Shy Cows

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Cajunspirit on Sunday, August 1, 2010 and has 37 replies.
This Taurus girl I have been trying to woo... is so timid.
She gets scared of lightning, takes care of puppies and rabbits, can't handle violent movies, is very excitable, needs to be babied and can become offended easily.
I was playing Pictionary with her family today with her sister. Her sister and I were the team leaders and nobody chose her. In the end she was the last pic and defaulted to my side.
Being the sarcastic meanie I am, I exclaimed in grimace "Noooooo!!!" jokingly. She took it the wrong way and left.
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Is this common?
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Naked is always good.
She seems so very young and sheltered Caj. It'll be like pulling teeth. Not trying to deter you from your Bull Mission, but she's quite a soft touch it seems.
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"can't handle violent movies, is very excitable, needs to be babied and can become offended easily."
I would say this applies to me in a way. I don't like slasher films...oh and when it comes to being the butt
of a joke I will be offended. I won't say it, I'll try to hide it ( this is where the smiling comes in) and depending on what was done or said I'll grow cold or become very silent.

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Posted by venusianbull
Naked is always good.
She seems so very young and sheltered Caj. It'll be like pulling teeth. Not trying to deter you from your Bull Mission, but she's quite a soft touch it seems.


She is. Her father is a Leo, who's birthday we were celebrating today. He buys her everything and she explained to me, he is more or less the reason she has not had a boyfriend.
Posted by BellaBulleautiful
it was for me when I was that age,not gonna lie.this girls definitely has a pisces moon lol
you're going to have to be gentle and think about how you joke with her.I've always been sarcastic,but when I was young I really was super sensitive with those I cared about.I out grew that in my early twenties.
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Really not in my nature to "Baby" people.

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And I am sure she is quite the Daddy's Girl. You've got your hands full with this one Caj. You'll need to woo the father as well. I don't think it's in you to cosset and cajole to get a response. This girl needs wings. Or a rocket fuel launched trip to Reality World. I'm all for old fashioned but her Pa has her in a shiny box with a pink bow.
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Posted by taurushed
"can't handle violent movies, is very excitable, needs to be babied and can become offended easily."
I would say this applies to me in a way. I don't like slasher films...oh and when it comes to being the butt
of a joke I will be offended. I won't say it, I'll try to hide it ( this is where the smiling comes in) and depending on what was done or said I'll grow cold or become very silent.




Ugh, a similarity with Scorpios.... terrible trait to have.
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Posted by venusianbull
And I am sure she is quite the Daddy's Girl. You've got your hands full with this one Caj. You'll need to woo the father as well.


Yes, she is. Her father is terribly unsociable when I met him. He seems so quiet and unresponsive.
She vented about her inablitiy to have a boyfriend and difficulty in getting to leave the house.
She is the last of 3 daughters, the only one unwed. He looked very upset, angry even in the photos with him giving them away.
I don't think it's in you to cosset and cajole to get a response. This girl needs wings. Or a rocket fuel launched trip to Reality World. I'm all for old fashioned but her Pa has her in a shiny box with a pink bow.
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Indeed. I am quite put off...
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Posted by Cajunspirit
Posted by taurushed
"can't handle violent movies, is very excitable, needs to be babied and can become offended easily."
I would say this applies to me in a way. I don't like slasher films...oh and when it comes to being the butt
of a joke I will be offended. I won't say it, I'll try to hide it ( this is where the smiling comes in) and depending on what was done or said I'll grow cold or become very silent.




Ugh, a similarity with Scorpios.... terrible trait to have.

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dammit lol must be my scorpio moon
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Posted by BellaBulleautiful

you don't have to baby her buttface,just be considerate of her feelings!


Yeah Bell, you're my best bet for insight given your Pisces moon.
Though I am always excited to see Venusian's comments Big Grin
I'm pretty harsh with my jokes and analysis. I really enjoy making fun of people and she doesn't like being laughed at Tongue
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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
as she gets to know you she may relax more with your sense of humor,if you give her plenty of reassurance and affection.I know you guys aren't big on that when you're young,but I think we belong together and you have the advantage of astrology on your side.not to mention such wise bullettes to guide you Winking


Yes, indeed.
but VB may be right...I have not been following your story lately,so maybe her upbringing and Father will hinder you.hope not though!
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It is a hinderance, she said it herself.
As for the upbringing, her sister, my coworker who I met her through, told me this.
Her Chart
Sun Taurus 8.07
Moon Pisces 13.55
Mercury Aries 11.27
Venus Aries 25.43
Mars Pisces 24.03
Jupiter Virgo 4.38 R
Saturn Aquarius 17.44
Uranus Capricorn 17.59 R
Neptune Capricorn 18.57 R
Pluto Scorpio 21.58 R
Lilith Aquarius 10.56
Asc node Capricorn 2.10
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You may want to refrain from using the term 'cow' in her presence.
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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
remember what you told me about mine and ze virgo....... :/


I could'nt stop laughing when I found out your suspicion to be fact lol
Posted by Mistery
You may want to refrain from using the term 'cow' in her presence.
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lmao
Here I thought Taurus women were tougher Tongue
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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
I bet you guys have lots of chemistry and attraction with her merc and venus and your Leo moon...hot stuff!


I have felt it a little, but I really can't get enough face time to have anything really develop....
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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
In all seriousness tho Caj...you cannot fathom what it is like to be young with a Pisces moon.it is soooo difficult.we feel so much,everyone around us.we just soak in everyone's moods and feelings and bias'. and when young we don't know that's what we are doing,so we think there is something wrong with us.we feel all these feelings of other people,and we think they are ours.so please be gentle with her,she needs that from someone. smile



ugh weak water mooners lmao.
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Jesus!
As a tau with a leo (step)-dad, instead of talking about how over protective he is, respect his authority and the fact she's daddy's little girl.
If youre interested in her, endear yourself to dad. He's doing what dad's are supposed to do...cock block. If dad starts to see your intent is genuine, that you're a stand-up guy, he'll allow rope.
If you choose to view him as an obstacle rather than an ally, I'm with pops...fuck you! You're just trying to hurt my baby.
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Mmmm slowly sipping coffee and thinking. I'll arrive at two brain cells to rub together eventually.
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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
my water puts out your fire!!!! oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!



and my air placements dehydrate ur water hahahahaha owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww lmao.
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Insofar as her placements are concerned, I can't comment on that, as I don't know enough about astrology to render any worthwhile input on that; however, I can say that she is a product of her environment in that, a. she's the youngest, b. she's "Daddy's Lil' Girl" and c. she has 2 other sisters. There is a LOT of female hormones around her, which probably is lending itself significantly to her sensitive nature. That's not to say that all women are sensitive, because they aren't, but I will say that if she was/had been around a lot more guys growing up (I'm making an assumption here, so I may be wrong), she may have been a little "tougher." I don't have any siblings, but I was raised around a LOT of relatives, both male and female, and I've always tended to prefer male company; however, they are WAY tougher in respect to jokes and just making fun of you so you build a thick skin really damn quick. To say I'm not sensitive to some things would be a lie, but all-in-all, I'm not a sensitive person about myself, as I can laugh at myself pretty much all day cause I really that it's just not that serious. I will say that I don't like to see other people being taken advantage of or laughed at, because I know a lot of people can't take that, so I feel bad for them.
I agree that you should be the ally with the father versus the adversary, but I would tread very, very carefully in this situation because this is his "baby" and if you mess her up, you will likely rue the day because her father is NOT going to be very happy about it...
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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
In all seriousness tho Caj...you cannot fathom what it is like to be young with a Pisces moon.it is soooo difficult.we feel so much,everyone around us.we just soak in everyone's moods and feelings and bias'. and when young we don't know that's what we are doing,so we think there is something wrong with us.we feel all these feelings of other people,and we think they are ours.so please be gentle with her,she needs that from someone. smile


Sounds like you just gave me an interesting topic to discuss with her.
The odds are against me in this situation though, I am very discouraged.
I'm great with parents who talk, her mom likes me and talks a lot. Dad, doesn't say a word.
Posted by USCTaurusGal
Insofar as her placements are concerned, I can't comment on that, as I don't know enough about astrology to render any worthwhile input on that; however, I can say that she is a product of her environment in that, a. she's the youngest, b. she's "Daddy's Lil' Girl" and c. she has 2 other sisters. There is a LOT of female hormones around her, which probably is lending itself significantly to her sensitive nature. That's not to say that all women are sensitive, because they aren't, but I will say that if she was/had been around a lot more guys growing up (I'm making an assumption here, so I may be wrong), she may have been a little "tougher."
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Her elder sisters are both Saggies, who can be quite mean lol
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Mean girls and mean boys are two different things, but I get your point! LOL, although, I'm surprised by the Sag sisters being mean. All the Sag's in my life are very honest in a tongue in cheek "oh did I say that" sort of way, but not mean by any stretch of the imagination. I have their a $ $ es laughing all the time, so that may be a factor smile
But at least that may help to "toughen" her up a bit...who knows. I will have to agree with you though, that I wouldn't want to sign up to "baby" anybody! I don't know her age, but I'm assuming she's young, be assured she will likely toughen up as she gets older. Sadly, we all are slapped with reality eventually - some of us sooner rather than later.
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have a feeling the dad doesn't trust you u definitely gonna have to earn it and he's a leo at that loyalty is number one to Leos plus she's the youngest he gonna be very protective of her your chances are slim if u gonna deal with pops.
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Cos we got that BOOM. Mwahahahhahaa.
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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Posted by USCTaurusGal

I wouldn't want to sign up to "baby" anybody!


Lies.
You are the first one to baby me around here when I need it.don't front.Big Grin
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*curses underbreath "damn you Bella Winking" *
LOL!
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Posted by venusianbull
Cos we got that BOOM. Mwahahahhahaa.


A lot of "Boom" and a lot of "Chicka bow wow!" LOL!
I'm sad, cause I am missing my girl, DaBull is the Shiznit! I'm just gonna HAVE TO take my a $ $ across the pond SOON and visit her!
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I kinda scanned through this post, but that Pisces moon pretty much sums this up. I've never heard of a Taurus female being timid and being overly sensitive. Virgos and Taurus is usually a very good match but that Pisces moon might be a little hard to work with. But in time you never know.
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Heheheee wanna be a seat buddy USC?
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And hullo Dreamy, welcome to the boards. smile
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Hello Venusianbull! I'm not new here though. I tend to pop up here once in a blue moon.
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Ahhh, that's why I thought you were new. I'm here far too much. The shame of it all. Winking Nice meeting you.
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It's nice to meet you too! smile
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Posted by BellaBulleautiful

she may not understand about the moon thing yet,Caj.I didn't until I learned astrology,really.
and we are different in that I was an only child with parents who were divorced by my 2nd year,and I was raised by my mom and gran.the the unavailable step dad who didn't like me doesn't count Winking


I like trying to help people understand themselves smile
You've given me a good description to work with.
Posted by USCTaurusGal
Mean girls and mean boys are two different things, but I get your point! LOL, although, I'm surprised by the Sag sisters being mean. All the Sag's in my life are very honest in a tongue in cheek "oh did I say that" sort of way, but not mean by any stretch of the imagination. I have their a $ $ es laughing all the time, so that may be a factor smile


They nicknamed her Ms. Piggy lmao
So I always make pig snort sounds when I speak with her Big Grin
I don't know her age, but I'm assuming she's young, be assured she will likely toughen up as she gets older. Sadly, we all are slapped with reality eventually - some of us sooner rather than later.


She's 18.
Definitely going to be awhile before I really consider her date-able...
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awww cajuns gettin the taurus gal experience.. its endearing to see someone going thru it. It can be so addictive
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She doesn't motivate me to continue.
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I wondered about that Caj.
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She emphasised a lot on Saturday her father is the reason she has never had a relationship. She is slow to speak her mind and guarded with her emotions. Very insecure.
This is why I avoid youngins....
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*long sigh* This is like a story unfolding. Will she/won't she? Will she go against her fathers wishes and go after the knight in shining armor..oh hell Caj, just grab her and kiss her till her eyes cross.
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Posted by venusianbull
*long sigh* This is like a story unfolding. Will she/won't she? Will she go against her fathers wishes and go after the knight in shining armor..oh hell Caj, just grab her and kiss her till her eyes cross.


Hahahahaha, I need to get her alone outside of the house first :\
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UGH. Not even a stroll to look at flowers without him skulking around like the Phantom of the Opera? Man needs his own theme music.
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Or it could be that he's an insensitive prick and utter jackass who gets off on "criticizing" this chick while claiming he's just teasing. I hope whe puts her hoof up your ass and dad dines on your remains.
What kind of "man" endears himself to a woman while picking at her sore points?
I knew you sucked but now it's confirmed. You really are an asshole. And stop picking up your victims on the playground jerk.
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