So that's what it's all about...

Last night I was out with my friend..we decided to go to some bar in the City because I really needed a night out..had been pretty stressed of late..

Anyways, about 11pm, this guy walks into the club and I hadn't even noticed him...he came and sat near where my friend and I were dancing. I was trying to take a picture of my friend and I..and couldn't get it right..so he tapped me on the shoulder and offered to take the pic..I took a look at him, and thought hmmm cute..but didn't think anything further..thanked him for taking the pic and that was it..

About 20 mins later..am dancing away and my friend pulls my arm and says "he's a taurus by the way and this is his name, he expressed an interest in you"...so I thought let me see what this guy is about..admittedly yes he was cute..I asked him to dance but he was quite shy and said he will sit it out and that I was more than welcome to join him. Lol..Anyway I carried on dancing and then his friend pulled me aside and said "my friend really likes you and wants you to go sit with him"...He was the tall, dark and mysterious type...Yummy..

So I just wanted let Taurus brethren know that I never knew chemistry like that..my god..talk about heartpounding..seriously I've never really had a romantic encounter with a Taurus before..I never really meet them...So we got on all night, I hugged him loads, he cuddled me throughout the night...just really really affectionate..nothing sleazy at all..I kissed him a couple of times on his cheek..Then he left to go to the other room for a bit as his friend was getting rather annoyed that we were spending too much time huddled together..he said he'd be back in a bit when he got up....but during this time my friend was getting really frustrated with some guy who would not leave her alone and we left without saying bye to him.

I have always said, I don't want to ever date a guy I meet in a club...but damn he was soo hot..the chemistry was really intense..I think I will be thinking about this connection for a long time to come..Had it been some other place, I would've got his number..but the cultures we come from..this would've probably been nothig more than a hook up..and I am not that kind of girl..You just never know with guys in clubs..

Soooo lets's just say Taurus have now offically made it to the HOT list along with Leo, they are now my 2nd most desired sign to end up with...Oooh la la...

I wonder if he's thinking about me...

Oh i bet he is. Taurus men are absolutly wonderful amazing selfless handsome men. And the lovin is the hottest!!! My taurus is so sweet and understanding and does anything he can to make sure i am happy and secure. You will be a very lucky happy woman if you end up with a taurus man. U shoulda got his number. He probably will be out lookin for you over the next couple of weekends. Wishin he would have had the courage to get your number. If he finds you again he will be way more couragous.

Ok I would've at least given him my number of at least some detail so that he could find me, like where i work or might have coffee!!!!

You're so cool MM but dont be too cool you may have missed a great opportunity to get to know someone really nice. I totally understand the meeting in a club thing but you were there just to chill and have fun with your friends~! And if you took things further then it would be outside of that scene before anything happened...wouldn't it?

Oh i bet he is. Taurus men are absolutly wonderful amazing selfless handsome men.

OMG, yes they are! 😄

You're so cool MM but dont be too cool you may have missed a great opportunity to get to know someone really nice.

From one really cool person to another, I say listen to her! I think I've missed an oppottunity being a little too cool.

I know...I can't stop thinking about it...gah!..all day today I kept thinking about him. I don't want to go to the club next weekend. Kinda looks desparate....I missed an opportunity there for sure..Oh man. I hate this about myself..I like the guy to make the move and give the number etc..but I know how Taurus men can be very slow..but oh oh oh he was sooo affectionate...and shy..my god!..I want a Taurus..I am convinced...I have never been romantically involved with one..I just don't meet a lot of Tauruses...I was going to look him up on Facebook but I don't know his surname..not sure if he's even on facebook..the music was too loud, I didn't get a chance to ask him anything..or if he told me I couldn't really hear him.

Should I post a message on the club website? Do you think he's annoyed that I left without saying bye? Jeez..It was my friend..she was in a mad rush to get out...She could've just waited for a few minutes..damn it!..

I can be ultra cool that's for sure..and you are right, this pride allows a lot of opportunities to pass by....

😢 sigh I can't stop thinking about him.

LOL..Ok, I have just sent the club an email to say if he gets in touch then pass on my email address!..

I can't believe I just did that..hahah...Oh well, no harm in trying I guess..

Posted by mike6832
missmorals,

Don't worry about how you feel I can guarantee you it's not how he feels.

What do you mean? You don't think he's thinking about it? Do you think he's forgotten about it now? 😢

Oh ok..thanks Mike..Are you a taurus?

Don't worry, I am sure if it's meant to be then our paths will cross..I just never make it easy for myself do I..lol..

If my friend goes there again, and she sees him, she will give him my number..she knows how much I liked him..I haven't stopped going on about it all day today!..haha...but I think she is a little cranky today...lightweights!..hehe..

🙂 aww thanks Mikey the Virg.....I am sure DXP will know about it first..lol..

What sort of club were you at MM? None of the clubs here would pass on an email address and not many men or ladies would ask them either so just curious if it's an exclusive club.

Well to be honest if he does find you now then he's certainly very keen because it would take a bit of detective work on his behalf!!! Or dumb luck by just showing up at the same club hoping...

Good luck anyway & if it doesn't work out then maybe a lesson learnt huh?

MM

I dated 2 Taurus men both ended within 3 months

The first one I met on-line talk to him off and on for about 2 years.. very good intellectual conversations we would stay on the phone for hours talking about everything. Then we finally met.. very nice looking brother, had green eyes 🙂 well when I went to see him he fixed dinner, we dranked flirted and all.. I went back to see him probably about 2 or 3 more time after the first initial meeting.

Well during one of those visits we got into an argument, he wanted to tell me what I should think and not think and tell me what I should do. He got very controlling so I stop calling and going to see him. We got into a big arguement over him fixing a flat I had and he wanted his 30.00 back... that's was made me take a second look and realized I don't need him.

Well about a year ago he IM and his life was turned up side down.. He told me that he made a mistake letting me walk away and he should not have done that... He tried to convince me to start talking to him again and I told him "You had your chance all we can be is friends" He claimed he loved me I told him that was nice... but it is best we stay friends.
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The second one I met at a gas station...LOL He was dark slim and sexy I loved his voice... well he pumped my gas asked me my name age, and then ask for my number. I gave it to him and he called a few days later... well we started dating he came to see me, took me out and all then he wanted to not only control me but control my child as well and me or my child wasn't backing down from him. I told him he had me twisted... He would always say that he was just playing but that type of play I was not going for... He raised his voice at me out in public... I looked at him and knew right then I was getting rid of him. I basically told him to leave me the fuck alone and get out of my life.

Of course these are my experience with Taurus, I don't like and would never give them my time again Oh and lets not forget the sex...HORRIBLE!

My sister is a taurus 5/11 and we are best friends, but it took us years to get where we are because of her wanting to control me and would literally get upset if I told her no. To this day she still gets upset when I don't do what she wants but she has gotten much better. 🙂 She told a bunch of friends one night when we was a party that she loves scropios. She is married to an Aries, that she can't stand.. I dare not convince her to date a Scrop

"Sign me up for that answer to . I've never found an easy, non "freaky" way to ask someone for their sign."

I have asked guys plenty of times what their sign is,or I would just ask them first, "How old they are" then "When is your birthday" and when they say May or June I take a guess and say Taurus, Gemini or Cancer 🙂 if I am wrong they will tell me which one it is. Easy and fun 🙂

Well today I left a text on the londonpaper..lol...Everybody reads the Londonpaper, perhaps he will too. I can't do anything more really. I was going bck to the club this weekend but my friend won't go..I think there are some issues with that friend (which is another story altogether) so that's out of the question..so I am stumped..not going on my own...and besides, I don't think a guy will go to that length really...I was probably just another chick to him...waaaah...I want him..It's become a mission now...It's the first time I've become obsessed with someone..hahah..it's quite hillarious actually..but he was sooo lovely!..

I hope my little guardian angels are looking out for me and steering me towards that!!..

It is now a project that needs completion. I won't rest until it does..or I get bored..probably the latter..

And I always just steer the conversation towards star sign..I know his birthday 5th May!..LOL..Oh man

Wouldn't it be romantic if you put an ad in one of those "missed connections" ads they have in the paper??! It's worth a shot...

I have to give that a go as well...I have already text one paper..need to do another..

Gawd do I sound a bit mad? lol...

No i won't go to the club on my own...that's truly sad..lol...I hope he is persistant...

"And I always just steer the conversation towards star sign..I know his birthday 5th May!..LOL..Oh man"

You can always jump out of a cake on his birthday and surprise him. LOL 🙂

I feel like that Isla Fisher from Wedding Crashers..."I will fiiind you"...LOL...

LOL you are funny...

Well when you do find him and date him watch out for controlling issues...but I am sure you will put him in his place if he even think of trying to control you. 🙂

I don't mind a little bit of control, possessiveness, jealousy. If it gets out of control then I will have issues but a little of it is fine..you know us scorpios, we love all those things in moderation.

Sigh...I hope I do find him...He better be feeling what I am feeling otherwise I will kill him when I find him!!!..

Why didn't I just get his flippin number!!!..GAH!!..I was with him for like 4 hours...

I guess the reason I am going slightly spazzo is because I have been wanting to find a taurus for a very long time..just don't happen to meet any...and here was the first one, earth-shuddering chemistry and then I leave without getting his details...

I guess it is Mike, damn when a guy asks you straight up what your age is! I'd have to say take a guess and that'l tell me whether he's worth hanging out with or not! Lol!!

Actually, Scorplady, now that you say it YES taureans are rather controlling pushing their opinions onto you. My daughter and a couple of my friends are like that...although I have 2 taurean friends that aren't and take everything I say as gospel! I was wanting a Taurus male too because I get on so well with them but will watch out for that...

It's not that you should back down but when someone sees something differently except that they aren't going to see tings your way. I guess I am also guilty of that and maybe it's more than the star sign but a strong person!

But I have butt heads with my bull headed friends because we both have strong opinions and I will try and see it from their point and they NEVER will try my side or opinion!

Yeah... Bulls have really thick skulls sometimes. LOL It's cool though because they are so earthy usually I agree with them on their opinions. IF I don't usually I silently and to myseld let it go. A Bull will never attack someone for having a different opinion (usally 😛) but they won't sway. Eh... fixed signs are really hard to change once they have their heels dug in.
I'm a Taurus rising so I'm triple fixed and realllllllyyyyyy stubborn. 🙂

I have never had a problem with Taurus individuals. My cousin is one and she worships the ground I walk on. So today my friend uploaded the pics from that night and now I feel I want him even more having seen the pic....oh gosh!..I hope we do...I really hope we do. But a lesson learnt..next time..give the number..jeez!...

I have been reminiscing my Taurus encounters:

1. Doctor - serenaded me with his guitar over the phone..lol..went to meet him and didn't even get to see him and his bleeper went off and he had to dash off...He had THE most awkward hours so it never really took off..he was very handsome and I am sure the nurses in his hospital were keeping him more than happy!

2. Plumber - came to fix the pipes (LOL) and we just got chatting, got on really well...and he decided to fix a few other things around my house. Realised he just lives across the road from me!..lol..he posted a note and also a rose through my letter box...but me being the snobby cow that I can be didn't want to date a plumber!!!..so ignored him. He does still say hi if we cross paths and I do have his number

3. IT guy at work - got it real bad for me. All the girls tease me when he comes over..he's sooo shy and has this smile..bless..I don't fancy him at all..very lovely but he scares me as he always wants to be where I am!..

4. Cousin - great fun. We went on holiday together and the soppy cow got all sentimental and told me it was the best holiday she had...aww...adorable...everytime we meet, she has presents for me. Her birthday is on May 12th..I shall buy her something lovely...

Are most Taurus guy's shy then?

"we are strong passionate people and yes,we are best suited to those who are ok with that.
we also love to pamper and treat our loved ones very well,and are loyal even when it's undeserved.
any how,I like us and think we are neat-o."

Yes, we are damn stubborn -- I'm guilty as charged! BUT, we also love very strongly, and want to make our loved ones (whether that is friends, family or significant others) very happy 🙂
The thing is ....... we can carry a grudge. It takes a lonnnnnnnng time for us to get there, but once we do "Fuggetaboutit" that person is forever toast!

Good luck MM on your quest for that Taurus male 😉

"ginger I bet you are really shexay being a scorpio and a bull. always use it for good and not evil"

LOL I do what I can. I don't try too hard. As long as my Aries thinks I'm sexy I'm good. 🙂

MM good luck finding your Bull. Watch.... it'll be when you least expect it. You'll be out somewhere on a "I don't care what I look like" night and BAM there he'll be. That always happened to me. LOL Go figure!

"You'll be out somewhere on a "I don't care what I look like" night and BAM there he'll be. That always happened to me. LOL Go figure!"

I love days like that,🙂 Not only does it tell me that I can meet a guy without having to dress up, I laugh to myself thinkin *DAMN!I Still Got It* 🙂
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Me and my sisters (taurus) are best friends, we've gotten even closer when she lost her son, 7 months ago. She still have her moody bull ways but I have learned to ignore her most of time. 🙂

I can't spend a lot of time with in one place. She acts to motherly for me sometimes

It's funny when we go out. She is Miss Diva, she drinks and will talk never get up and dance just sit and drink and listen to other people business.

Me, I be on the dance floor having a funky good time. And when I come back she says "Where have you been nobody has not seen you in an hour" I look at her say "Hello I am a grown women, I know where the table is" and she just looks at me.

She hates it when I flirt around her,because in her mind the man is suposed to come to you.. She is so funny.. I be like "man lighten up" it's party....LOL 🙂

Then when we get home I have to hear more about how I was acting and then she tells my mother (Gemini) who laughs and I say "Ma I was just having fun, I am not going to sit down (with my sister) while she be Miss Diva I going to have fun.

So know when we go out she says to me... "Don't cut up" LOL I just look at her 🙂

I never know how I am going to act when I am out until the mood hits me.


"The thing is ....... we can carry a grudge. It takes a lonnnnnnnng time for us to get there, but once we do "Fuggetaboutit" that person is forever toast!"

OMG you are so right...My sister has not spoken to her husband (aries) in 3 months.

Thanks girlies 🙂
The quest continues. I went on a date tonight...but seriously my mind was sooooo not with him at all....I just kept gazing into the distant....the date was a leo as well..lol..usually my favourites....but you damn bulls have knocked the Leo off 1st place...Taurus officially now my first choice. I can't believe the chemistry..dang..

Are all polar opposites of the zodiac this way? is there a real pull?

Well I looked in the papers today and none of my messages were published..but I do wonder how long it takes them to publish it..I am certain we will meet again...but LOL Gingerscorp you are sooo right, it will most likely be when I look like the back end of a bloody bus!...typical...

I might just go back to the club on Saturday and hide round the corner with dark glasses and see if I spot him coming in...proper scorpio stalkerish behaviour!..hahahha..oh my god..NEVER..

Sigh....

MM.. If I become so damn determined about something or someone I'm not above errr.... checking up on someone without being seen. Stalker?!?! Never!! It's not MY fault I'm super quiet and so ninjalike they can't see me. So what if they don't know I'm there. I'm not an needy attention seeker and I prefer to be in the shadows thank you!! Perhaps people should be more aware of their surroundings. Nope... It's not stalking. Me? Never. 😉 LOL LOL

Hey MM, your bull shares a birthday with me and Craig David!! He has to be awesome ha ha!! Just hope he didn't have Kes on his arm 😛

If I were you, I'd definitely, definitely go back to the club on Saturday, take anyone who will go with you, anyone. If you see him, it'll all be worth it. I've had a few guys come up to me in clubs who've said they've seen me there for a few weeks and haven't dared come up to me (god knows why). I think it's rather sweet.

I've never dated a Scorp. It seems I'm missing out. The only Scorp I've ever really known was an ex-bf's brother. We had this seriously intense love/hate relationship. There were many times I thought I'd chosen the wrong brother. Haven't felt that intensely about any other sign.

I have asked so many people but nobody is available tomorrow. I feel so helpless..not sure what else to do..I feel like crying....Can't believe he's had that effect on me.

But I left the club without saying bye or anything so he's probably thinking that I didn't really care and wasn't really interested and was just passing the time..damn it..what do I do.

Oh copperhead, you don't know what you are missing. Seriously it really is intense. My dads best friends son is a taurus..and all our life growing up we've had this mad chemistry that we've never been able to explain. He's married with 3 kids, but we still can't be in the same room together..it's like the room is on fire..It is definitely the magnetic pull..insane..

Sigh..I can't give up the quest though..I will keep looking..

My friend just phoned me and said her work friend, a scorpio girl was telling her the story of her life..the same thing happened to her. She met hers on holiday, didn't take his number, then she got soooo consumed in this chemistry that they had that it took her two years to find him..she never game up and she eventually did...she said she had found her soulmate..they got married, were together for 5 years and he passed away...she was devastated...How heartbreaking would that be!!

Well I went to the club tonight..went with my sister...we didn't see him there. I don't think it would be the type of club he hangs out in anyway...he's far too classy for it. But it had to be done to rule it out..

The search continues...

THERE WILL BE A HAPPY ENDING TO THIS!!

I can't actually believe I am doing all this. NEVER have I done this. I have like the whole of the workplace and all my mates searching for him..LOL..He won't know whats hit him the day I find him..oh my god!!....

Can't wait for that day..and it will happen..I WILL FIND HIM!!!!!

LOL...oh no!!!...imagine...I am sure he has a nice package..even if he hasn't, with the amount of work I would've done to find him, he's staying..I take no prisoners..LOL.

Nah I just want him for him...he was utterly lovely...what if I find him so late he's with someone? I don't care..I just want to find him and the rest will sort itself out...as Lady Ru sang:

You're my addiction
Taking control of me
keeping a hold on me

La la la la....

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OMG, you really have it bad for this guy huh? Sometimes just the excitement alone with all the fantasies is fulfilling in itself.

Although I do hope you find him, it'd be like one of those movies...Sleepless in Seatttle or the like

Yes...I do have it bad..and I have absolutely no idea why....all because of this chemistry..some driving force is behind me thrusting me forward in finding him. It's crazy!...

I am sleepless in London...And if we get married then i will release the movie!..lol