Posted by Bricks195
My gut tells me he is losing interest. That's just based off of the information given.
Either that, or he's starting to have doubts and he wants to take a step back.
This is a generalization, but it's my opinion that this sort of "wham-bam" situation is tough for a Taurus to maintain. Once the initial intensity wears off, trying to maintain it is tiring and not what most of us want permanently.
Posted by IamawineloverPosted by Bricks195
My gut tells me he is losing interest. That's just based off of the information given.
Either that, or he's starting to have doubts and he wants to take a step back.
This is a generalization, but it's my opinion that this sort of "wham-bam" situation is tough for a Taurus to maintain. Once the initial intensity wears off, trying to maintain it is tiring and not what most of us want permanently.
As a woman who is dating a Taurus man for 4 1/2 years I keep asking (regardless of astrology) why do (some) of us women keep doing the same thing and expecting different results? Meaning sleeping with him that quickly and hoping something real will be a result? That's insanity. It just doesn't happen that way especially with many Taurus men. She made it too easy and now there isn't anything for him to chase. The connection may only be temporary but Taurus me are extremely selective and they are sloooooow movers when it comes to relationships. A month is too soon to tell anything. He is taking a step back and may secretly still have his options open. The ball is his court which you will have to have your own life and go on while allowing him to come back to you if he chooses to. The more you keep reaching out and chasing, the more he will run and ignore you. Patience is key when dealing with them and they can take weeks, months or even years. They will not move or speak if they aren't ready.click to expand
Posted by Bricks195Posted by IamawineloverPosted by Bricks195
My gut tells me he is losing interest. That's just based off of the information given.
Either that, or he's starting to have doubts and he wants to take a step back.
This is a generalization, but it's my opinion that this sort of "wham-bam" situation is tough for a Taurus to maintain. Once the initial intensity wears off, trying to maintain it is tiring and not what most of us want permanently.
As a woman who is dating a Taurus man for 4 1/2 years I keep asking (regardless of astrology) why do (some) of us women keep doing the same thing and expecting different results? Meaning sleeping with him that quickly and hoping something real will be a result? That's insanity. It just doesn't happen that way especially with many Taurus men. She made it too easy and now there isn't anything for him to chase. The connection may only be temporary but Taurus me are extremely selective and they are sloooooow movers when it comes to relationships. A month is too soon to tell anything. He is taking a step back and may secretly still have his options open. The ball is his court which you will have to have your own life and go on while allowing him to come back to you if he chooses to. The more you keep reaching out and chasing, the more he will run and ignore you. Patience is key when dealing with them and they can take weeks, months or even years. They will not move or speak if they aren't ready.
Whenever I bitch about people sleeping together too soon and wondering where the love went after a month, someone scolds me for judging. I wasn't gonna go there this time, so thank you haha.click to expand
Posted by SunsetvirgoI'm a Capricorn
What's your sign?
Posted by Bricks195I agree, I slept with him too soon and possibly screwed up our connection. I was impulsive and I'm paying for it with all this uncertainty. I messaged him last night that i was done, I had no response from my email and that I couldn't see the reasons to put more energy into something that wasn't really building. He texted back immediately saying he had been very sick last week and was sorry not to reply. We talked later that night and he said I have overreacted and things are going fine, he will try to communicate more.... I have suggested visiting him this weekend in his home town, so I've pretty much given as much as I can to this situation if he wants it to progress he needs to do some work...I'm over it. I don't think he is married or involved with anyone else.... he's too lazy! I asked him about why he wanted to text less and he said it was exhausting to maintain that level of texting full time...I agreed as it was distracting me from my work too! I've laid out what I wanted he laughed and said I over think things too much and we were going along fine.... what a confusing man!Posted by IamawineloverPosted by Bricks195
My gut tells me he is losing interest. That's just based off of the information given.
Either that, or he's starting to have doubts and he wants to take a step back.
This is a generalization, but it's my opinion that this sort of "wham-bam" situation is tough for a Taurus to maintain. Once the initial intensity wears off, trying to maintain it is tiring and not what most of us want permanently.
As a woman who is dating a Taurus man for 4 1/2 years I keep asking (regardless of astrology) why do (some) of us women keep doing the same thing and expecting different results? Meaning sleeping with him that quickly and hoping something real will be a result? That's insanity. It just doesn't happen that way especially with many Taurus men. She made it too easy and now there isn't anything for him to chase. The connection may only be temporary but Taurus me are extremely selective and they are sloooooow movers when it comes to relationships. A month is too soon to tell anything. He is taking a step back and may secretly still have his options open. The ball is his court which you will have to have your own life and go on while allowing him to come back to you if he chooses to. The more you keep reaching out and chasing, the more he will run and ignore you. Patience is key when dealing with them and they can take weeks, months or even years. They will not move or speak if they aren't ready.
Whenever I bitch about people sleeping together too soon and wondering where the love went after a month, someone scolds me for judging. I wasn't gonna go there this time, so thank you haha.click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977
I have a few questions.
1. What is his marital status?
a. Married
b. Single Parent (Widowed, Separated, Divorced)
c. CoParent (Separated, Divorced)
2. When he told you that the both of you shouldn't text so much, why did you just respond 'yes'...instead of asking him why?
3. When you were in his hometown, why didn't you suggest meeting him up with him for drinks? Your mate could have watched your child for a few hours. Driving three hours to see you seems fine, but when you're in his hometown, the situation seems awkward...why?
Posted by jeaneNot sure if he's on tinder.... I unmatched him as I didn't want to be obsessed with following his movements.
My question is, is he still on tinder?
Posted by fiflamorePosted by Bricks195I agree, I slept with him too soon and possibly screwed up our connection. I was impulsive and I'm paying for it with all this uncertainty. I messaged him last night that i was done, I had no response from my email and that I couldn't see the reasons to put more energy into something that wasn't really building. He texted back immediately saying he had been very sick last week and was sorry not to reply. We talked later that night and he said I have overreacted and things are going fine, he will try to communicate more.... I have suggested visiting him this weekend in his home town, so I've pretty much given as much as I can to this situation if he wants it to progress he needs to do some work...I'm over it. I don't think he is married or involved with anyone else.... he's too lazy! I asked him about why he wanted to text less and he said it was exhausting to maintain that level of texting full time...I agreed as it was distracting me from my work too! I've laid out what I wanted he laughed and said I over think things too much and we were going along fine.... what a confusing man!Posted by IamawineloverPosted by Bricks195
My gut tells me he is losing interest. That's just based off of the information given.
Either that, or he's starting to have doubts and he wants to take a step back.
This is a generalization, but it's my opinion that this sort of "wham-bam" situation is tough for a Taurus to maintain. Once the initial intensity wears off, trying to maintain it is tiring and not what most of us want permanently.
As a woman who is dating a Taurus man for 4 1/2 years I keep asking (regardless of astrology) why do (some) of us women keep doing the same thing and expecting different results? Meaning sleeping with him that quickly and hoping something real will be a result? That's insanity. It just doesn't happen that way especially with many Taurus men. She made it too easy and now there isn't anything for him to chase. The connection may only be temporary but Taurus me are extremely selective and they are sloooooow movers when it comes to relationships. A month is too soon to tell anything. He is taking a step back and may secretly still have his options open. The ball is his court which you will have to have your own life and go on while allowing him to come back to you if he chooses to. The more you keep reaching out and chasing, the more he will run and ignore you. Patience is key when dealing with them and they can take weeks, months or even years. They will not move or speak if they aren't ready.
Whenever I bitch about people sleeping together too soon and wondering where the love went after a month, someone scolds me for judging. I wasn't gonna go there this time, so thank you haha.click to expand
Posted by Bricks195Hmm, I totally gave him an out..... I said thats it, I'm done, why didn't he take it? If he's on tinder I'm sure he could find another hook up. He didn't just stop texting he asked me if I was ok with texting not so much....it hurt my feelings a little but I gave him space when he asked for it. Why won't he let me go if this is all a game? I've told him I'm still feeling out this dating thing but that I'm a boots and all kind of person when I've decided I've decided, I'm still decoding my marriage split, becoming more myself after a 12 year unhappy marriage, I call my marriage a cult and I'm deprogramming lol. I've given this Taurus man lots of options to bolt but he keeps hanging on? I've told him in emails and in person some pretty needy things and he's still hanging around? I mean I've really tested him... like almost leaving him in the early hours of the morning cause he had his back to me in bed. (my ex shut me out emotionally and always had his back to me).... I'm standing there with a suit case ready to leave and he's like wtf? What kind of guy stays around with someone going through those kinds of emotional drama if he's only in it for the sex? I thought guys hate neediness and drama?Posted by fiflamorePosted by Bricks195I agree, I slept with him too soon and possibly screwed up our connection. I was impulsive and I'm paying for it with all this uncertainty. I messaged him last night that i was done, I had no response from my email and that I couldn't see the reasons to put more energy into something that wasn't really building. He texted back immediately saying he had been very sick last week and was sorry not to reply. We talked later that night and he said I have overreacted and things are going fine, he will try to communicate more.... I have suggested visiting him this weekend in his home town, so I've pretty much given as much as I can to this situation if he wants it to progress he needs to do some work...I'm over it. I don't think he is married or involved with anyone else.... he's too lazy! I asked him about why he wanted to text less and he said it was exhausting to maintain that level of texting full time...I agreed as it was distracting me from my work too! I've laid out what I wanted he laughed and said I over think things too much and we were going along fine.... what a confusing man!Posted by IamawineloverPosted by Bricks195
My gut tells me he is losing interest. That's just based off of the information given.
Either that, or he's starting to have doubts and he wants to take a step back.
This is a generalization, but it's my opinion that this sort of "wham-bam" situation is tough for a Taurus to maintain. Once the initial intensity wears off, trying to maintain it is tiring and not what most of us want permanently.
As a woman who is dating a Taurus man for 4 1/2 years I keep asking (regardless of astrology) why do (some) of us women keep doing the same thing and expecting different results? Meaning sleeping with him that quickly and hoping something real will be a result? That's insanity. It just doesn't happen that way especially with many Taurus men. She made it too easy and now there isn't anything for him to chase. The connection may only be temporary but Taurus me are extremely selective and they are sloooooow movers when it comes to relationships. A month is too soon to tell anything. He is taking a step back and may secretly still have his options open. The ball is his court which you will have to have your own life and go on while allowing him to come back to you if he chooses to. The more you keep reaching out and chasing, the more he will run and ignore you. Patience is key when dealing with them and they can take weeks, months or even years. They will not move or speak if they aren't ready.
Whenever I bitch about people sleeping together too soon and wondering where the love went after a month, someone scolds me for judging. I wasn't gonna go there this time, so thank you haha.
And he couldn't tell you he was sick? He didn't pick up his phone even once and see that you tried to contact him? If I was betting man, I'd bet that he did and he wanted to play with your emotions a little bit, make sure you missed him.
If you don't mind long gaps with no contact, then it's not a problem. If that's not your style and you're reaching out for confirmation and you're ignored, it is a problem.
I know what you mean about constant messaging being exhausting. One of my exes used to message me all day every day and I never want anything like that ever again lol. But some to-and-fro throughout the day shouldn't be too much to ask. People do all kinds of things they don't want to do on a daily basis. Those 8+ hours a day you spend at work, for example. Shooting off a few texts is nothing.
What I get from this is a guy who isn't sure he wants you in a serious, official way, so he's keeping his distance. He's not letting go because he isn't sure he wants to and you might be a stopgap for him if he doesn't have any other women in his life.
And I could be wrong, but I don't think I am.click to expand
Posted by fiflamorePosted by Bricks195Hmm, I totally gave him an out..... I said thats it, I'm done, why didn't he take it? If he's on tinder I'm sure he could find another hook up. He didn't just stop texting he asked me if I was ok with texting not so much....it hurt my feelings a little but I gave him space when he asked for it. Why won't he let me go if this is all a game? I've told him I'm still feeling out this dating thing but that I'm a boots and all kind of person when I've decided I've decided, I'm still decoding my marriage split, becoming more myself after a 12 year unhappy marriage, I call my marriage a cult and I'm deprogramming lol. I've given this Taurus man lots of options to bolt but he keeps hanging on? I've told him in emails and in person some pretty needy things and he's still hanging around? I mean I've really tested him... like almost leaving him in the early hours of the morning cause he had his back to me in bed. (my ex shut me out emotionally and always had his back to me).... I'm standing there with a suit case ready to leave and he's like wtf? What kind of guy stays around with someone going through those kinds of emotional drama if he's only in it for the sex? I thought guys hate neediness and drama?Posted by fiflamorePosted by Bricks195I agree, I slept with him too soon and possibly screwed up our connection. I was impulsive and I'm paying for it with all this uncertainty. I messaged him last night that i was done, I had no response from my email and that I couldn't see the reasons to put more energy into something that wasn't really building. He texted back immediately saying he had been very sick last week and was sorry not to reply. We talked later that night and he said I have overreacted and things are going fine, he will try to communicate more.... I have suggested visiting him this weekend in his home town, so I've pretty much given as much as I can to this situation if he wants it to progress he needs to do some work...I'm over it. I don't think he is married or involved with anyone else.... he's too lazy! I asked him about why he wanted to text less and he said it was exhausting to maintain that level of texting full time...I agreed as it was distracting me from my work too! I've laid out what I wanted he laughed and said I over think things too much and we were going along fine.... what a confusing man!Posted by IamawineloverPosted by Bricks195
My gut tells me he is losing interest. That's just based off of the information given.
Either that, or he's starting to have doubts and he wants to take a step back.
This is a generalization, but it's my opinion that this sort of "wham-bam" situation is tough for a Taurus to maintain. Once the initial intensity wears off, trying to maintain it is tiring and not what most of us want permanently.
As a woman who is dating a Taurus man for 4 1/2 years I keep asking (regardless of astrology) why do (some) of us women keep doing the same thing and expecting different results? Meaning sleeping with him that quickly and hoping something real will be a result? That's insanity. It just doesn't happen that way especially with many Taurus men. She made it too easy and now there isn't anything for him to chase. The connection may only be temporary but Taurus me are extremely selective and they are sloooooow movers when it comes to relationships. A month is too soon to tell anything. He is taking a step back and may secretly still have his options open. The ball is his court which you will have to have your own life and go on while allowing him to come back to you if he chooses to. The more you keep reaching out and chasing, the more he will run and ignore you. Patience is key when dealing with them and they can take weeks, months or even years. They will not move or speak if they aren't ready.
Whenever I bitch about people sleeping together too soon and wondering where the love went after a month, someone scolds me for judging. I wasn't gonna go there this time, so thank you haha.
And he couldn't tell you he was sick? He didn't pick up his phone even once and see that you tried to contact him? If I was betting man, I'd bet that he did and he wanted to play with your emotions a little bit, make sure you missed him.
If you don't mind long gaps with no contact, then it's not a problem. If that's not your style and you're reaching out for confirmation and you're ignored, it is a problem.
I know what you mean about constant messaging being exhausting. One of my exes used to message me all day every day and I never want anything like that ever again lol. But some to-and-fro throughout the day shouldn't be too much to ask. People do all kinds of things they don't want to do on a daily basis. Those 8+ hours a day you spend at work, for example. Shooting off a few texts is nothing.
What I get from this is a guy who isn't sure he wants you in a serious, official way, so he's keeping his distance. He's not letting go because he isn't sure he wants to and you might be a stopgap for him if he doesn't have any other women in his life.
And I could be wrong, but I don't think I am.click to expand
Posted by themilkyway36New Zealand
What about his moon? You need a location at least to get his chart