so confused!!Is he on the fence or taking it slow?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by sexyleo83 on Saturday, September 13, 2014 and has 19 replies.
I (Leo 31)recently started dating a Taurus man(28) about 3 1/2 weeks ago. The first week we saw each other twice ans had a great time .Lots of physical and personality. He would told me hand and kiss me , stare into my eyes, joke around very comfortable like we have known each other for a while. We didn't have another date till the following Tuesday and that was even better. I stayed over cuddled and next morning he let me have one of his shirts and said I could keep it. I invited him on a camping trip that following Friday and he agreed. But after that date I barely heard from him and wasn't sure if he was coming. I contacted him the monday before and he responded Tuesday saying he'd come but wasn't sure the day. He did end up coming which I was shocked about bc it was 3 hours away. We had a great time he met my friends. He was all over me and told me he really liked me. We had sex for the first time and it was great.On the way home we talked about his break up with his ex of 3 1/2 yrs. He said he's he still loved her but was over it and moving on. We talked about future stuff like his schedule next semester.. him growing out his beard and that he'd shave it if I wanted. I found a necklace of his he had when he lived in new zealand that broke ans I offered to fix it. He said please don't lose it it's sentimental to me. Later that night he dropped me off at home kissed me and I haven't heard a word from him since wed. We talked a bit and i asked if he wanted to hang out that night. No response. Hes dont that a few times off and on.Is it normal for Taurus to be hot and cold? Do they date around and become intimate with more than one girl?Not really contact? Should I back off and let him come to me?I'm starting to really like him but am totally confused. I still have his necklace
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Only 3.5 weeks.. What's the rush?
He has life to deal with.
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InI'm not rusting him. I'm just asking general questions because I've never dated any Taurus men. I'm the type to be picky and when I like someone I know and just date them. Please don't judge me ans say typical Leo. I didn't know if this was normal for Taurus or not. I'm used to guys if they like me to contact me alot and be agressive. This is new for me.
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Patience is the key.
Plus the fact he's still talking about his ex, over or not, it'll be a roller coaster ride for you.
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He only brought it up his ex bc I specifically asked him . I've dated alot of guys who weren't over their exes. So I asked him point blank.
Is it normal at first to only get a few texts every now and then? I'm used to guys who text alot when they are ibterested. We both said we liked each other but I'm stumped on the lapses of communication in between seeing each other.
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That's just how we are. We move slowly.
Taureans wait/observe, think/analyze the situation.
He likes you, but it can't be head over heels in such short time.
Focus on yourself, and be patient.
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Kittyknitter I'm super playful with him. He's such a goofball. We are like giggly high schoolers together. Always laughing. He says i intrigue him. He stares at me alot and i can tell he's analyzes me. When i woke up camping i laughingly said "ugh I'm such a banshee right now" . He said no your not I've been looking at u. Ur beautiful
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Thanks everyone for all of your insight. I appreciate it
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Rockport 24 thanks for your insight. Do you have any other suggestions on fanning the flames in a good way?
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Taurus men are extremely hot and cold, and yes it is usual behavior for him to kind of disappear or not respond to you. Most Taurus men do keep their options open and if he is ignoring you that may be a sign that he is either 1) still contacting his ex 2) there is another person in the picture. Taurus men love women, and they can get almost any woman they want. They are extremely smooth and manipulating. If I were you back off and let him come to you that's the best thing to do. And if the necklace is as sentimental to him as he says it is he will get into contact with you to receive it. Be patient, and let him come to you. Taurus men like feeling like they're in control and if you are over here always trying to initiate trying to see him, he knows he has you where he wants you. Just be patient and let him come to you. They love the chase, so just play hard to get (not too hard to get, Taurus HATE mind games). Although as a Taurus we sometimes play games although we are not intending to. Let him come to you girl, if he likes you trust me the ignoring and all that will come to an end!
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xxbrittxxtay what you described definitely makes alot of sense. I can be kind of aggressive when I like someone . I guess it's the Leo in me. Sitting back ans giving up control is going to be a learning experience. LOL. I'm the type to like to know your thinking about me instead of wondering.
I will do my best to be patient. I can definitely see him be a chaser
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Yeah Taurus' do not like someone who is persistent although you may not mean anything by it. He could come to the conclusion that you are clingy although that is not your true intention! He could take it as well I already have this girl she's so into me. Try to remain distant, they want what they feel they can't have smile
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Posted by xxbrittxxtay
Yeah Taurus' do not like someone who is persistent although you may not mean anything by it. He could come to the conclusion that you are clingy although that is not your true intention! He could take it as well I already have this girl she's so into me. Try to remain distant, they want what they feel they can't have smile


You are so right! I messaged him yesterday after I came home from the beach and had been drinking a lil. It was just an emoji of someone saying hi. He responded hours later saying hey with one back. I asked if he wanted to go to the Peir Monday. No response. After seeing the responses on my thread I'm definitely taking a big step back and removing his contact from my phone not to be tempted
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Sorry I dunno y my Internet keeps repeatedly posting same response
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@gobshite I'm trying to work on that flaw smile
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I'm also a cancer rising so I can be somewhat sensitive to others actions. Intentional or unintentional.
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Posted by sexyleo83
I'm also a cancer rising so I can be somewhat sensitive to others actions. Intentional or unintentional.


You're not impatient I think you just want answers and are eager! That's okay smile
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Posted by xxbrittxxtay
Posted by sexyleo83
I'm also a cancer rising so I can be somewhat sensitive to others actions. Intentional or unintentional.


You're not impatient I think you just want answers and are eager! That's okay smile
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Thanks xxbrittxxtay you definitely nailed how I'm feeling. Reading another thread someone said that person should not chase him. Let him come to you (and this may take a weeks) ??? Lol seriously weeks seems that. Is a long time for a guy who's interested to finally realize they want to pursue again. I mean I like him and am very interested to see how it will progress without the spark fading away ans thinking he's moved on for him to come around you know :/
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Update: He contacted me last night around 11 but wasn't about what I asked him. Just about a hat I left at his place. I didn't see it till this am and didn't respond till around 130. I wish I knew if he was losing interest or just feeling things out .
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