should i take initiative or back off on this tauru
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by fallforyou23 on Thursday, January 27, 2011 and has 14 replies.
we met at a birthday party.He was starring at me the whole night but we didn't talk until just before the party ended.He asked for my contact number but i gave him my facebook instead because i lost my phone. So i added him on facebook and he messaged me. We started talking and he was all so sweet,exchanged numbers and he text me almost everday for about 2 weeks. He said he would be my santa clause and will give me anything as long as i want it.He's always asking me for updates every single time he talks to me about this other guy that likes me.so after 2 weeks he stopped talking to me.i have no idea why. so i waited and waited 1 week 2 weeks and 3 weeks.still no news so i text him asking how he's doing.no reply from him again.and the following week i text again saying i want something from santa. and managed to ask him out for a date.again. he promised to it but stopped replying after a while.and when i take long to reply he sent another text.his replies were cold but sometimes its long and sweet. I know he broke off with his ex girlfriend because they couldnt endure a long distance relationship and he did say he wouldnt want anything the next 2 yrs until he's back in town so history would not repeat itself.Currently he's back on vacation and will be leaving soon. I dont know if i should take initiative or to back off on this taurus because if hes not interested in me. i wouldnt want to take the risk.
Sorry for this long post.But really i need as much comments and opinions as possible and hopefully dos and don'ts 
really appreciate it.
really appreciate it.
If he is on the rebound, it sounds to me from what you've posted here that he needs some time. I would back off and give that to him. I am a female bull, but most of all of us are pretty traditional and prefer the traditional roles of women and men in dating. Let him pursue you dear. Most of us are very true to our hearts and if he felt something there for you, he'll be back.
So was it a bad move to say that i had a bad weekend and i needed his company to make me happy again?
welcome to Taurus Male hell lol 
If someone I just started talking to or dating said that to me, I would think that they were a bit clingy and I would want to back off from them. I'm not saying you made a mistake, because if I felt a spark for that person initially I would return to them, just at a slower pace.
The other thing here, is that you are responsible for your own happiness hon. From what you said, it sounds like you're making him responsible for your happiness.
If I were you, I would back off and let this thing take its course. Meanwhile, go about living your life, hanging with friends and doing things you enjoy.
The other thing here, is that you are responsible for your own happiness hon. From what you said, it sounds like you're making him responsible for your happiness.
If I were you, I would back off and let this thing take its course. Meanwhile, go about living your life, hanging with friends and doing things you enjoy.
because he asked what could he give me so i randomly said-just one happy day.ok i'll probably just back off 
Taurus men love to chase. Trust me, if he wants you he'll come for you. Just don't sit around waiting anxiously..get out there and do your thing.
So if he says he's not gonna consider anything until hes back in town which is 2 yrs time from now. Does that mean he's not gonna make his move at all these 2 years if he's ever interested in anyone?
I would not,and could not have a ld relationship for two years...especially if there was another potential partner sniffing around my person at the time of our meeting.
I don't know that I'd trust anyone that much,that early in the game.I suspect he feels the same way....
we are pretty practical and realistic people.
I don't know that I'd trust anyone that much,that early in the game.I suspect he feels the same way....
we are pretty practical and realistic people.
I like your new picture Bella.
Regarding this situation...things actually don't look too good to start out with.
Posted by Amandus
I like your new picture Bella.
thank you poopsie.
I agree with everyone here. In my experience and what worked for me was to back off, no I don't know everything, but I did my own thing, forgot about him and lived my own life. They do everything in their own time. They don't like pressure. I have an alpha man that likes to do all the chasing.
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