if I never try. I want to be what he needs me to be. But I refuse to contact him after a few failed attempts at getting a response. If you only the passion and love we share I feel it. There's really no uncertainty except that he hasn't told me. I will give him all the time he needs. And I have said I'll still be here when you're ready. That's all I can do and will do for now. Unless some kind of grand gesture can get his attention, I'm definitely up for any suggestions. Thank you all for your responses❤️
I just know in my heart we were meant to end up together. I will keep all of you posted. But I will keep waiting until he responds back first. I've done my part and from what I understand bulls don't like to bombarded with messages. Plus I was never one to chase after a guy. He will miss me that's why he's always came back any other time. I just wanted this time to be different. Smh??♀️ Let the waiting game begin
That song speaks volumes... just wow?
This is driving me insane the silence. Ughh
What ta heck is timing issue?
Women's excuse = men's excuse 'I was busy'?
I think it's all bullshit! 16 years of loving him more than life and having 'timing issues'? Bullshit!!!
Tell the truth OP! If not here - to yourself!
Women's excuse = men's excuse 'I was busy'?
I think it's all bullshit! 16 years of loving him more than life and having 'timing issues'? Bullshit!!!
Tell the truth OP! If not here - to yourself!
He didn't want more... when we met I fell for his friend. That of course didn't work out and then we starting talking and through the years I tried getting closer. We always got to a make or break point and I have told him how I felt. He has made it a point also if saw me anywhere that I was his and he even almost got into a physical altercation with a current boyfriend at the time. Idk what to think anymore. He has never let go and has always tried contacting me. Me contacting him too, but it forever seems as though one is are tied up in our personal lives. Now we are both single both made the choice that we want to really try in a relationship. But I have 2 kids and I hardly ever have time. So it looks as though I'm not trying but that's not the case. I just want more. And he does too.
I'd also like to point out this is half on my life we are talking about. I have said I love you. But haven't heard it back. I never was able to show more or give more years ago. He both have kid(s) we both were in relationships none of them ever worked out and somewhere along the years we've grown closer and from my perspective there is love there. I can feel it. It's hard to communicate feelings sometimes because we've never gotten to place where we could, now we can. He's not responding and no I haven't called. And I'm not sure if I should. I have no idea where he's at with this. We just got back on contact 2 weeks ago and we only saw each other once last year in early July.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeLol
@spreadlies see what i mean, but you don't listen, virgos are just stupid.
No way I'm doing this lover boy ?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeLol
@spreadlies see what i mean, but you don't listen, virgos are just stupid.
No way I'm doing this lover boy ?
I'm a Scorpio 10/26 he 5/06 I think Venus moon. I really believe the times he wanted me to spend with me and I couldn't is what made me seem like I've flaked. He also knows my situation and I've never heard him tell me he doesn't like to be alone. Yet here we are ... just gotta laugh. Stubborn and stupid at its finest. I'll try and call in a few days. I don't see any reason why he's ignoring me other then what I've mentioned and he never said I can't or don't want this..
I have an idea I'm just going to throw out there... in the past he's showed up unannounced to say sorry for being an asshole I guess at time time. And he's said he wants to see me face to face a few weeks ago? Would it be bad to just go over and in a very kind and sweet way try talking to him? It's not like I'm a stranger or that I'm a stalker. Thoughts?
It's been off and on as we were very young... and I really can't answer that. Now that both of us are a lot older and single I reached out and told him that I really want to TRY and work this out and he called for weeks and then I decided it was time to go on over and we talked as we were nervous and spent the night. It was amazing I'm not a fool. You don't show emotions the way he's showed me if there's nothing there. Being intimate was never the problem. Making time was. Which makes me believe he feels like if I can't make time for him as much as he needs me to then maybe I just step closer and reevaluate this. But he knew that upfront I have a lot going on it's nothing personal. I really believe he thinks it's for many other reasons but it's far from the truth
Posted by CrimsonGirlPosted by Evan1211No it's not a bad idea at all. infact, I think it's time you had a very serious conversation with him about where your relationship is going. You need to tell him exactly how he's making you feel and exactly what you need out of the relationship, otherwise make it very clear that you're going to have to break it off completely. It seems strange to me that the two of you have been together for 16 years and still don't understand what the other wants. Not judging, but maybe it's a sign that it isn't the healthiest relationship to begin with??
I have an idea I'm just going to throw out there... in the past he's showed up unannounced to say sorry for being an asshole I guess at time time. And he's said he wants to see me face to face a few weeks ago? Would it be bad to just go over and in a very kind and sweet way try talking to him? It's not like I'm a stranger or that I'm a stalker. Thoughts?click to expand
They've not been together for 16 years, they've known each other for 16 years.
They met once last year and met again a few weeks ago.
OP, I think you should go over if you wish. I think you need to be clear in your mind the intention of the visit and also your expectations.
It may be the case where he delighted to see you, he might also feel rushed and pushed into giving you a response.
Maybe have in you mind what you want to say to him as well as being prepared if things start to go down the shitter.
We have known each other for 16 years and have been intimate throughout that and have went out and been to each others places. It's much more to it then that. We just recently decided to go for it but he just up and went ghost. So I'm ready for answers good or bad. Just don't want to be intrusive.
Yes yes yes yes yes!!!!!!!!!
I called went to VM he called back almost instantly. Very causal he was busy and he sounded so happy to hear from me and had some small talk. All went well with his mom. He wants to definitely see me this week. And is going to call me later! My soul is on fire. I did a little dance! ??? I knew it. I knew it was there. I should have never questioned it. I want to send all of you the most warmest of hugs and joy. Self doubt is motherfucker.
I called went to VM he called back almost instantly. Very causal he was busy and he sounded so happy to hear from me and had some small talk. All went well with his mom. He wants to definitely see me this week. And is going to call me later! My soul is on fire. I did a little dance! ??? I knew it. I knew it was there. I should have never questioned it. I want to send all of you the most warmest of hugs and joy. Self doubt is motherfucker.
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